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Miigwech

(3,741 posts)
Thu May 21, 2020, 06:26 PM May 2020

"Oh well" ... said to me by person not wearing a mask

what's worse she also said, "Don't tell me about Covid, my nephew just died of it."

Here is the story: had to drive downstate for medical reasons. The Mackinaw bridge, great, toll takers wearing masks, gloves and no cash, only credit card that is inserted into the card machine without the person ever touching your card. The State of Michigan is being responsible to try and keep her citizens safe. But, don't drive downstate because it is chock full of trumpists who blindly follow their "no mask", fake pres.

So, had to stop for gas. The woman at the cash register (late 60's) was not wearing a mask. I began talking with her and showed my concern for her because she was not wearing a mask and 90% of the people at this gas station were not wearing masks, so I showed concern.

She went off on me and said her nephew just died of Covid. I high tailed it outta there. When I got home I called the Health Department and told them that if this woman was in contact with her nephew than why is she not quarantining herself and NOT EVEN WEARING A MASK.

The local Health Dept. and their Covid task force was going over to talk to that woman and investigate the place of business. What about tracking and tracing, I asked? The Covid nurse was right on it. I am not gong to take the shit from shitheads that practice trump.

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"Oh well" ... said to me by person not wearing a mask (Original Post) Miigwech May 2020 OP
good for you! FirstLight May 2020 #1
Thanks, I actually went out to my car and cried Miigwech May 2020 #3
The only mistake in your post is using "trumpets" and "think" in the same sentence. They don't niyad May 2020 #16
Her nephew probably lives in another state and she's just trying to justify herself. pnwmom May 2020 #33
All they do DownriverDem May 2020 #54
You did the right thing! Well done! Cousin Dupree May 2020 #2
They are trumping themselves thoroughly from end to end. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2020 #4
That's admirable lunatica May 2020 #5
May have been policy at the place to keep the attendant from being shot LiberalArkie May 2020 #6
Yes, there is that too, regrettably Miigwech May 2020 #7
Wouldn't surprise me if she lied... Wounded Bear May 2020 #8
Guess she gets "owned" when the health department shows up. Maru Kitteh May 2020 #41
Or she gets sick while the rest of us mask-wearers stay healthy. calimary May 2020 #56
Or she gets sick while the rest of us mask-wearers stay healthy. calimary May 2020 #57
"...shitheads that practice trump" -- I'm gonna have to steal your line. Texin May 2020 #9
"practicing trump" Miigwech May 2020 #10
"...shitheads that practice trump." ... dchill May 2020 #25
Alright! Good for you, I'm sick and tired of their bullshit! Thanks for speaking up. nt 42bambi May 2020 #11
Thanks, I am no hero but we all need to stand up to those that Miigwech May 2020 #13
By any chance, was this in Emmet County ? Tetrachloride May 2020 #15
Rogers City Miigwech May 2020 #17
the local gas station is the same, no masks, same state. I am not going there again until the grass yaesu May 2020 #12
No pay at the pumps places there? cwydro May 2020 #40
PA is pay at the pumps and has been for a lot of years. Kaiserguy May 2020 #45
Gov Wolf has ordered that employees of businesses DeminPennswoods May 2020 #46
Not all of Pa. businesses, gab13by13 May 2020 #58
My county is pretty much "Trump country" DeminPennswoods May 2020 #62
Northwest PA here too. It is about 1/2 and 1/2 here now that we are yellow. Some stores are appleannie1 May 2020 #66
Don't worry about what your neighbors think Kaiserguy May 2020 #67
Good on you! lillypaddle May 2020 #14
We all need to do this when and if we can ... fight the trump Miigwech May 2020 #18
Umm, okay, but don't paint all of us lower peninsula residents with the same brush... Jack-o-Lantern May 2020 #19
My apologies, lots of love to the Trolls, LOL Miigwech May 2020 #23
Love it! Dyedinthewoolliberal May 2020 #55
K & R malaise May 2020 #20
I do not have the need to say something to people who are not wearing a mask. LizBeth May 2020 #21
Sorry, but maybe you should, they are a risk to your life Miigwech May 2020 #22
I disagree. I do. Not because of nice. I am tired of everyone having their thing to tell others LizBeth May 2020 #24
Nurses, doctors, EMTs, orderlies, administrators are under threat of death. Hermit-The-Prog May 2020 #29
Thank you Hermit. Not speaking up puts many at risk. Like seeing a drunk driver kareen Maru Kitteh May 2020 #42
Your drunk driver analogy is spot on -- in rush hour traffic, at speed. Hermit-The-Prog May 2020 #44
This Assumes RobinA May 2020 #49
I'm with you. cwydro May 2020 #38
Thank you. LizBeth May 2020 #39
Some of us agree with you. Tipperary May 2020 #51
I agree with you LizBeth. EllieBC May 2020 #59
Yes. You say it well. I am in Oregon, not far from you. That is the reality. I go into Market of LizBeth May 2020 #60
Thank You!!!! RobinA May 2020 #48
Agreed Nature Man May 2020 #52
Yes, lol. LizBeth May 2020 #61
I so agree with you. LiberalBrooke May 2020 #53
You are not alone DeminPennswoods May 2020 #63
You did exactly the right thing: got out of there with no scene and reported her. marble falls May 2020 #26
Way to go! Joinfortmill May 2020 #27
i have been thanking people who are doing it right mopinko May 2020 #28
Incredible! Even after her nephew died from it! Buckeye_Democrat May 2020 #30
where is this Always Randy May 2020 #31
Not Wearing a mask during a pandemic equals Yelling Fire in a crowded theater Tommymac May 2020 #32
There's so little cooperation in the USA. Buckeye_Democrat May 2020 #34
Good for you! SheltieLover May 2020 #35
Thank that we have Gretchen right now!!!!! jimlup May 2020 #36
Why did you have to go to a cash register to pay? cwydro May 2020 #37
To me, being told, "oh well" is a slap in the face.... Heartstrings May 2020 #43
I do not get why people wearing masks feel the need to confront those not. LiberalBrooke May 2020 #47
I do not understand it either. Tipperary May 2020 #50
when I grow up, I want to be just like Miigwech CatWoman May 2020 #64
No you don't! LOL Miigwech May 2020 #65

