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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsGenXers - We're officially forgotten.
Sorry GenXers, To The Media, You're Invisible
Link to tweet
https://crooksandliars.com/2019/01/sorry-genxers-media-youre-invisible
Yay! Our invisibility cloaks are working!
Our grungy angst long behind us we're the solid earners, homeowners and parents of Millennials and GenZers. While many of us have been supplementing our Boomer parents retirements, realizing it means we may never retire ourselves, we've also been rising (silently) to positions of power in business and politics. We're a small generation sandwiched in between two much larger and louder ones. We saw the fall of the Berlin Wall and the end to apartheid. We entered the business world in the dot com era, and learned caution as a result. We're as tech savvy as millennials but don't self-promote as much as a whole on social media. We like a lower profile.
We're not really silent, but we're easily forgotten it seems.
I lift my latchkey in salute to all my fellow forgotten GenXers. To our being overlooked I say, whatever. We prefer to work independently and undisturbed anyway.
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ProudLib72
(17,984 posts)Hurray GenX!
herding cats
(19,564 posts)If nothing else, we're adaptable.
ProudLib72
(17,984 posts)Were you aware that Kathleen Hanna (Bikini Kill) wrote a note for Kurt Cobain that read "Kurt smells like teen spirit"? That is where the song came from.
And then she married Adam Horovitz of Beastie Boys. We GenXers are all connected through music.
herding cats
(19,564 posts)We were all connected via our music. It was an amazing era to come of age in. To this day I still say life is always better with a soundtrack.
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,917 posts)If you watched SNL this weekend, there was a good line in the millennial game show about Gen X, "I'm generation X; I just sit on the sideline and watch it burn." (or something to that effect)
herding cats
(19,564 posts)mountain grammy
(26,619 posts)Ferrets are Cool
(21,106 posts)Salviati
(6,008 posts)herding cats
(19,564 posts)I love that one!
SCRUBDASHRUB
(7,252 posts)herding cats
(19,564 posts)I've heard us referred to as the neglected middle child of generations.
backtoblue
(11,343 posts)PunkinPi
(4,875 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Well in that case my GenXer son was never born. My bad for deluding myself!
herding cats
(19,564 posts)He doesn't exist. There were no births and the world waited patiently for the millennial generation.
SCRUBDASHRUB
(7,252 posts)Wtf?
herding cats
(19,564 posts)We're a generation in stealth mode. Don't blow our cover.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)And so did you.
herding cats
(19,564 posts)It's been assimilated into Boomers it seems.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)Widely regarded as forgotten or neglected. The middle children of history.
muriel_volestrangler
(101,307 posts)The definition of 'Generation Jones' tries to cut the Baby Boomers in two - and ends up with a couple of 9 year 'generations', which is too short (you might argue 18 is too short too). The TV caption goes up to 1964; do you regard Generation Jones as after that?
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)Although the VERY tail end (1980). I have more in common wtih someone born in 1982 (my sister) than I do with someone born in 1970.
I don't remember the Challenger. I remember nothing about Reagan and the only thing I remember about HW is that he would not eat broccoli. Instead of rocking out to the great music of the 80s and 90s, my mom was playing nursery rhyme songs in the car. I had no idea who Kurt Cobain was until the day he died when people at school were talking about him. How does that define me in the generation?
On the flip side, someone born in 1997 is technically a millennial, even though that puts them at 4 when 9/11 happened therefore they most likely only know of it as a historic event (as opposed to remembering exactly where they were when it happened). (I'd say people born after 1994-5 probably don't remember 9/11).
I'm a fan of these micro generations (I fall into one myself-- sometimes called 'Xennials' or 'Oregon Trail Generation" . Because people had similar experiences. Just like my dad (1949) and uncle (1961) have the same parents but vastly different experiences growing up.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)...I only brought it up because I found it amusing the generation widely regarded as forgotten has now been forgotten from a list of forgotten generations. Their failure is complete
But as for the existence of Gen Jones, I think an argument could be made that they are distinct from the Boomers. If they did not have WWII vets for parents and did not suffer the threat of compulsory service in Vietnam, then I think their life experiences would be significantly different from those who did. Perhaps sufficiently enough to warrant a separate generation.
muriel_volestrangler
(101,307 posts)It would seem strange to end the 'baby boomer' generation before the boom peaked. And plenty of WW2 vets were still having children by then (my uncle, for instance).
BumRushDaShow
(128,870 posts)A number of demographers used 1964 as a cutoff due to 1965 being when the SCOTUS made it a requirement for all states to allow birth control (for "married" women... ).
Griswold v Connecticut
The Pill was approved for use in 1960 so you start to see a drop-off not long after.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)If I had to draw lines, I would say the Boomers are those who came into adulthood in the 1960s and Jones are those who came into adulthood in the early to mid 1970's.
Of course, I don't draw the lines, so none of this means anything, really. Just an exercise in rationalizing my errors post hoc.
yardwork
(61,596 posts)The boomers are very loud and self-referential so it figures that they absorbed everybody nearby. The boomers complain that we are too... everything. We're the yuppies. Or something. Basically, to the boomers we suck so they absorbed us.
