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NEW YORK (CBSNewYork/AP) A 14-year-old boy was fatally stabbed outside of a school in the Bronx on Wednesday, and a boy of the same age has been taken into custody and charged with murder.
The suspect, Noel Estevez of the Bronx, was charged as an adult with second-degree murder and manslaughter late Wednesday night, police said.
But as CBS 2s Hazel Sanchez reported, neighbors and family friends said the alleged assailant had been the victim of bullying, and one even argued that the teen who was arrested was in the right.
It was for self-defense! said family friend Marisol Perez. It was self-defense what he did!
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http://newyork.cbslocal.com/2014/06/18/teen-student-stabbed-outside-school-in-the-bronx/
RKP5637
(67,104 posts)get the red out
(13,461 posts)It could have been me wielding the knife 30+ years ago. I am fortunate that it wasn't. I understand what it feels like to be bullied, a person can completely lose their wits from constant abuse.
RKP5637
(67,104 posts)DinahMoeHum
(21,784 posts)n/t
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)Howard Fast wrote that he used to get beat up and harrassed by some kids, and one day he got confronted by them, went back into his house and came out with an 8 inch steak knife and told them "if you ever touch me again, I will kill you".
Better though, to just make the threat rather than do the actual stabbing.
Lancero
(3,003 posts)Last edited Thu Jun 19, 2014, 11:48 AM - Edit history (1)
And you say it's a case of self defense?
Despicable. This place falls even further every time I look.
RKP5637
(67,104 posts)ieoeja
(9,748 posts)Lancero
(3,003 posts)Also, I read it. Here's a few parts that stood out to me.
There was two people fighting and one just pulled out a knife and stabbed him. He stopped, and he went back, and he just dropped to the floor and started bleeding. And then the security guard and all of them just came and tried to help him, and they brought the boy with the knife into the school.
The security put his gloves on and he started to help him. And then a teacher went to her car, and she got a towel so they could stop the bleeding, added witness Jaylene Then.
Police said he was stabbed multiple times.
It was self-defense what he did!
As for Crump, he was supposed to graduate from the eighth grade next week. But now, his family has begun planning his funeral.
Stabbing someone multiple times, murdering A CHILD, is NOT self-defense.
ieoeja
(9,748 posts)Here's a few parts that stood out to me.
Added another neighbor, Marisol Perez, told Silverman: He told his father they were still bullying him. And he came to school today, and look what happened.
He did it because he was scared, Perez added. He say, If I dont do it, theyre going to kill me.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)suicide two weeks ago because of the bullying. When you are at the point where you are attempting to kill yourself because of bullying, you get hospitalized and the very day you get back you get beaten again, I'm pretty sure to a 14 year old it seemed like he had nothing to lose.
Have some compassion for the child that was being bullied, too.
Orrex
(63,203 posts)Response to Orrex (Reply #56)
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Orrex
(63,203 posts)The entire point of my post is that the victim--the dead victim--won't get the chance to recover.
DU demonstrates again and again that no point is so obvious that someone won't find a way to miss it. Well done.
Lancero
(3,003 posts)You are grateful that the bullied child will have a chance to recover.
These were your exact words. Pretty clear meaning. If you meant something else, you should have said it.
Orrex
(63,203 posts)Notice I rather specifically didn't call the bullied child "the victim."
Sometimes a lot more can be said by omission.
And sometimes it will sail right over the reader's head, as is the case here.
Lancero
(3,003 posts)Bullied Teen stab's and kills tormenter.
Given that this topic is about the actions of a bullied teen, then it's a good bet that anyone saying 'bullied teen' or 'bullied child' will be referring to this person.
It's little things like this you need to look out for. You need to be clear in a post, and remove chances of confusion. Given the topic title, your choice of words - Rather the exact person you are referring to - is rather confusing.
Orrex
(63,203 posts)In your zeal to demonstrate your righteousness, you're actually attacking one of the people whose opinion on this matter aligns with yours? Do you win a lot of allies like that?
You need to rethink how you pick your battles.
Lancero
(3,003 posts)As I've said, in context using the words 'bullied child' refer to the one who did the murder, and not the child who was murdered.
I've pointed out how easy it is for your 'true' meaning to be confused for something else. If you are referring to the child who was murdered, and not his killer, then you can edit that post for clarification.
tblue37
(65,336 posts)was that whereas the bullied child will have a chance to recover, the dead child will not.
He was assuming everyone would catch the obvious sarcasm without having to hit them over the head with it.
Lancero
(3,003 posts)Is apathy for victims.
I'll shed a tear for the murdered, not the one who decided to murder a child.
NobodyHere
(2,810 posts)It's possible to have compassion for criminals and that victims.
Try it sometime.
pacalo
(24,721 posts)Lazaro Batista, who lives in the same building as the suspect, likewise told WCBS 880?s Alex Silverman that the boy had been bullied so badly that he tried to kill himself and had been out of school for months. Tuesday was his first day back at school, neighbors said.
Every day, he would come to me and tell me, Blue, listen, can you walk with me to the store? Can I come outside and play in the yard with your kids? Can you watch me? Can you make sure, if you see any big kids come after me, can you help me? Batista said.
(...)
Neighbors told 1010 WINS Holli Haerr that some of the bullies came to the building where the suspect lived and called for him, warning him not to come outside.
Yesterday, just yesterday he said Im scared because they constantly, always threatening me. Theyre gonna kill me, said Stephanie Arroyo.
Lancero
(3,003 posts)Doesn't change the fact that a child is dead, and any applauding such are monsters in serious need of a psychological evaluation.
DireStrike
(6,452 posts)Well that's ALWAYS useful.
pacalo
(24,721 posts)"this place falls even further..." for others. People should read the article before posting; otherwise, one's comment may look a little ridiculous &, possibly, a little trollish. Just a tip.
Lancero
(3,003 posts)Sounds like self-defense to me!!! n/t
I absolutely agree!
Yep, I can certainly relate to that! n/t
+1000s
I've read the article. A child was murdered. And people are applauding it.
Sickening, and proof of how far this site has fallen. Usually I'd have to go to a RW site to see people clapping about a child being killed.
Renew Deal
(81,856 posts)Those who knew Timothy remembered him as a sweet but shy child who would help anyone who asked for assistance.
