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KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 01:44 PM Aug 2016

The Culture Of The Smug White Liberal

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/nikki-johnsonhuston-esq/the-culture-of-the-smug-w_b_11537306.html

I have spent my life as a Democrat which probably isn’t that surprising considering that I am African-American. One of the things that always attracted me to the party were the ideals of equality, fighting for the little guy and our openness to differing opinions, but lately I have seen my party take a turn that makes me uncomfortable. Somewhere along the way we stopped fighting for the little guy and became the party of the smug, educated elites who look down on those with less education and deem them unable or unworthy of being able to make personal decisions for their own lives....

My problem with Liberalism is that it’s more concerned with policing people’s language and thoughts without requiring them to do anything to fix the problem. White liberal college students speak of “safe spaces”, “trigger words”, “micro aggressions” and “white privilege” while not having to do anything or, more importantly, give up anything. They can’t even have a conversation with someone who sees the world differently without resorting to calling someone a racist, homophobic, misogynistic, bigot and trying to have them banned from campus, or ruin them and their reputation. They say they feel black peoples’ pain because they took a trip to Africa to help the disadvantaged, but are unwilling to go to a black neighborhood in the City in which they live. These same college students will espouse the joys of diversity, but will in the same breath assume you are only on campus because of affirmative action or that all black people grew up in poverty. My personal favorite is declaring with surprise how articulate a black classmate is despite the fact that we are attending the same institution of higher learning as they are.

The White Liberal culture encourages talking about diversity and shaming others for their alleged racism, but many times they themselves work in environments that are mostly white. When questioned they’ll defensively state that they promote strictly on merit. Black people aren’t suggesting that we want someone unqualified to get the position, but I find it telling that they assume that we are not qualified. These same Liberals are quick to be against school choice, while their kids go to private or well-regarded public schools. Leaving poor black children behind in underperforming schools and providing less opportunity to improve their lives is inconsequential to keeping true to their white liberal politics. Many people are quick to espouse the political values of liberalism without having to live with the often harsh reality of those policies....

White Liberals have hijacked the conversation about diversity, political correctness and what topics we should be outraged about. When a terrorist attack occurs the media and liberals rightly remind us that it’s unfair to judge an entire religion by the actions of a small minority, but I haven’t heard similar unequivocal statements made in the media about the African-American community being unfairly judged by the negative actions of a few. The media lectures about intolerance of the Right, but is the first to show the mugshot of a young black suspect while showing the much more positive yearbook photo of a young white suspect. In fact the criminalization of African-Americans, especially men, has been turned into public policy in large part because of our negative portrayal in the media, which is predominantly filled with white liberal voices.

