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A senior nurse in an operating room slipped and fell on the floor between surgeries, injuring her back. Workman's Compensation paid for her salary after arguing that she wasn't injured.
She had emergent surgery due to the overwhelming pain but the surgeon operated on the wrong vertebra and she now has unrelenting pain and drop foot, meaning that she has no essential feeling and use of her right foot and ankle. She is on opioids and still moans and screams in pain constantly. Her life is over.
Workers Comp offered her a lump sum to close the case and she took it. It was a modest amount, barely five figures. Her husband doesn't earn much money and this settlement could allow them to keep their home, pay some medical bills, buy food, etc.
But when she got the money, she started blowing through the cash like a drunken sailor on a Saturday night. She immediately bought a new mini van that she really can't and shouldn't drive as she has no ability to use her right foot and she can't walk without a walker. She also bought a second dog that she can't walk. Soon the money will all be gone at her rate of spending and she and her husband will not be able to keep the new dog, the new mini-van, and their home (yes, there is money owed on the house).
I don't understand why some people treat compensation for their injury(ies) as winning the lottery.
dewsgirl
(14,961 posts)LuvNewcastle
(16,843 posts)go through their winnings in short order. A lot of people spend much of their time thinking about what they would do if they had money. When they get some, they think it will last a lot longer than it does. If you've never really had any money, you've never had the chance to learn how to manage it
JI7
(89,244 posts)things like private planes will easily use up a lot of money.
and then there are the scammers who target them with business deals promising huge returns if they just g8ve them x amount.
UpInArms
(51,280 posts)(Small community) and it appears that folks not only do not understand how to manage money, but they feel that they have long been deprived of having everything they want, without any knowledge of what they need.
There is little vision for their future and understanding of their limitations.
OneBro
(1,159 posts)Maybe someone who is in constant pain and dependent on opioids as the result of an injury and a botched surgery, and who is likely suffering from untreated depression, would likely make better decisions but for the combination of . . . constant pain, opioids, and untreated depression weighing on her mental state.
Mr. Quackers
(443 posts)will make a person buggier than a shithouse rat.
I know this from experience.
Plus, the medications can fuck with your head enough to help you make stupid decisions, in some cases.
OneBro
(1,159 posts)The fact that she had been responsible enough to become the Senior Nurse in an operating room is more telling than anything else, and her career was surely worth a hell of a lot more than five figures even if the five was $99,999.
Mr. Quackers
(443 posts)If it's not costing you money, what's the difference?
It's their business. Not yours.
JI7
(89,244 posts)Hoyt
(54,770 posts)flotsam
(3,268 posts)"I make a lot of poor financial decisions. None of them matter, in the long term. I will never not be poor, so what does it matter if I dont pay a thing and a half this week instead of just one thing? Its not like the sacrifice will result in improved circumstances; the thing holding me back isnt that I blow five bucks at Wendys. Its that now that I have proven that I am a Poor Person that is all that I am or ever will be. It is not worth it to me to live a bleak life devoid of small pleasures so that one day I can make a single large purchase. I will never have large pleasures to hold on to. Theres a certain pull to live what bits of life you can while theres money in your pocket, because no matter how responsible you are you will be broke in three days anyway. When you never have enough money it ceases to have meaning. I imagine having a lot of it is the same thing."
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/linda-tirado/why-poor-peoples-bad-decisions-make-perfect-sense_b_4326233.html
Not an exact analogy but close.(The article at the link is must-read) Over 75% of Americans cannot handle a $400 emergency without difficulty. To expect fiscal constraint after a lump sum grant is unreasonable.