"Timothy was a quiet person. He wasn't no bully, he wasn't no troublemaker," said Tyrone Rivers, a neighbor who used to coach Timothy in sports in the neighborhood. "He was a nice person."
Rivers said Timothy would help other kids in the neighborhood.
"For someone to take a life like that," Rivers said, shaking his head in disbelief.
Next-door neighbor Vincent Rosario said Timothy was always with his mother.
"He was a good kid, a humble kid," Rosario said.
http://www.amny.com/#/news/timothy-crump-14-stabbed-to-death-by-student-outside-i-s-117-in-the-bronx-1.8491772
Vattel
(9,289 posts)It is possible that Estevez took out his troubles on someone less aggressive than his tormentors, but the facts are not yet clear.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)That isn't in question. The kid tried to commit suicide - that isn't in question, either. He was afraid to go back to school, and had been beaten and robbed. None of that is in question.
This whole situation could have been avoided if some of the adults in the room and school would have stepped in and stopped the bullying. It's a tragedy - two lives are ruined by inaction.
tblue37
(65,336 posts)the kid was stabbed to death.
If he or any other adult6s bothered to protect the bullied child, maybe the other child would still be alive.
Both of those children were failed by the adults who were supposed to provide a safe environment.
jmowreader
(50,555 posts)Think of Eddie Haskell. Mrs. Cleaver thought he was a wonderful boy. He bullied the Beaver every chance he got.
I don't know if this applies to Timothy, but it could.
Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)14 year olds simply do not have fully developed adult brains, period.
KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)required by law to attend school with the victim/tormentor.
demigoddess
(6,640 posts)there should be separate rules when you are required to be face to face with a bully.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)after he was hospitalized for trying to commit suicide by hanging himself. The bully jumped him yet again the first day back. I can completely understand why he felt there was no way out. You can only be beaten up, robbed and bullied before something gives, and this kid nearly took his own life because of it.
Then he gets released from the hospital, forced to go to school, and it starts all over.
mindwalker_i
(4,407 posts)but ,my impression so far is the bully really had it coming. Not only that, this particular situation ended better than most, and better than it was headed when the kid tried to commit suicide.
Here's the deal: when you bully someone, you take your chances that they will fight back.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)tried to commit suicide by hanging himself and was hospitalized. He said he didn't want to go to school because of the bullies, and this was his first day back. The one he stabbed jumped him and punched him right after his first day back.
I don't see how that is an adult charge, and frankly, what he needs is counseling, not prison. How many times should this kid be beaten, robbed and tormented nearly to committing suicide before he takes the matter into his own hands?
He's 14 for heaven's sake.
No group jumping on board to ban kitchen knives?
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)spin
(17,493 posts)Both are inanimate objects and they can be used for good or bad. It all depends on whose hands they are in. It isn't the weapon as much as it is the user.
One thing that gun control advocates tend to ignore is that a gun or a knife can be used to stop an attack from a person who intends to severely injure or kill a victim. Often when the victim shows he is armed, the attacker flees.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)spin
(17,493 posts)I've punched thousands and thousands of holes in paper targets and a few aluminum cans. I have never shot or killed a living creature with one of my firearms nor to I wish to do so.
Orrex
(63,203 posts)Regardless of whether a particular gun is used for such neutral purposes as perforating cans and paper targets, the gun's primary purpose is to launch a projectile at high velocity with the intent to damage, destroy, injure or kill its target.
A knife can indeed be used to kill, but it can also be used to heal and to create. As a tool, it has a far wider range of uses than does a firearm, so direct comparisons between the two are of limited value.
spin
(17,493 posts)It is possible that the only reason I am here to reply to your post is because my mother was wise enough to have a tiny revolver in her purse one night in the 1920s.
She was walking back to her house after work when a man who had been hiding behind some bushes rushed her. She fired two shots over his head and he turned and ran.
Where I live now in an economically depressed country in Florida many people hunt deer and feral hog in order to put meat on their table. If they didn't we would be overrun with deer and feral hog. Even so there are so many deer in this area that traffic accidents involving deer are common. Both my son in law and daughter as well as a neighbor two houses from me have had such accidents. I barely avoid one on the outskirts of a neighboring town when four deer ran out directly in front of my car. Fortunately I was only going 35 mph as that was the speed limit at the town limit.
It's also not uncommon to discover a poisonous snake such as a rattlesnake in your yard. A shotgun can eliminate that threat quickly if you live in a rural area.
I will agree that a knife can be used for more things than a firearm. That's why I always have one on my person and I use it many times in a day. However there are plenty of good uses for a firearm.
Orrex
(63,203 posts)As I wrote:
What are these "plenty of good uses for a firearm" that you mention?
spin
(17,493 posts)was not a good use of a firearm? Would she have been able to stop the attack as effectively with a knife?
Or that the fact that many people in my area put quality meat on the table for their family and help insure a healthy population of deer in the area is not a good use of a firearm? It's hard to hunt deer or hog with a knife, although there are individuals who hunt feral hog with a knife.
Or the fact that my daughter killed a pigmy rattler in her yard with a shotgun before it bit her young children or dogs was not a good use of a firearm? I wouldn't want to try to kill a rattlesnake with a knife.
Sometime today I will get a cardboard box with a shipment from Amazon. I will probably use my knife to open it. I may decide to peel an apple, slice a tomato or dice an onion and my knife will be handy. My knife can cut and strip wire if I need to accomplish that task. I could even shave with my knife, but I have a good safety razor that better fitted for that job.
Both firearms and knives are tools. Both have different uses. Unfortunately in the wrong hands both can do evil.
Orrex
(63,203 posts)You wrote:
Rather than arguing that your mother should have been raped or your daughter should have been bitten, I am pointing out that their experiences underscore the validity of my assertion:
What, in your estimation, is the gun's primary purpose, if it's not what I have noted above?
spin
(17,493 posts)Some involve injuring or killing a person or animal for good reasons but some involve punching holes in paper targets or aluminum cans. A pistol or rifle target is designed to be used as a target for a firearm so the fact that a bullet or bullets punches holes in it doesn't mean that it is damaged, destroyed or injured. The target was made to have holes punched in it.
