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Some 3,073 people were killed in the terrorist attacks on the United States on 9/11. Between that day and June 6, 2012, 6,488 U.S. soldiers were killed in combat in Iraq and Afghanistan, bringing the death toll for Americas war on terror at home and abroad to 9,561. During the same period, 11,766 women were murdered in the United States by their husbands or boyfriends, both military and civilian. The greater number of women killed here at home is a measure of the scope and the furious intensity of the war against women, a war that threatens to continue long after the misconceived war on terror is history.
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http://www.commondreams.org/view/2013/03/21-4
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)exorbitant fees while waiting months to clear bureaucratic hurdles to buy a large, unweildy gun that holds 6 or fewer rounds then those women will be morally superior as they have the life choked out of them by a man twice their size.
It's how God would have wanted it.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)on how to safeguard themselves and their families.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)Women are far more likely to die from guns than to be saved by one. Reminds me of this exchange on Fox:
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/perino-domestic-violence-vics-better-decisions-article-1.1215389
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)(They) should have guns! co-host Greg Gutfeld chimed in.
Well, or make better decisions, Perino said.
Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/perino-domestic-violence-vics-better-decisions-article-1.1215389#ixzz2OHXjvuHn
You're trying to make a guilt-by-association fallacy against me but the article shows that Perino more agrees with you when she says, "or make better decisions" as a counter to the suggestion by Gutfield that they arm themselves.
I have yet to hear of a violent person preferring armed opposition.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)I don't care for Perino one bit, but the whole argument of women benefiting from more guns is one that only Fox would try to proliferate.
Again, women are FAR more likely to be killed by a gun than saved by one. More guns = more women killed by guns.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)Those who want to do them harm are not prevented from doing so. We already have a thousand laws on the books and yet the OP remains true. Demanding that good people remain defenseless and hope they can call 911 and not have their oxygen run-out before the police arrive is not an act of kindness on their behalf.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)That includes guns which were purchased strictly for defense. This isn't terribly difficult to understand. The U.S. has a gun culture, a very dangerous one. If you don't want to get killed by a gun, your best bet is to stay well away from them.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)The murder rate is NOT > 2 million people annually; so, I'm not sure what you're basing that statement on. Gun homicides run around 8,000 annually.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)Do you think all those people who die from guns do so from homicide?
http://www.minnpost.com/second-opinion/2012/12/health-risk-having-gun-home
Also, that 2.5 million figure is kind of ridiculous, there are MANY problems with it.
http://www.businessweek.com/articles/2012-12-27/how-often-do-we-use-guns-in-self-defense
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)At the other end of the spectrum, gun skeptics prefer to cite the work of David Hemenway, an eminent public-health scholar at Harvard University. Hemenway, who analogizes gun violence to an epidemic and guns to the contagion, argues that Klecks research significantly overestimates the frequency of DGU.
The person attempting to refute Kleck calls gun incidences an epidemic even though violent crime has been decreasing. Even if Kleck exaggerated by ten-fold that would still make 200,000 prevented crimes to 10,000 gun crimes, i.e. 20:1. Who wouldn't want those odds in a confronation?
I will make my own decisions. I choose to be safe and I choose to defend myself. Any gun I might have is not the problem you seek to address. Why you seek to make demands against me and my family while the criminals carry-on unopposed is beyond me. When you actually propose a sound, practical policy for dealing with violent criminals then you may once again ask me to disarm. Untl then the answer is, "No."
EOTE
(13,409 posts)Again, having a gun means you are more likely to die by a gun than someone who doesn't own one. So that means that the very act of owning a gun makes you far more likely to be put into a situation where you might need/want to use it than someone who doesn't own one. Gun owners are their own worst enemy. Owning a gun makes you far more likely to die by a gun than someone who doesn't own one. This really isn't difficult to understand.
And I'm making no demands of you, that's a big, fat strawman. I want there to be far less guns in this country. It is only then that our rate of gun violence will decline and we'll be more in line with the rest of the developed world.
Brainstormy
(2,380 posts)and worth saying again:
Women are far more likely to die from guns than to be saved by one .
jeff47
(26,549 posts)Or are you going to argue they don't have access to guns?
EOTE
(13,409 posts)Make it mandatory for all military women to carry RPGs wherever the go and that problem will be solved right quick. Of course deaths via RPG will increase significantly, but freedom ain't free.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)But of the military assaults that o occur how many occurred while the female was carrying her weapon?
jeff47
(26,549 posts)A ton of military assaults occur when the woman has reasonable access to her weapon - for example, it's on the other side of the room.
That kind of situation is going to arise very frequently. Roughly once a day. Kinda makes the gun not the solution.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)Non-deployed soldiers do not have ready access to weapons. And as alcohol is a prevailing factor in SAs and alcohol and weapons aren't permitted together so that is further proof that you're just fabricating statements.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)After all, they've got access to their guns and little-to-no access to alcohol.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)non-deployed the figures hold-up. Good grief, now you're just flailing angrily.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)Your argument is access to guns is the best way to prevent rapes.
The women with the best access to guns, and the training to use them effectively, suffer more rapes than the civilian population.
You're now busy arguing about alcohol. Yet alcohol does not make a rapist bulletproof.
marions ghost
(19,841 posts)doncha know.