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The Culture Of The Smug White Liberal (Original Post) KamaAina Aug 2016 OP
I see no lies in this article UMTerp01 Aug 2016 #1
This is a great article Gman Aug 2016 #2
This was alerted on Quayblue Aug 2016 #3
Of course it was alerted on UMTerp01 Aug 2016 #14
Spell it out -- who runs this place? SMC22307 Aug 2016 #102
"As long as they play by the many, many rules" UMTerp01 Aug 2016 #106
Ain't that the truth. KMOD Aug 2016 #116
Civility is stressed at DU... SMC22307 Aug 2016 #119
Where's the insult? UMTerp01 Aug 2016 #127
I know some DUers reject the dictionary because... SMC22307 Aug 2016 #133
DU doesn't need any more of the identity politics. NuclearDem Aug 2016 #128
Only if you choose to see it that way. KMOD Aug 2016 #138
Exactly!!!!!! nt UMTerp01 Aug 2016 #156
Exactly. n/t lumberjack_jeff Sep 2016 #192
You gotta be shittin me. Who, HERE, would alert this OP? 7962 Aug 2016 #49
Most Definitely... LovingA2andMI Aug 2016 #52
Cue the "easily triggered" jokes. Odin2005 Aug 2016 #76
See the latest whine thread about how laughing at the naked Trump statue triggers all obese people. backscatter712 Aug 2016 #158
I'd love to post the video of Phil Ochs Warpy Aug 2016 #123
"This was alerted on" major debacle Aug 2016 #135
A couple of ways, perhaps. Beartracks Aug 2016 #151
such a great article. nt La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2016 #4
Interesting article. kiva Aug 2016 #5
the media might be filled with white liberal "voices", but they're reading from a right-wing script. unblock Aug 2016 #6
I think it's more nuanced than that. loyalsister Aug 2016 #15
Very thought provoking post. KMOD Aug 2016 #143
Thanks. Living in Columbia, MO has been a great educational opportunity with last fall's events loyalsister Aug 2016 #148
Damn Skippy! nt MrScorpio Aug 2016 #7
When I was a youth, I stumbled across a book I have never forgotten. yallerdawg Aug 2016 #8
Interesting historical audio clip of him BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #18
Nice clip - very interesting story premise. yallerdawg Aug 2016 #46
There was actually a modern production of it created. BumRushDaShow Aug 2016 #67
Interesting paragraph... awoke_in_2003 Aug 2016 #65
Oh boy this is really going to be good. MicaelS Aug 2016 #9
Actually, a haole (white) man posted it. A black woman wrote it. KamaAina Aug 2016 #20
Got it. I Corrected my OP. Thanks. n/t MicaelS Aug 2016 #31
Strangely enough, that sentence is very similar to what I've read elsewhere, 7962 Aug 2016 #54
Do you really think that is what liberalism is about? If so, will you not be voting for Squinch Aug 2016 #85
I will vote straight Democratic, period. MicaelS Aug 2016 #90
So they are too concerned with social justice at the expense of economic justice? Squinch Aug 2016 #92
I didn't get that at all from her article. KMOD Aug 2016 #98
Everyone's perspective is molded by different experiences mdbl Aug 2016 #160
Excellent read malaise Aug 2016 #10
I do not agree with most of that viewpoint. Doodley Aug 2016 #11
i don't see how a trip to africa is giving something up JI7 Aug 2016 #13
What should white liberals give up that black liberals in same financial position are giving up? Doodley Aug 2016 #25
they don't have to give up anything. my point is that a trip to africa isn't giving something up JI7 Aug 2016 #34
Sure it is. It's giving time. TCJ70 Aug 2016 #132
that's not "giving up" as in sacrafice such as those who go to wars, sorry but if that's how they JI7 Aug 2016 #150
"Not good enough, young people!" TCJ70 Aug 2016 #165
if they see themselves as some martyr type yeah they aren't very helpful JI7 Aug 2016 #176
Barbie Savior hunter Aug 2016 #99
pretty much JI7 Aug 2016 #152
The author wrote that article with you in mind. n/t jtuck004 Aug 2016 #40
If it generalized about blacks in that way, it would be dismissed as a racist rant. Doodley Aug 2016 #63
+10 Vattel Aug 2016 #113
"it’s unfair to judge an entire by the actions of a small minority" Igel Aug 2016 #12
I don't expect white liberals to "give up anything" - I don't even know what that means. romanic Aug 2016 #16
What about white privilege and microaggressions. Do you believe they exist? I do. Squinch Aug 2016 #86
I believe white Americans have it easier romanic Aug 2016 #110
We'll have to disagree about microaggressions. In fact, I find it interesting that, Squinch Aug 2016 #114
If somone used the n or c words then they would be banned romanic Aug 2016 #164
The question is, are you OK with that? If that were not the case and those people were not Squinch Aug 2016 #168
Of course not. romanic Aug 2016 #179
And my point is that this is word policing, which you say you object to. Squinch Aug 2016 #184
it is only a microaggression if it triggers you into a safe space snooper2 Aug 2016 #185
Can I touch your hair? So, what are you anyhow? You all live in poverty so you have nothing to lose. Squinch Aug 2016 #187
Some excellent points 40RatRod Aug 2016 #17
Great read! Mirror in front of this white face. Missn-Hitch Aug 2016 #19
So... MynameisBlarney Aug 2016 #21
It's not a minority of people in said group, KMOD Aug 2016 #24
You are right and that is very racist whoever may be saying it about whichever group. Doodley Aug 2016 #35
No shit? So because I call someone a murderer, I'm a murderer too? Lol. n/t jtuck004 Aug 2016 #39
No of course not. You wouldn't be making a blanket statement about a whole group of people. Doodley Aug 2016 #42
Committing a murder is a deliberate choice made by an individual. NuclearDem Aug 2016 #75
Yes. They are judging a racist, too comfortable, and privileged white majority. Because said jtuck004 Aug 2016 #38
I'm a white liberal. What exactly do you want me to do, or don't I have the morals to change? Doodley Aug 2016 #44
This is what us white liberals should do. KMOD Aug 2016 #53
I will be defensive if a broad brush is used against any group of people. Doodley Aug 2016 #61
and yet, here you are KMOD Aug 2016 #64
Ding ding ding. Well put. Missn-Hitch Aug 2016 #170
Derisive name-calling is what immediately shuts down the conversation. SMC22307 Aug 2016 #174
You have got to be kidding me. KMOD Aug 2016 #177
oh don't you know? Skittles Aug 2016 #120
She never stereotyped all white liberals, KMOD Aug 2016 #144
The first time I heard the term "safe space" was from a group of college-aged black women.... Moonwalk Aug 2016 #22
Best post of the day. You said it better than I ever could. Doodley Aug 2016 #41
I have personally known many people who fit this description. Throd Aug 2016 #23
What should they do that you are doing? Doodley Aug 2016 #27
Maybe start by not be so self-satisfied with their hyperenlightened moral superiority. Throd Aug 2016 #32
I apologize for being white and being so satisfied with my own hyperenlightened moral superiority. Doodley Aug 2016 #36
That's a start, but what are you going to do about it? (ntxt) scscholar Aug 2016 #68
Yes, the smugness is the sin Warpy Aug 2016 #124
You can run across that anywhere on the political spectrum treestar Aug 2016 #26
Very well said. Doodley Aug 2016 #29
they do the same thing with sexism, they feel its ok to rip into any women they disagree with with Grey Lemercier Aug 2016 #28
Great... Ishoutandscream2 Aug 2016 #30
Good, thought-provoking article. The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2016 #33
K&R GREAT Article. eom MohRokTah Aug 2016 #37
There are some truths being mixed in with broad generalizations IronLionZion Aug 2016 #43
I am sorry you have had to face ridiculous questions about where you choose to live. Doodley Aug 2016 #48
We have our own Fascists in our party. Oneironaut Aug 2016 #45
Most people are ok with fascism as long as it goes along with there believes. UnFettered Aug 2016 #79
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2016 #47
I dont think u can stuff Cryptoad Aug 2016 #50
Exactly. I would think it is insulting to most of the white DU members who read this thread. Doodley Aug 2016 #55
Most DU members "get it' and are not offended .... etherealtruth Aug 2016 #104
+1 KMOD Aug 2016 #146
She is a Democrat. KMOD Aug 2016 #58
With n that context,,, Cryptoad Aug 2016 #62
Black woman. . . daligirrl Aug 2016 #66
This Right Here.... LovingA2andMI Aug 2016 #51
Good article. annabanana Aug 2016 #56
Chris hedges said something once about liberals love The Poor.. Volaris Aug 2016 #57
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2016 #59
This is some utter BS. Point your finger at the media not at me. I'm a PROGRESSIVE .. A LEFTIST YOHABLO Aug 2016 #60
K&R awoke_in_2003 Aug 2016 #69
K&R Sissyk Aug 2016 #70
"Love Me I'm a Liberal" The River Aug 2016 #71
Thanks for posting! TeacherB87 Aug 2016 #72
K&R ileus Aug 2016 #73
I'm not liking this article. I don't at all deny the fact of smugness among white liberals. My Squinch Aug 2016 #74
I agree. SecularMotion Aug 2016 #83
Glad I'm not the only one who saw it. The response to the article is so overwhelmingly Squinch Aug 2016 #84
I read it more as frustration, KMOD Aug 2016 #91
I get the intent, I just think it's suspect that the author chose a whole lot of complaints Squinch Aug 2016 #94
I think the Eric Garner death reference, KMOD Aug 2016 #97
She didn't offer any suggestions about what to "start doing" she just attacked Liberals stevenleser Aug 2016 #100
Her suggestion, at least in my interpretation, KMOD Aug 2016 #107
Does she honestly think Liberals aren't doing that? How would she know? stevenleser Aug 2016 #109
I'll once again refer to this excerpt KMOD Aug 2016 #111
Yes, I agree with that. We all should be judged by what we are doing to solve our Squinch Aug 2016 #112
I said a bit more in post #107 KMOD Aug 2016 #115
I agree that the discussion is always a valuable one. Squinch Aug 2016 #117
I just saw a clip on YouTube, "Liberal Policies to Blame for Inner City Chaos" betsuni Aug 2016 #157
I agree, I don't trust it. betsuni Aug 2016 #142
Good read UnFettered Aug 2016 #77
Too many middle class white people are more concerned with dealing with feelings of guilt... Odin2005 Aug 2016 #78
I've said for a while that the fantasy of white liberalism is that if everyone thinks long and hard XemaSab Aug 2016 #80
At least ten truths in the article Person 2713 Aug 2016 #81
Which ten truths? Doodley Aug 2016 #93
This is the most racist thread I have ever seen on DU. Doodley Aug 2016 #82
Well, you're a n00b. Stick around a while. You'll see plenty more. KamaAina Aug 2016 #105
No doubt, you'll support your allegation yes? LanternWaste Aug 2016 #186
An interesting article that I think is too generalized and superficial not to mention conservative stevenleser Aug 2016 #87
I totally agree. And I agree with your conclusion: Squinch Aug 2016 #88
Poor thing. ronnie624 Aug 2016 #89
Absolute BS article (designed to generate HuffPost clicks) oberliner Aug 2016 #95
I agree its bullshit jcgoldie Aug 2016 #140
True romanic Aug 2016 #180
I've seen it. Buckeye_Democrat Aug 2016 #96
This Thread Was Worth the Read lib87 Aug 2016 #101
No liberal has ever stated that the black community should not be held responsible bluedye33139 Aug 2016 #103
It's an exercise in broad-brushing and taking personal issues... SMC22307 Aug 2016 #108
Actually, I believe she was trying to reach you. KMOD Aug 2016 #118
The black community should not be held responsible for the actions of a few bluedye33139 Aug 2016 #121
LOL... SMC22307 Aug 2016 #126
So much of what the article said was accurate and wonderful bluedye33139 Aug 2016 #129
Then she can try forming an argument based on reality NuclearDem Aug 2016 #122
Nobody was called a racist. KMOD Aug 2016 #130
She failed. Perhaps she should work... SMC22307 Aug 2016 #125
Or perhaps you should work on your KMOD Aug 2016 #131
When someone starts by calling me "smug," SMC22307 Aug 2016 #134
Why do you assume she was addressing you, and you alone? KMOD Aug 2016 #139
Should Muslims, Mexicans, and immigrants feel the same way about Trump's comments? Doodley Aug 2016 #153
The OP was not racist KMOD Aug 2016 #154
please SheriffBob Aug 2016 #163
Thank you. I appreciate that you have stood up to a bully. Doodley Aug 2016 #182
Yes, I do have a big problem with race. I am intolerant of any racism and always have been. Doodley Aug 2016 #181
i agree SheriffBob Aug 2016 #178
i am sure that sean hannity would approve of this article SheriffBob Aug 2016 #136
The race baiting meme needs to stop. KMOD Aug 2016 #155
You get it and anybody who disagrees with you doesn't get it. SheriffBob Aug 2016 #161
That's fair comment. Of all the groups that one might rail against, hitting those who at the very OnDoutside Aug 2016 #166
I think people are on a gradiant where racism is concerned. That is not new. I heard a poem applegrove Aug 2016 #137
I took an online test for skin tone bias through Harvard. Buckeye_Democrat Aug 2016 #141
I did the first test too and came in at slightly biased. Nicholas Kristof did a like test applegrove Aug 2016 #145
The most shocking thing for me recently was seeing... Buckeye_Democrat Aug 2016 #149
Good Points! burrowowl Aug 2016 #147
Language doesn't matter. raven mad Aug 2016 #159
K&R! Dr Hobbitstein Aug 2016 #162
This message was self-deleted by its author closeupready Aug 2016 #190
The author is the "White Liberal" Whisperer! MellowDem Aug 2016 #167
Some of us got involved in NC's anti-fracking movement... SMC22307 Aug 2016 #175
Lol. A heap of conservative talking points, swallowed whole because wrapped in identity politics. redgreenandblue Aug 2016 #169
Of course the unstated corollary to this argument . . FairWinds Aug 2016 #171
MLK wrote once ... mntleo2 Aug 2016 #172
This is why I'm a classic pre-Reagan Blue Collar Democrat.... Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2016 #173
Damn "Liberal White Supremacists" aikoaiko Aug 2016 #183
So, racist black person hates white people. Got it. closeupready Aug 2016 #188
This message was self-deleted by its author closeupready Aug 2016 #189
Yes, because this black liberal isn't at all smug: closeupready Aug 2016 #191
 