Often when a firearm is used for legitimate self defense it is not necessary to shoot an attacker to deter him. When a victim shows he/she is armed the attacker breaks off his attack and flees. Therefore in such cases the firearm proved to be an effective tool despite the fact that it was never fired.
I think that I largely disagree with your viewpoint as it insinuates that all firearms are evil. The good or evil that a firearm does is determined by the person whose hands it is in.
Orrex
(63,203 posts)spin
(17,493 posts)I have no problem with your definition of a gun's primary purpose.
Orrex
(63,203 posts)Upon rereading my posts, I see that I left that point sort of vague. Unintentional, but it created confusion where there shouldn't have been any.
spin
(17,493 posts)but still it was a polite back and forth. That is somewhat of an accomplishment in a debate on firearms here on DU.
No problem. I was just passing time while waiting to see what Obama had to say about Iraq. I would hate to have his job.
demigoddess
(6,640 posts)shoots the guy next door or across the street when all he meant to do was target shoot. One guy picked up his gun the wrong way just in the last couple of days and killed the guy next door. How about the guy who shot off his own penis? on and on and on.......
spin
(17,493 posts)While handling a firearm you also should be constantly aware the it is an extremely dangerous item. You should practice muzzle safety and keep your finger off the trigger unless you wish to hear a loud noise.
You also have to realize that even though you may have many years of firearm experience in your past, you can still have an accidental discharge.
It's not rocket science but following the safety rules is EXTREMELY important.
Firearms Safety -- 10 Rules of Safe Gun Handling
1. Always Keep The Muzzle Pointed In A Safe Direction
2. Firearms Should Be Unloaded When Not Actually In Use
3. Don't Rely On Your Gun's "Safety"
4. Be Sure Of Your Target And What's Beyond It
5. Use Correct Ammunition
6. If Your Gun Fails To Fire When The Trigger Is Pulled, Handle With Care!
7. Always Wear Eye And Ear Protection When Shooting
8. Be Sure The Barrel Is Clear Of Obstructions Before Shooting
9. Don't Alter Or Modify Your Gun, And Have Guns Serviced Regularly
10. Learn The Mechanical And Handling Characteristics Of The Firearm You Are Using
http://www.nssf.org/safety/basics/
demigoddess
(6,640 posts)what is a safe direction? If you point it in the air, the bullet will eventually come down. If you point it away from people in your house, it may go through the wall and shoot the guy next door. If you point it at the floor, the bullet can kill the person downstairs. I have heard of target shooting zones whose berms were not high enough and the bullet killed someone on the other side of blocks away who got killed or wounded. There are no safe directions. A bullet can travel for a mile or more can't it? How can you be sure that no one is in that area and will not walk into that area????
spin
(17,493 posts)Here's a couple of definitions for muzzle safety.
1ST COMMANDMENT OF FIREARM SAFETY
Always keep the muzzle pointed in a safe direction.
This is the most important gun safety rule. A safe direction is one in which an accidental discharge will not cause injury to yourself or others. Never allow your gun to point at anything you don't intend to shoot. Be especially careful when you're loading or unloading. Treat every gun as if it were loaded. And make it a habit to know where your muzzle is pointed at all times, even when your firearm is unloaded.
No one will be injured by an accidental discharge if you keep your firearm pointed in a safe direction. It's as simple as that.
http://www.remington.com/pages/news-and-resources/safety-center/10-commandments/1st-commandment.aspx
Always keep the muzzle pointed in a safe direction.
This rule surpasses all other rules. It is a very simple concept, if the firearm is pointed in a safe direction, intentional or accidental discharge will not harm anyone. The safest direction should be chosen, so humans, animals, then inanimate objects are all taken into account....emphasis added
This also includes being sure that when you carry the firearm you are able to fully control the muzzle direction and angle, especially if you are walking, or otherwise traveling (in case you trip or stumble, this is also helped by Rule 3).
http://m.wikihow.com/Handle-a-Firearm-Safely
demigoddess
(6,640 posts)the guy who shot off his own penis sure had taken those safety measures, if he was the cop that I remember his being. Whoever it was certainly thought it was safe. A number of those accidental shootings are cops who must certainly be trained gun owners!!! There just is no such thing as a safe gun.
spin
(17,493 posts)I used to target shoot at an indoor police range that was open to the public. The police would qualify one night a week when the range was closed to the public.
One Saturday morning I arrived at the range and noticed a new TV in the lobby. I mentioned this to the range master who was a retired police officer. He told me that the old TV had been shot by the police firearms instructor when he was loading, unloading his Glock pistol. The range master said that the instructor said he had a "slam fire."
One month later I came again in on a Saturday morning and noticed the Pepsi machine in the lobby was had a sign on it that said it wasn't working. The range master laughed and told me that the same firearms instructor had managed to kill the Pepsi machine when loading, unloading his Glock and that the individual was no longer the firearms trainer for the police.
Several months after that the range master pointed out a hole in the carpet of the lobby. Apparently a cop who was qualifying managed to have a negligent discharge while holstering his Glock.
Eight feet from the Pepsi machine was a sand trap that was designed to be used when loading or unloading a firearm.
The instructor agreed with me that the civilians who used the range were far safer than the cops.
In passing a good number of the civilians who visited the range were far better at shooting than the average cop who only qualifies once a year and never visits the range to practice.
***
I will agree with you that firearms are extremely dangerous items. If you own one, you have to be very aware of that fact every time you handle it.
One time a friend stopped by my house and we discussed handguns. I showed him one of my Colt .45 pistols. Of course I checked to see if it was loaded. During the next hour we talked about target shooting and several times I picked up the pistol to demonstrate something.
When the visit ended and he was leaving he laughed and told me, "You checked to see if that pistol was loaded five times while we were talking, every time you picked it up."
I told him, "If the weapon leaves your hands, it's wise to check it again when you pick it up."
I assume all guns are always loaded until I check them.
demigoddess
(6,640 posts)in a totally different world than when the second amendment was written. We are not out in the country, we live much closer together. We don't hunt for our dinner. Shooting a machine might be funny but when it is another innocent person, it isn't funny!!! Just count up the small children who are shot/killed each year accidentally.
spin
(17,493 posts)I live in a fairly poor rural area of Florida and many people here hunt deer and feral hog to put meat in their freezers. I remember talking to a lady in her late 60s who was bragging about the first deer she shot this year in the black powder season. I also remember going to a Christmas party and meeting a young girl who was 14 or 15. She had just bagged her first deer ever.