WOMEN-- ARM YOURSELVES AGAINST YOUR HUSBANDS AND BOYFRIENDS!!!!!!
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)marions ghost
(19,841 posts)and she and the ex-SO can have shootouts in the parking lot of the Food Lion...
Great Idea!!!!
gollygee
(22,336 posts)/sarcasm btw
Women are threatened and killed by guns by their partners all the time. More than they are able to protect themselves with guns from their partners. I suspect it's easier to protect yourself from a stranger with a gun than from a partner. You have to get it, including getting money for it, and spousal abuse often involves controlling money, and then hide it and keep it hidden with the fear that it could be found and used against you. I suspect women who are in abusive relationships aren't major buyers of guns.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)We're trained to wait for the prince on the White Horse to ride to our rescue to save us from the ogre (Sorry, Shrek! Love yoooou!). If girls were brought-up to see ourselves as determiners of our own destiny I'd hazard a guess there will be damned fewer damsels in distress and probably fewer ogres too.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)In most abusive relationships that I've been aware of, there has been a huge amount of control involved, including financial control. The woman doesn't have enough money to buy a cup of coffee, let alone a gun. And if she DID have the money, she'd have the fear that he would find out she had a gun, which could lead to horrible consequences.
It has nothing to do with women waiting to be rescued. It is about women trying to survive a difficult situation.
Warpy
(111,134 posts)Domestic assault is much more complicated than that and in most cases, the perpetrator knows where the gun is and either moves it or just grabs it first.
Women don't need guns, they need the law to step up and do its job.
Men get assaulted in the home, too. Are you suggesting they need to be packing at all times? Both partners in a marriage armed to the teeth just in case?
Great way to live, buster.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)And the history of that is -- ???
What's wrong with letting women decide for themselves? "The law" has shown itself to have failed at prevention by the time "the law" gets involved. That's not zealotry, that's fact. You aren't interested in stopping anything you just want to control people with worthless schemes so you can feel like you did something. If criminals have easy access to the drugs what makes you think they'll give up their guns just because you took away some woman's right to self-defense?
el_bryanto
(11,804 posts)niyad
(113,049 posts)right on schedule.
el_bryanto
(11,804 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)It is referring to the fact that the pandemic of male violence against women is still treated as if it is an inescapable fact of life. If these numbers reflected almost any other reality (except poverty related statistics) there would be a hell of a lot more awareness. Poverty is another issue which many treat as a problem that can never be solved.
Society treats women with contempt. It is thoroughly patriarchal and misogynist.
davidn3600
(6,342 posts)You act as if there is some grand conspiracy among all men to beat up their wives and girlfriends and keep them in line. That's complete bullcrap. There are millions of male victims of domestic violence every year that the feminists completely ignore.
We need to stop being gender-specific with these domestic violence awareness and assistance programs. These programs and legislation we have now all promote the idea that all men are abusers and all women are victims.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)No. But you go on and preach about domestic violence some more. Domestic violence against men is a problem worthy of discussion, but you're using it as a distraction. Be proud.
I bet you didn't even read the linked piece.
niyad
(113,049 posts)please provide links from legitimate, reliable sources to back up that claim, and then be good enough to look at that statistics for female victims of domestic violence which society seems so adept at ignoring. and then, perhaps you could tell us what you are doing to help eliminate the problem all across the board.
most of us can count down almost to the second the "what about the MEN?" whine, whenever there is an issue that affects primarily women, with a small percentage of men.
marions ghost
(19,841 posts)...is what I'm hearing too. And men do not get their needs met by feminists. (What a buncha...) Some men just can't imagine what a better world it would be-- for everybody-- if women were not "otherized." (To use a blanket term). It has benefits for them, they just don't get that tho.
Real men don't feel the need to throw out empty taunts.
niyad
(113,049 posts)my response is, "you mean, the way men haven't been paying attention for a couple of thousand years?"
aikoaiko
(34,162 posts)... even though the base rates are very different for death rate stat. There are only a 100,000 service men and women engaged in warfare, but there over a 100 million women in this country.
niyad
(113,049 posts)Thank you.
I am sick to death of seeing the news of women murdered by their exes and partners being treated like background noise.
niyad
(113,049 posts)disheartening.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)You can pretty much expect those responses to this kind of information. Silencing tactics, derailing, etc. So sadly predictable.
marions ghost
(19,841 posts)that the toll of both "wars" is equally ignored.
niyad
(113,049 posts)marions ghost
(19,841 posts)RUMSFELD: Well, we don't do body counts on other people. And we have certain rules on people we capture, in terms of exposing them to the public, Geneva Conventions and the like.
Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,101956,00.html#ixzz2OJvA3zpW
niyad
(113,049 posts)Jasana
(490 posts)Eve supposedly ate that damn apple. If you considered what happens to women worldwide, it would make the the stats the OP posted look pathetic. This frakking war against women has been going on so long, we barely notice it.
I believe the only way most women exist in this world is by having blinders on. There's 100 percent blinders all the way down to 10 percent blinders and for those women who completely rip the blinders off, this world is a truly horrifying and disgusting place. Many women and girls can not even trust their own fathers and mothers to keep them safe. If that's not truly horrifying and disgusting then I don't know what is.
niyad
(113,049 posts)see it for what it is, are generally treated as though they are insane, or making it up, or exaggerating.
and, when that war is within our own homes, it is truly horrifying.