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Katashi_itto

(10,175 posts)
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 08:19 AM Jun 2014

Pope Signals Near Openness to Same Sex Families


VATICAN CITY (AP) — The Vatican conceded Thursday that most Catholics reject its teachings on sex and contraception as intrusive and irrelevant and officials pledged not to "close our eyes to anything" when it opens a two-year debate on some of the thorniest issues facing the church.

Core church doctrine on the nature of marriage, sexuality, abortion and divorce isn't expected to change as a result of the debate that opens in October. But Pope Francis is well aware that the church has lost much of its relevance and credibility in today's secular world and he is seeking to redirect his ministers to offer families, and even gays in civil unions, a "new language" that is welcoming and responds to their needs.

The Vatican on Thursday issued the working document for the synod discussions, which in itself marked a sharp change from past practice: The Vatican sent out a 39-point questionnaire seeking input from ordinary Catholics around the world about their understanding of, and adherence to, the church's teaching on sexuality, homosexuality, contraception, marriage and divorce.

Thousands of ordinary Catholics, clergy and academics responded, providing the Vatican with an unprecedented compilation of grass-root data to guide the discussion. Usually, such working papers are compiled by bishops alone.

http://talkingpointsmemo.com/news/new-vatican-document-seeks-greater-pastoral-openness-to-same-sex-families

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Pope Signals Near Openness to Same Sex Families (Original Post) Katashi_itto Jun 2014 OP
"Near openness" Warren Stupidity Jun 2014 #1
Everything evolves. Look how our govt went. Steps in the right direction are still steps. Katashi_itto Jun 2014 #2
Our government is not subject to Warren Stupidity Jun 2014 #5
So better they stay with their old view? Katashi_itto Jun 2014 #8
Nothing has changed. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #11
Nothing has changed. Warren Stupidity Jun 2014 #12
Nonsense. PR is far more important than policy Shivering Jemmy Jun 2014 #51
That phrase 'near openness' is your own and not from the source article Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #24
It's a step above: We won't stone them or burn them at the stake marshall Jun 2014 #4
It is no step at all. Nothing has changed. Warren Stupidity Jun 2014 #6
Nothing has changed? Jeff In Milwaukee Jun 2014 #17
You see this as being all about the bullies, not about their victims at all. Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #20
Those old bigots in the Vatican have not been allowed to execute anyone since July of 1890 Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #18
Okay, it's one step in a 26-mile marathon; the Catholic Church gotta LONG way to go. InAbLuEsTaTe Jun 2014 #46
As long as gay people are 'discreet'; and as long as they don't have any children muriel_volestrangler Jun 2014 #9
Exactly. They still support fights against equality and autonomy. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #10
That's quite clear in paragraphs such as these theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #29
How much arrogance and lack of awarness does it take for Catholic Clergy to preach about children? Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #14
I can nearly fly if I flap my arms NightWatcher Jun 2014 #42
LOL!! theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #48
"It distinguished between gays who are "discreet" in their lifestyle and those who actively, PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #3
Right On! Kath1 Jun 2014 #7
He signals no such thing and what they do say is offensive. This is not really right, to post Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #13
This is how change starts. onehandle Jun 2014 #15
I don't want religion to 'die', I want their involvement in secular matters to die. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #16
Stop harrassing us. Stop trash talking, stop encouraging violence against us. Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #21
Whooopdee-freeakin'-doo... SidDithers Jun 2014 #19
It's amazing to me how many OP titles claim the Pope said something good when he said nothing at all Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #22
Lol! Katashi_itto Jun 2014 #23
That post you replied to is a really barrel o' laughs, huh? PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #25
What's he going to do, fess up to his own actions? Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #27
It's a work of fakery. Everything I said is absolutely true, but you can not say the same. Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #26
You are always posting the same thing over and over. Why shouldn't I laugh? Katashi_itto Jun 2014 #28
Because bigotry is not funny. And because adults should be able to defend their own words Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #30
And you are always defending the bigoted dogmas of the church theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #31
According to you. It's the old either for your with us or against us deal. Katashi_itto Jun 2014 #33
There have been no advances theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #36
According to you. I differ. The conversation is actually starting in fits and starts. Katashi_itto Jun 2014 #37
Lip service and PR is not progress. theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #44
Here is an actual headline from a nicely balanced Opinion piece. You should read it. Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #38
Here's another piece you should read. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #40
No he's not. Everything Francis has said is just restating what the Catechism has said for years: NYC Liberal Jun 2014 #50
Yes but a celestial bat signal has been transmitted. Warren Stupidity Jun 2014 #45
Any thread about the Pope becomes a bat signal. rug Jun 2014 #52
What the article actually says: Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #32
Baby steps. Tetris_Iguana Jun 2014 #34
It would be nice if it was sooner. But not likely. Katashi_itto Jun 2014 #35
The Church is as free to be as much of bigoted institution as their leaders desire... theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #39
Selfish little baby steps by grown up adults while this goes on: Bluenorthwest Jun 2014 #43
sounds like a kindler, gentler bigotry fishwax Jun 2014 #41
Unrec. Wrong forum. Contains nothing new to talk about. closeupready Jun 2014 #47
No. All this does is affirm the Church's LONG-STANDING policy, NYC Liberal Jun 2014 #49
 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
5. Our government is not subject to
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 08:38 AM
Jun 2014

