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herding cats

(19,564 posts)
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 01:43 PM Jan 2019

GenXers - We're officially forgotten.

Sorry GenXers, To The Media, You're Invisible






https://crooksandliars.com/2019/01/sorry-genxers-media-youre-invisible

Yay! Our invisibility cloaks are working!

Our grungy angst long behind us we're the solid earners, homeowners and parents of Millennials and GenZers. While many of us have been supplementing our Boomer parents retirements, realizing it means we may never retire ourselves, we've also been rising (silently) to positions of power in business and politics. We're a small generation sandwiched in between two much larger and louder ones. We saw the fall of the Berlin Wall and the end to apartheid. We entered the business world in the dot com era, and learned caution as a result. We're as tech savvy as millennials but don't self-promote as much as a whole on social media. We like a lower profile.

We're not really silent, but we're easily forgotten it seems.

I lift my latchkey in salute to all my fellow forgotten GenXers. To our being overlooked I say, whatever. We prefer to work independently and undisturbed anyway.


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GenXers - We're officially forgotten. (Original Post) herding cats Jan 2019 OP
My generation is the best EVER! ProudLib72 Jan 2019 #1
I'm looping Nirvana Nevermind on my Sonos via Apple Music and wearing a flannel in solidarity! herding cats Jan 2019 #2
Here's some GenX trivia for you ProudLib72 Jan 2019 #47
Interesting! I did not know that. herding cats Jan 2019 #52
As long as they leave me alone, I'm fine with it. Cuthbert Allgood Jan 2019 #3
I feel the exact same way. herding cats Jan 2019 #6
Great skit! mountain grammy Jan 2019 #48
Or a referee in the Saints/Rams game Ferrets are Cool Jan 2019 #76
Lol Salviati Jan 2019 #4
🤣 lol! herding cats Jan 2019 #9
What else is new? SCRUBDASHRUB Jan 2019 #5
Right? herding cats Jan 2019 #11
Ha! backtoblue Jan 2019 #50
We're all Jan Brady. nt PunkinPi Jan 2019 #79
So nothing happened between 1964 and 1981? lunatica Jan 2019 #7
Yup. herding cats Jan 2019 #13
Which means that my sisters and I don't even exist? SCRUBDASHRUB Jan 2019 #8
Shh herding cats Jan 2019 #16
They forgot Generation Jones. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #10
That's the short gen after Boomers and Before X, right? herding cats Jan 2019 #19
Yep. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #54
These generations are about 18 years old muriel_volestrangler Jan 2019 #23
I'm technically Gen X by the official definition crazycatlady Jan 2019 #34
To be perfectly honest... Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #55
But in terms of a 'baby boom', the number born peaked in 1961 muriel_volestrangler Jan 2019 #58
"It would seem strange to end the 'baby boomer' generation before the boom peaked." BumRushDaShow Jan 2019 #60
It's my amateurish opinion when you come into adulthood is more important than when you're born. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #61
