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niyad

(113,049 posts)
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 11:46 PM Mar 2013

the war on terror vs the war on women

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Some 3,073 people were killed in the terrorist attacks on the United States on 9/11. Between that day and June 6, 2012, 6,488 U.S. soldiers were killed in combat in Iraq and Afghanistan, bringing the death toll for America’s war on terror at home and abroad to 9,561. During the same period, 11,766 women were murdered in the United States by their husbands or boyfriends, both military and civilian. The greater number of women killed here at home is a measure of the scope and the furious intensity of the war against women, a war that threatens to continue long after the misconceived war on terror is history.

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http://www.commondreams.org/view/2013/03/21-4

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the war on terror vs the war on women (Original Post) niyad Mar 2013 OP
. . . niyad Mar 2013 #1
And the sooner we make sure most guns are banned and women have to pay Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #2
Are you suggesting that women benefit from the proliferation of guns? NT EOTE Mar 2013 #7
Women will benefit from not having artificial barriers erected Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #12
So that IS what you're suggesting. EOTE Mar 2013 #14
Are you sure you posted the right article you wanted to use as a rebuttal? Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #15
No, I used the right one. EOTE Mar 2013 #16
How would more women choosing to defend themselves bring more guns against them? Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #18
Either gender is much more likely to be killed by a gun than saved by one. EOTE Mar 2013 #20
The FBI says people use guns as much as 2.5 million times a year to defend themselves Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #22
Nothing that you've written negates anything I've had to say. EOTE Mar 2013 #23
From the second article you cited Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #26
Who would want those odds? EOTE Mar 2013 #29
Thank you! Brainstormy Mar 2013 #31
Which is why women in the military are completely safe from rapes, right? jeff47 Mar 2013 #28
They just don't have access to big enough guns. EOTE Mar 2013 #32
Um -- actually gun controls are very strict in the military. Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #33
So women shouldn't sleep? jeff47 Mar 2013 #36
Absolute nonsense. Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #40
So there's 0 rapes among deployed soldiers then, right? jeff47 Mar 2013 #42
Well, as alcohol figures in ~70% of SAs and the linked article noted deployed SAs with 1 for every 3 Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #44
No, you're projecting jeff47 Mar 2013 #45
They are killed by those jointly owned unisex guns marions ghost Mar 2013 #17
What about those who are no longer co-habitating but are being stalked? Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #19
Well she can buy a gun real quick in Virginia (pink one) marions ghost Mar 2013 #46
Yeah because those men would never have a gun. gollygee Mar 2013 #30
You are correct and I think that is due to social conditioning Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #34
No, it's because it's dangerous and difficult for women who are being abused to buy a gun gollygee Mar 2013 #35
Gun zealots think every problem can be solved by a gun Warpy Mar 2013 #39
"Women don't need guns, they need the law to step up and do its job" Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2013 #41
Hyperbole perhaps? nt el_bryanto Mar 2013 #3
understated, actually. niyad Mar 2013 #4
What does the term "War on Woman" mean? nt el_bryanto Mar 2013 #5
In my interpretation, redqueen Mar 2013 #8
Domestic violence occurs on both genders davidn3600 Mar 2013 #37
And murder? Are partners and ex partners murdered in numbers that are in any way similar? redqueen Mar 2013 #38
"there are millions of male victims of domestic violence every year that feminists completely ignore niyad Mar 2013 #49
"feminists completely ignore our concerns" marions ghost Mar 2013 #50
you are exactly correct about that. when I hear "but women aren't paying attention to us" niyad Mar 2013 #51
Far too many women die by the hands of their BFs or spouses aikoaiko Mar 2013 #6
the stats are indeed chilling niyad Mar 2013 #10
K&R redqueen Mar 2013 #9
you are welcome. some of the comments at the end of that article are disgusting and niyad Mar 2013 #11
Pretty standard stuff. redqueen Mar 2013 #21
And you have to assume marions ghost Mar 2013 #13
absolutely correct. which bush crime figure said, "we don't do body counts?" niyad Mar 2013 #24
Rumsfeld marions ghost Mar 2013 #47
thank you. I couldn't remember whether it was him or wolfowitz niyad Mar 2013 #48
The war against women has been going on since... Jasana Mar 2013 #25
you are absolutely correct about that. the war is almost invisible to many. and the ones who niyad Mar 2013 #27
Oh so very well said. nt redqueen Mar 2013 #43
kick for weekend crowd niyad Mar 2013 #52
. . . niyad Mar 2013 #53

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
2. And the sooner we make sure most guns are banned and women have to pay
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 10:00 AM
Mar 2013

exorbitant fees while waiting months to clear bureaucratic hurdles to buy a large, unweildy gun that holds 6 or fewer rounds then those women will be morally superior as they have the life choked out of them by a man twice their size.