FirstLight

(13,355 posts)
1. good for you!
Thu May 21, 2020, 06:35 PM
May 2020

Each and every one of these assholes need to be shamed and held accountable. This is nowhere NEAR done yet

 

Miigwech

(3,741 posts)
3. Thanks, I actually went out to my car and cried
Thu May 21, 2020, 06:48 PM
May 2020

I tied to show concern but I got slapped. Now I am so worried about contact with her. I was wearing a mask, plexiglass was up, but I am now worried. But these trumpers think differently ... they are courting death and don't even know it ... and I feel that they hate those of us trying to do our civic duty.

niyad

(113,052 posts)
16. The only mistake in your post is using "trumpets" and "think" in the same sentence. They don't
Thu May 21, 2020, 07:38 PM
May 2020

Think.

pnwmom

(108,955 posts)
33. Her nephew probably lives in another state and she's just trying to justify herself.
Thu May 21, 2020, 09:50 PM
May 2020

She may not even have a nephew at all.

You were wearing a mask and the plexiglass was up, and you only have the word of a non-mask wearer about her supposed nephew. Please try not to worry too much about this. I know it's hard!

DownriverDem

(6,226 posts)
54. All they do
Fri May 22, 2020, 11:22 AM
May 2020

is whine and complain. I have no sympathy for them. I hope she doesn't get it thanks to that brain dead woman.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
5. That's admirable
Thu May 21, 2020, 06:51 PM
May 2020

Good for you. Stupid people don’t understand the danger. They don’t have the intelligence to connect the dots or to make choices. Your action might save some lives.

calimary

(81,109 posts)
56. Or she gets sick while the rest of us mask-wearers stay healthy.
Fri May 22, 2020, 03:29 PM
May 2020

Although, deep down, I really don't wish that on her or anybody else.