the ideological shackles of a 1700 year old authoritarian religious institution.

Shivering Jemmy

(900 posts)
51. Nonsense. PR is far more important than policy
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 12:06 PM
Jun 2014

PR shapes minds and expectations while policy merely proscribes behavior.


Controlling and shaping the minds of the adherents of an ideology eventually forces policy change. The reverse is not true at all.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
24. That phrase 'near openness' is your own and not from the source article
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:44 AM
Jun 2014

Also your own, crediting Francis with saying something in an article in which Francis is not quoted at all. His mouthpiece trash talks gay people a bit. Ugly stuff, dressed up for the show by you personally.

You should own your words and your work. The title is your work, your words.

marshall

(6,665 posts)
4. It's a step above: We won't stone them or burn them at the stake
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 08:38 AM
Jun 2014

But at least it is progress, and in the proper direction.

Jeff In Milwaukee

(13,992 posts)
17. Nothing has changed?
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:17 AM
Jun 2014

Three years ago, the Catholic Church wouldn't have been having this discussion AT ALL. And certainly it wouldn't be a discussion that would have included the Pope himself.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
20. You see this as being all about the bullies, not about their victims at all.
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:23 AM
Jun 2014

I don't give a shit about their 'discussions'. Until they are no longer bigoted and evil, they are in the wrong. 'Discussion' sounds like an excuse to continue their bad behaviors.
There is nothing to discuss. Equal is equal. They have no right to trash talk minority groups. Who the hell are they? They are Cardinal Law and dozens of other utterly depraved people.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
18. Those old bigots in the Vatican have not been allowed to execute anyone since July of 1890
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:20 AM
Jun 2014

when the last of the Papal States fell to the Italian Army. From 1769-1861 there were 561 executions carried out by Papal Government. By a single executioner. He kept a list of the names. Guillotine, drawn and quartered, hung, and they also used a method called Mazzatallo, which involved crushing the head with a mallet then slitting the throat.

So of course when they say they are eternally opposed to the death penalty, they mean 'now that we no longer have that power we oppose the use of that power, so abused by us in the past'.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_people_executed_in_the_Papal_States#1860-1870

