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Dem4Life1102

(3,974 posts)
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 08:37 AM Jun 2020

My mom died this morning.

Thankfully she went peacefully. She was 87 and had a long and full life. I don't wish to grieve but to celebrate her life.

As a young women she joined the local democratic club and eventually rose to be co-leader of that club. She became a state committee woman and served as state party co-chair as well as on the DNC. In her later years she sat on an advisory board to the state's department of elections and convinced them to adopt optical scan paper ballots so there would always be a paper trail in state elections.

Let her be an inspiration that one person can make a difference.

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My mom died this morning. (Original Post) Dem4Life1102 Jun 2020 OP
Deepest sympathy malaise Jun 2020 #1
Love and peace to you... Freedomofspeech Jun 2020 #2
+100% mazzarro Jun 2020 #44
I'm sorry, Dem4Life1102 milestogo Jun 2020 #3
I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Jun 2020 #4
What a wonderful role model. Solly Mack Jun 2020 #5
I'm so sorry for your loss. LiberalLoner Jun 2020 #6
How lucky she was to have you! Shanti Mama Jun 2020 #7
My condolences snowybirdie Jun 2020 #8
... Solomon Jun 2020 #9
My Condolences Sherman A1 Jun 2020 #10
So sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy for you and your family. Celerity Jun 2020 #11
Beautiful Tribute to your Mom. Cha Jun 2020 #12
May your family walk in her light Maeve Jun 2020 #13
I am sorry to hear of your loss mercuryblues Jun 2020 #14
Awww, moms are tough. She babylonsister Jun 2020 #15
You have my sympathies. denbot Jun 2020 #16
So sorry. Demsrule86 Jun 2020 #17
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved mother. n/t phylny Jun 2020 #18
And now she's up there organizing once again tavernier Jun 2020 #19
So very sorry for your loss. kentuck Jun 2020 #20
This is a beautiful tribute to your mother. dmr Jun 2020 #21
MY CONDOLENCE. mfcorey1 Jun 2020 #22
She lives on in you. tazkcmo Jun 2020 #23
My condolences to you and your family. May she rest in peace. oasis Jun 2020 #24
A posthumous thank you to a beautiful soul! Uben Jun 2020 #25
A meaningful life Sparkly Jun 2020 #26
.. Demovictory9 Jun 2020 #27
I'm so sorry for your loss. Niagara Jun 2020 #28
My condolences. A life well lived. Thank you for taking the time to share your loss and KPN Jun 2020 #29
I'm sorry for your loss. masmdu Jun 2020 #30
Inspiring legacy. You should be proud. Peace. NoMoreRepugs Jun 2020 #31
So sorry to read this... Peacetrain Jun 2020 #32
Sincere condolences to you and your family. pazzyanne Jun 2020 #33
Sounds like a great mom. panader0 Jun 2020 #34
My sincere sympathy Hulk Jun 2020 #35
Amen to her fulfilling life !!! uponit7771 Jun 2020 #36
Deepest condolences; sounds like she had a quality life. brooklynite Jun 2020 #37
I'm so sorry. mindfulNJ Jun 2020 #38
Celebrate her life, she has left her mark and made a difference. secondwind Jun 2020 #39
My condolences to you and your family mokawanis Jun 2020 #40
... handmade34 Jun 2020 #41
I'm so sorry. chowder66 Jun 2020 #42
I'm so sorry for your loss. Ilsa Jun 2020 #43
Deepest sympathy to you and Scarsdale Jun 2020 #45
I'm so sorry for your loss meow2u3 Jun 2020 #46
In celebrating a life... Harker Jun 2020 #47
She'll forever be in your heart...... Heartstrings Jun 2020 #48
🕯️ irisblue Jun 2020 #49
I understand. roamer65 Jun 2020 #50
Very sorry to hear of her passing. Those are impressive life accomplishments, and I'm sure there is Evolve Dammit Jun 2020 #51
Condolences on the loss of your beloved mother. gademocrat7 Jun 2020 #52
I am inspired. Wawannabe Jun 2020 #53
Deepest condolences. Dial H For Hero Jun 2020 #54
Deepest condolences. I am so very sorry for your loss. Yes, celebrate the life of this niyad Jun 2020 #55
... N_E_1 for Tennis Jun 2020 #56
Very sorry for your loss. boston bean Jun 2020 #57
Heartfelt sympathy to you and all of her family. n/t monmouth4 Jun 2020 #58
So sorry for your loss, and our party's loss as well.. mountain grammy Jun 2020 #59
so very sorry demtenjeep Jun 2020 #60
So sorry. Stay strong. Pepsidog Jun 2020 #61
May her memory be a blessing. EllieBC Jun 2020 #62
So sorry Blue_playwright Jun 2020 #63
My sincere condolences. smirkymonkey Jun 2020 #64
