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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsTwo years ago today, America’s Profit-Driven Health Care system killed my only son.
http://bluntandcranky.wordpress.com/2014/06/25/two-years-ago-today-americas-profit-driven-health-care-system-killed-my-only-son-warning-profanity/"You see, he died because health insurers refused to pay for the care he needed: had they paid for it, they wouldnt have made as much profit. He died so that millionaires can get even richer, and thats the ONLY God-damned reason he died.
So heres a big Fuck You to anyone and everyone who opposes Health Care Reform. It could have saved his life.
Heres another one to anyone who opposes the Affordable Care Act (flawed though it is, it at least kept my boy alive a bit longer).
Heres a big Fuck YOU, Motherfucker to all the legislators and pundits who are still trying to block further improvements in accountability, care, coverage and quality in our national health care system.
Simply put, if you are in favor of a health care system that is purely based on greed and profit (as Americas is and has been), then you are in favor of people dying so millionaires can get even richer. And yes, Fuck You for that.
Fuck You, John Boehner. Fuck You, Mitch McConnell. Fuck You, Aetna. Fuck You, Sam Brownback. Fuck everyone who is like you, too.
You want objectivity when my kid got killed, motherfucker? Yeah, right. If it was your kid, youd be saying the same thing Im saying right now. So, no, Im not objective on this topic.
And fuck it, I dont care. Aetna banked big bucks, their people got bonuses, and where did that money come from? It came from denying care and saving money thereby: and by so doing, killing people like my son. So fuck objectivity. Sometimes, objectivity is just a bunch of rationalized, sophist bullshit.
In closing, heres one more FUCK YOU, MOTHERFUCKER FOR ANYONE AND EVERYONE WHO SUPPORTS THE POLICIES THAT KILLED MY KID.
Mr. Blunt and Cranky
P.S. Heres a big shout-out to the President for still standing by the ACA when so many evil, greedy motherfuckers have been buying congresscritters to try and kill more people with bad insurance. And a big boot up the asses of those bought politicos."
CountAllVotes
(20,868 posts)Might be more readable without every other word being FUCK.
EOM.
Anansi1171
(793 posts)OP is more than entitled to his anger and its expression here - and given his loss, you want to quibble with him cussing?
Personally, our healthcare system among many other aspects of our economy are CRIMINAL!
But mind your manners and go back to sleep.
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)creatively than that.
Your post will be hidden if you don't change that now.
Anansi1171
(793 posts)ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)Skittles
(153,138 posts)Skittles
(153,138 posts)yes INDEED
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ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)one that says "Blunt and Cranky".
Have you tried to stifle the Rude Pundit's schtick, too?
riqster
(13,986 posts)I had to, and I am pissed off.
My son could not afford the $600 to keep his medical insurance effective while layed off from his job. He kept thinking he would be called back to work. Then he got so sick, he was afraid to go to the doctor because he said "They will send me for all types of tests, and I'll be in debt forever" Unable to keep food down, he tried baby food. Eventually he died, my doctor said it was malnutrition the autopsy missed something. Nothing can fill the space left in my heart, at the dinner table at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Nothing. He was my youngest.
riqster
(13,986 posts)barbtries
(28,787 posts)this barbaric nation
freshwest
(53,661 posts)Doctor_J
(36,392 posts)BUT, someone should have pulled him aside and told him, "Being in debt is better than starving to death". We hear these stories all the time about choosing between food and medicine. Hopefully some of those decisions will be solved by these insurance mandates.
classykaren
(769 posts)upfront if he did not have insurance. All Doctors had those signs on their receptionist desk here in Florida
riqster
(13,986 posts)People are already forgetting how bad it used to be; perhaps that is a measure of the ACA's success.
riverbendviewgal
(4,252 posts)it hurts so.
malaise
(268,854 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)FSogol
(45,468 posts)Enjoy!
Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)I hope the fuck that you never have the fucking chance to fucking bury a child.
easttexaslefty
(1,554 posts)Laffy Kat
(16,376 posts)I can't even imagine losing a child. Type "fuck" all you want with my blessings.
LondonReign2
(5,213 posts)Jesus Christ on a fucking pogo stick.
Orrex
(63,191 posts)The child would still be alive if not for the word "fuck."
mike_c
(36,281 posts)It might be a better thread without you being so sanctimonious.