I am not a hunter, however I do enjoy target shooting handguns. It's a very challenging sport that often takes years to develop a good level of proficiency.
Obviously every young child that dies in a shooting accident is a tragedy. It's not all that difficult for parents to properly secure their firearms.
Some argue that the Second Amendment was not written just for hunters, target shooters and self defense. They point out that it is always possible that a tyrant or dictator may take control of our nation. I feel that that is unlikely but I could be wrong. Of course it is quite possible that an armed rebellion would be quickly squashed. However recently we have seen dictators in various nations lose power. Much probably depends on if such a rebellion would have a significant level of popular support. If not, I doubt that it would have any chance of success. At any rate I don't feel that such a popular uprising will occur in my lifetime.
demigoddess
(6,640 posts)in a shooting accident........ what is it when the ones shooting the kid is the parent or an uncle as in a recent 'accident'? People get so confident and comfortable with their guns and so sure in their belief the gun isn't loaded that they shoot their own kids. I'm sure they felt safe. As for living in a rural area, more and more of our population aren't living in a rural area. The closer your neighbor is, the more likely you will shoot him 'accidentally'.
spin
(17,493 posts)I also realize that since I have been using firearms for well over 40 years I may over confident when I handle one. I remind myself of this every time I pick up a firearm. I consider every firearm I handle to be loaded until I check it and if it leaves my hands, I check it again when I pick it up.
I also realize that alcohol and firearms are a bad mix so I don't handle a weapon if I have had a couple of drinks.
Most accidental discharges are in reality negligent discharges. In my opinion anyone who buys a firearm or ammunition should have to show proof that they have had firearms safety training.
Recently the sale of firearms has skyrocketed largely due to the efforts of gun control advocates to pass another assault weapons ban. Firearms of all types flew off the shelfs of gun stores and there were long lines of people waiting to enter gun shows. Many of the new owners of these weapons have little knowledge of gun safety or experience in using these weapons. Many will fail to properly secure their weapons to insure that children can not access them. This will undoubtedly lead to many tragedies.
In a nation with 80,000,000 gun owners and 300,000,000 firearms, it would make sense to me to teach gun safety in high school along with a class on first aid. Of course gun control advocates oppose firearm safety training in schools as they fear that it will generate interest in owning these weapons. They may have a point, but I feel that in the long run it could reduce avoidable accidents.
tblue37
(65,336 posts)MillennialDem
(2,367 posts)spin
(17,493 posts)
Knife legislation
***snip***
United States of America
***snip***
State and local laws
Each American state also has laws that govern the legality of carrying weapons, either concealed or openly, and these laws explicitly or implicitly cover various types of knives. Some states go beyond this, and criminalize mere possession of certain types of knives. Other states prohibit the possession and/or the concealed carrying of knives that feature blade styles or features sufficient to transform them into "dangerous weapons"[83][84] or "deadly weapons", i.e. knives either optimized for lethality against humans or designed for and readily capable of causing death or serious bodily injury.[83][85] These frequently include knives with specific blade styles with a historical connection to violence or assassination, including thrusting knives such as the dirk, poignard, and stiletto, the bowie knife, and double-edged knives with crossguards designed for knife fighting such as the dagger.[83][86] Some states make the carrying or possession of any dangerous or deadly weapon with intent to unlawfully harm another a crime.[83]
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Knife_legislation#State_and_local_laws
Note: the section on knife laws in the UK is very interesting. I'm sure if the gun control advocates ever succeed in passing gun laws in this nation similar to those in the UK, they will push for strong knife control laws.
Of course regulations are just words on paper. A person can decide to ignore the law if he chooses and many criminals do.
MillennialDem
(2,367 posts)a pair of scissors and if stopped and asked why say you hate when threads on your clothes come undone so you trim them off.
Scissors = knife.
You can make up similar stories for other common objects that can function as knives.
Also you're talking about carrying. When it comes to sale and manufacture it's even worse. We could easily live in a world where the sale of guns was illegal. No one ever is going to pass a law where kitchen knives are illegal to sell.
spin
(17,493 posts)you can get in a world of trouble if caught carrying a pair of scissors in public.
Knife legislation
***snip***
United Kingdom
***snip***
Summary
In recent years, laws criminalising knife possession in the United Kingdom have been strictly interpreted and applied by police and prosecutors to citizens and foreigners alike of all ages and backgrounds, even where the evidence supporting the crime is in doubt.[52][58] This development, combined with increasingly frequent application of such laws to marginal or inadvertent offenders by the police and the public prosecutor[46][59][60] can easily result in an arrest and a criminal charge in the event a person carrying a folding knife, scissors, plastic knife, multi-tool, or bladed object is detained and searched, and the defendant may have to wait weeks or months for a trial or other disposition of his case by the public prosecutor.[45][58][61][62][63][64][65][66] HM Customs officials in the Customs Inspection unit at the Mount Pleasant Postal Depot in London, aware of the steadily narrowing interpretation of what constitutes a legal knife in England and Wales, have begun confiscating knives imported through the mail, going so far as to individually test otherwise legal locking and non-locking[67] bladed pocket knives to see if they can be made to open their blades to the fully opened position with a practised "double-action of the wrist"; those that open fully and thus fail the 'test' are confiscated and destroyed as illegal 'gravity knives' under the Restriction of Offensive Weapons Act 1959.[68]...emphasis added
Paradoxically, the acknowledged failure of previously enacted anti-knife legislation in reducing the number of violent crimes involving a knife[69] has led to demands for even stricter measures.[70][71] The likelihood of being detained and searched by the police in the United Kingdom depends frequently upon circumstances and the policies of the local constabulary, but is more likely to occur in areas noted for incidents of random assault and violent crime, where an individual encounters the police in the course of an investigation of a criminal complaint involving a knife, during vehicle stop-and-search operations at police checkpoints,[72] or where the police are conducting mass searches of the public at large in so-called dispersal zones as part of knife crime crackdown operations under Section 60 of the Public Order Act.[46][62][63][73][74][75]
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Knife_legislation
There are also some people in the UK who would like to see the sale of pointy kitchen knives banned.
