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TXPaganBanker

(210 posts)
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 06:14 PM Jan 2019

It finally happened.

My 71 year old father, who has worked for a defense contractor for 49 1/2 years and has been a life-long Republican has finally gotten fed up with Trump. We were talking about all the environmental regulations that Trump has overturned, mostly by either executive order or by appointing people to dismantle agencies. When I told him he appointed Aurelia Skipwith, a former attorney for Monsanto to be Director of the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service, that was the end. He said "I don't know if I can support Trump any more. I may have to vote Democrat, whoever they put up so we can hold the nation together."

None of the scandals mattered. Everything was waved off as "They're all crooked" or the like. What got through was the dismantling of Bear's Ears and the "sudden" discovery of uranium on the lands that were made available. The regulations allowing dumping coal sludge into river ways. The re-classification of protected wetlands when it comes to pesticide, herbicide and fertilizer dumping. And then the damage being done to parks like Yellowstone and Joshua Tree. When I told him about monarch populations being down 97% from the 1980's due to carbon dioxide, and Trump appointing someone whose company all but orchestrated "colony collapse" in bees, that was the breaking point.

Even though I'm horrified at the state of affairs of the country, I'm proud of my father for finally deciding that he can't support the man that is actively trying to destroy America's natural heritage.

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It finally happened. (Original Post) TXPaganBanker Jan 2019 OP
Good to hear. elleng Jan 2019 #1
Good for you. My battle still continues but you give me hope. lancelyons Jan 2019 #12
i think these issues might be what sways my foxbot brother barbtries Jan 2019 #2
That's why you keep working on people gratuitous Jan 2019 #3
I've had similar experiences in traffic court. lagomorph777 Jan 2019 #35
That is good to hear and gives me hope that there are others like your Dad. Dem_4_Life Jan 2019 #4
I agree. Would be interesting to see a chart of what/when made each rethug crack diva77 Jan 2019 #6
And since we're in the tail end of rump's so called presidency, things will get more worse, and... SWBTATTReg Jan 2019 #5
more cracks in the ice JDC Jan 2019 #7
Awesome! I hope your Dad tells all of his friends FakeNoose Jan 2019 #8
Frankly, I'm surprised your dad believed you. They usually dismiss anything not catbyte Jan 2019 #9
TrumPravda! lagomorph777 Jan 2019 #36
chump supporters are dropping away one by one Leith Jan 2019 #10
Yes! Trump has literally ruined everything he turns his attention to lunatica Jan 2019 #28
Better late than never. Scarsdale Jan 2019 #11
You just let him know it is a coalition of the decent. And I am convinced he will piss off his UniteFightBack Jan 2019 #13
We use to get a migrating kaleidoscope of butterflies Farmer-Rick Jan 2019 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author geralmar Jan 2019 #27
Like her father in the post Farmer-Rick Jan 2019 #31
Thanks for your story and welcome to DU TXPaganBanker! smirkymonkey Jan 2019 #15
Great news. Hope more folks like your dad become enlightened. VOX Jan 2019 #16
Sounds like you know a lot about the regulations he's overturned Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2019 #17
Great thoughts. klook Jan 2019 #32
Good on it getting through Cha Jan 2019 #18
Excellent. And it demonstrates it is different for everyone GulfCoast66 Jan 2019 #19
How did he hear of these things? How did he get outside the FOX bubble? Beartracks Jan 2019 #20
That would be me. TXPaganBanker Jan 2019 #21
So sorry to hear about your health concerns. I hope 2019 is a better year for you! pnwmom Jan 2019 #23
Thanks TXPaganBanker Jan 2019 #24
Well, that all sucks and I'm angry on your behalf. It doesn't seem fair. pnwmom Jan 2019 #26
LOL TXPaganBanker Jan 2019 #33
It IS a world shift. Thanks for sharing! pnwmom Jan 2019 #34
Thx for sharing. So sorry to hear of your challenges.... Beartracks Jan 2019 #37
Now I hope your father can convince his friends! pnwmom Jan 2019 #22
Congratulations, you made a difference. herding cats Jan 2019 #25
Welcome to DU! You're definitely in the right place lunatica Jan 2019 #29
Welcome to DU, TXPaganBanker! UpInArms Jan 2019 #30
 

lancelyons

(988 posts)
12. Good for you. My battle still continues but you give me hope.
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 08:10 PM
Jan 2019