I'm so sorry... PCIntern Jun 2020 #65
so sorry for your loss krakfiend Jun 2020 #66
I'm sorry. LisaM Jun 2020 #67
I am happy to join you in celebrating a wonderful life of distinction grantcart Jun 2020 #68
My sympathies to you and your family. Admiration for a life well lived. Fla Dem Jun 2020 #69
Deepest sympathy bdamomma Jun 2020 #70
I am so very sorry. Your mom sounds like she was an amazing woman. crickets Jun 2020 #71
So sorry for your loss. sheshe2 Jun 2020 #72
Thank you for sharing her legacy. demmiblue Jun 2020 #73
She sounds like great woman who made a difference for our country. CaptainTruth Jun 2020 #74
Wha a woman! She really made a difference with her life. MLAA Jun 2020 #75
Deepest sympathy to you and your family. sinkingfeeling Jun 2020 #76
Very sorry for your loss dlk Jun 2020 #77
I am so sorry ... rustysgurl Jun 2020 #78
Very sorry for your loss! Different Drummer Jun 2020 #79
Thanks for telling us about your Mom. I'm grateful for her life and work! n/t TygrBright Jun 2020 #80
Sorry for your loss Stuart G Jun 2020 #81
My Condolences bearssoapbox Jun 2020 #82
May she rest in peace. I celebrate her life with you. Maraya1969 Jun 2020 #83
I hope she didn't suffer sellitman Jun 2020 #84
So sorry for your loss kimbutgar Jun 2020 #85
. struggle4progress Jun 2020 #86
... littlemissmartypants Jun 2020 #87
A life well lived...thanks for remembering her here. Her beautiful soul lives on. Karadeniz Jun 2020 #88
In that same spirit.. BobTheSubgenius Jun 2020 #89
So sorry for the loss of your mom, peacebuzzard Jun 2020 #90
Sorry for your loss. RestoreAmerica2020 Jun 2020 #91
RIP DownriverDem Jun 2020 #92
Celebrating with gratitude. JudyM Jun 2020 #93
Sending love and sincere sympathy firstwife Jun 2020 #94
Deepest sympathy at your loss GeoWilliam750 Jun 2020 #95
so sorry, it's tough. She sounds like the women in my family who I loved. Hamlette Jun 2020 #96
Hugs to you! lunatica Jun 2020 #97
I am sure qwlauren35 Jun 2020 #98
: onecaliberal Jun 2020 #99
A life worth celebrating. I hope she went believing that Hortensis Jun 2020 #100
My sympathy for your loss. brer cat Jun 2020 #101
You're mother sounds committed, passionate about the Democratic cause peggysue2 Jun 2020 #102
Peace and comfort hamsterjill Jun 2020 #103
My deepest condolences for your loss. StevieM Jun 2020 #104
I have empathy...my "baby" died yesterday BigmanPigman Jun 2020 #105
Condolences. Take care of yourself. n/t EndlessWire Jun 2020 #117
Thank you so much. BigmanPigman Jun 2020 #126
Your mom is an inspiration. What a great legacy. diva77 Jun 2020 #106
Peace to her and you. Thank you for this post and sharing about your mom. SayItLoud Jun 2020 #107
This is never easy. warmfeet Jun 2020 #108
my mom's just a few years younger, so the same generation renate Jun 2020 #109
So sorry for your loss! budkin Jun 2020 #110
Sorry for your loss but so glad for the blessing she was. marble falls Jun 2020 #111
My condolences to you and your family KSNY Jun 2020 #112
... Duppers Jun 2020 #113
Thank you for sharing your mom's inspirational life story! CottonBear Jun 2020 #114
Condolences to you and your family SheltieLover Jun 2020 #115
DU mourns your loss, Dem4Life. We're with you in spirit. KY_EnviroGuy Jun 2020 #116
I'm exhuberant to celebrate her life and offer condolences for your loss. theaocp Jun 2020 #118
She will be watching over you. EndlessWire Jun 2020 #119
I'm so sorry for your loss. CousinIT Jun 2020 #120
Sincere condolences. luvallpeeps Jun 2020 #121
. Maru Kitteh Jun 2020 #122
I'm sorry for your loss vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #123
Thank you for sharing the story of her... 3catwoman3 Jun 2020 #124
Dem4Life1102.... Upthevibe Jun 2020 #125
My sincere sympathy Generic Other Jun 2020 #127
Very sorry to hear this mvd Jun 2020 #128
I am so very sorry, your Mom sounds like a wonderful person Rhiannon12866 Jun 2020 #129
Dear Dem4Life1102, calimary Jun 2020 #130

tavernier

(12,381 posts)
19. And now she's up there organizing once again
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 09:05 AM
Jun 2020

for the coming election. We will need a lot of Angel power to get every voter to the polls, and mom angels have super powers! (Mine came to me in a dream and told me that my daughter and son in law were expecting... imagine their surprise when daughter took a test after my phone call to her, to find out that grandma was right!

