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WilliamPitt

(58,179 posts)
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:21 PM Mar 2013

Michelle Shocked attempts apology for slinging hateful slurs, instead deploys Epic Fail #2

"When I said... 'Michelle Shocked says God hates (slur for homosexuals),' I was predicting the absurd way my description of, my apology for, the intolerant would no doubt be misinterpreted," she said.

Of course. It's the fault of all those insulted people who heard her and walked out of the show.

"But I am damn sorry," she said. "If I could repeat the evening, I would make a clearer distinction between a set of beliefs I abhor, and my human sympathy for the folks who hold them."

This backtracking may have something to do with how many venues and festivals have canceled Shocked's concerts. So far, clubs in Novato, Santa Cruz, Boulder, and Chicago have all canceled her shows, as has the Telluride Bluegrass Festival.


The rest: http://www.mercurynews.com/celebrities/ci_22834229/hicks-michelle-shocked-backs-off-anti-gay-comments

I was given to understand that she has been dealing with some fairly severe mental issues, which led me to feel sorry for her more than anything after what she did. When an illness causes someone to spew hate, I feel pity more than anger.

But this non-apology-it's-really-your-fault "apology" is pretty much right out of the RNC playbook. Now I'm just disgusted.
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Michelle Shocked attempts apology for slinging hateful slurs, instead deploys Epic Fail #2 (Original Post) WilliamPitt Mar 2013 OP
I'm convinced she has some serious mental health issues n2doc Mar 2013 #1
She makes no sense at all, at this point. Jamastiene Mar 2013 #23
her publicity stunt still working? RedstDem Mar 2013 #2
One seldom cooks up publicity that will ruin one's livelihood. HERVEPA Mar 2013 #4
dammit RedstDem Mar 2013 #6
I find her explainations very passive-aggressive, ambiguous, contrarian, devilgrrl Mar 2013 #3
I'm quite sure that the only reason she says she's sorry is cuz she is losing a bunch of cash. nt Zorra Mar 2013 #5
Exactly. Jamastiene Mar 2013 #14
Why should anyone apologize for something they did not, in fact, do? cthulu2016 Mar 2013 #7
Congrats, you are the first DUer I've seen who actually understood it tkmorris Mar 2013 #10
If you listen to the audio, she said she shared the feelings of those who Jamastiene Mar 2013 #13
Exactly. Zorra Mar 2013 #20
Hadn't heard the audio, merely read a transcript tkmorris Mar 2013 #22
That is a very creepy rhetorical game cthulu2016 Mar 2013 #24
There is no misrepresentation at all. This is verbatim what she said: Jamastiene Mar 2013 #25
Hello, folks, it's time to play "Blame the Victims!". Zorra Mar 2013 #27
She's been saying stuff like this for awhile Lex Mar 2013 #15
Yeah, she wasn't being sardonic when she said Chiyo-chichi Mar 2013 #16
She has been saying homophobic crap for years now. Jamastiene Mar 2013 #11
"once Proposition 8 is instated and preachers are forced to marry homosexuals Zorra Mar 2013 #19
nonsense noiretextatique Mar 2013 #21
First rule of holes: lapislzi Mar 2013 #8
I would recommend... RevStPatrick Mar 2013 #9
No idea who she is. Rex Mar 2013 #12
These days, social media sinks people pretty quickly who have gotten away with Lex Mar 2013 #17
And that, she has. Jamastiene Mar 2013 #18
I guess I am officially a fuddy duddy geezer. I have no idea who Michelle Shocked is. yellowcanine Mar 2013 #26
You're not a geezer. Twenty somethings probably have no idea who she is either. senseandsensibility Mar 2013 #28

n2doc

(47,953 posts)
1. I'm convinced she has some serious mental health issues
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:23 PM
Mar 2013

I hope she gets help. She sounds completely delusional and irrational.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
23. She makes no sense at all, at this point.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 03:34 PM
Mar 2013
http://www.spin.com/articles/michelle-shocked-gay-rant-apology-interview

The entire interview is rambling and she dodges every question asked, even though every question in this interview was asked with kid gloves. The interviewer literally coddled her and gave her every chance to speak her mind. If she spoke her mind in that interview, I highly doubt many people will understand her at all. It is disjointed, rambling, and makes no sense at all. I get the strong feeling she is not seeing reality at all. She keeps talking about truth and reality a lot, but seems to completely throw reality away when someone mentions it to her. It's very strange.