Today I asked my father, a 30 year veteran, if he believes trump knows more than the generals when it comes to military and he said he might know more. I asked him if I claimed to know more than he knows after 30 years and he laughed. No problem Defending trumps nasty Ass.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
2. i think these issues might be what sways my foxbot brother
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 06:20 PM
Jan 2019

if he ever learns about it. glad your father came around but wow. there's so much more wrong with both trump and republicans ... sigh

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
3. That's why you keep working on people
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 06:22 PM
Jan 2019

It's difficult to know what's going to resonate with any particular person, and I wouldn't have guessed that environmental degradation was the tipping point for a career defense contractor Republican. But there it is.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
35. I've had similar experiences in traffic court.
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 04:58 PM
Jan 2019

I only go to court when I know I'm 100% innocent.

On the 3 occasions I've gone, I've always been surprised at which piece of evidence or testimony ends up persuading the judge. But I've won every time.

Dem_4_Life

(1,765 posts)
4. That is good to hear and gives me hope that there are others like your Dad.
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 06:23 PM
Jan 2019

It interesting to see stories like this and see what it takes for each person to crack.

SWBTATTReg

(22,100 posts)
5. And since we're in the tail end of rump's so called presidency, things will get more worse, and...
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 06:25 PM
Jan 2019

more desperate on rump's part. Just wait and see...

catbyte

(34,360 posts)
9. Frankly, I'm surprised your dad believed you. They usually dismiss anything not
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 08:00 PM
Jan 2019

coming from TRUMPRAVDA, er, Fox "News," Rush, or the big fat liar himself as "fake." Congrats for getting through to him, and welcome to DU.



Leith

(7,808 posts)
10. chump supporters are dropping away one by one
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 08:01 PM
Jan 2019

It may be economics reasons that cause one to take back support, it might be the realization that he's not moral in any way, it might be the treatment of refugee children, it could be the obvious and constant lies, or, like your father, it could be the destruction of our natural habitat.

But it is happening little by little. The base is shrinking and horrified by what they supported.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
28. Yes! Trump has literally ruined everything he turns his attention to
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 04:39 AM
Jan 2019

Everyone has something they hold sacred so it shouldn’t be hard for Trump to offend everybody sooner or later.

 

UniteFightBack

(8,231 posts)
13. You just let him know it is a coalition of the decent. And I am convinced he will piss off his
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 08:12 PM
Jan 2019

own supporters one by one...since rump is hitting every issue he's bound to get around to everybody.

Farmer-Rick

(10,151 posts)
14. We use to get a migrating kaleidoscope of butterflies
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 08:15 PM
Jan 2019

Come to visit our small organic farm every fall. We had to keep an eye out because they came and went so quickly. My wife was the first to notice their annual visits. They looked like dry leaves flying back onto the trees........They didn't come this year.

Response to Farmer-Rick (Reply #14)

Farmer-Rick

(10,151 posts)
31. Like her father in the post
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 09:07 AM
Jan 2019

Some people need a wake up call, as the world loses animals and insects, to realize things can get a whole lot worse. And we have to stop supporting those who destroy it.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
16. Great news. Hope more folks like your dad become enlightened.
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 08:21 PM
Jan 2019

Then the only supporters 45 will have left will be hardcore racists/whacko evangelicals.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
17. Sounds like you know a lot about the regulations he's overturned
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 08:24 PM
Jan 2019

I looked it up one time and there were hundreds but they were so technical it would take some digging.

We should form a working group and each take a handful and research what they are and what the implications are.

Any Democrat running in 2020 should be privy to this information because it will be a brag fest on their side. In fact I would love to see some commercials about this. A child wanting to swim in a lake that former presidents had protected from poison, and now there is nothing to help protect them because of trump. Anything like this would be immensely effective.

klook

(12,153 posts)
32. Great thoughts.
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 01:54 PM
Jan 2019

That ad would indeed be tremendously effective. If you want to peel off Republicans, information about how their party’s policies have ruined fishing spots, hunting grounds, and boating opportunities can be effective as well.

I look to organizations like the Union of Concerned Scientists, Sierra Club, Wilderness Watch, and others to keep tabs on the (sorry) state of the environment.