UMTerp01

(1,048 posts)
1. I see no lies in this article
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 01:53 PM
Aug 2016

NONE!!!!! I've seen it play out on this board, especially during the primary and to a lesser extent still exists.

 

UMTerp01

(1,048 posts)
14. Of course it was alerted on
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:05 PM
Aug 2016

Are you really surprised. Don't forget who runs this place and who most of the audience is. We have to have special sections on here to truly post the things we want that are much more difficult to be hidden/alerted.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
102. Spell it out -- who runs this place?
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:07 PM
Aug 2016

White male liberals, if I'm not mistaken. And the site took off as all those white liberals protested the disastrous Bush Admin and Iraq War.

The victim shtick isn't working -- no one is being relegated to colored water fountains by all those white liberal DUers. It's an open site -- anyone can join and participate (as long as they play by the many, many rules).

 

UMTerp01

(1,048 posts)
106. "As long as they play by the many, many rules"
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:25 PM
Aug 2016

That is the key. And the fact that it was alerted proves that point a bit. These bastions of White liberalism need to work on issues of intersectionality. That is what I have seen to be the biggest issue. This board is not the place that allows a truly free open dialogue for issues that may cause very differing opinions and anyone's feelings that are a little bit hurt get to hit the "report" button. I've never flagged a post here and I think maybe have only once ever voted in jury to hide a post. If you don't agree with the poster then fine. Challenge their viewpoint and have a civil discussion. As long as there aren't personal attacks I don't see why any post would be flagged.

But I have found that with some White liberal acquaintances, particularly White males. All is good so long as I'm towing the line with their viewpoints, but the minute I challenge them or make them the slightest uncomfortable then they show a side of privilege that makes me keep them at arm's length.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
119. Civility is stressed at DU...
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 09:25 PM
Aug 2016

and derisively referring to any group of people as this, that, or the other doesn't sit well with many (especially when the dialogue mirrors right-wing talking points). I didn't alert, but I'm not surprised someone did. It's not about hurt fee-fee's (I know someone is just itchin' to swoop in with that idiocy), it's about civility and respect. DU has survived over a decade with an endless supply of controversial issues, and God knows how many members have discussed and challenged without having posts hidden. If someone wants to engage in serious discussion, are insults the way to start? Social media is full of personal attacks and it's clear the site admins want civility, hence the new jury system.

 

UMTerp01

(1,048 posts)
127. Where's the insult?
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 09:59 PM
Aug 2016

Where is there an insult anywhere in the OP post? You said that you aren't surprised someone alerted this post. Why aren't you surprised? I see no insults in anything that was posted. I see a truth about a certain group of White liberals that is very true. No one's house is completely free of issues and those issues should be talked about openly without threat of being shut down under the guise of "civility" There is nothing uncivil about what was said and the only people that would take issue with it is those for whom it rings true.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
133. I know some DUers reject the dictionary because...
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 10:28 PM
Aug 2016

white men or some such nonsense, but "smug" isn't exactly a compliment. And there's no "certain group of White liberals" referenced in that little hit-piece, it's "white liberals." I know white liberal-bashing is trendy these days, but it'll pass. The entire piece screams "issues" and I find it amusing that members of DU, a community for "politically liberal people," are lapping it up without question.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
128. DU doesn't need any more of the identity politics.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 10:01 PM
Aug 2016

Because, frankly, when one group operates within a conflict-theory framework that black people are in conflict with white people, women are in conflict with men, black women are in conflict with white women, trans* people are in conflict with gay people, and an absolute myriad of other conflicts originating solely from factors that people have no control over, while other groups are not, then arguments are always going to devolve into name-calling and umbrage-taking.

When a person's argument is inseparable in their mind from who they are as a person, they'll inevitably judge anyone who disagrees with the ideas they put forth as not just wrong, but bigoted against their identity. Frankly, that's the cancer that's killing the left in this country, and it has to stop.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
138. Only if you choose to see it that way.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 11:18 PM
Aug 2016

I try to see it as a way to encourage understanding, and attempting to see it from another point of view. If we don't listen, we don't learn. And that is the cancer that is killing us.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
49. You gotta be shittin me. Who, HERE, would alert this OP?
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:38 PM
Aug 2016

How about refute it if you dont like it or dont agree with it?

I think the alert actually proves the point of the article!!!

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
158. See the latest whine thread about how laughing at the naked Trump statue triggers all obese people.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 04:06 AM
Aug 2016

Apparently, we're not allowed to poke fun at Trump at any way without triggering this oppressed group or that oppressed group.

See, we're a big bunch of shitlords because we dared to laugh at Trump's naked likeness and tiny penis.

Warpy

(111,252 posts)
123. I'd love to post the video of Phil Ochs
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 09:40 PM
Aug 2016

singing "Love me, I'm a Liberal" from You Tube, but it's got a WORD in it that will be jumped on by every hissy fit throwing word jumper on the site and I can't afford another hide. Never mind it was recorded in the early 60s when things were different and free speech was what we were all trying to defend, that WORD makes the whole video EEVUL, so you guys will just have to look it up over there.

However, it skewers the smug beautifully.

http://www.youtube.com Type "Love Me, I'm a Libeeral" in the search box.

Beartracks

(12,809 posts)
151. A couple of ways, perhaps.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 01:10 AM
Aug 2016

1) When a post gets alerted on, the jury system automatically assembles six DUers to review the alerted post. It's possible this particular poster was part of the jury.

2) It's also possible that a juror simply told this poster.



Oh, there is a third way, I suppose:

3) Maybe this poster is the one who alerted on it? Doubtful, but still... it is another way to know about an alert.

======================

kiva

(4,373 posts)
5. Interesting article.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 02:03 PM
Aug 2016

Only quibble I have is that Black Americans began voting for Democrats in 1934, after 2 years of FDR's New Deal - not 1960s as author wrote.

unblock

(52,205 posts)
6. the media might be filled with white liberal "voices", but they're reading from a right-wing script.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 02:03 PM
Aug 2016

i'm not clear on how many liberals in elite institutions who talk about micro-aggressions and white privilege and so on would actually endorse the negative portrayal of blacks in the media.

personally, i think hollywood in particular is horrendous on this front, and the news media is not much different. i see how liberals tie into hollywood, but i don't see how liberals tie into the news media. however many liberals there are in front of the camera, they know they have to appease their right-wing bosses.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
15. I think it's more nuanced than that.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:16 PM
Aug 2016

There is another problem with responses from liberals contributed to the demonization of protesters that the far RW general assembly was using to gut the state budget funding and exploit RW racism.