The millennials don't like us much either.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)Nothing personal. Strictly business.
yardwork
(61,596 posts)MosheFeingold
(3,051 posts)Being over 90.
I guess it's because we're mainly dead.
herding cats
(19,564 posts)Nah, they're just snobs.
Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)What I find strange is my parents have always considered themselves baby boomers and they were born in 1942 and 1945 respectively. I don't think they really identify with being part of the silent generation.
Hermit-The-Prog
(33,328 posts)Danged kids again, trying to make me think there are ghosts.
(Old boomer here. Trying to laugh with, not at).
herding cats
(19,564 posts)Since were invisible we are basically ghosts.
Claritie Pixie
(2,199 posts)We are the catalyst of change between the boomers and millennials and I think that's our role in the continuum. My millennial daughters are amazing women because of what I experienced as a young adult shedding norms and passed that on to them.
Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)I'd say the same about my millennial and post-millennial sons. They, and their group of friends, are amazing. They give me hope for the future...if we can get through the next few years. <sigh>
herding cats
(19,564 posts)We've been focused and driven and we've helped create change in our children.
demmiblue
(36,841 posts)herding cats
(19,564 posts)mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)I hate that it's sped up from the album version, but it's the official vid, so ...
Willingness would claim us ... we got NO WAR TO NAME US ...
This song was before 'Gen X' was coined ...
fave verse:
the ones who love us best are the ones we'll lay to rest
and visit their graves on holidays at best
the ones who love us least are the ones we'll die to please
if there's any consolation
i don't begin to understand it
Also, Strangeways ... is freaking awesome
chowder66
(9,067 posts)mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)chowder66
(9,067 posts)genxlib
(5,524 posts)herding cats
(19,564 posts)muriel_volestrangler
(101,307 posts)...
Generation X was something different. It was a collection of interviews with teenagers, in their own voices.
...
As well as soliciting poems and letters from teenagers up and down the country, Hamblett added another vital ingredient - the title itself.
"It was partly X as in the unknown - teenagers were a mystery. It was also so shocking at the time, like an X film - because the book interviews pulled no punches," Deverson says.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-26339959
So that would have been the first of the Baby Boomers (or even earlier - Wikipedia points to 'Holiday' magazine in Dec 1952 using it for those "just turning 21" then: https://books.google.co.uk/books?id=v10ZUR_Ca3EC&pg=PA32 ).
herding cats
(19,564 posts)Not even an original Gen name.
Docreed2003
(16,858 posts)Us Gen Xer's are the perpetual forgotten generation. It's like the "damn those millennials" memes have completely dwarfed us!
herding cats
(19,564 posts)Leave me alone and let me get my stuff done in peace.
Docreed2003
(16,858 posts)Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)I sometimes wonder if our motto could possibly be, "just leave me alone so I can get my shit done."
herding cats
(19,564 posts)That should definitely be our motto!
Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)TeamPooka
(24,221 posts)Kenan Thompson In a skit about millennials versus baby boomers said Im generation X, we just sit back and watch the world burn.
herding cats
(19,564 posts)However, since we've been erased I think we're absolved from all guilt now.
TeamPooka
(24,221 posts)Hermit-The-Prog
(33,328 posts)Didn't like it; backslid like crazy -- hence, millenials all over the place.
That tv screenshot is goofy. Hey, CBSN, you have a hole in your "Generation Guidelines" big enough to drive a generation through.
herding cats
(19,564 posts)The backlash was a generation even larger than the Boomers.
johnp3907
(3,730 posts)herding cats
(19,564 posts)johnp3907
(3,730 posts)Iggo
(47,549 posts)herding cats
(19,564 posts)Invisibility has its privileges.
MustLoveBeagles
(11,592 posts)TheRealNorth
(9,478 posts)The baby boomers and Gen X'rs have been in charge for the past 40 years and they blame the millenials (esp. The boomers) for everything wrong in the country.
Being on the young end of Gen X myself, it kind of pisses me off the blaming of millenials for anything and everything.
mountain grammy
(26,619 posts)GenXers both, and two of the best men you can meet.
NeoGreen
(4,031 posts)...
aidbo
(2,328 posts)a la izquierda
(11,791 posts)I was born in 77.
aidbo
(2,328 posts)aidbo
(2,328 posts)obamanut2012
(26,068 posts)herding cats
(19,564 posts)While everyone else is distracted elsewhere, were in stealth mode making things happen.
Renew Deal
(81,856 posts)Mariana
(14,854 posts)Wawannabe
(5,651 posts)Were just gonna sit there and watch it burn!
Sung to:
herding cats
(19,564 posts)Well played!
radical noodle
(8,000 posts)This Baby Boomer has been helping support her Gen-X daughter for decades (she's a teacher). I know many Boomers who are reducing their retirement savings to help their Gen-X kids. This is not meant to be a negative about Gen-Xers, just a comment about the economic realities of some of them.
You should never be overlooked. You play an important role in the lives of everyone in this country.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)We didn't get to be GenXers by actually caring about shit
rownesheck
(2,343 posts)in the house, yo!