MFM008
(19,803 posts)maybe your only child are you going to be concerned with semantics?
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)again...
xocet
(3,871 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)dballance
(5,756 posts)I have experienced the fucking grief that fucking blunt and cranky has experienced.
It's really fucking sad that you can't seem to fucking empathize.
I've lost several fucking loved ones to fucking accidents, fucking cancer, other fucking diseases. I'm older now so I have lot of fucking life experience.
That you have to be such a fucking stickler and be fucking offended about terms when a person's blog is clearly fucking labeled " Blunt and Cranky" fucking astounds me. You have many fucking tools at your disposal to not be offended. First, you can trash a thread. Second, if you get into a fucking thread you fucking dislike you can fucking easily get out of it with your fucking mouse. Use the left-fucking button to go back a page and get out of the fucking post you are fucking unhappy with.
This is a political fucking discussion forum. Not a fucking kindergarten where everyone needs to make nice with every fucking other one all the fucking time.
riqster
(13,986 posts)And thanks for the support.
Oh, and Fuck.
dballance
(5,756 posts)One of my biggest losses was my best friend who died of AIDS-related complications. He was a wonderful friend and man. Too bad his last partner, who is still alive, wasn't such a great person. His partner did all sorts of nasty drugs and freely had indiscriminate sexual encounters. All without the knowledge of my friend. Until my friend found out about that.
That asshole is still alive and probably still transmitting disease to others while my good friend is dead.
It has been years since Jim's death. I'm still quite bitter about Jim's suffering and passing away.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)not all the fucks.
Duppers
(28,117 posts)welcome to my fucking ignore list.
Warpy
(111,227 posts)so that a billionaire can get richer.
Sometimes there is a reason for yelling FUCK YOU. This is one of those times.
CountAllVotes
(20,868 posts)FUCK.
As for losing people in one's life, I've had more than my share and I never said FUCK because any which one of them died, never.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)alarimer
(16,245 posts)It will not stop those things from happenings (the dragging the feet for payment, the initial denials that always seem to happen).
Since this person did not really go into details, it's hard to say whether the ACA would have helped or not.
riqster
(13,986 posts)If we hadn't had that, he'd have died even sooner. So the ACA did in fact help.
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)rather than the insurance corporations and by writing protection of obscene profits into the law.
And we are already seeing adjustments to enable profiteering even beyond the ostensible deductible and premium limits of the insurance plans themselves, such as Obama's new loophole that shifts even more costs from the insurers to patients.
Expect more stories like this.
truedelphi
(32,324 posts)Art of medicine but to prescribe, prescribe and prescribe.
I spent two years being tested for every other malady under the sun. After they couldn't find any tumors or growths, they did an MRI of my brain, thinking a brain tumor there was firing off signals that caused me to believe I was in pain.
No brain tumor either.
It ended up being a wheat allergy. But between my first and last bit of testing, I am sure I brought the people at Big Medicine around 12 to 20 thousands of dollars. Luckily the Big Insurer got the bill for the tests, but still my question is: how come of the two doctors I saw, neither ever said, "Might be dietary related?"
In the end it was someone on the nursing staff that figured it all out.
Way back in the 1980's, SF Chronicle ran an article about a Stanford student who was hospitalized. In intense pain. He spent 37 days in a hospital bed before someone figured out he had appendicitis.
Modern test machinery missed that fact, but his symptoms were so clear that one of his parents' friends, a retired MD had said early on, "Son, you have appendicitis."
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)you can justify paying them like technicians.
Ditto for gifted, creative teachers, whom the large companies seek to replace with cursorily trained TFA bots or computer programs.
The goal is *always* to suck profits to the corporate owners, the One Percent, even though they are never the ones who actually provide the services.
Skilled and educated employees of all types have learned this. Doctors will, too. We are being deliberately transformed into a nation of wage slaves for a small group of the very wealthy. Educated professionals who have ignored what's been done to teachers and other occupations will soon learn that they are not special; the oligarchs will be coming after them, too.
I am glad you had a careful and observant nurse involved in your care. We have followed our primary physician to three different practices, as he keeps leaving because they won't allow him to spend the time with patients that he knows is necessary to do his job well.