muriel_volestrangler

(101,262 posts)
9. As long as gay people are 'discreet'; and as long as they don't have any children
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 08:55 AM
Jun 2014
112. The responses describe a third context, one where States have introduced legislation recognizing civil unions or so-called “marriages” between homosexual persons. In some countries, the situation reflects a real redefining of marriage, where the couple is viewed only in legal terms, with such references as “equal rights” and “non-discrimination” without any thought to a constructive dialogue in the matter based on the deeper anthropological issues involved and the centrality of the integral well-being of the human person, especially the integral well-being of the children in these unions. When legal equality is given to heterosexual and homosexual marriage, the State often allows the adoption of children (biological children of either partner or children born through artificial fertilization). Such is the case, particularly in English-speaking countries and central Europe.
...
116. When considering the possibility of a ministry to these people, a distinction must be made between those who have made a personal, and often painful, choice and live that choice discreetly so as not to give scandal to others, and those whose behaviour promotes and actively — often aggressively — calls attention to it. Many conferences emphasize that, due to the fact that these unions are a relatively recent phenomenon, no pastoral programs exist in their regard. Others admit a certain unease at the challenge of accepting these people with a merciful spirit and, at the same time, holding to the moral teaching of the Church, all the while attempting to provide appropriate pastoral care which takes every aspect of the person into consideration. Some responses recommend not using phrases such as “gay,” “lesbian” or “homosexual” to define a person’s identity.
...
120. The responses are clearly opposed to legislation which would allow the adoption of children by persons in a same-sex union, because they see a risk to the integral good of the child, who has the right to have a mother and father, as pointed out recently by Pope Francis (cf. Address to Members of the International Catholic Child Bureau (BICE), 11 April 2014 ). However, when people living in such unions request a child’s baptism, almost all the responses emphasize that the child must be received with the same care, tenderness and concern which is given to other children. Many responses indicate that it would be helpful to receive more concrete pastoral directives in these situations. Clearly, the Church has the duty to ascertain the actual elements involved in transmitting the faith to the child. Should a reasonable doubt exist in the capability of persons in a same sex union to instruct the child in the Christian faith, proper support is to be secured in the same manner as for any other couple seeking the baptism of their children. In this regard, other people in their family and social surroundings could also provide assistance. In these cases, the pastor is carefully to oversee the preparation for the possible baptism of the child, with particular attention given to the choice of the godfather and godmother.

http://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/synod/documents/rc_synod_doc_20140626_instrumentum-laboris-familia_en.html


So it's basically "shut up, and don't you dare thinking about giving birth to, or adopting, children, because we think you're a risk to children".

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
29. That's quite clear in paragraphs such as these
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:59 AM
Jun 2014

34. The synod will have to reflect on how to promote in today’s world a ministry which encourages the participation of the family in society. Families are not only the subject of protection by the State, but must regain their role as active agents in society. In this regard, the following challenges emerge: the relationship between the family and the workplace; the relationship between the family and education; the relationship between the family and health; the family’s ability to bring generations together so as not to neglect the young and the elderly; the situation of the rights of the family institution and its specific relationships; and the promotion of just laws, such as those that ensure the defense of human life from its conception and those which promote the social goodness of an authentic marriage between a man and a woman.

There are so many outrageous statements in this documents I barely know where to begin.

23. Generally speaking, the notion of “human rights” is also seen as highly subjective and a call for a person to self-determination, a process which is no longer grounded in the idea of the natural law. In this regard, many respondents relate that the legal systems in many countries are having to make laws on situations which are contrary to the traditional dictates of the natural law (for example, in vitro fertilization, homosexual unions, the manipulation of human embryos, abortion, etc.). Situated in this context is the increased diffusion of the ideology called gender theory, according to which the gender of each individual turns out to be simply the product of social conditioning and needs and, thereby, ceasing, in this way, to have any correspondence to a person’s biological sexuality.

24. Furthermore, much attention is given in the responses to the fact that what becomes established in civil law — based on an increasingly dominant legal positivism — might mistakenly become in people’s mind accepted as morally right. What is “natural” tends to be determined by the individual and society only, who have become the sole judges in ethical choices. The relativization of the concept of “nature” is also reflected in the concept of stability and the “duration” of the relationship of marriage unions. Today, love is considered “forever” only to the point that a relationship lasts.

25. If some responses refer to a lack of proper understanding of the natural law, several episcopal conferences in Africa, Oceania and East Asia, mention that, in some regions, polygamy is to be considered “natural,” as well as a husband’s divorcing his wife because she is unable to bear children — and, in some cases, unable to bear sons. In other words, from an emerging point of view, drawn from a widely diffused culture, the natural law is no longer to be considered as applicable to everyone, since people mistakenly come to the conclusion that a unique system of reference does not exist.

I'm just going to stop here. This document is so full of offensive language I barely know where to begin. If anything, it only reiterates that their war on gay marriage and reproductive choice will continue.

Perhaps if some of these news sources would actually read these documents rather than just regurgitate whatever press release they're fed by the Vatican, they'd report that nothing, at all, has changed.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
14. How much arrogance and lack of awarness does it take for Catholic Clergy to preach about children?
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:10 AM
Jun 2014

I mean, it is as if they forget that the world knows them to be one of the major abusers of children for many generations.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
3. "It distinguished between gays who are "discreet" in their lifestyle and those who actively,
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 08:34 AM
Jun 2014

"often aggressively" call attention to their unions."