11.45am
Doctors: Ban dagger-type kitchen knives
Sarah Left and agencies
theguardian.com, Friday 27 May 2005 06.42 EDT
A group of doctors today called on the government to ban long pointed kitchen knives in an effort to reduce the number and severity of stabbings.
Knives are the most common murder weapon in Britain, and three doctors from West Middlesex University hospital in London said their experience indicated that at least half of stabbing cases involved a kitchen knife.
Writing in the British Medical Journal, Emma Hern, Will Glazebrook and Mike Beckett said the use of dagger-type kitchen knives owed more to tradition than culinary necessity. The knives, they argued, could be banned without unduly inconveniencing cooks.
The doctors quoted findings that 24% of 16-year-old boys reported carrying knives or other weapons, with 19% admitting they had attacked someone. In the first two weeks of 2005 alone, 15 murders in the UK were linked to stabbings as well as 16 other non-fatal attacks.
The doctors said many assaults were impulsive, often triggered by alcohol or other drugs, and the long pointed kitchen knife was an easily available lethal weapon, especially in the home.
http://www.theguardian.com/uk/2005/may/27/ukcrime.prisonsandprobation
I will agree that we could live in a world where the sale of firearms to civilians was illegal. That would do little to address the 300,000,000 firearms we currently have in our nation and the millions that are added every year.
I doubt if such a law will every pass in my lifetime and probably not in yours. If it did it would create a black market for firearms and some very lethal fully automatic weapons as well as more common firearms would be smuggled into our nation from other nations. Tons of illegal drugs are smuggled into our nation every year. It would be easier and very profitable to sneak firearms across our border. Also any good machine shop can manufacture firearms.
MillennialDem
(2,367 posts)18 or older and carrying on a semi professional demeanor with a good explanation? No. And that doesn't even address the concealment aspect. Plus small folding pocket knives are allowed in the UK and if you think outlawing all guns is nearly impossible outlawing small pocket knives is going to take divine intervention.
As for guns being illegal means that a lot of illegal guns will flow into the country is nonsense. As you said many drugs are illegal and get here anyway. Are you doubting they would be even more common if they were legalized? Same deal goes for guns. Outlaw and them some will still get through and some dedicated people will still build homemade guns. Will they be less common though? Yes.
As for predictions about future gun legislation... never say never. Stranger things have happened. No one ever would have predicted same sex marriage would happen any time soon 20 years ago.
spin
(17,493 posts)Twenty years ago I would have never predicted that it would happen. Twenty years ago I would have been against it. Today I see no problems with it.
As far as knives much depends on what state you are in and where you are at. I've carried a fairly large hunting knife in a belt holster in the small rural Florida town where I live and it attracted no attention. It's legal. However if I open carried carried the same knife in downtown Tampa I might be stopped and questioned by the authorities. It is possible that I could be arrested and have to hire an attorney to argue the law for me. Therefore in large urban areas of Florida, i simply carry a concealed knife which is legal since I have a concealed weapons permit. Unlike most other states the Florida carry permit allows the holder to carry a variety of weapons.
The 2013 Florida Statutes
790.06?License to carry concealed weapon or firearm.
(1)?The Department of Agriculture and Consumer Services is authorized to issue licenses to carry concealed weapons or concealed firearms to persons qualified as provided in this section. Each such license must bear a color photograph of the licensee. For the purposes of this section, concealed weapons or concealed firearms are defined as a handgun, electronic weapon or device, tear gas gun, knife, or billie, but the term does not include a machine gun as defined in s. 790.001(9). Such licenses shall be valid throughout the state for a period of 7 years from the date of issuance. Any person in compliance with the terms of such license may carry a concealed weapon or concealed firearm notwithstanding the provisions of s. 790.01. The licensee must carry the license, together with valid identification, at all times in which the licensee is in actual possession of a concealed weapon or firearm and must display both the license and proper identification upon demand by a law enforcement officer. Violations of the provisions of this subsection shall constitute a noncriminal violation with a penalty of $25, payable to the clerk of the court....emphasis added
http://www.leg.state.fl.us/Statutes/index.cfm?App_mode=Display_Statute&Search_String=&URL=0700-0799/0790/Sections/0790.06.html
Now I am not a trained in the martial art of knife fighting so I don't carry the knife as a weapon but as a tool. I carry a snub nosed .38 caliber revolver in a pocket holster in my pants just in case I am attacked. Admittedly the chances of this happening are extremely slim but still not nonexistent.
Recently I've started to carry an ESEE Izula-II neck knife with a 2.63 inch blade under my left arm and my shirt. I've found it extremely comfortable to carry and although it's small, it's an excellent knife for most tasks. I am wearing it as I type this.
http://www.amazon.com/ESEE-Knives-Izula-II-Knife/dp/B004GHYI10/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1403197614&sr=8-1&keywords=izula+ii
I could be wrong about the black market for foreign firearms. The demand might not exist as we currently have 300,000,000 firearms in our nation. You can pass all the laws you want and many of these firearms will NOT be turned in. Of course an effort to confiscate all firearms could easily lead to an armed rebellion and some states would secede from the union. In my opinion the benefits would be outweighed by the violence and disruption that would result. You may have a different opinion.
I don't spend a lot a time worrying about my guns being confiscated. In my opinion the chances of that happening in my lifetime is about the same as my chances of winning the Florida Lotto this week if I decide to waste my money on one ticket.
MillennialDem
(2,367 posts)thousands of knives in prisons. I'd be surprised if there were even a dozen guns (not counting guards of course). It's easy and cheap to make a knife it is not easy and cheap to make a gun. All one requires is something sharp or something that can be made sharp by grinding.
Moreover many everyday household devices function as knives - screwdrivers, scissors, etc.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)in CA who recently committed mass murder and killed half the victims with a knife. In Austin, TX 5 were murdered with a car. No, your attempt to force-fit a narrative is the "fail."
aikoaiko
(34,169 posts)Such as recreation and competition.