White liberal college students speak of “safe spaces”, “trigger words”, “micro aggressions” and “white privilege” while not having to do anything or, more importantly, give up anything.


In fact, a few white voices have joined black voices requesting us to talk about and address those things because they see the fact that we don't as part of the problem. Black students at MU wanted safe space so that they could tell their story from their perspective and because someone threatened to kill every black person they saw on campus. After hearing that kind of a threat what does it sound like when someone uses the language connected to violence against black people? I wouldn't know, but I have heard that it can be traumatic.

A history full of microaggressions reveals a lot about this campus to anyone who is paying attention.
We have had students refuse to call faculty Dr. When confronted, the explanation was that they got where they are via affirmative action. Incidently, that professor teaches media studies and has done research on the disparate portrayal of blacks in journalism. It's hard to see dismissal of that microaggression as a rejection of her premise in that research.

When the acting university president was a student, he was forced to play Dixie at the football games if he wanted to be a part of the marching band. But, since that was not necessarily intended to be racist white people defend it as tradition. That is a microaggression and to say it is not relevant to where we are or how we got here is ludicrous.

Those things are really happening and that ridicule coming from white liberals is also smug, as they demand unconditional free speech (as in being able to insult and frighten people without criticism) and intrusive press practices.

I think this article glosses over the fact that white liberals didn't just come up with all of it themselves. There is background that matters and the contribution of black people, who are mostly defending themselves, to the ideas that seem to be regularly discounted from people on both sides of the aisle for different reasons.

I hope this isn't a case of the enemy of my enemy is my friend, but it sure feels that way for people who are living the experience and looking to change it.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
148. Thanks. Living in Columbia, MO has been a great educational opportunity with last fall's events
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 12:29 AM
Aug 2016

And it continues. The faculty have held teach-ins and many of us have also been working to take the conversation off campus and into the broader community.

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
8. When I was a youth, I stumbled across a book I have never forgotten.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 02:08 PM
Aug 2016

I was looking for "The Invisible Man" by HG Wells, and somehow got "Invisible Man" by Ralph Ellison.

Books and ideas really can rock your world.

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
46. Nice clip - very interesting story premise.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:31 PM
Aug 2016

Since Ellison wrote "Invisible Man" I wonder how much has really changed?

“I was never more hated than when I tried to be honest. Or when, even as just now I've tried to articulate exactly what I felt to be the truth. No one was satisfied” ― Ralph Ellison, Invisible Man

BumRushDaShow

(128,895 posts)
67. There was actually a modern production of it created.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 05:07 PM
Aug 2016

And an interesting story behind that endeavor given Ellison did not want his book made a production in any other media.

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/01/06/theater/the-staging-of-ralph-ellisons-invisible-man.html

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
65. Interesting paragraph...
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 05:05 PM
Aug 2016

I just downloaded it to my iPad. I don't generally like reading books in electronic form, but what the heck?

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
9. Oh boy this is really going to be good.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 02:12 PM
Aug 2016

Last edited Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:06 PM - Edit history (1)

A Black Woman wrote this, so White Liberals can't.call her a racist, but I am sure they will find another way to smear her.

She nailed it with this:

The truth is that Liberalism is about making elites feel better about themselves and their lives without requiring the underlying action of significantly improving the lives of African-Americans.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
54. Strangely enough, that sentence is very similar to what I've read elsewhere,
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:43 PM
Aug 2016

from CONSERVATIVE writers!! That the "left" is quick to offer words and slogans, but no actual answers or work for improvement.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
85. Do you really think that is what liberalism is about? If so, will you not be voting for
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:43 PM
Aug 2016

the liberal candidate?

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
90. I will vote straight Democratic, period.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:59 PM
Aug 2016

The problem is that too many Liberals are not concerned with Economic Justice. They give it lip service, but are too beholden to status quo economic system we have, that allows them to maintain their lifestyle. There is also a great deal of contempt for Blue Collar people, regardless of their skin color.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
98. I didn't get that at all from her article.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:47 PM
Aug 2016
Hillary Clinton rightly says that it’s not about what you say about problem, but you should be judged by what you are doing to solve the problem.


That was her point. We all need to start walking the walk. Talking about the issues is not enough.

mdbl

(4,973 posts)
160. Everyone's perspective is molded by different experiences
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 08:44 AM
Aug 2016

and this whole thread has been interesting. All these points are valid. My perspective on economic justice comes from growing up with affirmative action. A lot of people would bash this idea, but in the industries I worked in over the last 40 years, it proved to be great at economic diversity. I never thought someone who obtained a job, no matter the reason, was unqualified or undeserving. We live in a society where there is always a pecking order. Affirmative action tried to move certain groups up that chain and in many places, that happened and with good results, both socially and economically. Our society, by design is always going to be unbalanced. Any programs that can tip the scales in a broad sense are a good idea. Those that don't benefit, and there are always those people, will always be upset they didn't tip in their favor. I could be considered one of them, but I would rather see the positive side to it. So when you say it's just lip service, that is a little to0 broad of a brush you are using.

Doodley

(9,088 posts)
11. I do not agree with most of that viewpoint.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 02:24 PM
Aug 2016

White college students who speak of “white privilege” are recognizing that there is a disparity in opportunity according to skin color and support changes to fix that. The writer says this is "while not having to do anything or, more importantly, give up anything." - I am sorry, but whites are not responsible for the color of their own skin.

"They say they feel black peoples’ pain because they took a trip to Africa to help the disadvantaged," - That is doing something or giving something up, contradicting the previous statements.

"The White Liberal culture encourages talking about diversity and shaming others for their alleged racism, but many times they themselves work in environments that are mostly white." - They are not responsible for who their employees employ. I do not think that the demographics of the workplace is a factor white liberal candidates consider when applying for a job.

"When questioned they’ll defensively state that they promote strictly on merit. Black people aren’t suggesting that we want someone unqualified to get the position, but I find it telling that they assume that we are not qualified." - I have never met a white liberal who assumes black people are not qualified. I have met plenty of conservatives and libertarians who think that, but not liberals.

"These same Liberals are quick to be against school choice, while their kids go to private or well-regarded public schools. Leaving poor black children behind in underperforming schools and providing less opportunity to improve their lives is inconsequential to keeping true to their white liberal politics." - Yes, that is often true, but do wealthy black parents send their kids to private or well-performing schools or to underperforming schools? Again, I am sorry, but white people did not decide to be white. That is how they were born, and the white liberal is FOR equality for all, not against. To make out that white liberals are racist is ridiculous.

"White Liberals have hijacked the conversation about diversity, political correctness and what topics we should be outraged about - white liberals tend to embrace equality for all, no matter what color a person is." If that is highjacking the conversation, then good.


Doodley

(9,088 posts)
25. What should white liberals give up that black liberals in same financial position are giving up?
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:00 PM
Aug 2016

JI7

(89,247 posts)
34. they don't have to give up anything. my point is that a trip to africa isn't giving something up
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:09 PM
Aug 2016

TCJ70

(4,387 posts)
132. Sure it is. It's giving time.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 10:18 PM
Aug 2016

One of the most important things you can give to anyone or anything.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
150. that's not "giving up" as in sacrafice such as those who go to wars, sorry but if that's how they
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 12:44 AM
Aug 2016

view those trips to africa and other poor nations they should just not do it.

i'm not impressed by any of it.

it's different from people such as doctors who give up higher pay and a certain type of lifestyle to spend their life in poor countries.

TCJ70

(4,387 posts)
165. "Not good enough, young people!"
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 09:29 AM
Aug 2016

Good grief. Often times those experiences lead to lifelong choices and changes of perspective that have effects reaching far beyond the scope of a journey lasting a few months.