So, regarding LGBT, this piece basically says, "We're not changing anything, other than saying don't be mean to gays." The vatican needs to get that message to US RCC leadership.

Also, they are not changing the stance on birth control, only that "the media and its own priests have failed to communicate the "positive" aspects of the Vatican's key document banning artificial contraception".

Interesting how another part of the article calls for expediting annulments for opposite-sex couples. And here I thought divorce was a 'threat to marriage' more than the gays.

And, until he tells the church and its members to stop fighting against secular laws regarding equality and autonomy, it's no more than lip service. Women and LGBT aren't looking for the church to "be nice" to us, we want them to stop trying to make this country a theocracy.

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
7. Right On!
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 08:48 AM
Jun 2014

"Women and LGBT aren't looking for the church to "be nice" to us, we want them to stop trying to make this country a theocracy."

And to that I say "AMEN" on this Sunday morning (as a former Catholic).

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
13. He signals no such thing and what they do say is offensive. This is not really right, to post
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:05 AM
Jun 2014

utter bullshit about important things. This sort of thing makes Francis look worse than the doddering old hypocritical bigot billionaire already looks, and he already looks culpable for murder and corruption of all sorts. Vicious, vile old hate monger.

If you Superstar Promoters would be honest, it would not be necessary to use so much strong language about this bigoted old fucker.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
15. This is how change starts.
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:13 AM
Jun 2014

Things like this freak out naysayers who would rather see religion die, than evolve.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
21. Stop harrassing us. Stop trash talking, stop encouraging violence against us.
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:28 AM
Jun 2014

Keep your religion to yourself, leave us alone. That's what that Church needs to do. They need to stop the bullying.
In Uganda, Bishops of that Church are calling for violence against LGBT people. They want us dead, and they say so.
How petty to use the language you indulge in to defend a group engaged in pogroms calling for the elimination of gay people.

SidDithers

(44,228 posts)
19. Whooopdee-freeakin'-doo...
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:22 AM
Jun 2014

Their former Fox News PR Director knows they have to appear more relevant.

Meanwhile, Catholic hospitals deny legitimate medical procedures to women, and Catholic Adoption agencies refuse to place children with gay couples.

But how 'bout that Pope, eh? Didja hear he stopped his motorcade to meet that little angel Roberta?



Sid

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
22. It's amazing to me how many OP titles claim the Pope said something good when he said nothing at all
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:40 AM
Jun 2014

This article contains not a single word quoted from Francis. No 'signal'. No nothing. The title of the article at the source does not claim the Pope signaled something, because he did not.
Not one word from Francis in the article, not one word from him about what his Bishops are doing in Uganda. No remorse, no nothing.

Additionally when you read the full article, it clearly states they are not changing any teachings on same sex marriage and the Vatican mouthpiece says some horrible, bigoted things. He signals a deep bigotry that is not going anywhere.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
27. What's he going to do, fess up to his own actions?
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:50 AM
Jun 2014

He can not deny what I said nor defend his own actions. So he lashes out.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
26. It's a work of fakery. Everything I said is absolutely true, but you can not say the same.
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 09:47 AM
Jun 2014

And it is a regular feature of these aggressively anti gay Francis actions on DU. The title makes claims that the article not only does not deliver, but the article says the opposite of what the title claims.
'Near openness' is your phrase, so is adding Francis to the title. And it is simply false.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
30. Because bigotry is not funny. And because adults should be able to defend their own words
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 10:01 AM
Jun 2014

No quote from Francis in the article, he signaled nothing. His mouthpiece said shitty things.

RCC members comprise 43% of Uganda. Francis says nothing and his boosters laugh about it all.
Jesus wept.
http://www.seattleglobalist.com/2014/06/27/uganda-anti-homosexuality-bill-pride/27155

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
31. And you are always defending the bigoted dogmas of the church
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 10:02 AM
Jun 2014

Why shouldn't we be pissed? You treat the very real issues of the oppression of women and LGBTs as a joke.

 

Katashi_itto

(10,175 posts)
33. According to you. It's the old either for your with us or against us deal.
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 10:16 AM
Jun 2014

I just point out when the church makes advances. This pope is actually making slow changes.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
44. Lip service and PR is not progress.
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 10:48 AM
Jun 2014

"A difference which makes no difference IS no difference."

