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arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 09:13 PM Jun 2014

GOODBYE FRIENDS AND FOES ALIKE

this is not a hate this place goodbye. I wish all of you the best. But real life is closing in and I am going to spend all my time trying to deal with what remains. Be kind to one another and especially yourselves.

Adios

Arely

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GOODBYE FRIENDS AND FOES ALIKE (Original Post) arely staircase Jun 2014 OP
.. Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 #1
Be kind to yourself. Boomerproud Jun 2014 #2
best wishes think Jun 2014 #3
Best wishes Gothmog Jun 2014 #4
good luck, arely and come back when you can. :D roguevalley Jun 2014 #5
I Wish You Wouldn't... Just Take A Break... WillyT Jun 2014 #6
Arely, I know we've often been at odds here, but Jackpine Radical Jun 2014 #7
We'll keep the light burning for you. greatauntoftriplets Jun 2014 #8
All The Best In Your Travels cantbeserious Jun 2014 #9
Best wishes. rhett o rick Jun 2014 #10
we'll leave the key under the doormat tomm2thumbs Jun 2014 #11
I know what you mean about real life closing in... awoke_in_2003 Jun 2014 #12
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you can get help from other sources, that is a lot to take on. okaawhatever Jun 2014 #24
She did that junk in her teens... awoke_in_2003 Jun 2014 #26
I hope you will take the time to get help for yourself first. I know it sounds counter-intuitive but okaawhatever Jun 2014 #29
so far, informal... awoke_in_2003 Jun 2014 #30
That's good i'm glad you have help for the legal side of things. It will be tough going i'm sure but okaawhatever Jun 2014 #40
I am the legal guardian for my 2 grandson, ages 8 & 11. It's hard but I sure love having them OregonBlue Jun 2014 #76
Oh, god that is awful. R. Daneel Olivaw Jun 2014 #54
Thanks awoke_in_2003 Jun 2014 #57
Damn. That's a heavy load to carry, awoke. calimary Jun 2014 #85
thank cali awoke_in_2003 Jun 2014 #91
Good night and good luck. ohnoyoudidnt Jun 2014 #13
best of luck, arely staircase fishwax Jun 2014 #14
Best wishes Doctor_J Jun 2014 #15
Take care, arely. Uncle Joe Jun 2014 #16
Good for you and all the best! babylonsister Jun 2014 #17
May fair winds fill your sails always, arely. nt ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2014 #18
Aw. Iggo Jun 2014 #19
It's been good to know you struggle4progress Jun 2014 #20
Best wishes arely. Kingofalldems Jun 2014 #21
Best wishes. I will miss you and look forward to your return. mountain grammy Jun 2014 #22
Arely, you will be missed. longship Jun 2014 #23
Take good care. yewberry Jun 2014 #25
Happy Trails. nt navarth Jun 2014 #27
I look forward to your return. Codeine Jun 2014 #28
May your life get a lot easier soon. Peace. n/t veness Jun 2014 #31
Come back for the elections--that's when it gets fun! MADem Jun 2014 #32
This. joshcryer Jun 2014 #36
Take care and please come back and visit. octoberlib Jun 2014 #33
Take care of yourself. 840high Jun 2014 #34
Be well. I wish you the best. morningfog Jun 2014 #35
Well wishes Liberalynn Jun 2014 #37
Sweet of you to say Goodby, arely.. I'm going to miss you! Cha Jun 2014 #38
Darlin', whatever this is about, I've loved your posts n/t UTUSN Jun 2014 #39
Best wishes and good luck!!! Kaleva Jun 2014 #41
Best wishes, arely ProSense Jun 2014 #42
Take care of yourself. Hope to see your posts again soon. SunSeeker Jun 2014 #43
We'll leave the light on for you. Hekate Jun 2014 #44
We'll keep your stuff in the basement jberryhill Jun 2014 #45
Nice to see another Moz fan. Hold onto your friends. Puzzledtraveller Jun 2014 #46
I hope you come back. bravenak Jun 2014 #47
Wishing you the best! tandot Jun 2014 #48
Take care ismnotwasm Jun 2014 #49
hoping real life gets on track. BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2014 #50
Barely knew ya Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2014 #51
hugs arely. sheshe2 Jun 2014 #52
Fair winds. Be well nt Mojorabbit Jun 2014 #53
Don't say bye, say see you later. Half-Century Man Jun 2014 #55
Loveya, arely. Enjoy what remains. freshwest Jun 2014 #56
summer break ? JI7 Jun 2014 #58
I sent you a pm. I hope your back soon my friend. hrmjustin Jun 2014 #59
Vaya con dios...may the hereafter greet you as a friend. (n/t) Moostache Jun 2014 #60
Take care 2naSalit Jun 2014 #61
hang in there Tsiyu Jun 2014 #62
Wishing you the best RainDog Jun 2014 #63
adios and peace to you and yours heaven05 Jun 2014 #64
Good luck to you LoisB Jun 2014 #65
Never forget that tomorrow is another day, and that time can heal Zorra Jun 2014 #66
Au revoir. Laelth Jun 2014 #67
Goodbye, arley. I know how you feel. Eleanors38 Jun 2014 #68
Catch cha' on the rebound! DeSwiss Jun 2014 #69
You're always welcome wherever I'm at, arely staircase. Octafish Jun 2014 #70
Kick ass and take names libodem Jun 2014 #71
be strong PowerToThePeople Jun 2014 #72
I know how you feel. kentuck Jun 2014 #73
All the very best to you, arely staircase. Know your return will be welcomed. n/t Jefferson23 Jun 2014 #74
Best of luck to you Aerows Jun 2014 #75
((arely)) blm Jun 2014 #77
Best wishes to you... Dr Hobbitstein Jun 2014 #78
Adios y buena suerte. Beacool Jun 2014 #79
You will honestly be missed..... Rowdyboy Jun 2014 #80
Good luck to you blkmusclmachine Jun 2014 #81
bye arley!!!! hope you can come back later Peacetrain Jun 2014 #82
All the best. This is not the DU I remember. Faygo Kid Jun 2014 #83
I'll miss you Cali_Democrat Jun 2014 #84
We'll miss you, but real life certainly can be like that. calimary Jun 2014 #86
Wishing you the best. Solly Mack Jun 2014 #87
I don't know you, but I support you more than you'll ever know. AAO Jun 2014 #88
When you no longer feel so lost, please return. randome Jun 2014 #89
I understand. Take care of yourself. glinda Jun 2014 #90