Uben

(7,719 posts)
25. A posthumous thank you to a beautiful soul!
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 09:17 AM
Jun 2020

I'm so sorry for your/our loss, but so thankful we had this social soldier fighting for us. She gets to watch now how we carry the future. Its our turn to institute change and make our world worthy of her hard fought battles. RIP sweet lady, you earned it!

KPN

(15,642 posts)
29. My condolences. A life well lived. Thank you for taking the time to share your loss and
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 09:51 AM
Jun 2020

her story with us. It is an inspiration.

pazzyanne

(6,549 posts)
33. Sincere condolences to you and your family.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 09:54 AM
Jun 2020

Best wishes for a wonderful celebration of your mother's life. She sounds like a great woman, and an inspiration to us all. Thank you for sharing her with us.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
34. Sounds like a great mom.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 09:57 AM
Jun 2020

She was 87 and "had a long and full life."
But it's still never easy. My sympathies are with you.

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
35. My sincere sympathy
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 09:58 AM
Jun 2020

I feel for you. This is an especially difficult time for your loss. My mother lived to be 100...but I still miss her everyday that goes by. Hope the memories fill your heart for the loss in your life.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
45. Deepest sympathy to you and
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 10:07 AM
Jun 2020

everyone else who loved her. I wish she could have made it to see tRump defeated in the next election. No doubt, she will be looking down and smiling.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
50. I understand.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 10:18 AM
Jun 2020

I lost my mom last year. Isn’t a day that goes by that I think of her, wondering what she‘s up 2.

I miss her.

Evolve Dammit

(16,725 posts)
51. Very sorry to hear of her passing. Those are impressive life accomplishments, and I'm sure there is
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 10:19 AM
Jun 2020

much more. Take care of yourself and hold onto the memories.
ED

niyad

(113,275 posts)
55. Deepest condolences. I am so very sorry for your loss. Yes, celebrate the life of this
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 10:28 AM
Jun 2020

Remarkable woman. And thank you for sharing her with us.

Peace and comfort and love to you and yours.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
64. My sincere condolences.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 11:14 AM
Jun 2020

I am so sorry for your loss, but I am glad that you have only fond memories of her.

LisaM

(27,803 posts)
67. I'm sorry.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 11:26 AM
Jun 2020

I am impressed by her activism. We are losing a generation of these hard-working Democratic women (my mother, now 84, among them), people who have fought the good fight against incredible odds for a while. A toast to her life. I'm sorry she never saw a woman president.

MLAA

(17,285 posts)
75. Wha a woman! She really made a difference with her life.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 12:28 PM
Jun 2020

💕💕💕💕💕💕💖💖💖💖💕💕💕💕💕

rustysgurl

(1,040 posts)
78. I am so sorry ...
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 01:06 PM
Jun 2020

Your Mom is an inspiration to us all, and I know you feel her loss deeply. My deepest sympathies are with you and your family.

bearssoapbox

(1,408 posts)
82. My Condolences
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 01:32 PM
Jun 2020

Sounds like she left quite the legacy in her life and yours to pass on.

I join DU family in a community hug.

Take care.

sellitman

(11,606 posts)
84. I hope she didn't suffer
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 01:45 PM
Jun 2020

My condolences to you. Lost my Dad this year. 2020 just can't suck enough it seems.

kimbutgar

(21,131 posts)
85. So sorry for your loss
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 01:48 PM
Jun 2020

She didn’t suffer and went peacefully And doesn’t have to deal with the stuff we all are. But there will come times she will visit you when you least suspect it. Smile at your memories and know she is in a better place.

DownriverDem

(6,228 posts)
92. RIP
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 03:36 PM
Jun 2020

Sounds like a wonderful woman. My mother in law passed recently at 95. She worked for Planned Parenthood and we all know about that company.