But you're right, no one who isn't in it for the long haul should do anything. It's not helpful anyway.

hunter

(38,311 posts)
99. Barbie Savior
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:48 PM
Aug 2016


"Barbie Savior Jesus. Adventures. Africa. Two worlds. One love. Babies. Beauty. Not qualified. Called. 20 years young. It's not about me...but it kind of is."

https://www.instagram.com/barbiesavior/?hl=en

Igel

(35,300 posts)
12. "it’s unfair to judge an entire by the actions of a small minority"
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:00 PM
Aug 2016

That's one problem. It overgeneralizes.

The second problem is rather more backgrounded. Most white liberals spend virtually no time thinking about the issues others obsess about and assume white liberals also think about. They're busy with school, work, social lives, entertainment, sleeping, personal grooming, eating, etc., etc. To the extent they think, much of it is merely nodding in accord with people who they view as authorities. Because that's quick and easy and psychologically satisfying, and allows them to get back to school, work, social lives, entertainment, sleeping ... Many got their opinions out of a box, all prepared and ready for installation.

Statements like "... I find it telling that they assume that we are not qualified" in response to, "When questioned, they'll defensively state that they promote strictly on merit" are overstating the point. Nobody's making the assumption that (all) black applicants aren't qualified; presumably they've looked and haven't found the top candidate among their applicant pool. What they may do is just choose "white" if given a simple black/white choice of equally qualified candidates. I'd have had a problem with that 20 years ago, but since then have seen so many justifications for not only why some (non-dominant) groups tend to pick in-group members but why this is such a great thing to not generalize the justifications to whites, as well. The argument against it then becomes, "It's wrong because it doesn't help us." Then again, many employers and decisions just go with the most successful applicant without doing outreach. A number of schools' admissions programs had this "problem"--one school I know of had admissions folk saying that to meet their informal quotas they'd have to admit nearly every black applicant but be highly selective for Asian admits. In other words, they didn't want to have the student body self-select, they wanted to engineer diversity but balked when it meant reducing cohort competence. Tough call--and, yes, in that case it was saying that many of the Af-Am candidates were less qualified. (The dichotomy in this article, "qualified" vs "unqualified" as the only two choices, is fallacious.)

As with many such articles, I'm left wondering if the real problem isn't a lack of power and control over others. "White Liberals have hijacked the conversation about diversity, political correctness and what topics we should be outraged about." It's them there white liberals versus us and we resent that they're telling us what we should think. No, really, for the most part white liberals aren't telling other liberals/progressives what they should think, at least not any more than simple peer pressure and push for group conformity would lead them to. Mostly they're talking to each other, which is fine. "We" (I'm quite obviously not in the rather exclusive "we" I think the OP is in) can think whatever the OP's "we" wants, but that's going to be a separate conversation. And "we" has the same power to dictate to "them" that that "them" has to dictate to the OP's "we".

The problem is that if the OP's "we" has that conversation, since it's not the majority or a large minority of the population, it's likely to be a sidebar. And that's a serious issue because it means that "we" lacks power and control. Such is life. (I mean, if my particular minority group had the power to control the conversation we'd be happy, too. But we don't. That was true when I was an American in Brno, it's true for me in America.)

romanic

(2,841 posts)
16. I don't expect white liberals to "give up anything" - I don't even know what that means.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:20 PM
Aug 2016

I do agree though that there's a smug elitism amongst white liberal cultures - notably in Academia where the whole "safe space" madness started.

romanic

(2,841 posts)
110. I believe white Americans have it easier
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:48 PM
Aug 2016

but I think "microaggressions" are bullshit. I don't believe in policing other people's words, life is too short to sweat the small stuff.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
114. We'll have to disagree about microaggressions. In fact, I find it interesting that,
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:59 PM
Aug 2016

in the article, she denigrates the concept of microaggressions, but then lists microaggressions that are commonly inflicted by smug white liberal college students as examples of what is wrong with the smug white liberal. With respect to those microaggressions she lists, I agree with her. They suck.

But with respect to policing other people's works, if someone used the n word here, you'd be fine with it? How about if someone called Hillary the c word?

romanic

(2,841 posts)
164. If somone used the n or c words then they would be banned
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 09:23 AM
Aug 2016

per the forum's rules. You can't really ban anyone IRL however.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
168. The question is, are you OK with that? If that were not the case and those people were not
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 10:17 AM
Aug 2016

banned, would the use of that language be fine with you?

romanic

(2,841 posts)
179. Of course not.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 10:29 PM
Aug 2016

I've had several "n"-words lobbed at me IRL. I usuallt handle it with fists or at the very least, a nasty and angry verbal spat back.

My point is, I or anyone else can't control what comes out of someone's mouth, we can only control our response to it.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
184. And my point is that this is word policing, which you say you object to.
Mon Aug 22, 2016, 08:15 AM
Aug 2016

But the fact is that you only object to policing the words that YOU have deemed unworthy of policing.

I, personally, feel that if a group says to me, "I find your referring to me as (questionable term) to be offensive," it is not for me to say to them, "No, it's not offensive." It's for me to be a reasonable person and avoid using those terms when I am in company with those people, and to seriously consider avoiding those terms in general.

"Word policing" is generally defined here as a group finding descriptors used about themselves to be offensive, and people from outside the group telling them to stop being offended.

In fact, there really isn't much word policing. There's just people being obnoxious toward groups they don't belong to.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
187. Can I touch your hair? So, what are you anyhow? You all live in poverty so you have nothing to lose.
Mon Aug 22, 2016, 01:48 PM
Aug 2016

Hey, baby, I'm gonna tap that shit! Oh, sorry - my hand slipped!

MynameisBlarney

(2,979 posts)
21. So...
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:48 PM
Aug 2016

Maybe I missed something, but it seems that the person that wrote the article is judging an entire group, based on the words and actions of a minority of people in said group.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
24. It's not a minority of people in said group,
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:54 PM
Aug 2016

I'm white and I well aware that the majority of white people, and yes liberal white people too, immediately become defensive when discussing racial injustice. We need to talk less and listen more.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
75. Committing a murder is a deliberate choice made by an individual.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:03 PM
Aug 2016

"White privilege" is an original sin ascribed to an entire group of people based on something they have no control over and did nothing to deserve.

When you apply that manner of broad brush, ascribing negative qualities based entirely on skin color, that makes you a racist.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
38. Yes. They are judging a racist, too comfortable, and privileged white majority. Because said
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:14 PM
Aug 2016

racist, too comfortable, and privileged white majority is too cowardly and hasn't the morals to actually change.


 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
53. This is what us white liberals should do.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:41 PM
Aug 2016

We should stop being defensive when the issues involving race are brought up. The immediate defensiveness that too many of us have immediately shuts down the conversation we should be having.

We should realize that we will never know what it is like to be living in this country while black. We can attempt to put ourselves in their shoes but we will never fully understand it.

We should listen more, empathize, and learn to recognize and understand that systemic racism exists.

Until we can do all of the above, we are not helping to stop it.

Doodley

(9,088 posts)
61. I will be defensive if a broad brush is used against any group of people.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:56 PM
Aug 2016

We are talking about white liberals. The Democratic Party is not a "white" party. It is a party for equality for all. It is a party that embraces all people no matter what color, religion, age, sexuality, gender. To suggest that white liberals who overwhelmingly support progressive policies and Democratic politics don't empathize with blacks at best insulting.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
64. and yet, here you are
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 05:00 PM
Aug 2016

arguing with the author. Is there anything in her piece that you agree with? Or did you just stop reading when you saw the words "white liberals" and got offended?

Missn-Hitch

(1,383 posts)
170. Ding ding ding. Well put.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 12:37 PM
Aug 2016

I really do believe there is something that I can not explain which impedes the ability to empathize. A complete lack of empathy. I forgot which SC nominee hearings but that weasel person Sessions from AL was worried about the nominee being "empathetic".