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
7. Arely, I know we've often been at odds here, but
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 09:23 PM
Jun 2014

only over means and not over ends.

I have never doubted your goodwill and dedication to the cause of advancing human welfare. I think we would like each other if we were to meet in the real world.

I'll miss you. Come back when you can.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
12. I know what you mean about real life closing in...
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 09:28 PM
Jun 2014

I am taking my grandchildren in, as I think my stepdaughter is doing herion again. Sometimes I think I am going to snap.

okaawhatever

(9,461 posts)
24. I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you can get help from other sources, that is a lot to take on.
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 10:05 PM
Jun 2014

I'll hold a good thought for you.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
26. She did that junk in her teens...
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 10:08 PM
Jun 2014

I got her cleaned up when she was 16. Of course, she went the easy way (methadone). Now that she is back to doing it, I think she needs to do it the old fashioned way- strapped to a bed. I am so angry with what she exposed my grandchildren to, I just don't know what to do. It is hard always being everybody's rock.

okaawhatever

(9,461 posts)
29. I hope you will take the time to get help for yourself first. I know it sounds counter-intuitive but
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 10:11 PM
Jun 2014

you're the foundation and if you're not strong everything else loses out anyway. You deserve help and I hope you fight to get it. Will the grandchildren be going through the courts or will this be an informal thing? (if you don't mind me asking)

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
30. so far, informal...
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 10:13 PM
Jun 2014

she is smart enough to know what I will do if the kids aren't with me. I am lawyered up, and have a friend in CPS.

okaawhatever

(9,461 posts)
40. That's good i'm glad you have help for the legal side of things. It will be tough going i'm sure but
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 10:50 PM
Jun 2014

many of us here at DU are at the other end of the internet if you want to vent.