And if she gets sick, I hope she only gets sick - and not worse. But maybe sick enough that when she recovers, she might have a greater understanding of, and appreciation for, us mask-wearers.

calimary

(81,109 posts)
57. Or she gets sick while the rest of us mask-wearers stay healthy.
Fri May 22, 2020, 03:29 PM
May 2020

Although frankly I don't wish that on anyone.

 

Miigwech

(3,741 posts)
13. Thanks, I am no hero but we all need to stand up to those that
Thu May 21, 2020, 07:12 PM
May 2020

really don't give one concern about the rest of us, we are the MAJORITY. Don't let the bastards take that away from us, I say!

yaesu

(8,020 posts)
12. the local gas station is the same, no masks, same state. I am not going there again until the grass
Thu May 21, 2020, 07:11 PM
May 2020

is tall enough to climb (just need mower gas).

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
40. No pay at the pumps places there?
Thu May 21, 2020, 11:28 PM
May 2020

This is amazing to me.

In N.C., everywhere is pay at the pump and sanitizer provided right there. I use the paper towels to handle the gas pump anyway, but why go inside?

Kaiserguy

(740 posts)
45. PA is pay at the pumps and has been for a lot of years.
Fri May 22, 2020, 06:20 AM
May 2020

We spent 3 days this week going back and forth to Pittsburgh for medical reasons and everyone was wearing masks at the places we stopped at. A Home Depot that we drove by had a big sign NO MASK NO SERVICE. However in our part of the state up by the NY border NW end of the state, a lot of them are not wearing masks, but then I live in Republican Trump loving Hell.

DeminPennswoods

(15,265 posts)
46. Gov Wolf has ordered that employees of businesses
Fri May 22, 2020, 07:39 AM
May 2020

open to the public must wear masks and that these same businesses refuse service to anyone entering or trying to enter without a mask. That's why people are wearing them. Lots are taking them off as soon as they leave the store. But go outside and watch walkers, joggers, cyclists, people doing yard work or otherwise working outside and few are wearing masks.

Once PA counties get to the "green" phase of re-opening, only the most risk-averse will still be wearing masks.

FTR, Kwik-Fill gas stations in PA do pump the gas for you.

gab13by13

(21,256 posts)
58. Not all of Pa. businesses,
Fri May 22, 2020, 06:39 PM
May 2020

make employees wear masks. In Trump country they may have them around their necks.

DeminPennswoods

(15,265 posts)
62. My county is pretty much "Trump country"
Sat May 23, 2020, 06:21 AM
May 2020

People do wear masks here, but not many have them on when they are outside.

I'm not noticing a lot of the 6' social distancing when shopping except for when people are in line at checkout or the pharmacy. Just out of curiosity, I walked off 6'. It's about 3 normal steps distance for me, the normal distance I'd keep from anyone regardless. Just observing people, it's easy to see they naturally space themselves. Think about it, when sitting in an office, movie theatre, church, classroom, people don't sit right beside others unless it's absolutely necessary. Even with assigned seating, if there are empty seats, people will move to give themselves more space.

Tbh, I think ventilation systems have as much, if not more, to do with spread as masks and social distancing. If I were a business or company, I'd be buying the best air filters I could and installing them.

appleannie1

(5,062 posts)
66. Northwest PA here too. It is about 1/2 and 1/2 here now that we are yellow. Some stores are
Mon May 25, 2020, 04:54 PM
May 2020

enforcing the wear mask rule but some are not. When we were in the red, all I heard was whining because they could not go out to eat. Most eat bar food while they guzzle so it was a double whammy for them. I started stocking up on food and hootch in January because I knew even then that it would make it's way here and we had a jackass at the helm so it would be bad. My neighbors all think I am paranoid because when I do go out, I wash whatever I get before I bring it in the house. I also do not let anyone in and talk to people that drop by through the glass storm door. I don't think it is paranoa, I think it is intelligent thinking. And you are right. This is trump country.