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
174. Derisive name-calling is what immediately shuts down the conversation.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 02:09 PM
Aug 2016

I've lived in the DC area most of my life, including a long stint in PG County. I've gone to school with blacks, played sports with blacks, ridden public transportation with blacks, worked with blacks, socialized with black coworkers, volunteered with blacks. After nearly four decades of this interaction, I think I have a *fairly* good understanding -- note *fairly.* I see successful, educated blacks around me every day, with close-knit, supportive families. I also see the total opposite and wonder where it all went wrong (it *ain't* the fault of smug white liberals).

At least conservatives have the balls to slam liberals and mean it. This weasely "not all" or "it wasn't directed at you" is lame. The HuffPo piece screams personal issues: some white liberal done the author wrong, and she's taken out her poison pen to slam an entire group. I happened upon a conservative blogger who picked up Johnson-Huston's piece, and her beef is with smug white liberals living in Brooklyn lofts. LOL Jesus, what a pair.

Huh, I just decided to do some digging:

Unfortunately, it was too great a cultural chasm to have a roommate with a million dollar home on the Main Line. Johnson-Huston flunked out after the first year.

http://chaddsfordlive.com/2015/05/01/from-homeless-ten-year-old-to-lawyer-with-red-bottom-shoes/


Born into poverty, mother was a heavy drug user, lost home, sent to live with grandmother on West Coast, worked as a domestic, earned a scholarship to a Philly university, but flunked out because a roommate lived in a million dollar house in Bryn Mawr. Yeah, now we're getting somewhere.
 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
177. You have got to be kidding me.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 05:02 PM
Aug 2016

You're going to attempt to bash this woman on what you view as "some white liberal done the author wrong, and she's taken out her poison pen to slam an entire group".

Did you even read the article you linked to?

I notice a pattern here of when black people share an opinion, it is immediately knocked down by many white people. The article is in fact addressing you if your above opinion is what you came away with after reading not only her article, but her impressive bio as well.

I did some more digging as well.

The problem with racism or prejudice is not how you judge the diverse people you know, but how you react to the ones you don’t. When I looked at Trayvon Martin, Tamir Rice and Sandra Bland, I could put myself in their shoes. Conversely, when I started having conversations with some of my white friends, all they could see was the justifiable fear that dealing with “these people” caused. They make excuses for George Zimmerman stalking and eventually killing Trayvon Martin, or the excessive force of a grown man slamming a teenage girl to the ground and dragging her out of the room because they don’t view black children the same way they do their own teenage child. I was struck by the fact that we saw things so differently. It forced me to accept that they just didn’t understand. It’s apparent that many secretly thought that their child would never be in that situation. Even with all of my success, that is not something that I could be confident about. Not for myself or the black children I know.


This is where black anger is coming from. There is an unspoken code for many middle class or affluent African-Americans that we don’t speak about race with people outside of our race because it always tends to end badly for both sides. Actually it only ends badly for us, because we are seen as angry and hostile — with comparisons to Al Sharpton — and it could hurt our careers. Besides, when I look at my life, what do I have to complain about? Most people would be happy to be in my shoes whether they be black, white or other. But in these instances we are angry because it feels like our children aren’t safe regardless of our circumstances.


We want fairness not justice. If you have fairness in the process then you won’t need justice. When millions of African-Americans are telling you about their personal experiences and the fears for their children, this is something that can’t be so easily dismissed. I don’t want to believe that the life I live and the circumstances of cases like Trayvon Martin, Tamir Rice and Sandra Bland could be true at the same time but they are. We may have many opportunities, but if we or our children aren’t safe, than it doesn’t feel like success and being a “good black” just isn’t good enough.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/nikki-johnsonhuston-esq/the-myth-of-the-good-negr_b_8506570.html

Yeah, it's a little more deeper than some white liberal done her wrong.
 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
144. She never stereotyped all white liberals,
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 12:12 AM
Aug 2016

but sadly, many white liberals jumped on and assumed she did.

And that is the problem.

Too many of us white people have this defense mechanism that kicks in when the see the words "white people".

We need to stop jumping to defensiveness and start listening more.

Black people and white people are not monolithic. We are not at war with each other.

But yes, too many white people fail to admit that systemic racism exists. That was her point.

Moonwalk

(2,322 posts)
22. The first time I heard the term "safe space" was from a group of college-aged black women....
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:48 PM
Aug 2016

...who asserted that they should be able to have their own group conference of entirely black women, no men or whites allowed. Because that way they would feel safe to say what they liked, and everyone in the group would understand what they were saying and why. And the very, VERY liberal whites agreed and encouraged this. Being a personal example, I know it's not right for me to assert that all black women are for "safe spaces" or that they alone created that term and idea and put it forward on college campuses. But I will say that it seems strange to me that "safe spaces" is viewed as a white liberal, um, conspiracy. It didn't in my experience, start out that way.

I think my main issue with this is that it doesn't tell me how African-Americans would be better served by white liberals. Should white liberals back out and do nothing, letting African-Americans fight out the unfairness perpetuated by white privilege in their own way? Should white liberals consciously and actively sacrifice (if so, what?)? Should they go into those poor neighborhoods and prove their dedication to equality (If they work in those neighborhoods to make them better, how do they avoid being viewed as patronizing?)? Should they research any job they're taking and back out of applying if the employer seem unlikely to hire an equally qualified African American?

What, exactly, should they do? White privilege certainly exists, and every person born into it needs to be aware of it and do what they can to eradicate it. But it seems that the attempts by those liberals that the writer has met have failed. While it shouldn't be the job of the black person to "help" the white person, it is the job of the person who can see clearly to point out to the blind person what they're missing and how to better navigate their path. I'd find this essay more useful if it wasn't just a rant to white liberals to "wake up! You're racists!" and a little more "Here's how you can start not being racists." Because, at the very least *SOME* of these white liberals may be honest and may want to do better. How can they if they're just told that their efforts are a failure and there's no hope for them?

Throd

(7,208 posts)
23. I have personally known many people who fit this description.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 03:54 PM
Aug 2016

They claim to care deeply about the poor and disadvantaged but never would actually interact with them.

Doodley

(9,088 posts)
36. I apologize for being white and being so satisfied with my own hyperenlightened moral superiority.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:13 PM
Aug 2016

Warpy

(111,252 posts)
124. Yes, the smugness is the sin
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 09:42 PM
Aug 2016

We're all works in progress. Anybody who thinks they're a finished product at the peak of whatever it is that they pride themselves on achieving desperately needs to be reminded that they're not.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
26. You can run across that anywhere on the political spectrum
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:01 PM
Aug 2016

Conservatives will think like that too, we are stupid liberals who just don't know or understand the world. There is the purer-than-thou left. I guess we need to learn to listen to other people long enough before judging them. With all those interrupting pundits on TV, it has become fashionable to do the opposite.

 

Grey Lemercier

(1,429 posts)
28. they do the same thing with sexism, they feel its ok to rip into any women they disagree with with
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:03 PM
Aug 2016

blatantly sexist, vulgar smears, then tell you to "go the fuck away" when you call them on it

IronLionZion

(45,433 posts)
43. There are some truths being mixed in with broad generalizations
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:21 PM
Aug 2016

and not sure it's all linked together as closely as the author suggests.

Some of the issues she touched upon: urban gentrification and "soft" college students have nothing to do with liberalism.

I'm a person of color, and whenever someone (always always always white) tells me that I am guilty of gentrification and yuppiness because of where I live, I always ask them where is the right place to live. They can never give me an answer and usually a light bulb goes off in their head as to how there is no correct answer to dictate who deserves to live where. I was judged for living in the suburbs and being from a rural area and now live in the only urban area that I can barely afford mainly because I've always wanted to see what city living is like.

Other issues she mentioned: politicians making false promises, talking down to poor people or minorities, are probably more to do with who has power and influence rather than race or ideology. I definitely appreciate her frustration with politicians and how she wants more action to improve peoples' lives instead of just promises.