Renew Deal
(81,856 posts)Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)Orrex
(63,203 posts)Since you're fond of pejorative use of the word "controllers" to denigrate people who call for sensible gun regulation, would you be ok with the term "zealot" to describe people who resist such legislation?
I would hate to offend anyone's delicate sensibilities.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)Noticeable number of those as well, in DU. You would agree?
"Zealot?" That's a breath of fresh air compared to vast numbers of penis, gun-humper, etc. remarks. If it's a trade-off, I'll take it!
As to "delicate sensibilities," the special unwritten dispensation to just blow it out anyway you want in GD -- if it involves Guns Deplored -- has set the tone of the debate within the new DU. Your concerns might be of value on a site with editing powers like the old DU, but now they are merely quaint.
aikoaiko
(34,169 posts)Orrex
(63,203 posts)My enthusiasm must remain unbridled.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)and still you feel the need to bitch about how the poor gun owners are under attack. I find that beneath contempt.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)and have certain opinions on people who hold those opinions.
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)Orrex
(63,203 posts)However, it strikes me as unlikely that such incidents have resulted in many deaths.
spin
(17,493 posts)Usually the person holding the firearm manages to pull the trigger.
Orrex
(63,203 posts)spin
(17,493 posts)Accidental discharges where the trigger snags on something usually involve handguns that are not in properly designed holsters. In my opinion there is not real reason for an honest citizen to not use a quality holster that protects the trigger. Criminals usually avoid holsters as they often throw a gun away while chased and don't want the cops to catch them with an empty holster.
Accidental / Negligent discharges
by Frank Sharpe
Fortress Defense Consultants
Q: Frank, could you address the idea that guns just go off? On the news they say, the gun accidentally went off. I would love to post something from an expert debunking this scary thought!
***snip***
In answer to your question, the vast majority of handguns manufactured in the last 100-years are certified as drop safe. Meaning, they have, in a laboratory, been loaded with a primed case and test dropped onto concrete from varying angles to determine if they will fire. The Department of Justice Height Standard is 1-meter + 1cm; states such as MA and CA have their own standards (of course.) Some firearms, however, are not drop safe. The old single action Colt revolvers were used to seeing in all the Hollywood westerns are on that list. It was common practice in those days to carry an empty chamber under the hammer to prevent an accidental discharge of the pistol should it be dropped and fall directly on the hammer. Along with those, there are pistols like the 1903 Colt .32, and the first batch of Colt 1911 pistols up until 1930, and then again from the onset of WWII till the Series 80 1911?s went into production. The old-style 1911 pistols can have an inertia discharge, meaning you drop the gun and it hits the ground in just the right way that the weight of the firing pin overcomes the firing pin spring pressure and strikes the primer of the chambered round. This is a very rare occurrence on a 1911, and is usually kept at bay by replacement of the firing pin spring every 4000 rounds, or so.
***snip***
There are rare pistols such as the Japanese Nambu Type 94 pistol, which is a WWII era gun with an exposed sear. This usually resulted in the pistol discharging when being holstered, causing a large portion of the Japanese officers who carried it to have a bullet wound crease down the side of their leg. They are an absolute death trap and should anyone find themselves in the presence of one, DO NOT LOAD IT! Also, most common sporting shotguns like the Remington and Mossberg pump action shotguns are not drop safe. They have no internal firing pin block, but only a simple trigger block safety. This can result in an inertia discharge of the gun if dropped or struck directly on the buttstock with a large enough force. One of the most common hunting accidents is a shotgun being dropped butt first from a tree stand and discharging as it hits the ground, thus wounding the hunter above. Because of this, in our shotgun courses we carry our shotguns slung with an empty chamber, and only chamber a round when immediately deploying the gun towards a threat. With defensive long guns, one may have to struggle with an attacker to retain the weapon, or actually use it to strike, hence our empty chamber policy during shotgun carry
All that being said, the odds of ANY gun firing because it was dropped on the ground are very slim, and the vast majority of pistols we see hit the ground and discharge in movies are drop safe guns that would not do so in real life. And odds of a gun firing without being dropped are a statistical zero. Where all this fits with your question is this: When it is reported that a persons gun just went off, it didnt. All claims of Accidental Discharges (ADs) are investigated exactly as that. However, once investigated, 99.9999999999999% of them prove to be Negligent Discharges (NDs.) Idiot had his greasy finger wrapped around the trigger, pressed it, and the gun worked just as advertised. Once in a while a foreign object gets tangled in the trigger, but it all still comes down to human error and/or improper gun handling. Most of the time when there is an ND, the victim(s) will claim that they didnt do anything to cause it, and in their minds they are absolutely correct! Most people do not know or understand that they interacted with the gun to cause it to fire, and they will honestly believe that it just went off. But we know better, and once the facts are established it is proven as such.
Thats not to say there could not be a 1 in a billion chance of a mechanical malfunction of a gun, but its rare. Its not unheard of like a unicorn, but it is much rarer than a white rhino. The idea of a gun simply discharging as it sits on a table, or even in a persons hand, without the trigger being depressed, is a fallacy. It just doesnt happen.
http://www.gunssavelife.com/?p=5573
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)spin
(17,493 posts)From the link:
The damn gun doesnt usually shoot," he said, according to the arrest report. "You have to squeeze the hell out of the trigger to shoot it." He said he picked up the loaded 9mm pistol by its trigger, and the gun discharged.
http://www.newser.com/story/188658/new-dad-shot-while-welcoming-baby-home.html
You learn in the military to keep your damn booger hook off the bang switch unless you want to hear a loud noise!
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)Nice try though.
spin
(17,493 posts)an unsafe firearm.
I will agree that it takes more training and more commonsense to safely handle a firearm than to handle a knife. It also helps to be sober when handling a firearm or even a sharp knife. The shooter had a blood alcohol level of 0.079 when tested FOUR HOURS AFTER THE SHOOTING. Chances are he was WELL over that when he picked up the pistol by the trigger.
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)spin
(17,493 posts)Accidents Will Happen?: Accidental Discharge vs Negligent Discharge
7/30/11 | by Jeffrey Denning
Often I hear talk about accidental discharges (ADs). When I hear the circumstances behind so-called ADs, I often question if they are not a negligentor NDs. I believe the term AD is largely, inappropriately used. Bottom line: most accidental discharges are in reality negligent, and they could be avoided. Since my definition of an AD occurring is so rare, let me give you a few examples of what I believe are truly accidental discharges.