Get back to me when the Pope isn't inviting France's most virulent, anti-gay hatemonger to a private mass, when the bishops and Archbishops of Uganda and Nigeria have been defrocked, when the scores of lawsuits against contraception coverage have been dropped, when he isn't giving his seal of approval to an anti-gay hate march in Washington, when women are offered an equal place in the church, when the crackdown on progressive nuns is history and his minions in the church heirarchy aren't pouring millions of dollars into anti-gay legislation.

Until then, the PR firm can continue working overtime to convince us that the emperor really is wearing a new set of clothes.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
38. Here is an actual headline from a nicely balanced Opinion piece. You should read it.
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 10:31 AM
Jun 2014

Why does progressive Pope Francis allow anti-gay bishops to preach hate?

Why won’t this pope speak out against leaders like the Nigerian president and his own bishops who support draconian treatment of gay people?
http://www.post-gazette.com/opinion/Op-Ed/2014/04/06/Francis-keeps-his-distance-MICHAEL-O-LOUGHLIN/stories/201404060013


And again, the article you linked to said
"The document doesn't recommend changing church teaching on key hot-button issues like its opposition to gay marriage."

So your claim of a signal of change is not accurate, it states no change is recommended. Clearly. In the article provided by your own OP.

NYC Liberal

(20,135 posts)
50. No he's not. Everything Francis has said is just restating what the Catechism has said for years:
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 11:51 AM
Jun 2014
The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God's will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord's Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.


http://www.vatican.va/archive/ccc_css/archive/catechism/p3s2c2a6.htm
 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
45. Yes but a celestial bat signal has been transmitted.
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 11:13 AM
Jun 2014

Sure church doctrine hasn't changed and isn't expected to change. But a bat signal! How cool is that?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
52. Any thread about the Pope becomes a bat signal.
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 03:07 PM
Jun 2014

As this thread demonstrates.



I'm going to start taking orders for capes. Evil must be fought!
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
32. What the article actually says:
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 10:11 AM
Jun 2014

The document doesn't recommend changing church teaching on key hot-button issues like its opposition to gay marriage.

And

It distinguished between gays who are "discreet" in their lifestyle and those who actively, "often aggressively" call attention to their unions.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
39. The Church is as free to be as much of bigoted institution as their leaders desire...
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 10:32 AM
Jun 2014

... as long as they stay out of politics, which they are unwilling to do. Since they won't, they'll come under the same kind of scrutiny and criticism as any other organization that promotes and funds campaigns against the rights of women and LGBTs.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
43. Selfish little baby steps by grown up adults while this goes on:
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 10:37 AM
Jun 2014

Uganda's Anti-Gay Witch Hunt Has Officially Begun
https://news.vice.com/article/ugandas-anti-gay-witch-hunt-has-officially-begun

Why does progressive Pope Francis allow anti-gay bishops to preach hate?

http://www.post-gazette.com/opinion/Op-Ed/2014/04/06/Francis-keeps-his-distance-MICHAEL-O-LOUGHLIN/stories/201404060013

Uganda is 43% Catholic and Francis says nothing about it. That defines him.

fishwax

(29,148 posts)
41. sounds like a kindler, gentler bigotry
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 10:33 AM
Jun 2014
"The episcopal conferences amply demonstrate that they are trying to find a balance between the church's teaching on the family and a respectful, non-judgmental attitude toward people living in such unions," it said. It distinguished between gays who are "discreet" in their lifestyle and those who actively, "often aggressively" call attention to their unions.

"The great challenge will be to develop a ministry which can maintain the proper balance between accepting persons in a spirit of compassion and gradually guiding them to authentic human and Christian maturity," it said.

NYC Liberal

(20,135 posts)
49. No. All this does is affirm the Church's LONG-STANDING policy,
Sun Jun 29, 2014, 11:48 AM
Jun 2014

which, officially, is don't discriminate and don't judge. Not that the Church doesn't do this with their other stances on LGBT issues. But it's not new at all. The Church teaches that homosexuality is a mental disorder. Gays can't help being gay; they're sick.

Of course, they still want gays to not act on their sexuality and be "discreet".

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