The point of sharing social media stuff is not about self-congratulatory absolution of privilege, but more about that's our new method of sharing information and communicating with each other to raise awareness of issues and spur people to action. This stuff leads to policy changes and laws because it encourages votes on referendums and contacting elected officials to make changes on behalf of people who have less influence. In my neighborhood, I have seen people of Asian, white, latino, and other backgrounds demonstrating and handing out materials about black lives matter. A lot of good people of all types empathize and want our police to stop executing black people.

Doodley

(9,088 posts)
48. I am sorry you have had to face ridiculous questions about where you choose to live.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:33 PM
Aug 2016

I am white and choose not to live in a white neighborhood, because elements of my family are very racist and they need to accept that is not how I or my wife live. I think you provide a well-balanced response.

Oneironaut

(5,493 posts)
45. We have our own Fascists in our party.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:28 PM
Aug 2016

Sorry, but it's true. These are the types that are waiting for the next Internet dog-pile. Context be damned - they'll dox and ruin the lives of anyone who doesn't fit into their little bubble of "acceptable opinions."

These people are as much of a threat to free speech as religious Republicans. They might even be worse. Their thought policing is dystopian in nature. They're "Anonymous," Tumblr social justice warriors, and many more. Their extremely minuscule tolerance for even the tiniest difference in opinion is frightening. Their actions to minimize disagreement are even worse. If he could, Stalin would reanimate and sprout a third thumb up in approval.

UnFettered

(79 posts)
79. Most people are ok with fascism as long as it goes along with there believes.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:15 PM
Aug 2016

It's sad but is a true reality these days.

Response to KamaAina (Original post)

Cryptoad

(8,254 posts)
50. I dont think u can stuff
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:38 PM
Aug 2016

all "White Liberals" into this neat little box u have created for them. And it also infers and confirms the Right wing argument that White Conservatives are not the problem with racism. Sorry, Hate is Hate no matter how u spread it around.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
104. Most DU members "get it' and are not offended ....
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:10 PM
Aug 2016

... we realize we are a deeply flawed species, flawed nation, flawed political party, and that we are human and therefore flawed individuals.

Most of us understand that only way to grow (and become less flawed) is to look at ourselves critically and honestly (individually and collectively), identify both our strengths and weaknesses and move forward from there.

If you do not believe this is your issue why the offense taken? As a white liberal I look at information like this as a reminder to take stock in all of my actions and the actions of the groups I am politically affiliated or identify with .... I do not take umbrage, nor do I believe this is directed at me personally.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
58. She is a Democrat.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:53 PM
Aug 2016

That is why she is addressing white liberals. What she is saying is that it's time for our party to stop talking the talk, and start walking the walk.

Cryptoad

(8,254 posts)
62. With n that context,,,
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:59 PM
Aug 2016

it makes much more sense, but I think it could still have been articulated better. Not all "White Liberals" are the problem.

daligirrl

(620 posts)
66. Black woman. . .
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 05:07 PM
Aug 2016

53- year-old college professor who agrees. I know all types of liberals and democrats, even two families living in Africa walking the walk. She's really describing a lot of DU.

Volaris

(10,270 posts)
57. Chris hedges said something once about liberals love The Poor..
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 04:52 PM
Aug 2016

...as long as they don't have to smell them.

Response to KamaAina (Original post)

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
74. I'm not liking this article. I don't at all deny the fact of smugness among white liberals. My
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:02 PM
Aug 2016

problem comes from what this article is defining as white smugness.

Most of the arguments that are being forwarded in this article against "smug white Liberals" are the same arguments that Conservatives levy against Liberals.


Acknowledging the existence of white privilege and microaggression is not white smugness. White privilege exists, and microaggressions do chip away at the psyches of those they are aimed at. Too damn often, they are aimed at African Americans. Sorry but they just are. There's nothing wrong with acknowledging microaggressions.

Sometimes Liberals call things racist, homophobic, misogynistic, bigoted because they are racist, homophobic, misogynistic, or bigoted. The act of calling out those conditions is not an example of smugness among white liberals. The acknowledgment of those conditions is crucial to the eradication of those conditions. Labeling those who do call out those conditions as "smug white liberals" is a self defeating practice for Liberals whether they be black or white.

Likewise, being against "school choice" is NOT an example of white Liberal smugness. "School choice" is an entirely Conservative effort to take the funding out of public schools and money into corporate pockets. It is the fastest route to defunding the public school system.

I see that many here are very much in favor of this article, but I smell a rat. Substitute the word "Liberal" for the phrase "smug white Liberal" and you could be reading a transcript of a Bill O'Reilly rant.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
84. Glad I'm not the only one who saw it. The response to the article is so overwhelmingly
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:41 PM
Aug 2016

positive, I was wondering if I was going nuts.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
91. I read it more as frustration,
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:02 PM
Aug 2016

i.e. it's one thing to recognize and acknowledge the issues that overwhelming affect black people, but it's another to step forward and actually do something.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
94. I get the intent, I just think it's suspect that the author chose a whole lot of complaints
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:14 PM
Aug 2016

that are commonly made by conservatives against liberals to make the point.

For example, Garner was killed because of a tax? Um... no. He was killed because of bigotry. And saying that Garner was killed because of bigotry is not smug. It is simply true.

The use of very, very conservative arguments throughout is too consistent to be a mistake.

Again, as a white liberal, I am perfectly aware that my liberalism is woefully ineffective in improving the lives of others, and I am perfectly aware that there is smugness in white liberalism.

I just disagree with every one of her examples as illustrating the problem she has named.

Seriously. Try reading it again, substituting "liberal" for "smug white liberal." It is a Bill O'Reilly rant.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
97. I think the Eric Garner death reference,
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:45 PM
Aug 2016

went deeper than just saying he was killed over a tax.

I read it as many white people still don't completely understand, or acknowledge that black people are treated differently in the eyes of the law. So while having a tax to provide revenue to help the poor was made in good intentions, the failure to acknowledge how it could effect black people, who are routinely subjected to more harassment and more arrests was not taken into account. Eric Garner's death, should be a wake up call. We need real police reform, and we need to acknowledge the racial discrepancies within our justice system, and we need to do so now.

Same with her school choice comment. We all know that too many children are still attending schools that are of poor quality. And I agree with you that we need to improve public schools, not defund them. But there comes a time when we need to stop discussing how to do it, and to start actually doing it.

This is how she tied it all up.

Hillary Clinton rightly says that it’s not about what you say about problem, but you should be judged by what you are doing to solve the problem.


That I believe was her main emphasis. We need to stop talking, and start doing.
 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
100. She didn't offer any suggestions about what to "start doing" she just attacked Liberals
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:01 PM
Aug 2016

I agree about the school choice thing. Many Liberals do not understand what the black community faces in that regard.

But just about everything else she wrote was out of the conservative playbook. I think you are being way too generous with your interpretation of her tax comment. Nothing she wrote was that deep.

I would have loved some suggestions about what to start doing. I have some of my own based on some good experience over the last three years. You would think given all the effort she put into this article she would have some suggestions too.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
107. Her suggestion, at least in my interpretation,
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:26 PM
Aug 2016

was that merely talking about and understanding the issues is not enough. It's time to actually start accomplishing something.

Some of my favorite excerpts.

I know many liberals who do incredible work to make the world around them better, and that’s not who I am talking about. I’m talking about the cocktail party liberals, the elites, who wear the cloak of liberalism to protect themselves from criticism and so they can keep a clear conscious.


Race, gender, religion and sexual orientation are such difficult discussions to have, and many of us don’t get it right, but my problem with some white liberals aren’t that they sometimes get it wrong, it’s their profound lack of self-awareness coupled with the smugness and self-righteousness that they use to lecture to others.


When a terrorist attack occurs the media and liberals rightly remind us that it’s unfair to judge an entire religion by the actions of a small minority, but I haven’t heard similar unequivocal statements made in the media about the African-American community being unfairly judged by the negative actions of a few.