***snip***
In conclusion, a freak accident of a trigger being scraped by a tactical vest, a holstering mishap not caused by the operators finger, a major weapon malfunction, and being too heavy or quick on the trigger at the range only and while the weapon is pointed in a safe direction, are only scenarios I can think of that would meet the classifications of an AD.
True accidental discharges are extremely rare, yet on the other hand, I could write a book about all of the negligent discharges Ive heard of. The bottom line is: come home safely at the end of the day. Property damage, fatalities and physical injuries due to so-called accidents can and must be avoided.
http://www.guns.com/2011/07/30/accidents-will-happen-accidental-discharge-vs-negligent-discharge/
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)You can spin it any way you want.
Without the gun the father would still be alive.
spin
(17,493 posts)that this was no accident.
We don't excuse stupidity as an excuse for a tragic incident involving a firearm. The individual picked the weapon up by the trigger and was amazed when it went off. He was also under the influence of alcohol and was quite possibly well above the legal limit to drive when he handled the pistol. Responsible gun owners know that alcohol and firearms are a BAD mix.
More than four hours after the shooting, a blood test found Shisler's BAC was 0.079, according to authorities; Florida's legal limit for driving is 0.08,
http://www.newser.com/story/188658/new-dad-shot-while-welcoming-baby-home.html
Think about it for a minute. Responsible gun owners take handling a firearm seriously and refuse to excuse a negligent discharge as a simple accident. Isn't that the best way for a gun owner to look at this incident?
Since you are most likely not a gun owner, feel free to excuse this as an accident if you wish. If you are actually a gun owner or ever become one, please attend a firearm safety class. If you ever have attended one in your past, please attend another one.
I will agree with you that if the shooter didn't have the pistol the tragedy would have never happened. I could be wrong but I imagine that you advocate passing laws that would greatly prohibit the civilian ownership of firearms.
I will point out that legally the shooter should not have owned the firearm as it was against the law.
He has been charged with manslaughter as well as possession of a firearm by a convicted felon; he had a previous felony weapons conviction.
http://www.newser.com/story/188658/new-dad-shot-while-welcoming-baby-home.html
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)Why won't you acknowledge the part about the existence of the gun being the reason the guy was killed?
spin
(17,493 posts)happened. I also pointed out that his having the pistol was illegal as he was a convicted felon.
I will guess that you advocate that all civilian owned firearms should be banned and confiscated.
That's a noble goal but perhaps unfortunately it is unrealistic at this time in our nation. It reminds me of Don Quixote tilting at windmills.
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)I don't like guns and I think owning one is stupid, but I don't think they should be banned or confiscated.
I personally know to many people that have been harmed by guns. I can give you examples of responsible gun owners that have had "accidents" resulting in injury or death if you want them.
spin
(17,493 posts)A wise old man once told me that there are two types of shooters. Those who have had a negligent discharge and those who will.
That's why practicing muzzle safety is so important.
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)I'm done here.
spin
(17,493 posts)samsingh
(17,595 posts)crim son
(27,464 posts)Please.
Feeling the Bern
(3,839 posts)Vattel
(9,289 posts)and the school can't even prevent this from happening right outside the school? WTF? Tragic for everyone concerned.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)They know this. The best a victim can do when no one wants to act (lest they become the center of controversy and attack) is to leave the school. Bullies have status, strong self-esteem, and power, and get more with each "success."
And everybody's talking about them, everywhere.
get the red out
(13,461 posts)Your statement is very well stated, and I believe quite correct.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)Can't link on this hand-held. Blows open the mythology surrounding bullies.
This is a tragic event, I never understood the my set of a bully, was it lack of home training or abuse at home that drove this kids to bully another kid? Im not stranger to bullying but when It happened I didnt want to kill anyone I just altered my routine to lessen the encounters, not saying that would work for everybody but there has to be a better answer then kill people.
Submariner
(12,503 posts)The more I could avoid his presence, the better.
A few years later a judge gave him an ultimatum. Join the Army or go to jail. Karma caught up to him and he was killed in Vietnam.
valerief
(53,235 posts)Exposethefrauds
(531 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)I missed where it says the kitchen knife came from. Did the killer bring it to school with him? Much more to this story.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)was on his first day back from being hospitalized for trying to commit suicide by hanging himself. The bully had beaten him up, robbed him and generally made his life a living hell. He's 14 - at that age some kids get a lot bigger faster than others and use it to their advantage. It's heart breaking that he felt he had no way out.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Must be other stories out there about this. Seems a lot in this article has very limited amount to back it up. More will be know soon. I am sure that as more comes out it will all be added to the killers mitigating circumstances. Unfortunately, there is one minor who can no longer speak for himself.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)It expands on the situation.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)The kid tried to commit suicide a few weeks ago because of the bullying, and this was his first day back from being hospitalized. He slipped through the cracks everywhere he turned.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)I understand that when it gets to preteens and teens, it can be particularly daunting.
Bullies can be energetic and quite large and aggressive young adults.
Bus drivers probably have their hands legally tied.
But in this case it seems the bullying had been witnessed over time by quite a few.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Where were the adults in this, and why didn't they stop it? The kid got robbed and beaten, and no one bothered to look beyond that fact to discover if there was a problem?
adigal
(7,581 posts)One day, the girls chased me around the gym sticking pins in my butt.
Another day, they chased me home, throwing ink from the fountain pens we used all over me.
My mother did nothing. My school did nothing. I still bear those scars, even though I have been working for the past four years to get past them.
Bullying is a form of torture and almost every kid who snaps has been bullied. It is tragic, but somehow I can't blame the victim here. I can relate too much.
gvstn
(2,805 posts)Why are kids never charged with assault? If a kid is strong-armed and robbed why can't the police do something? 5 year olds are suspended for kissing a classmate but assault goes unpunished. It seems going hard against a kid that is physically violent at a young age would stop some of this aggression from getting out of control.