Kaiserguy

(740 posts)
67. Don't worry about what your neighbors think
Thu May 28, 2020, 05:16 PM
May 2020

keeping yourself safe is more important. Whining seem to be all todays Trump lovers are good for. I stop paying any attention to them after Trump stole the election, I don't need anymore stress in my life. It will take a long time to undo all the damage Trump and his base have done to our nation.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
14. Good on you!
Thu May 21, 2020, 07:16 PM
May 2020

Love it when a person not only speaks up but follows through with action. You're a hero. )

Jack-o-Lantern

(966 posts)
19. Umm, okay, but don't paint all of us lower peninsula residents with the same brush...
Thu May 21, 2020, 07:54 PM
May 2020

In my area of eastern Michigan I estimate over 90% of the people are wearing masks and about 30% are also wearing gloves.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
21. I do not have the need to say something to people who are not wearing a mask.
Thu May 21, 2020, 07:55 PM
May 2020

I keep space, do not go into crowded places, and am there for a short time. I take care of me. I read a meme saying to teach kids to yell loudly, he isn't wearing a mask are we going to die, or some such comment. No.

I am not here to direct other people their behavior. If i feel so strongly, I will go to a place where they are required. If they are not, it is not my place to say something. It is a turn off.

 

Miigwech

(3,741 posts)
22. Sorry, but maybe you should, they are a risk to your life
Thu May 21, 2020, 08:04 PM
May 2020

you are being too nice, not your fault because you sound like a beautiful person and I say that with love. BUT THEY WILL FUCKING KILL YOU and ME if they don't practice social distancing and WEARING a MASK in public places. Not nice people.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
24. I disagree. I do. Not because of nice. I am tired of everyone having their thing to tell others
Thu May 21, 2020, 08:14 PM
May 2020

what to do, and rudely at that. And feel self righteously doing it. I am hearing this too much. I do have conversations about wearing masks in public. I do feel it is our responsibility. I do wear because of my health. I look at the environments people do and don't and then take actions when I see a lack of concern. But I do not agree with this attitude or thought.

I am the odd one out, obviously. Mostly people agree with this. I don't.

Maru Kitteh

(28,313 posts)
42. Thank you Hermit. Not speaking up puts many at risk. Like seeing a drunk driver kareen
Fri May 22, 2020, 12:08 AM
May 2020

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around the highway. A fisherman that insists on casting his line toward a bunch of kids at the shore. That's dangerous behavior that should be confronted or reported. When one is able, one should. It's very much part of the new reality we find ourselves in.




Hermit-The-Prog

(33,249 posts)
44. Your drunk driver analogy is spot on -- in rush hour traffic, at speed.
Fri May 22, 2020, 01:19 AM
May 2020

It's not the risk to the violators; it's the risk to everyone else, and in particular, those who have to step in to protect everyone else.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
51. Some of us agree with you.
Fri May 22, 2020, 09:41 AM
May 2020

Actually, I believe very few of these stories I read on du, so there is that. They are fun to read though!

EllieBC

(2,990 posts)
59. I agree with you LizBeth.
Fri May 22, 2020, 06:45 PM
May 2020

Where I live masks aren’t ordered and most aren’t wearing them (lower mainland of BC). I wear mine but I’m not interested in schooling anyone.

It has been coming across as very chest thumping.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
60. Yes. You say it well. I am in Oregon, not far from you. That is the reality. I go into Market of
Fri May 22, 2020, 06:57 PM
May 2020

Choice, about everyone is wearing a mask. I go into Walmart, I am sitting in about 15% mask wearers. So, I go to Walmart early and get just what I need and am out of there quickly, then go shop in Market of Choice.