She has a history of making homophobic comments though. So, I wasn't shocked at all hearing the audio file of what happened at Yoshi's. I do think other than her homophobia, she has something strange going on in her head, not healthy either.
 

RedstDem

(1,239 posts)
2. her publicity stunt still working?
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:25 PM
Mar 2013

she's obviously an idiot, but when it comes to drumming up a buzz, she's got know how.
I don't know who she is and hopefully this dies down so I don't need to find out.

 

RedstDem

(1,239 posts)
6. dammit
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:42 PM
Mar 2013

you want me to know who this person is and what they do.
well no.
as long as they suffer the consequences for spouting hate, then it will handle itself.

I still have no idea who this ugly person is.
I take pride in my ignorance..lol

devilgrrl

(21,318 posts)
3. I find her explainations very passive-aggressive, ambiguous, contrarian,
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 12:29 PM
Mar 2013

ridiculous.

Glad I was never a fan.

cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
7. Why should anyone apologize for something they did not, in fact, do?
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 01:25 PM
Mar 2013

Last edited Fri Mar 22, 2013, 03:12 PM - Edit history (1)

"When I said... 'Michelle Shocked says God hates (slur for homosexuals),' I was predicting the absurd way my description of, my apology for, the intolerant would no doubt be misinterpreted," she said.


That is an accurate description of what she said.

Should she pretend she said something different for the purpose of then apologizing for it?

If someone wants to talk about other things she has said that's fine, but she did, as a factual matter, in the incident in question, say "god hates fags" as a characterization of how her other comments would be distorted on twitter.

tkmorris

(11,138 posts)
10. Congrats, you are the first DUer I've seen who actually understood it
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:00 PM
Mar 2013

I really don't want to be in the position of defending Michelle here but her remarks have been dramatically misinterpreted in the pile-on frenzy. That remark was entirely sardonic.

I am not surprised that people who have don't know her work and have never seen her perform jump to the conclusion that she was being literal. She wasn't. I can't prove that to anyone and won't bother to try, but I know it's true nonetheless.

Having said that, she has COMPLETELY blown it with this incident. She should have immediately picked up on the fact that what she was trying to say to her audience was not really coming across the way she intended. She could have corrected the impression immediately instead of just trying to play it off, and issuing a few cryptic tweets in the aftermath certainly hasn't helped her seem any less nuts. She seemingly is only now realizing that this is, in fact, a big deal.

Michelle has a serious problem but it isn't homophobia. It's ego.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
13. If you listen to the audio, she said she shared the feelings of those who
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:12 PM
Mar 2013

believe that. She was not misrepresented or misunderstood. She's been making these types of anti-gay comments for several years now.

In 2008, she said she was the "world's worst homophobe."
http://www.xojane.com/issues/on-my-confrontation-with-homophobe-michelle-shocked

http://www.edgedallas.com/index.php?ch=entertainment&sc=music&sc3=&id=73235&pf=1

This is a pattern with her. She wasn't the least bit misunderstood or misrepresented.

Here is the actual audio where she says she agrees with those who hate gay people:
http://littleaustralia.blogspot.com.au/2013/03/michelle-shocked-audio-of-rant-lying-in.html

tkmorris

(11,138 posts)
22. Hadn't heard the audio, merely read a transcript
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:51 PM
Mar 2013

Thanks for that link. I retract what I said. I think there was a more nuanced point in there she was trying to make but it doesn't matter. She's lost her bloody mind. I mean that rather literally, she sounds like she's losing her grip on reality.

cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
24. That is a very creepy rhetorical game
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 03:35 PM
Mar 2013
If you listen to the audio, she said she shared the feelings of those who believe that.


No, she did not. The primary "feelings" expressed by the phrase "god hates fags" are raw hatred and raw intolerance.

You can characterize her feelings yourself. You can say, "As far as I am concerned there is no difference between any anti-gay position and saying 'god hates fags.'

That would be your characterization, to which you are entitled. And it might be valid. And I might generally agree with it.

And there is no doubt that she has religious objections to same-sex anything. That has been known for some time.