It's how God would have wanted it.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
12. Women will benefit from not having artificial barriers erected
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 11:04 AM
Mar 2013

on how to safeguard themselves and their families.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
15. Are you sure you posted the right article you wanted to use as a rebuttal?
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 11:20 AM
Mar 2013
As the panelists argued about whether women should carry guns to protect themselves, Perino cut in and said, “I think it skirts the issue. Women are victims of violence all the time.”

“(They) should have guns!” co-host Greg Gutfeld chimed in.

“Well, or make better decisions,” Perino said.


Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/perino-domestic-violence-vics-better-decisions-article-1.1215389#ixzz2OHXjvuHn


You're trying to make a guilt-by-association fallacy against me but the article shows that Perino more agrees with you when she says, "or make better decisions" as a counter to the suggestion by Gutfield that they arm themselves.

I have yet to hear of a violent person preferring armed opposition.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
16. No, I used the right one.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 11:27 AM
Mar 2013

I don't care for Perino one bit, but the whole argument of women benefiting from more guns is one that only Fox would try to proliferate.

Again, women are FAR more likely to be killed by a gun than saved by one. More guns = more women killed by guns.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
18. How would more women choosing to defend themselves bring more guns against them?
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 11:31 AM
Mar 2013

Those who want to do them harm are not prevented from doing so. We already have a thousand laws on the books and yet the OP remains true. Demanding that good people remain defenseless and hope they can call 911 and not have their oxygen run-out before the police arrive is not an act of kindness on their behalf.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
20. Either gender is much more likely to be killed by a gun than saved by one.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 11:35 AM
Mar 2013

That includes guns which were purchased strictly for defense. This isn't terribly difficult to understand. The U.S. has a gun culture, a very dangerous one. If you don't want to get killed by a gun, your best bet is to stay well away from them.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
22. The FBI says people use guns as much as 2.5 million times a year to defend themselves
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 11:48 AM
Mar 2013

The murder rate is NOT > 2 million people annually; so, I'm not sure what you're basing that statement on. Gun homicides run around 8,000 annually.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
23. Nothing that you've written negates anything I've had to say.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 11:53 AM
Mar 2013

Do you think all those people who die from guns do so from homicide?

http://www.minnpost.com/second-opinion/2012/12/health-risk-having-gun-home

Also, that 2.5 million figure is kind of ridiculous, there are MANY problems with it.

http://www.businessweek.com/articles/2012-12-27/how-often-do-we-use-guns-in-self-defense

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
26. From the second article you cited
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:08 PM
Mar 2013
As with everything else concerning guns in this country, the DGU question prompts divergent answers. At one end of the spectrum, the NRA cites research by Gary Kleck, an accomplished criminologist at Florida State University. Based on self-reporting by survey respondents, Kleck has extrapolated that DGU occurs more than 2 million times a year. Kleck doesn’t suggest that gun owners shoot potential antagonists that often. DGU covers various scenarios, including merely brandishing a weapon and scaring off an aggressor.

At the other end of the spectrum, gun skeptics prefer to cite the work of David Hemenway, an eminent public-health scholar at Harvard University. Hemenway, who analogizes gun violence to an epidemic and guns to the contagion, argues that Kleck’s research significantly overestimates the frequency of DGU.


The person attempting to refute Kleck calls gun incidences an epidemic even though violent crime has been decreasing. Even if Kleck exaggerated by ten-fold that would still make 200,000 prevented crimes to 10,000 gun crimes, i.e. 20:1. Who wouldn't want those odds in a confronation?

I will make my own decisions. I choose to be safe and I choose to defend myself. Any gun I might have is not the problem you seek to address. Why you seek to make demands against me and my family while the criminals carry-on unopposed is beyond me. When you actually propose a sound, practical policy for dealing with violent criminals then you may once again ask me to disarm. Untl then the answer is, "No."

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
29. Who would want those odds?
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:12 PM
Mar 2013

Again, having a gun means you are more likely to die by a gun than someone who doesn't own one. So that means that the very act of owning a gun makes you far more likely to be put into a situation where you might need/want to use it than someone who doesn't own one. Gun owners are their own worst enemy. Owning a gun makes you far more likely to die by a gun than someone who doesn't own one. This really isn't difficult to understand.