It's going to be a huge job to get the corporate corruption out of this country. The tentacles are are so broad and deep now that they penetrate every aspect of our lives.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)It does have huge flaws, but hopefully it's a step towards something better.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Obama has said from the git that it's evolutionary, not revolutionary.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)given the nature of what you were talking about. I know nothing I say can make much of a difference regarding the pain you must feel, but I'm not heartless enough to pedantically critique a post made under these circumstances.
riqster
(13,986 posts)So I figure it all evens out in the end.
Thanks.
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)Maybe someday sanity and compassion will reign in this country. But it still ain't today.
riqster
(13,986 posts)My son's passing could then help to save others.
JaneyVee
(19,877 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)Ask me again why I hateRight Wingnuts.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)Don't worry,Right Wingnuts have to go to one of the most dangerous places in the world, an American hospital someday.
As a child of two WWII Navy veterans, doctor and nurse who cared much for their patients in war and peacetime often refusing and forgiving payment, I have the last few decades relied upon the word "Barbaric" to describe our medical system. K&R and
riqster
(13,986 posts)democrank
(11,092 posts)Peace to you~
riqster
(13,986 posts)Romulox
(25,960 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)The ACA also forces the insurers to cover people that they refused to cover previously; and lots of people are on non-profit plans (Medicaid for instance).
As I said in the OP, the ACA is flawed, but it forced my carrier to cover my son when they tried to drop him.
Romulox
(25,960 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)I said it was flawed. I said that. I get that. Did you read where I said that?
Christ on a crutch, THE ACA HELPED KEEP MY KID ALIVE. Imperfect or not, IT HELPED.
Which is more than can be said for the anti-ACA people on the left or the right. If it's a choice between an imperfect law or less time with my child, I am taking the imperfect law.
Romulox
(25,960 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)yodermon
(6,143 posts)to 20%. Hopefully in the future this can be decreased even further. But it went from unlimited to 20%. That is progress.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Hoyt
(54,770 posts)Any commissions come out of that. Also, the cost of taking the risk of insuring an unknown population comes out of it. So, only a small percentage actually goes to profits. Nowadays, private insurers manage Medicare and Medicaid, so even if we had gone single payer, the insurance companies would have been involved.
There are non-profit exchange plans, but they really aren't appreciably cheaper than for-profit plans.
Political reality is that having a single payer system where the government took on the total risk of covering the uninsured would have failed just like Hilliarycare did in 1990s. Hopefully, we will get there in the not to distant future.
frazzled
(18,402 posts)It clearly regulates the amount insurers must spend on actual health care benefit. If profits exceed that amount, they have to be paid back to the customers.
FBaggins
(26,727 posts)Are you saying that the ACA kepy your son insured when they wanted to drop him, but he died post-ACA because they refused to cover something?
I'm struggling to see how it's the pre-ACA system that killed him. Can you clarify.
(Of course it goes without saying that I'm sorry for your loss either way).
riqster
(13,986 posts)However, the health industry is still a profit-based system: the ACA is an interim step and does not mandate approval of treatment, so insurers are still able to deny certain services to the insured.
Specifically: my son awoke from a coma and was discharged in less than 24 hours thereafter, because of Aetna's decision to not pay for further treatment.
He was dead less than 2 days after that discharge.
Doctor_J
(36,392 posts)This won't do anything to eliminate the tragedy in the OP, unfortunately.
riqster
(13,986 posts)He'd have died sooner without it. So the ACA, for all its flaws, was a net positive for us.
Blanks
(4,835 posts)The shame of it is that there will be a lot of parents losing their children in red states that have refused Medicaid expansion.
There's a guy in my home town who had a heart attack several years ago so he had reached his 'lifetime limit' and couldn't get insurance.
I have a lot of right wing friends on Facebook (as does he) and he came right out and said "people complain about Obamacare, but it saved my life."
He had to go into the hospital for about a week and after he got out - he went on vacation to Alaska.
The ACA doesn't solve all problems, but if it's you or your loved one whose life it saves - well, maybe it isn't perfect but in this guy's case it was enough.
Again, I'm sorry for your loss.
Agreed about the ACA: it's a net positive and a good step towards full coverage for all Americans.