Bu to say that she said she "shared the feelings" in the way you meant it is just not true... false in spirit and literally false as well since her whole dumb rap was about her trying to separate what she thinks from that phrase denotes.


If you want to say something, say it honestly.

Is Michelle Shocked a homophobe? Yes.

Are people having tons of fun with the patently false claim that she said 'god hates fags' as an expression of her feelings about GLBTQ?

Yes. And it's sick. I's like a Romney commercial. I is willfully representing someone's overt expression of what they do not think as a statement of what they do think.

There ought to be some way to call out an avowedly anti-gay person without resorting to deception.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
25. There is no misrepresentation at all. This is verbatim what she said:
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 03:40 PM
Mar 2013

"I was in a prayer meeting yesterday, and you've gotta appreciate how scared, how scared folks on that side of the equation are. I mean, I mean, from their vantage point - and I really shouldn't say "their," cuz it's mine too, um, we are at nearly at the end of time. And, from our vantage point, uh, w're gonna be, uh, I think maybe Chinese water torture is gonna be the means, the method, once Prop 8 gets instated, and once, um, preachers are held at gunpoint, and forced to marry the homosexuals, I'm pretty sure that that will be the signal for Jesus to come on back."

It doesn't get any more honest than directly quoting from the audio, exactly what she said.
http://littleaustralia.blogspot.com.au/2013/03/michelle-shocked-audio-of-rant-lying-in.html

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
27. Hello, folks, it's time to play "Blame the Victims!".
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 04:25 PM
Mar 2013

Seems to me that you are the one playing the creepy rhetorical games.

It's not a patently false claim that she hates LGBT persons.

'If she had said, "once Proposition 8 is instated and preachers are forced to marry blacks at gunpoint", would that not be a pretty clear indication of raw hatred and raw intolerance, a clear indication that she hated black people?

We get this shit all the time. Homophobia runs real deep, and easily hides in plain sight. Things that people say about us are ok, and not really indications of raw hatred, and intolerance, because, after all, we're only the *wink, snicker* teh gays.

We're all totally fucking sick of it, and totally sick of homophobe apologists as well.

And BTW, "Hate the sin, not the sinner" is our very favorite old standard bullshit line from religious bigots who hate us and say it at the exact same time that they are blatantly trying to justify preventing us from having the same equal human rights as everyone else.

Lex

(34,108 posts)
15. She's been saying stuff like this for awhile
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:14 PM
Mar 2013

but this time she said it in front of more folks who then used social media to get the word out.

Chiyo-chichi

(3,574 posts)
16. Yeah, she wasn't being sardonic when she said
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:15 PM
Mar 2013

that preachers being forced to perform marriages for homosexuals would be the cue for Jesus to come again.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
11. She has been saying homophobic crap for years now.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:09 PM
Mar 2013

At least since 2008, she has been saying homophobic stuff. So, this is not out of character for her in recent years, nor was she misunderstood. She believes the crap she said. She even said so in the audio. She said she shared their views. She was not misunderstood the first time and her apology is a non-apology.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
19. "once Proposition 8 is instated and preachers are forced to marry homosexuals
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:21 PM
Mar 2013

at gunpoint'.

She readily admits that she is an anti-marriage equality religious bigot.

What more do you need to know?

The irony here is that she apparently does not even have the slightest clue that she is a raging bigot, compounded by the fact that she does not even know that Proposition 8 was an anti-lgbt measure sponsored and paid for primarily by ignorant religious bigots like herself.

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
21. nonsense
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:29 PM
Mar 2013

i don't believe her b.s. justification for a minute. then there's the other problem: this is not the first time she's said this.

Lex

(34,108 posts)
17. These days, social media sinks people pretty quickly who have gotten away with
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:16 PM
Mar 2013

stuff like this for a while under the radar.



Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
18. And that, she has.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 02:18 PM
Mar 2013

At least since 2008, she has been making homophobic remarks and even going so far as to say she is "the world's biggest homophobe." She's not fooling me, one.bit.

yellowcanine

(35,695 posts)
26. I guess I am officially a fuddy duddy geezer. I have no idea who Michelle Shocked is.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 04:00 PM
Mar 2013

Maybe I should keep it that way.

senseandsensibility

(16,933 posts)
28. You're not a geezer. Twenty somethings probably have no idea who she is either.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 04:33 PM
Mar 2013

She's from the 90's, I think.

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