And I'm making no demands of you, that's a big, fat strawman. I want there to be far less guns in this country. It is only then that our rate of gun violence will decline and we'll be more in line with the rest of the developed world.

Brainstormy

(2,380 posts)
31. Thank you!
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:13 PM
Mar 2013

and worth saying again:
Women are far more likely to die from guns than to be saved by one .

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
28. Which is why women in the military are completely safe from rapes, right?
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:11 PM
Mar 2013

Or are you going to argue they don't have access to guns?

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
32. They just don't have access to big enough guns.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:13 PM
Mar 2013

Make it mandatory for all military women to carry RPGs wherever the go and that problem will be solved right quick. Of course deaths via RPG will increase significantly, but freedom ain't free.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
33. Um -- actually gun controls are very strict in the military.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:15 PM
Mar 2013

But of the military assaults that o occur how many occurred while the female was carrying her weapon?

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
36. So women shouldn't sleep?
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:39 PM
Mar 2013

A ton of military assaults occur when the woman has reasonable access to her weapon - for example, it's on the other side of the room.

That kind of situation is going to arise very frequently. Roughly once a day. Kinda makes the gun not the solution.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
40. Absolute nonsense.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 01:30 PM
Mar 2013

Non-deployed soldiers do not have ready access to weapons. And as alcohol is a prevailing factor in SAs and alcohol and weapons aren't permitted together so that is further proof that you're just fabricating statements.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
42. So there's 0 rapes among deployed soldiers then, right?
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 01:34 PM
Mar 2013

After all, they've got access to their guns and little-to-no access to alcohol.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
44. Well, as alcohol figures in ~70% of SAs and the linked article noted deployed SAs with 1 for every 3
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 01:38 PM
Mar 2013

non-deployed the figures hold-up. Good grief, now you're just flailing angrily.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
45. No, you're projecting
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 01:43 PM
Mar 2013

Your argument is access to guns is the best way to prevent rapes.

The women with the best access to guns, and the training to use them effectively, suffer more rapes than the civilian population.

You're now busy arguing about alcohol. Yet alcohol does not make a rapist bulletproof.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
17. They are killed by those jointly owned unisex guns
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 11:28 AM
Mar 2013

doncha know.

WOMEN-- ARM YOURSELVES AGAINST YOUR HUSBANDS AND BOYFRIENDS!!!!!!

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
46. Well she can buy a gun real quick in Virginia (pink one)
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 07:46 PM
Mar 2013

and she and the ex-SO can have shootouts in the parking lot of the Food Lion...

Great Idea!!!!

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
30. Yeah because those men would never have a gun.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:12 PM
Mar 2013

/sarcasm btw

Women are threatened and killed by guns by their partners all the time. More than they are able to protect themselves with guns from their partners. I suspect it's easier to protect yourself from a stranger with a gun than from a partner. You have to get it, including getting money for it, and spousal abuse often involves controlling money, and then hide it and keep it hidden with the fear that it could be found and used against you. I suspect women who are in abusive relationships aren't major buyers of guns.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
34. You are correct and I think that is due to social conditioning
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:23 PM
Mar 2013

We're trained to wait for the prince on the White Horse to ride to our rescue to save us from the ogre (Sorry, Shrek! Love yoooou!). If girls were brought-up to see ourselves as determiners of our own destiny I'd hazard a guess there will be damned fewer damsels in distress and probably fewer ogres too.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
35. No, it's because it's dangerous and difficult for women who are being abused to buy a gun
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:30 PM
Mar 2013

In most abusive relationships that I've been aware of, there has been a huge amount of control involved, including financial control. The woman doesn't have enough money to buy a cup of coffee, let alone a gun. And if she DID have the money, she'd have the fear that he would find out she had a gun, which could lead to horrible consequences.

It has nothing to do with women waiting to be rescued. It is about women trying to survive a difficult situation.

Warpy

(111,134 posts)
39. Gun zealots think every problem can be solved by a gun
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 01:17 PM
Mar 2013

Domestic assault is much more complicated than that and in most cases, the perpetrator knows where the gun is and either moves it or just grabs it first.

Women don't need guns, they need the law to step up and do its job.

Men get assaulted in the home, too. Are you suggesting they need to be packing at all times? Both partners in a marriage armed to the teeth just in case?

Great way to live, buster.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
41. "Women don't need guns, they need the law to step up and do its job"
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 01:34 PM
Mar 2013

And the history of that is -- ???