Orrex
(63,191 posts)I can't imagine enduring such a nightmare, but you have my sympathy.
riqster
(13,986 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)We have a couple of the ideologues on this thread, trying to point out how bad the ACA is, yadayada. I addressed that mindset in the OP. Not politely, but anyone who tells me that my kid should have died sooner for the sake of their ideology doesn't deserve politeness.
Hang in there.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)Doctor_J
(36,392 posts)Where in the world do you get that from any of the posts in this thread?
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)without any details, without any facts at hand are people who are exploiting that child's death to make a dubious and lazily presented set of opinions. It does come off as utterly unconcerned with the actual people involved, who are treated as nothing more than rhetorical fodder. The author presents raw emotion and a terrible story, you say 'Let ME tell YOU about your son's death'. It does not come off well at all. It looks vicious as hell to be honest with you.
riqster
(13,986 posts)And who use my story to promulgate their hatred of the ACA are pretty despicable in my opinion.
Me: "The ACA is flawed, but it helped my son survive longer, so I am grateful for it".
They: "The ACA sucks".
Me: " my son survived longer because of the ACA".
They "the ACA sucks".
What other conclusion could I draw from such statements? Well, I could draw others, but they'd reflect badly on the ideologues, too.
cate94
(2,810 posts)I think you are being pretty reasonable in your rant. Fuck them.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Doctor_J
(36,392 posts)It allows poor and otherwise uninsurable people to buy the same crappy insurance that we've had all along. The rant somehow decouples the two.
That' what Heritage/Obamacare is. Righteous anger, but misplaced.
This doesn't fit with the other quoted piece. And, furthermore, the president is one of those "bought politicos".
Godawful story of American "healthcare". My condolences to the probably hundreds of thousands who have suffered similar catastrophes.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)Many people suffered and died because of lifetime limits, yearly limits and both of those things are no longer legal under the ACA. Others were unable to get insurance because of pre existing conditions, this is no longer allowed either. It should be single payer, but it is not the same old crappy insurance and your assumption that you know more about the particulars than the family itself is pretty aggressive stuff.
You are being so hyperbolic that it becomes simply incorrect. No more lifetime limits is a huge thing for lots of people with chronic conditions. It's not the same. It is very different.
Doctor_J
(36,392 posts)I said it's good for the poor and uninsurable. It's also very good for the insurance executives, whose job it is to deny care whenever possible in order to maximize profits. My single point in the post which made you apoplectic is that for-profit insurers can, and will, still deny care due to cost considerations. This is not hyperbole. It is a fact. MBAs and their clerks should not be making decisions on what health care should be provided. That should be the sole domain of physicians.
FreakinDJ
(17,644 posts)Simply unbelievable to think a working family can pay in +$1000 per month for years, even decades, and the moment they really need the insurance they have already paid for it can be denied - resulting in death
Simply Unbelievable
Doctor_J
(36,392 posts)for-profit companies are required by law to serve their shareholders first. The very idea of for-profit healthcare is a paradox, or oxymoron if you will. Like it or not, the ACA does not help with this.
I should stay out of these threads that contain emotional defenses of the president. What I am seeing is that, as I am sure the insurance companies predicted, the president's defenders are dug in so deeply that they now think Heritage Care is the solution. 20% or more profits are actually being cheered by Dems. As a person whose employer-provided plan just went up by 10% of my annual pay, whose spouse works in healthcare and has to deal with the insurance death panels every day, who has nearly 10 years to go until Medicare, and who remembers how awful this plan sounded when Gingrinch rolled it out 20 years ago, I just can't get on the bandwagon.
riqster
(13,986 posts)" The ACA won't help this much" is patently false. The ACA did in fact help. Jesus fucking Christ allfuckingmighty.
It might not help in other situations. In fact, there are situations where it does not help at all. But in THIS SITUATION, it FUCKING WELL DID HELP.
Trying to misrepresent the facts of my story to promulgate your point of view is truly detestable behavior.
Number23
(24,544 posts)Rec #145 in DoctorJ's honor.
IronLionZion
(45,409 posts)byronius
(7,392 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)The topic seemed to call for it.
davidthegnome
(2,983 posts)You have my deepest sympathies. I cannot imagine the pain of having to bury one of my children. I am glad that the ACA gave you more time with your child. I just wish we could have given more, done something better. As flawed as it is, it still accomplishes good things - it can be improved - and improvement becomes more likely when folks like you are willing to share your stories.
