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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy 2 caretakers-Tater and Moonpie:
Tater and MoonpieThey are doing their best to help me out in their own kitten way. They employ different methods of therapy.
One method is the tried and true "snuggles and cuddles."
Another method is to race around the apartment at 200 paws/hr at any moment. My bed is part of the NASCAT race course. I asked how this helped, and they gave me the side-eye and said,"Can't hurt."
A third method is to overturn objects or make mysterious noises in different areas. Thus actually is a good method because it makes me get up and move.
I miss Mousie and Scat so much. Something will catch my eye and I'll just start to cry. I know it will get better as time passes.
Sigh.......
shenmue
(38,506 posts)Squee!
TexasProgresive
(12,157 posts)They know that they can't replace Mousie and Scat but they are the best grief counselors around. I would be really sad if not for Lovey in the house and our 3 sweet boys that live outside. (I wish they could come in but Lovey is extremely territorial)
It does get better. I still miss my sweet Angel Kitty but now I enjoy memories of him and don't feel so much pain. It's amazing how these kitties worm their way into our hearts and lives.
Triana
(22,666 posts)I know you miss Mousie and Scat. But Tater & Moonpie are doing their best to help your heart smile anyway. They're adorable!
malaise
(268,854 posts)was your first step to recovery from losing Mousie and then Scat.
smallcat88
(426 posts)Silver died in '06 I swore I wouldn't get any more because it just hurt too much when they died. I had been through it 3 times already. Held fast for 2 years until this scrawny little cat appeared on my porch and adopted me whether I wanted a cat or not. She had kittens, found homes for 4 and kept 2. Weird thing is Kira, the mother, reminded me a lot of a cat I had from age 12-28. And the 2 kittens I kept showed a lot of personality similarities to Shadow and Silver, my other 2. I started to wonder if maybe my babies had come back to me (yes, I believe in reincarnation). Okay, probably just wishful thinking, and I know I'm going to go through it all again four more times (another kitten showed up on the porch 2 years ago). But they are my babies, I wouldn't give them up for the world.
As much as losing them hurts, I've come to realize that the sheer joy of their presence is worth it.
joanbarnes
(1,722 posts)tblue37
(65,273 posts)just beginning to adjust to these two interlopers.
I am so sorry that you suffered two such devastating losses so close together.
I am glad you have these precious babies to help you, though--especially since you have also helped them and kept them together.
On edit: Perhaps I am remembering wrong. I have been reading your posts when they pop up in GD or in "Latest," but I don't often make it to the Lounge. If I got the details wrong, I am sorry. But I thought you had posted something about Scat adjusting to the new babies after a period of grieving for her lost pal.
Are_grits_groceries
(17,111 posts)She and Mousie gone in 2 months. My sweet buddies......
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)LiberalLoner
(9,761 posts)oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)Give them scratches and love pats for me. And give yourself a hug. You are on your way.
matt819
(10,749 posts)What more can you ask from your kitties?
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)Look at those little faces --
I'm glad you have some little buddies to help you out.