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[The Covington incident] all felt very familiar the disrespect to elders, to indigenous people. There was a field trip my class took once, and on the way back an indigenous woman approached the bus to sell her handicrafts and some of my classmates taunted her with questions and double entendres.
It all felt very familiar. I am familiar with that bullying smirk. I have been on the receiving end of that stare. As an overweight and effeminate not-yet-out gay teen in the late 90s and early 00s I was bullied on a daily basis. That Im not doing anything, Im just staring at you, so you cant tell on me look is forever burned on my brain, that entitled smirk. Being in a Catholic school that teaches that homosexuality is a sin only made them more entitled to believe they were in the right. It was a huge part of the environment; a macho, misogynistic, classist, athletic culture was not only the norm but sometimes even encouraged.
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Bettie
(16,079 posts)frankly, in my experience, the ones who are truly dangerous are young white males from wealthy families because they know that they can get away with pretty much any behavior short of public murder...and then, they'll probably still get away with it.
Kingofalldems
(38,425 posts)gratuitous
(82,849 posts)The smiling smirk is the shield of invincibility: "You can't tell on me, and I will bide my time until I can serve you right."
lunatica
(53,410 posts)knowing full well the person being bullied cant do anything about it.
fierywoman
(7,673 posts)rot in hell, all of the fucking bastards.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)It was what stayed with her for decades. The laughter at her expense.
How painful!
pnwmom
(108,960 posts)It's just your basic smug, entitled, challenging, bullying stare, from teenage boys who could be attending any school.
And the adult chaperones of that school trip were wrong not to intervene.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)She was trying to stare me down, making faces at me and being egged on by her laughing and jeering friends. She had been bullying me for days. She thrust her face at me trying to make me take a step back. To everyones surprise, including mine a slapped her hard. Everyone shut up suddenly and I could see her face and theirs looking roundeyed in shock. Then one jerk, a boy, started to threaten me saying, If you ever do that again... . I was so furious that I said, Or what!? And looked him right in the eye. He literally mumbled something and sat down averting his eyes. Everyone else did the same.
It was typical bullying crap with a cheerleading gang chanting their support of the bully.
But after that what happened was unexpected. I had just decided I would have to fight them from then on. What happened was the cheerleaders just switched their support and loyalty from her to me. It was like an animal troupe choosing the stronger leader to follow. They actually didnt care that I never bullied anyone.
Another thing that happened which kind of makes sense is the students who were normally bullied stuck by me too. When they were with me they knew they were safe. It was just some unwritten weird rule.
Human nature is very little evolved in some aspects. I am glad to remember that I was actually a decent person about it.
fierywoman
(7,673 posts)I slapped a few men on the metro in Mexico City at various times, and as I did I would yell PINCHE PENDEJO CABRON!!! And all the women in aprons would burst into giggles. The men would melt away.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)I had a friend that would just call them IMBECIL. They just withered right in front of your eyes and slouched away.
Ahh! Memories!