I'm not thrilled with the ACA, but it's better than what many of us had before - and the fact that it gave you more time with your child... that is something is beyond price. We can make it better though. No one should ever have to die because some clerk or insurance company decides not to pay for care.
My heart is totally with you on this. I am so sorry for your loss.
riqster
(13,986 posts)In my mind, profit and care are mutually exclusive. We won't really be a civilized nation until we have a NHS or one of such.
The ACA was a huge step. We gotta take more steps.
Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)My young cousin(27) died last August...lifesaving surgery delayed until to late as the hospital sought someone to guarantee the bill. He had a pre-existing condition which precluded him buying insurance and his job as many do these days did not offer insurance. He was involved in a boating injury and sustained a head injury...I will wonder everyday if maybe he might be here today if Obamacare had been implemented a year earlier.
riqster
(13,986 posts)And your question is a good one.
KrazyinKS
(291 posts)I think they are one of the worst. Well known for dropping people because they get sick. It's hard to get used to how cold blooded people can be. Sometimes I can't get my hands around it.
riqster
(13,986 posts)The ACA curtailed some of the worst abuses, but Aetna demonstrates the inherent flaw in a profit-based health system.
iandhr
(6,852 posts)BootinUp
(47,136 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)We cannot stop at the ACA. There is more to be done.
Stargazer99
(2,582 posts)My daughter's income was a little over $700 and the state of Washington said she was $3 over their allowed limit. She died several months later from a condition that would have allowed her to live if she had medical care. In fact one of the doctor's offices had a debt collector phone my house for payment. You should have heard the silence when I told them she is dead. Everytime I see someone with medical care I resent this nation. She left a fifteen year old daughter who has considered sucicide in her young life. Apparently in this country your life is only worth something if you have money. This happens because individuals only care if it affects them. Christian nation....you gotta be kidding.
This country exposed me to Handford radiation when I was under 5 years of age. Now that I am old, I believe I am next to let die from lack of enough money to please the medical gods. The fourth of July is just a joke to me.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Profiteering, inhuman scumbags... May they leave without returning, and may the road rise to meet their faces.
tblue37
(65,273 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)RoccoR5955
(12,471 posts)The ACA was a fucking handout to insurance companies.
These bastards are only out to make fucking money, the pieces of shit that they are.
They don't care if one lives or dies, they just want their damn money.
Too bad about all the "fucks" in the message. I am from New York, and we use that word a lot. It's vernacular!
riqster
(13,986 posts)Yes, it provided new customers for the insurers...by forcing them to accept the new customers.
Yes, it helps the insurers make money...but caps their profits and mandates rebates to overcharged customers.
All it is is a good first step. We need to go further.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)appears to contributed to this tragedy.
Medicare for all -- which is what single payer would be -- would not be as wonderful as people seem to think.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Plus, Medicare would be government-run, with traceability and accountability that we will never get from private firms.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)insurance company contracted to handle Medicare/Medicaid hospital claims.
Our health system is messed up, and the profit motive runs a lot deeper than just insurance companies.
Believe me, I'd like to see these tragedies eliminated, certainly reduced.
Take care.
LongTomH
(8,636 posts)The ACA was a big step forward, and we need to keep improving. Keep on fighting!
Edited to add: Christian nation, indeed! Jesus would slap the shit out of these motherfuckers!
riqster
(13,986 posts)Profit and care do not mix.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)"Fuck You, John Boehner. Fuck You, Mitch McConnell. Fuck You, Aetna. Fuck You, Sam Brownback. Fuck everyone who is like you, too."
riqster
(13,986 posts)Every Repub, every teabagger, every rightie.
IronLionZion
(45,409 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)Scuba
(53,475 posts)... including thousands of veterans. Fuck you Squatt.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Rat bassets.
Jefferson23
(30,099 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)DeSwiss
(27,137 posts)PERIOD.
K&R
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riqster
(13,986 posts)jimlup
(7,968 posts)I feel your pain. I understand because me and my family went without insurance for more than a decade.
And that changed me FOREVER. I will never, under any circumstances, vote Republican. I feel very strongly about this issue and I don't understand how the anti-Obamacare movement has so much traction - it should be exactly the opposite. Apparently, our problem is that we are sentient and recognize who our oppressor actually is. It disappoints me greatly to see how many people argue and vote against their own interests.
