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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI saved a woman's life without a weapon~and the same night a cop saved mine also without brandishing
Its a long story, but my neighbor was about to shoot his wife in the face. When I walked in she was sitting in the corner sobbing for her life with her hands in front of her face hoping to shield herself from the rifle. He was bearing down on her and it was, to say the least, a volatile situation. I tried talking him down, but he was ramped up. Women who have faced an abuser knows that crazed look in their eye.
Long story short, I kept him from shooting her until the police arrived. When they got there an officer got me out. As I left the house, I began to leave the porch in the normal manner which would have had me walk in-front of the window of the room where my armed to the teeth neighbor was. Just as I began to walk in front of the window, another cop grabbed my arm and whispered, "this way", indicating to jump the rail in the other direction. Just as I did as he instructed, my neighbor shot through the window where he expected me to be~almost hitting a state trooper.
After another half an hour or so of a stand-off, the local sheriff got neighbor to surrender himself without any injuries.
Just thought that I would share this. Saving someone's life more often then not requires a clear mind, not necessarily a weapon.
TorchTheWitch
(11,065 posts)Hope you're doing ok after all that.
me b zola
(19,053 posts)But I moved out of Missouri shortly after that and never looked back.
TorchTheWitch
(11,065 posts)I hope his wife didn't take him back or he didn't go after her again later.
me b zola
(19,053 posts)~but she took him back before he ever went to trial. The police allowed him to call her at work. So she went from thanking me for saving her life to sitting next to him in court within a few short weeks.
The State Trooper who had that bullet wiz past his head was confused and pissed off as the prosecutor acted more like a defense attorney. He was never even charged with attempted murder, and that was extremely hurtful, as if my life or that of the Trooper, didn't matter.
Small town USA doesn't really believe in prosecuting spousal abuse.
PumpkinAle
(1,210 posts)kudos to you. Glad you are okay and now away from the area.
Warpy
(111,175 posts)I hope your armed to the teeth neighbor is relieved of his guns and gets some therapy. I also hope his wife leaves his sorry ass while he's doing it. If she stays, he will kill her.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)rustydog
(9,186 posts)good guy with a gun. Life is a bit more complicated than a catch-phrase.
All snarkiness aside, what you did was amazing and heroic by any definition or measure. And yes, sometimes a clear mind, not a clear shot can end dangerous situations.
Uncle Joe
(58,300 posts)Thanks for sharing me b zola.