RobinA

(9,886 posts)
48. Thank You!!!!
Fri May 22, 2020, 08:28 AM
May 2020

Everyone needs to stop minding other people's business. I was bagging my groceries the other day, wearing a mask because it was required, and this store employee came racing up to me to tell me that the cashier and I, who had our backs to each other while we went about our business, were too close and she then proceeded to move all my groceries to the checkout line next to the one I was using. Meanwhile, she was face to face with me. I was not rude about it and she then went on to say that her husband was in the hospital dying of COVID. It occurred to me to wonder why she was working n a customer facing position under the circumstances.

I'm sure she felt she was well justified in doing what she did, but in fact, she inserted herself into a situation that had nothing to do with her and it was not appreciated.

Nature Man

(869 posts)
52. Agreed
Fri May 22, 2020, 09:48 AM
May 2020

the only control I have is over myself and my own behaviors. People are pretty fucking nuts on a good day.

DeminPennswoods

(15,265 posts)
63. You are not alone
Sat May 23, 2020, 06:23 AM
May 2020

I am the same way. I credit that for my rarely being sick or catching whatever is "going around".

mopinko

(69,990 posts)
28. i have been thanking people who are doing it right
Thu May 21, 2020, 08:58 PM
May 2020

i live on a street that has a lot of foot traffic.
when the morons pass by, i tell their backs- that’s not safe
when someone is doing it right i thank them.
i let karma take it from there.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,852 posts)
30. Incredible! Even after her nephew died from it!
Thu May 21, 2020, 09:00 PM
May 2020

By the way, the gas stations around me seem to be the same way. None of the clerks are wearing masks, and I haven't seen a single customer wearing them either. (Observed from my car, sanitizing my hands after paying-at-the-pump.)

Tommymac

(7,263 posts)
32. Not Wearing a mask during a pandemic equals Yelling Fire in a crowded theater
Thu May 21, 2020, 09:10 PM
May 2020

In both cases there is a good chance someone is going to suffer or die.

My mask is to protect YOU...Your mask is to protect ME. That is why we have to be in this together.

And that is why the trump attitude is so callous and harmful - it promotes division, not Solidarity, when the best weapon we have against this biological menace is Solidarity.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,852 posts)
34. There's so little cooperation in the USA.
Thu May 21, 2020, 09:54 PM
May 2020

Competition is promoted far more than cooperation.

It's why I figured this country was screwed after the virus got here. That, and the idiot in the White House.

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
36. Thank that we have Gretchen right now!!!!!
Thu May 21, 2020, 11:12 PM
May 2020

This is a war. Make not mistake. We elected a democratic Governor so we've managed to land on the right side of history.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
37. Why did you have to go to a cash register to pay?
Thu May 21, 2020, 11:24 PM
May 2020

Are there no pay at the pump stations in Michigan?

I can’t remember the last time I had to go inside a store to pay for gas.

Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
43. To me, being told, "oh well" is a slap in the face....
Fri May 22, 2020, 12:52 AM
May 2020

An “I don’t care about you”, “you mean nothing”, “I could give a shit”....

Have always hated that dismissive phrase.....So condescending, rude and flip.

Glad you reported her!

LiberalBrooke

(527 posts)
47. I do not get why people wearing masks feel the need to confront those not.
Fri May 22, 2020, 07:53 AM
May 2020

Really, you are not going to change their minds. Frankly it reminds me of the good christians who feel the need to tell me how to live my life. Setting an example of being cautious and polite Is how I think we should act. If you are upset when people do not wear masks I think you should search out where it is a requirement and go only to those places.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
50. I do not understand it either.
Fri May 22, 2020, 09:37 AM
May 2020

Thinking someone will change their mind about wearing a mask just because a complete stranger tries to shame them into it is just silliness imo.

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