JudyM

(29,233 posts)
93. Celebrating with gratitude.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 04:03 PM
Jun 2020

The lines you wrote were enough to give us a sense of her social priorities, and how much she contributed to our community, for so long. I am grateful for her dedication to making this a better world. What is between the lines we can only imagine, and for that I extend a hug and a wish that happy memories will wash over the grief, to comfort you more and more with time.

An admirable woman, your mom. May her memory be a blessing.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
100. A life worth celebrating. I hope she went believing that
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 05:57 PM
Jun 2020

others would continue and prevail after she had to leave off.

brer cat

(24,560 posts)
101. My sympathy for your loss.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 06:12 PM
Jun 2020

That is a lovely tribute to a person who made a difference not only in your life but all of ours.

peggysue2

(10,828 posts)
102. You're mother sounds committed, passionate about the Democratic cause
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 06:29 PM
Jun 2020

She also sounds like a person who was truly admired. Makes the loss all the harder but I do like the idea of celebrating a life.

Peace to you and your family

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
103. Peace and comfort
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 06:33 PM
Jun 2020

I’m so sorry for your loss. Even when a life ends that is expected to be at an end, there is still an empty chair. So, as you celebrate her extraordinary life, I hope you will take some time to take care of yourself.

That was a wonderful tribute to her. I’m glad that we have people like her on our side.

Peace and comfort.

BigmanPigman

(51,585 posts)
105. I have empathy...my "baby" died yesterday
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 07:15 PM
Jun 2020

after 17 years of taking care of me. She had an I VOTED sticker on each stuffed animal and I even have a photo from 10 years ago where she has one on her forehead. It was a perfect existence... just the two of us and it was pure love.

I hope you are able to handle your loss better than me. I am a wreck. I am certain that a padded truck will be pulling up for me any day now with a Covid -style straitjacket with my name on it. My healthy dad died suddenly a year ago and I am still grieving that loss. This makes Hell look like a picnic, to me anyway. Why does this happen to wonderful beings yet the crazy, orange sadist lives on and on and on.......?????

renate

(13,776 posts)
109. my mom's just a few years younger, so the same generation
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 08:27 PM
Jun 2020

It was hard for women to be taken seriously in positions of power (when they got them). She sounds like an incredible person. And to have left such an important legacy... you must be so, so proud of her.

I'm so sorry for your loss, and glad she had such an impactful life.

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
114. Thank you for sharing your mom's inspirational life story!
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 09:01 PM
Jun 2020

I send my condolences to you and your family.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
115. Condolences to you and your family
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 10:02 PM
Jun 2020

May she go softly into the light & may you be comforted in your memories.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
116. DU mourns your loss, Dem4Life. We're with you in spirit.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 10:46 PM
Jun 2020

Many of us here have suffered the loss of family and friends this past year, layered with a pandemic and civil unrest.

We celebrate your Mom's life and I know you'll carry on with her tireless work.

Make her wake into a celebration of democracy!...... .......... ........

theaocp

(4,236 posts)
118. I'm exhuberant to celebrate her life and offer condolences for your loss.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 10:49 PM
Jun 2020

She sounds like a tough lady with a firm work ethic that led by example.

EndlessWire

(6,514 posts)
119. She will be watching over you.
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 10:51 PM
Jun 2020

It'll get a little easier for you as time passes. Your Mom is watching over you. Keep going.

CousinIT

(9,240 posts)
120. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Thu Jun 4, 2020, 12:01 AM
Jun 2020

It does sound like she led a full life - and was obviously much admired and loved.

Wishing you peace and strength right now.

Upthevibe

(8,039 posts)
125. Dem4Life1102....
Thu Jun 4, 2020, 12:37 AM
Jun 2020

My deepest condolences to you and your family...

It sounds like she definitely contributed to progressive causes.

Thank you so much for letting us know......

Generic Other

(28,979 posts)
127. My sincere sympathy
Thu Jun 4, 2020, 02:03 AM
Jun 2020

She sounds like she was a very civic-minded person. You can be proud of her achievements.

Rhiannon12866

(205,237 posts)
129. I am so very sorry, your Mom sounds like a wonderful person
Thu Jun 4, 2020, 05:10 AM
Jun 2020

Please know that your friends on DU will be thinking of you and so many of us here can understand and empathize.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
130. Dear Dem4Life1102,
Thu Jun 4, 2020, 06:35 AM
Jun 2020

You have all my sympathy. You’re blessed to have had such an illustrious and accomplished mother. It sounds like she really lit your way. She’ll be shining in your heart for the rest of your life.

Thank you for sharing her memory with us. Inspiration is so badly needed these days.

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