That would be me. We got absorbed into the Boomers. yardwork Jan 2019 #65
Millennials don't like Jones beause Jones are their parents. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #75
Lol. This is true. yardwork Jan 2019 #80
Well, they left me off the list MosheFeingold Jan 2019 #12
. herding cats Jan 2019 #21
Because you're the Greatest and it goes without saying. Pacifist Patriot Jan 2019 #28
whodat? somebody speak? Hermit-The-Prog Jan 2019 #14
Haha! herding cats Jan 2019 #24
Yep - I don't mind being overlooked. We get to work our magic in the background. Claritie Pixie Jan 2019 #15
Well said. Pacifist Patriot Jan 2019 #26
I agree. herding cats Jan 2019 #27
Stop Me If You Think You've Heard This One Before demmiblue Jan 2019 #17
Excellent choice! herding cats Jan 2019 #29
Ooooh, we're doing SONGS?!? I always like that! ... So, I've got one then ... mr_lebowski Jan 2019 #35
The replacements. Love you for posting! chowder66 Jan 2019 #64
Haven't heard THAT in forever ... good stuff mr_lebowski Jan 2019 #69
: ) chowder66 Jan 2019 #70
I remind people every time I post genxlib Jan 2019 #18
Extra credit for the Max Headroom avatar! herding cats Jan 2019 #30
Even the name is a hand-me-down muriel_volestrangler Jan 2019 #20
We get no respect. herding cats Jan 2019 #37
It really is an amazing phenomenon Docreed2003 Jan 2019 #22
Personally, I'm OK with that. herding cats Jan 2019 #38
Oh I agree! Docreed2003 Jan 2019 #41
Invisible and prefer it that way. Pacifist Patriot Jan 2019 #25
Hahaha! Look up at my reply above. ☝️☝️ herding cats Jan 2019 #39
Ha ha, but you phrased it so much more politely than I did. Pacifist Patriot Jan 2019 #44
SNL jokes about Gen Xers this weekend: Kenan Thompson TeamPooka Jan 2019 #31
That was pretty funny! herding cats Jan 2019 #40
haha TeamPooka Jan 2019 #51
the world tried celibacy from 1965 to 1980 Hermit-The-Prog Jan 2019 #32
Abstinence just didn't work. herding cats Jan 2019 #42
Never forget! johnp3907 Jan 2019 #33
Good one! herding cats Jan 2019 #43
Glad to see at least one person got it. johnp3907 Jan 2019 #49
Goddam emmer-effin baby boomers!!!! Iggo Jan 2019 #36
Apparently we GenXers will never have to worry about being blamed. herding cats Jan 2019 #45
I can live with that MustLoveBeagles Jan 2019 #68
It is funny TheRealNorth Jan 2019 #82
My sons were born in 68 and 71 mountain grammy Jan 2019 #46
History's Middle Children... NeoGreen Jan 2019 #53
Nice! Wawannabe Jan 2019 #71
I don't hate my generation, but I do like this song. aidbo Jan 2019 #56
One of my favorite bands back in the 90s a la izquierda Jan 2019 #62
76 here. I nominate us old proto-millennials!. aidbo Jan 2019 #66
Also, I got to see cracker open up for the cranberries it what must have been about '94? Good time! aidbo Jan 2019 #67
Good -- I like being the Ninja Generation obamanut2012 Jan 2019 #57
Yep. herding cats Jan 2019 #73
Gen X probably prefers this Renew Deal Jan 2019 #59
Well, it certainly is familiar. nt. Mariana Jan 2019 #63
Invisible X checkin in Wawannabe Jan 2019 #72
Oh, damn. herding cats Jan 2019 #74
I feel your pain radical noodle Jan 2019 #77
meh... let 'em forget us Blue_Tires Jan 2019 #78
Gen X rownesheck Jan 2019 #81