I can sympathize with this bullied kid. It seems plenty of adults knew about it including the police and yet it appears nothing was done to protect this kid or stop the known assailant prior to this desperate act.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)REPEATED HARASSMENT IS NOT BULLYING, ITS STALKING. LETS PROSECUTE IT THAT WAY.
When teens, preteens and children harass each other, even when that harassment rises to the level of utter cruelty and violence, we have this desire to give it a cutesy name that suggests the idea that this is just something that kids do. There is nothing cutesy about the repeated, willful and malicious following and/or harassing of another person. I use that description for this kind of behavior because it both fits what some people refer to as bullying and also is the most common description for stalking.
What we refer to as bullying is not a one-time act. If it were a one-time act, it would be mere simple assault and/or battery, or perhaps not a crime at all. No, the behavior we are really talking about when we refer to bullying or stalking is repeated and unwanted acts by one person or group against another person or group for the purpose of creating an ongoing climate of fear for the target person or group. There are many reasons a particular person or group can be singled out for harassment. It can be because the target person or group dresses a certain way, acts a certain way, is of a certain economic background, nationality, religion or ethnicity, or is perceived to be a member of the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Transgendered) community.
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The purpose of rebranding this behavior to call it stalking is twofold. First, whatever the anti-stalking laws are called in each state, they should be used to stop anyone, including teens and even younger children, from making the lives of other people miserable and unbearable. There is no reason for this to be allowed to go on. No one has the right to treat anyone else this way. Second, as I alluded to in the opening paragraph, there is not enough of a negative connotation to the term bullying. Stalking, on the other hand, has a huge creep factor to it. No one wants to be labeled a stalker.
gvstn
(2,805 posts)You made some very good points. I agree that changing the word from bullying to something else may be one of the first steps. Changing it to a word that describes a crime which is on the books in many states may be the best choice. Impressing on kids that it is illegal behavior is the key factor. And of course that means impressing on less than enlightened parents that it is illegal and they must actively discourage the behavior in their children.
I hope someone finally gets the mix right and sets an example for other jurisdictions.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)sarisataka
(18,606 posts)How choice of weapon changes the impact of a death.
If a gun is used the crime is due to the availability of guns . Also the bullied student should have just dealt with it; such violence is not justified.
If a knife is used the bully was the cause of the action and the student was acting in self-defense. Yes his action was too much but its understandable. The dead student doesn't get any candles or crying faces because he had it coming sooner or later.
I find this difference to be strange.
In my eyes we have a dead child, a bully victim who will now be in prison and a system that perpetuates a cycle of violence tilted against the victims until they decide to lash out lethally.
dilby
(2,273 posts)I am sorry he was bullied but that does not justify killing someone unless that person posed a deadly threat at the time of the murder. In this instance it does not sound like the bully posed a deadly threat, the kid planned this by bringing the knife to school. If he would have brought a gun I am sure peoples opinions would be much different here.
ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)rule because he was bullied so much.
In time we will get more details.
Renew Deal
(81,856 posts)So there are differnet stories out there.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)but that kinda smug, smirky, remorseless look on Estevez's face in the back of the police car just creeps me the fuck out and makes me wonder if there isn't something more beneath the surface...
Although if his mother filed multiple reports with the 44th precinct, they will be pretty easy to verify...
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cpwm17
(3,829 posts)If he can be charged as an adult, then he should have had a right to self defense like an adult and his tormentors should have been treated like the criminals that they were before it came to this.
JI7
(89,247 posts)that's a picture of them together . there must have been some argument between them.
http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.1836004.1403191074!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/article_970/knife20n-1-web.jpg
http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/nyc-crime/15-year-old-critical-condition-stabbed-article-1.1834991
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)Boom Sound 416
(4,185 posts)Perhaps he won't be tried as an adult. One can hope.
Rhinodawg
(2,219 posts)but I can understand why he did it.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)rustydog
(9,186 posts)jmowreader
(50,555 posts)Prosecutors' reelections hinge on number of adult criminals convicted.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)No intervention of any kind?
The kid tried to commit suicide he was being abused so badly?
They are partly culpable, IMO.
Anyone who watched and did nothing.
Rosa Luxemburg
(28,627 posts)We had an incident in our school where bullies were ganging up on a female student in the locker area. She got the knife off her attacker and stabbed her in the back of the neck and back. The stabbed victim did not die. Now the school has a metal scanner and backpacks are searched. The incident happened even though a teacher and a hall monitor were in the hallway!
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KamaAina
(78,249 posts)fishwax
(29,149 posts)adult in this situation, I don't think the intended humor of your post hits anywhere the mark.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)hopefully not fatally , as I did on one memorable occasion in therapeutic boarding school, the bullies might back off.
tblue37
(65,336 posts)Last edited Wed Jun 25, 2014, 12:00 AM - Edit history (1)
diagnosed with schizophrenia. I bet his mental fragility made him seem a perfect victim and led the other boys (it was not just the one he stabbed) to believe they had a right to bully him. His mother had been arrested on drug charges, too. That poor kid was suffering from a lot of major stressors, even without being constantly bullied.
JI7
(89,247 posts)this is a picture of the 2 boys together.
http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRrKhV5v9NuIFg6tgEP0ZKqQe8c4X1d-3EVdbfUB6HX8A1fuzZw-g
tblue37
(65,336 posts)hung around with him and the other boys who ended up tormenting him. Then, according to the person quoted, the group decided to exclude him and then began to abuse him.
Maybe his psychological problems became noticeable and they began to view him as an outsider and potential victim.
We are, after all, hierarchical social animals, and hierarchical animals will "peck to death" an individual that is viewed as too weak. When kids are thrown into an unstable environment where adults do not live up to their responsibility to maintain order and to protect the weak and vulnerable, kids tend to revert to instinctive behaviors that we only relatively recently evolved social mechanisms to control or suppress.
That is what Lord of the Flies is about, after all.
AnnieBW
(10,424 posts)By slitting their wrists. As a former bullied child, I have mixed feelings about this. There were a lot of times that I wanted to kill the people that were picking on me. But I feel bad that a child is dead because of it.
Sunlei
(22,651 posts)They don't have to punish these kid bullies like an adult. About 100 hours community service, (work in the school?) per 'violation' everyday before & after school. a total curfew, so there is no 'free time' during the next 4-5 weeks to bully anyone.