This list has a few more:
https://www.motherearthnews.com/nature-and-environment/environmental-policy/environmental-nonprofit-organizations-zmgz14amzsto

Cha

(297,039 posts)
18. Good on it getting through
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 08:24 PM
Jan 2019

to your Dad. Nothing will to too many people.

I hope I'm around when trump gets what's coming to hm.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
19. Excellent. And it demonstrates it is different for everyone
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 08:35 PM
Jan 2019

Many will never abandon him. They are too invested in the racism and misogyny. And the religious nuts are a totally lost cause. Cause Jesus.

But we do not need all of them. If even 10% of his base is shed it is over for him. And he and the Senate know it.

Beartracks

(12,806 posts)
20. How did he hear of these things? How did he get outside the FOX bubble?
Mon Jan 7, 2019, 11:23 PM
Jan 2019

I have family who seems to think Trump walks on water. We wonder, "How can they still support him? What do they think he has in fact accomplished? How do they think anything he does is in our best interest as a nation?" My only conclusion is they see and hear all things Trump only through a filter of rightwing media -- and if they DO happen to hear some truth, they dismiss it as liberal propaganda or "fake news" (because that's what all Republicans are taught).

So, how did your dad come across the light that led him out of the cave?

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TXPaganBanker

(210 posts)
21. That would be me.
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 01:53 AM
Jan 2019

I'm working on a BS Civil Engineering, with the goal of working for the Dept. of Interior. When he asks me how classes are going, I tell him I have concerns getting a job because [fill in latest environmental news].

I also got him to quit supporting Pete Sessions because of Sessions push to remove protections for pre-existing conditions. I'm on my third round of cancer, and let him know that things that Sessions and other Republicans are doing would prevent me from ever having insurance. My medical bills in 2018 exceeded $380,000, but my costs after insurance were about $11,000. Not having insurance would have literally been the death of me.

TXPaganBanker

(210 posts)
24. Thanks
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 02:47 AM
Jan 2019

I'm hoping, but I also know what reality looks like. The chemo for my colon cancer gave me diabetes, and I'm looking at pancreatic failure. I've also since gained an as-of-yet unidentified mass in my neck which is slowly strangling me as the doctors try to figure it out. I've had to quit working due to everything going on.

BUT... because of the ACA, not only do I have insurance, my rate dropped from $303 a month to $35. I'm getting it worked on.

I've always said I'm gonna die on my feet and laughing. So far, I'm still laughing.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
26. Well, that all sucks and I'm angry on your behalf. It doesn't seem fair.
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 03:09 AM
Jan 2019

I also have a young family member dealing with serious health issues, and I wish it could be me instead. It's not fair when it happens to young people.

I hope you stick around this site. There are lots of nice people to talk to, whenever you feel like it.

Again, sending you another

TXPaganBanker

(210 posts)
33. LOL
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 02:31 PM
Jan 2019

The funny thing is I've been READING the site since Dubya became president, and I've been posting for oh, half a decade. I just don't say much.

My dad voting Democrat is enough of a world shift I wanted to share it.

Beartracks

(12,806 posts)
37. Thx for sharing. So sorry to hear of your challenges....
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 09:27 PM
Jan 2019

... but glad you've been able to help your dad come around.



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pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
22. Now I hope your father can convince his friends!
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 02:15 AM
Jan 2019

Good job on patiently talking with him over the years -- I'm sure it wasn't easy.

Welcome to DU, TXPaganBanker!

herding cats

(19,558 posts)
25. Congratulations, you made a difference.
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 03:05 AM
Jan 2019

I believe this is how we change minds. Within our own local network where we have influence we calmly persist with reality.

I flipped my brother before 2016. It was an amazing personal victory and he still despises Trump. He's getting along much better with the rest of the family now, which appears to have changed his overall attitude about his former ideological beliefs. He even cracks Mitch McConnell jokes regularly now.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
29. Welcome to DU! You're definitely in the right place
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 04:45 AM
Jan 2019

I’m glad you worked on your dad. I hope he does vote for a Democrat, but if he only refuses to vote for Trump it’s a win.

UpInArms

(51,280 posts)
30. Welcome to DU, TXPaganBanker!
Tue Jan 8, 2019, 08:35 AM
Jan 2019

So glad to hear your good news and am so sorry for all of your troubles and difficulties.

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