OregonBlue

(7,754 posts)
76. I am the legal guardian for my 2 grandson, ages 8 & 11. It's hard but I sure love having them
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 02:18 PM
Jun 2014

with me where I know they are safe. It's been almost 2 years for me and we are finally into a routine. The kids get to see their parents often but they are safer just staying with me. I am resigned to raising them and just hope my kids will get their act together. I'm not so hopeful but I love them anyway.

Try to get some rest and don't take on your daughter-in-laws recovery. She has to do that for herself.

Email me if you want to talk.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
57. Thanks
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 11:59 PM
Jun 2014

It will be hectic- the wife gets knee replacement on the 17th and the next 4 weeks later. I will have an 11 and 4 year old, plus a 7 month old in the house.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
85. Damn. That's a heavy load to carry, awoke.
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 07:46 PM
Jun 2014

As okaawhatever puts it - we're here to vent if you ever need it. Don't forget that. Our own Skittles once put it in a way I just love: "someone's always here."

Uncle Joe

(58,352 posts)
16. Take care, arely.
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 09:36 PM
Jun 2014

I hope things turn out well for you and yours.

Come back when you're ready.

Peace to you.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
28. I look forward to your return.
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 10:10 PM
Jun 2014

You're one of my favorite posters, even when we disagree.

We'll see you in the future, when all's well.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
47. I hope you come back.
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 11:17 PM
Jun 2014

I remember when you were watching Breaking Bad, i believe thats what it was on Netflicks. I enjoyed that thread and learned things about the interests of other posters. Good times.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
51. Barely knew ya
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 11:31 PM
Jun 2014

since I'm so new here, but you struck me as thoughtful. I hope if the 'what time remains' is a reference to looming mortality that you remember to pack every remaining minute full of worthwhile activity. Luck.

2naSalit

(86,565 posts)
61. Take care
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 02:21 AM
Jun 2014

and may joyful times be with you until the time comes. I suspect you'll be remembered fondly for a long time by many, myself included.

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
70. You're always welcome wherever I'm at, arely staircase.
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 01:26 PM
Jun 2014

Even if we disagree, you're TOPS!

Take all the time you need. Please come back when things are all right.

Take care, too, my Friend!

libodem

(19,288 posts)
71. Kick ass and take names
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 01:32 PM
Jun 2014

Please return when all the ass is kicked and the names are taken. Hope it is soon. Damn life getting in the way!

Peacetrain

(22,875 posts)
82. bye arley!!!! hope you can come back later
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 07:32 PM
Jun 2014

I took quite a sabbatical myself.. close to two years.. and am not in very much now..but it was the right thing to do!! Yep sometimes real life calls and you have no option but to answer..

Faygo Kid

(21,478 posts)
83. All the best. This is not the DU I remember.
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 07:45 PM
Jun 2014

Been here since 2002, and what this is now is a site where posters try to "one up" one another in dissing the posts. The politics hardly even matter anymore; it's how smug you can be in criticizing someone who posts here. About had it, and I was once an optimist.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
86. We'll miss you, but real life certainly can be like that.
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 07:48 PM
Jun 2014

It's the most demanding and jealous of one's attention, imaginable! Just know we're here and you are still here in our thoughts and our hearts!

Sending hugs!



 

randome

(34,845 posts)
89. When you no longer feel so lost, please return.
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 08:12 PM
Jun 2014

[hr][font color="blue"][center]There is nothing you can't do if you put your mind to it.
Nothing.
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