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
2. I'm looping Nirvana Nevermind on my Sonos via Apple Music and wearing a flannel in solidarity!
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 01:50 PM
Jan 2019

If nothing else, we're adaptable.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
47. Here's some GenX trivia for you
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:46 PM
Jan 2019

Were you aware that Kathleen Hanna (Bikini Kill) wrote a note for Kurt Cobain that read "Kurt smells like teen spirit"? That is where the song came from.



And then she married Adam Horovitz of Beastie Boys. We GenXers are all connected through music.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
52. Interesting! I did not know that.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:56 PM
Jan 2019

We were all connected via our music. It was an amazing era to come of age in. To this day I still say life is always better with a soundtrack.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,917 posts)
3. As long as they leave me alone, I'm fine with it.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 01:52 PM
Jan 2019

If you watched SNL this weekend, there was a good line in the millennial game show about Gen X, "I'm generation X; I just sit on the sideline and watch it burn." (or something to that effect)

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
7. So nothing happened between 1964 and 1981?
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 01:56 PM
Jan 2019

Well in that case my GenXer son was never born. My bad for deluding myself!

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
13. Yup.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:02 PM
Jan 2019

He doesn't exist. There were no births and the world waited patiently for the millennial generation.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,307 posts)
23. These generations are about 18 years old
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:09 PM
Jan 2019

The definition of 'Generation Jones' tries to cut the Baby Boomers in two - and ends up with a couple of 9 year 'generations', which is too short (you might argue 18 is too short too). The TV caption goes up to 1964; do you regard Generation Jones as after that?

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
34. I'm technically Gen X by the official definition
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:23 PM
Jan 2019

Although the VERY tail end (1980). I have more in common wtih someone born in 1982 (my sister) than I do with someone born in 1970.

I don't remember the Challenger. I remember nothing about Reagan and the only thing I remember about HW is that he would not eat broccoli. Instead of rocking out to the great music of the 80s and 90s, my mom was playing nursery rhyme songs in the car. I had no idea who Kurt Cobain was until the day he died when people at school were talking about him. How does that define me in the generation?

On the flip side, someone born in 1997 is technically a millennial, even though that puts them at 4 when 9/11 happened therefore they most likely only know of it as a historic event (as opposed to remembering exactly where they were when it happened). (I'd say people born after 1994-5 probably don't remember 9/11).

I'm a fan of these micro generations (I fall into one myself-- sometimes called 'Xennials' or 'Oregon Trail Generation&quot . Because people had similar experiences. Just like my dad (1949) and uncle (1961) have the same parents but vastly different experiences growing up.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
55. To be perfectly honest...
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 03:33 PM
Jan 2019

...I only brought it up because I found it amusing the generation widely regarded as forgotten has now been forgotten from a list of forgotten generations. Their failure is complete

But as for the existence of Gen Jones, I think an argument could be made that they are distinct from the Boomers. If they did not have WWII vets for parents and did not suffer the threat of compulsory service in Vietnam, then I think their life experiences would be significantly different from those who did. Perhaps sufficiently enough to warrant a separate generation.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,307 posts)
58. But in terms of a 'baby boom', the number born peaked in 1961
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 03:56 PM
Jan 2019
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demography_of_the_United_States

It would seem strange to end the 'baby boomer' generation before the boom peaked. And plenty of WW2 vets were still having children by then (my uncle, for instance).

BumRushDaShow

(128,870 posts)
60. "It would seem strange to end the 'baby boomer' generation before the boom peaked."
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 04:11 PM
Jan 2019

A number of demographers used 1964 as a cutoff due to 1965 being when the SCOTUS made it a requirement for all states to allow birth control (for "married" women... ).

Griswold v Connecticut

The Pill was approved for use in 1960 so you start to see a drop-off not long after.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
61. It's my amateurish opinion when you come into adulthood is more important than when you're born.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 04:16 PM
Jan 2019

If I had to draw lines, I would say the Boomers are those who came into adulthood in the 1960s and Jones are those who came into adulthood in the early to mid 1970's.

Of course, I don't draw the lines, so none of this means anything, really. Just an exercise in rationalizing my errors post hoc.

yardwork

(61,596 posts)
65. That would be me. We got absorbed into the Boomers.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 04:36 PM
Jan 2019

The boomers are very loud and self-referential so it figures that they absorbed everybody nearby. The boomers complain that we are too... everything. We're the yuppies. Or something. Basically, to the boomers we suck so they absorbed us.

The millennials don't like us much either.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
28. Because you're the Greatest and it goes without saying.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:16 PM
Jan 2019
https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-1&q=the+generation+before+the+silent+generation



What I find strange is my parents have always considered themselves baby boomers and they were born in 1942 and 1945 respectively. I don't think they really identify with being part of the silent generation.

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,328 posts)
14. whodat? somebody speak?
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:03 PM
Jan 2019

Danged kids again, trying to make me think there are ghosts.


(Old boomer here. Trying to laugh with, not at).