My condolences to you and your family.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Raine1967
(11,589 posts)I know that my words may not comfort you, but I truly am so sorry for your loss. I wish we could have done more and done it sooner.
riqster
(13,986 posts)I think we will see more progress, if we GOTV.
Raine1967
(11,589 posts)I fought hard to get the ACA passed. I know that you have as well. progress is incremental. it does not happen with a snap of the fingers.
LoisB
(7,195 posts)this country. Aetna is one of the worse in my opinion - every time I sent in a claim, all I ever got was "we're checking, we're checking, then "here's why we are denying your claim". So, F-bomb away.
riqster
(13,986 posts)valerief
(53,235 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)greatlaurel
(2,004 posts)Your post points out a very important point. The ACA is saving lives everyday even while it has its faults. Thank you for making this point. The only way to fix problems are one step at a time and the ACA was a very big step. The people arguing with you remind me of the old proverb, "The perfect is the enemy of the good." We can do continue to improve health care in this country. GOTV is the way forward to rid the anti-life right wing from our politics.
Take care of yourself. We need your voice.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Dustlawyer
(10,494 posts)My health insurance company tried twice to cancel our policy since my son was born with Cystic Fibrosis. They felt they had nothing to lose since the law says that a victorious suit would only require them to pay our attorneys fees and the medical bills per the policy.
Part of the problems a person with Cystic Fibrosis has is that the duct from the Pancreas is blocked necessitating taking enzyme pills with meals to pre-digest the food before it enters the intestine. My son for some reason seemed to need much more enzymes than normal to have close to a normal stool. Due to the effects of the disease their lungs are also susceptible to infections so they end up in the hospital a lot. Each time we had to take him in when we had insurance the doctors would always say they would get to the bottom of why he had to take so many enzymes. They would run dozens of expensive tests and a couple of weeks later when he was released they would always say that while they could not figure it out, it didn't hurt to take the extra enzymes and to keep giving them to him. Of course during the times when the insurance company was contesting the policy and we had no coverage, all of the tests, such as Pulmonary Function test which they had previously told us was absolutely necessary, were not done.
One day we could tell he was getting sick and so we drove the 60 miles to the hospital. Before we could get there he started doing very badly, it happened so fast. He lived 21 days in the hospital and died of sepsis caused by the enzymes eating (digesting) his intestine. The doctors were so busy running the same tests each time, already knowing the results to get the insurance money, that they failed to use their brains and check other things. The insurance company had us UN-insured for so long the doctors would do virtually nothing during those times but give him the IV antibiotics to get rid of the infection, nothing else.
It caused us to go through bankruptcy and rely on government aid for his prescriptions. Hillary was scheduled to meet with us during her attempt to reform the health insurance industry, but canceled as her attempt fell apart.
Doctors, remember your oath, not your wallet!
Hang in there Riqster and take things one day at a time! You will heal, but have a nasty scar. The 2 positive things I took from my son's death (it was important to me to find something) was to try to enjoy very minute of every day that I could, instead of so much delayed gratification, waiting to take a trip with the kids until ___. The other thing is that I don't sweat the small stuff. I know that unless I lose another child there is nothing bad that can really happen to me. His death really put things in their proper perspective. When I start to stress or get upset about something I stop and think about how whatever it is that is currently bad is nothing compared to losing my son 21 years ago.
Joshua Lee 7/12/1990 - 12/21/1993. Miss you little Buddy!
Jefferson23
(30,099 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)You hang in there, too. Thanks for sharing your experience.
Dragonfli
(10,622 posts)I imagine the ACA could have stopped the insurance company from refusing to pay if it had passed earlier.
I believe that now that it is mandated that we use these vultures they have finally stopped doing this because they won.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Not sure if it would have made a difference.
indepat
(20,899 posts)entirely for those who control the levers of power assure government basically operates to promote plutocratic welfare rather than the general welfare. This observation is borne out in the entirety by the mountains of published wage, income, wealth, and other economic data.
riqster
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(13,986 posts)riderinthestorm
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(13,986 posts)riverbendviewgal
(4,252 posts)I am sorry for your loss. I know how you feel.