What's wrong with letting women decide for themselves? "The law" has shown itself to have failed at prevention by the time "the law" gets involved. That's not zealotry, that's fact. You aren't interested in stopping anything you just want to control people with worthless schemes so you can feel like you did something. If criminals have easy access to the drugs what makes you think they'll give up their guns just because you took away some woman's right to self-defense?

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
8. In my interpretation,
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 10:48 AM
Mar 2013

It is referring to the fact that the pandemic of male violence against women is still treated as if it is an inescapable fact of life. If these numbers reflected almost any other reality (except poverty related statistics) there would be a hell of a lot more awareness. Poverty is another issue which many treat as a problem that can never be solved.

Society treats women with contempt. It is thoroughly patriarchal and misogynist.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
37. Domestic violence occurs on both genders
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:55 PM
Mar 2013

You act as if there is some grand conspiracy among all men to beat up their wives and girlfriends and keep them in line. That's complete bullcrap. There are millions of male victims of domestic violence every year that the feminists completely ignore.

We need to stop being gender-specific with these domestic violence awareness and assistance programs. These programs and legislation we have now all promote the idea that all men are abusers and all women are victims.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
38. And murder? Are partners and ex partners murdered in numbers that are in any way similar?
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 01:03 PM
Mar 2013

No. But you go on and preach about domestic violence some more. Domestic violence against men is a problem worthy of discussion, but you're using it as a distraction. Be proud.

I bet you didn't even read the linked piece.

niyad

(113,049 posts)
49. "there are millions of male victims of domestic violence every year that feminists completely ignore
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 09:56 PM
Mar 2013

please provide links from legitimate, reliable sources to back up that claim, and then be good enough to look at that statistics for female victims of domestic violence which society seems so adept at ignoring. and then, perhaps you could tell us what you are doing to help eliminate the problem all across the board.

most of us can count down almost to the second the "what about the MEN?" whine, whenever there is an issue that affects primarily women, with a small percentage of men.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
50. "feminists completely ignore our concerns"
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 08:29 AM
Mar 2013

...is what I'm hearing too. And men do not get their needs met by feminists. (What a buncha...) Some men just can't imagine what a better world it would be-- for everybody-- if women were not "otherized." (To use a blanket term). It has benefits for them, they just don't get that tho.

Real men don't feel the need to throw out empty taunts.

niyad

(113,049 posts)
51. you are exactly correct about that. when I hear "but women aren't paying attention to us"
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 09:33 AM
Mar 2013

my response is, "you mean, the way men haven't been paying attention for a couple of thousand years?"

aikoaiko

(34,162 posts)
6. Far too many women die by the hands of their BFs or spouses
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 10:39 AM
Mar 2013

... even though the base rates are very different for death rate stat. There are only a 100,000 service men and women engaged in warfare, but there over a 100 million women in this country.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
9. K&R
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 10:52 AM
Mar 2013

Thank you.

I am sick to death of seeing the news of women murdered by their exes and partners being treated like background noise.

niyad

(113,049 posts)
11. you are welcome. some of the comments at the end of that article are disgusting and
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 10:59 AM
Mar 2013

disheartening.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
21. Pretty standard stuff.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 11:40 AM
Mar 2013

You can pretty much expect those responses to this kind of information. Silencing tactics, derailing, etc. So sadly predictable.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
47. Rumsfeld
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 09:01 PM
Mar 2013

RUMSFELD: Well, we don't do body counts on other people. And we have certain rules on people we capture, in terms of exposing them to the public, Geneva Conventions and the like.

Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,101956,00.html#ixzz2OJvA3zpW

Jasana

(490 posts)
25. The war against women has been going on since...
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:06 PM
Mar 2013

Eve supposedly ate that damn apple. If you considered what happens to women worldwide, it would make the the stats the OP posted look pathetic. This frakking war against women has been going on so long, we barely notice it.

I believe the only way most women exist in this world is by having blinders on. There's 100 percent blinders all the way down to 10 percent blinders and for those women who completely rip the blinders off, this world is a truly horrifying and disgusting place. Many women and girls can not even trust their own fathers and mothers to keep them safe. If that's not truly horrifying and disgusting then I don't know what is.

niyad

(113,049 posts)
27. you are absolutely correct about that. the war is almost invisible to many. and the ones who
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:10 PM
Mar 2013

see it for what it is, are generally treated as though they are insane, or making it up, or exaggerating.

and, when that war is within our own homes, it is truly horrifying.

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