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Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 02:38 PM Sep 2012

My raging conservative father does not know my new email address yet: Should I tell him?

I'm going to hook up my old computer to transfer some more files/folders/links. It's been 2 weeks, I wonder how many right wing anti-Obama email forwards will be waiting for me in my inbox there: It's been 2 weeks and not a one on my new PC. Wonderful.

I'll report back on the number

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My raging conservative father does not know my new email address yet: Should I tell him? (Original Post) Populist_Prole Sep 2012 OP
No panzerfaust Sep 2012 #1
Only if he has a sizable estate which you may or may not inherit. nt jody Sep 2012 #2
Set up a second email addy to give him. Jackpine Radical Sep 2012 #3
Agree. Next, send him an email asking that he not send/forward SDjack Sep 2012 #8
Oh that is good! nt avebury Sep 2012 #11
How 'bout this one… Jackpine Radical Sep 2012 #12
Nope. Set up an email address dedicated to him and check it once a day. n/t pnwmom Sep 2012 #4
No RagAss Sep 2012 #5
That's what I did with an ex ... that way I could have a glass of wine cr8tvlde Sep 2012 #6
Fire with Fire! Cha Sep 2012 #14
Set up another account just for him. Indpndnt Sep 2012 #7
Well the grand total over 14 days was 42 forwards Populist_Prole Sep 2012 #9
There are things one should keep private from their parents lunatica Sep 2012 #10
Yes! Tell your father your new email address. Skip Intro Sep 2012 #13
he's your dad BOG PERSON Sep 2012 #15
Politics is only one of the many facets of life. If it the ruling facet of your life, you may... yawnmaster Sep 2012 #16
Things are fine between us: If he'd just STFU about politics Populist_Prole Sep 2012 #17
biding the time until after election cool off sounds very reasonable. eom yawnmaster Sep 2012 #18

SDjack

(1,448 posts)
8. Agree. Next, send him an email asking that he not send/forward
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 03:33 PM
Sep 2012

political stuff to you, as you have a sensitive job and suspect that for security reasons your email is monitored. If your clients think you have a political agenda, you will loose your job/business. That could cause you to have come home live with him until you can find a good job.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
12. How 'bout this one…
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 09:53 PM
Sep 2012

You can't be sure, but you think you're on some kind of Homeland Security surveillance list because of some demonstrations you attended, and HSA might want to talk to any list operator who sends you voluminous hate mail.

cr8tvlde

(1,185 posts)
6. That's what I did with an ex ... that way I could have a glass of wine
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 03:09 PM
Sep 2012

before being forced to read the subject lines. Also, with a sister, I just politely began replying to her FWd with one of my own Fwd.. Mo fuss, no muss. And they quickly ceased.

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
9. Well the grand total over 14 days was 42 forwards
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 05:24 PM
Sep 2012

Of those, all but 2 were conservative/religious anti-Obama emails. Lots of "You MUST see this video....." Or "this guy tells it like it is" or "Unbelievable!!!". Man, there is some crazy shit out there. The 2 exceptions were the usual "Awww, look at the beautiful pictures of....." Basically slideshows of nature scenes or modern US military air or sea power set to schmaltzy music.

I have asked him to cool it with the email forwards before but his attitude is basically, "yeah yeah yeah, Kiss my ass. If you don't like them, just delete them"

I've been thinking of the advice given. The one about the inheritance is pretty funny because while myself and my siblings both think, much less care a whit about any inheritance of any sort ( a house maybe? ) he must have a major projection or paranoia issue because he seems think we are itching to pillage whatever estate when he's gone. Crazy.

I believe I'm going to get an email addy just for him. I thought of giving him my main one but with message screening "rules"...that is mails containing certain words of my choosing get auto-deleted but I don't want to throw out the baby with the bath water, and I'll still be subject to any and all attempts to disguise emails titled "no subject" ( which he does a lot )

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
13. Yes! Tell your father your new email address.
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 10:07 PM
Sep 2012

You're thinking of cutting a line of communication with your father over politics?

Over politics?

Your father?

really, come on...

BOG PERSON

(2,916 posts)
15. he's your dad
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 10:30 PM
Sep 2012

if he was a good dad to you then you must look past your disagreements and tell him your email address.

yawnmaster

(2,812 posts)
16. Politics is only one of the many facets of life. If it the ruling facet of your life, you may...
Sun Sep 16, 2012, 10:36 PM
Sep 2012

want to keep it hidden from your father.
If there is anything else between the two of you, you may want to keep the communications open.

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
17. Things are fine between us: If he'd just STFU about politics
Mon Sep 17, 2012, 01:51 AM
Sep 2012

He's absolutely obsessed with them and it's like I have to walk on eggshells and carefully word everything to avoid the ability for him to politicize things. I try my damndest but it's very draining.

I'm just trying to basically buy time and avoid him till the elections are over and he calms down ( I hope )

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