I am still grieving... When ones has a child die on them the anger never leaves.. My son died from the same kind of brain tumour as Ted Kennedy. He was never ever sick and one day had seizures . 3 days later he was getting brain surgery. that was in April 1998. He got every treatment that could be given, operations, chemos, radiation... very much the same treatment as Ted Kennedy. Glioblastma Multiforme brain tumour kills most who have it in less than 2 years.. But in Canada we have health care for all. My son got whatever needed and was denied no treatment.
I feel for you. I think ACA has helped many. I don't think it is good as what we have up here but it is better than nothing.
My teabagger American relative hates Obama because he is black... this relative works for the MIC..
Here is what my relative wrote recently
I was raised in this country by a Marine and was taught to love my nation and respect the foundations that our country was built upon. I have a 4 year old and a 7 year old that stand during the National Anthem when a Yankee game is on TV. I am doing my best to teach them to honor the country but in light of the current administration, these lessons are becoming increasingly difficult. I have always supported the President of the United States regardless of party line but I expect our Commander in Chief to act in the best interest of each and every citizen. Throughout the past few years, I have moved from questioning President Obama's actions to downright disagreeing with most of those actions.
I hold the Constitution of the United States to the utmost importance and feel it has been neglected in several decisions the President has made. I would actually say with confidence that President Obama has completely and knowingly ignored the Constitution in his methods to push his agenda past (and circumventing) Congress.
Let me first start with the Affordable Health Care Act, which I feel is a monopoly and unconstitutional in itself. How can the Government force an open market to purchase something they do not want to? Further, the entire billion dollar piece of legislation was passed at the convenience of this administration. Once this President bulldozed this bill into action, he decides to delay it at his own discretion. Who is any president to decide which law can or will be implemented and enforced? If the law does not benefit the current administration, Executive Power was erroneously used to delay Obamacare. It seems any legislation can be implemented or ignored on the whim of the presidency.
I know that impeachment is extreme but so are the recent offenses of this administration. People of this country have died and will continue to die unless something changes. While impeachments seems severe, the impeachable offenses seem to be those that I have just described above. Congress issued Articles of Impeachment for acts in three general categories:
Exceeding the constitutional bounds of the powers of the office.
Behavior grossly incompatible with the proper function and purpose of the office.
Employing the power of the office for an improper purpose or for personal gain.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Thanks for your post.
Locrian
(4,522 posts)And that 'letter' - wow.
How fucking ironic?
This "marine" was a part of the BIGGEST gov institution, which we are "forced" to pay for in taxes etc so we can kill other people.
But he want to impeach the president for "force an open market to purchase something they do not want to", which ideally if we had single payer would DECREASE costs and help people.
My fucking head hurts....
riqster
(13,986 posts)You have to wonder why people can hate so much, so often, that they lose the ability to think.
riverbendviewgal
(4,252 posts)My relative works for the IMC that make military jets. The company gives health care . The relative say he does want tp pay for someone elses benefits, no matter how poor or disabled they are. My relative makes 6 figures annual.and watches FOX faithfully.
Oilwellian
(12,647 posts)He died in his sleep of a heart attack and that didn't have to happen. He sought medical care just a few months before he died and they dropped the ball. I intend to write about it one day, but now is not the time. His wife is suing his doctor and a hospital, so I don't want to jeopardize that.
Sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I understand the agony involved.
riqster
(13,986 posts)classykaren
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(13,986 posts)raouldukelives
(5,178 posts)It is maddening when you consider how many people out there each day profit from this. All the small 401k's, all the investors, all the day traders, all the trust funds out there each getting a little slice of the anguish caused to innocent Americans just trying to not to suffer. Just wanting to remain with their families and friends for a bit longer.
All in the cause of an extra dollar for them to travel to Hawaii or buy a second home or purchase fancy wines.
It disgusts me to no end and it will never end. Unless those who choose to side with the demons and destroyers of this world somehow develop a conscience.
Nothing ends a movement for a change like one filled with people donating to the opposition.
riqster
(13,986 posts)cntrygrl
(356 posts)understand how a country (US) that the majority of religious fanatics claim is a nation created on Christian values, is filled with greedy people who allow such a thing to happen. Their greed is killing us.
riqster
(13,986 posts)A hybrid of democracy and republic, with constant contention between the visions of what we "should" be.
Today, I would say the pendulum has swung too far in the wrong direction. Time to push it back.