Claritie Pixie

(2,199 posts)
15. Yep - I don't mind being overlooked. We get to work our magic in the background.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:03 PM
Jan 2019

We are the catalyst of change between the boomers and millennials and I think that's our role in the continuum. My millennial daughters are amazing women because of what I experienced as a young adult shedding norms and passed that on to them.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
26. Well said.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:13 PM
Jan 2019

I'd say the same about my millennial and post-millennial sons. They, and their group of friends, are amazing. They give me hope for the future...if we can get through the next few years. <sigh>

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
35. Ooooh, we're doing SONGS?!? I always like that! ... So, I've got one then ...
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:25 PM
Jan 2019

I hate that it's sped up from the album version, but it's the official vid, so ...



Willingness would claim us ... we got NO WAR TO NAME US ...

This song was before 'Gen X' was coined ...

fave verse:
the ones who love us best are the ones we'll lay to rest
and visit their graves on holidays at best
the ones who love us least are the ones we'll die to please
if there's any consolation
i don't begin to understand it


Also, Strangeways ... is freaking awesome

muriel_volestrangler

(101,307 posts)
20. Even the name is a hand-me-down
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:05 PM
Jan 2019
In 1964 the paperback Generation X hit the bookstands. Its candid interviews with teenagers still make fascinating reading 50 years on, says Alan Dein.
...
Generation X was something different. It was a collection of interviews with teenagers, in their own voices.
...
As well as soliciting poems and letters from teenagers up and down the country, Hamblett added another vital ingredient - the title itself.

"It was partly X as in the unknown - teenagers were a mystery. It was also so shocking at the time, like an X film - because the book interviews pulled no punches," Deverson says.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-26339959

So that would have been the first of the Baby Boomers (or even earlier - Wikipedia points to 'Holiday' magazine in Dec 1952 using it for those "just turning 21" then: https://books.google.co.uk/books?id=v10ZUR_Ca3EC&pg=PA32 ).

Docreed2003

(16,858 posts)
22. It really is an amazing phenomenon
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:07 PM
Jan 2019

Us Gen Xer's are the perpetual forgotten generation. It's like the "damn those millennials" memes have completely dwarfed us!

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
25. Invisible and prefer it that way.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:11 PM
Jan 2019

I sometimes wonder if our motto could possibly be, "just leave me alone so I can get my shit done."

TeamPooka

(24,221 posts)
31. SNL jokes about Gen Xers this weekend: Kenan Thompson
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:18 PM
Jan 2019

Kenan Thompson In a skit about millennial’s versus baby boomers said “I’m generation X, we just sit back and watch the world burn.”

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,328 posts)
32. the world tried celibacy from 1965 to 1980
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:19 PM
Jan 2019

Didn't like it; backslid like crazy -- hence, millenials all over the place.


That tv screenshot is goofy. Hey, CBSN, you have a hole in your "Generation Guidelines" big enough to drive a generation through.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
45. Apparently we GenXers will never have to worry about being blamed.
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 02:44 PM
Jan 2019

Invisibility has its privileges.

TheRealNorth

(9,478 posts)
82. It is funny
Tue Jan 22, 2019, 02:45 PM
Jan 2019

The baby boomers and Gen X'rs have been in charge for the past 40 years and they blame the millenials (esp. The boomers) for everything wrong in the country.

Being on the young end of Gen X myself, it kind of pisses me off the blaming of millenials for anything and everything.

 

aidbo

(2,328 posts)
67. Also, I got to see cracker open up for the cranberries it what must have been about '94? Good time!
Mon Jan 21, 2019, 04:43 PM
Jan 2019

radical noodle

(8,000 posts)
77. I feel your pain
Tue Jan 22, 2019, 11:41 AM
Jan 2019

This Baby Boomer has been helping support her Gen-X daughter for decades (she's a teacher). I know many Boomers who are reducing their retirement savings to help their Gen-X kids. This is not meant to be a negative about Gen-Xers, just a comment about the economic realities of some of them.

You should never be overlooked. You play an important role in the lives of everyone in this country.

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