For so long, as a Black American, I have been told that the problem is Conservative Republicans. While I’ll admit they may have done little to try to improve African-American lives, they also don’t promise to every election season like the liberal elites. Instead we have given our loyalty and votes to Democrats, who paternalistically tell us they want to help us, but we have little to show for it since blacks started voting Democrat back in the 1960’s.


and then this entire paragraph

White liberals posting on Facebook about #blacklivesmatter, white privilege and supremacy are not cleansed of their hypocrisy and elitism because they use the right hash tags. I would urge these same people to get off their iPhones and look around to see the issues they ignore in their own lives. If you’re one of these people, before you cry out in offense, ask yourself where you chose to live and how many of your neighbors, that you know, are people of color. Where do your kids go to school? Who are your friends and colleagues? Who do you see next to you while you’re in your meeting at work? What have you done to change those inequalities? Have you recommended a black friend for a job at your company, or told them about a house for sale in your neighborhood or recommended a talented black child go to your child’s school? Answer these questions honestly and you’ll realize that you might not be who you think you are when it comes to racial issues in this country. Are you are part of the group I’m referring to as smug white liberals and you don’t even know it?


She is not embracing the conservative view. She is merely asking that we do more than talk. That we start actually doing, or we will look like hypocrites.

I think the black lives matter movement has opened a lot of eyes. People are finally starting to pay attention. I don't blame her for voicing this opinion now, when more and more of us are open to understanding it, or at least trying to understand.
 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
109. Does she honestly think Liberals aren't doing that? How would she know?
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:40 PM
Aug 2016

Seems her entire list of recommendations boils down to:

"Have you recommended a black friend for a job at your company, or told them about a house for sale in your neighborhood or recommended a talented black child go to your child’s school?"



First of all, I'll bet 80-90% of white Liberals have done at least one of these things (of course how would she know?) and second, this is the pedestrian list of recommendations we get in this damning screed against Liberals?
 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
111. I'll once again refer to this excerpt
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:48 PM
Aug 2016
I know many liberals who do incredible work to make the world around them better, and that’s not who I am talking about. I’m talking about the cocktail party liberals, the elites, who wear the cloak of liberalism to protect themselves from criticism and so they can keep a clear conscious.


Again, I think she is expressing frustration with those who talk the talk, but don't walk the walk. She did not imply that every single white liberal does this. Just that there are many who do, and may not quite be aware of it.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
112. Yes, I agree with that. We all should be judged by what we are doing to solve our
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:49 PM
Aug 2016

problems. I have no problem with that.

I have a real problem with the following:
She denigrates the reality in white privilege and microagression, and the act of calling out racism, homophobia, misogyny and bigotry as being part of what is wrong with the smug white liberal. There is nothing wrong with acknowledging any of those things, no matter who you are. She also uses the classic conservative language of accusing liberals of "policing people's language and thoughts."

She pushes for school choice, which devastates schools, especially those in struggling neighborhoods, and it is a corporate boondoggle and a conservative darling issue.

She talks about white liberals as "look(ing) down on those with less education and deem them unable or unworthy of being able to make personal decisions for their own lives." This is the argument that conservatives have used forever against liberals to justify right-to-work, to fight against unions, and to weaken or dismantle public assistance of all kinds. The language, again, is classic conservative.

She says that the poverty in her city is caused by "liberal insiders." She suggests that stop and frisk policies are the fault of the liberals in her city.

She blames "our culture of political correctness and liberalism" for poverty rates, high incarceration rates and unemployment rates among African Americans. "Political correctness and liberalism," though conservatives hate them and would like them to cause problems, are not at the root of any of those problems.

She forwards the completely bogus idea that the media is full of white liberals, which we all know is simply not true, and then blames that nonexistent liberal media for the negative portrayal of people of color in the media.

Her points about white liberals often segregating themselves socially and about the continuing policies, especially with respect to policing and housing,in liberal cities that are detrimental to African Americans are well taken. I agree that these are places where the smug white liberal is failing our own "liberal-ness" as well as failing the African American community. I also agree with her when she says "{African Americans} must take control of the narrative about our issues". No problem with any of that.

There is plenty of blame to be laid at the feet of the smug white liberal for not forwarding the issues of African Americans, but most of the things she blames - namely political correctness, liberalism, people making decisions about their own lives, school funding, the nonexistent "policing of people's thoughts", the acknowledgment of white privilege, microaggression, bigotry, homophobia and misogyny - are not faults at all, much less the defining faults of the smug white liberal. They are things conservatives like to say are what is wrong with liberals.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
115. I said a bit more in post #107
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 09:02 PM
Aug 2016

I truly believe her intent was to say that deeds matter more than words. I don't believe she was agreeing with conservative views, just that she expects more from the Democratic Party, in fact she expressed as much in her article. (It's one of the excerpts I put in post 107)

At any rate, she has us talking, and that's always a good thing. Or at least it's a start.

Now maybe I'm way off base and she is laughing her ass off at my white cluelessness, but I'm trying to listen. I'm trying to learn.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
117. I agree that the discussion is always a valuable one.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 09:14 PM
Aug 2016

And as I said, I thought her points about white liberals maintaining their distance from African Americans are very well taken. And I think that distance does come from a profound and unexamined racism, which translates to an easy ignoring of those policy positions that benefit African Americans.

betsuni

(25,472 posts)
157. I just saw a clip on YouTube, "Liberal Policies to Blame for Inner City Chaos"
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 03:20 AM
Aug 2016

and it sounded awfully familiar. Trump said: "Democratic crime policies, education policies, and economic policies produced more crime, more broken homes, and more poverty." The Fox News panel agreed, pointing out that the ten most dangerous cities have one thing in common: a Democratic Mayor. When local governments are Democratic, businesses are driven out by regulations and high taxes and are responsible for the resulting high unemployment, residents are taxed to pay for government programs that do more harm than good (guess that's where the "Garner was killed by a tax" comes from). The Clinton-era crime law started the school-to-prison pipeline. My goodness, whatever this "Liberalism" is, it must be terrible!

betsuni

(25,472 posts)
142. I agree, I don't trust it.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 11:54 PM
Aug 2016

Too much conservatism spoils the broth. Not that there's anything wrong with teasing smug bourgeois bohemians, that is fun.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
78. Too many middle class white people are more concerned with dealing with feelings of guilt...
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:12 PM
Aug 2016

...than they are with actually helping others and going after the root causes of oppression. They want personal "atonement" rather than actually solving the problem.

XemaSab

(60,212 posts)
80. I've said for a while that the fantasy of white liberalism is that if everyone thinks long and hard
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:20 PM
Aug 2016

about their own racism, environmental impact, and so forth, these problems will be solved.

Introspection can be positive or it can be a giant wank, and as it's predominantly practiced, it's a giant wank.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
186. No doubt, you'll support your allegation yes?
Mon Aug 22, 2016, 11:50 AM
Aug 2016

No doubt, you'll provide evidence to better support your allegation yes?

Or will we simply receive the convenient rationalization that simply providing objective evidence is against the rules...?

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
87. An interesting article that I think is too generalized and superficial not to mention conservative
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:49 PM
Aug 2016

leaning.

She has a problem with advocating against micro-aggressions, and discussing privilege and she has a problem with government programs aimed at improving the lives of minorities, she several times repeated the canard about "Liberal Media" doing bad things and she made an odd argument about Eric Garner dying "over a tax".

That is a stretch and for what purpose? For us to think taxes are a bad thing? No, Eric Garner did not die over a tax. There is nothing in the language of that tax law that suggested a member of the police had to use deadly force to see that it was collected. There are no other criminal statutes or police regulations that suggest that police should use deadly force in that kind of a situation. The tax did not kill Eric Garner and he did not die "over a tax". He died because the police didn't follow their own rules about how much force to use because the individual police involved didn't see Garner as fully human. In their eyes Garner was a subhuman they didn't like and his selling a cigarette technically in a way that was against the rules was a reason to mess with him.

She attacked the white liberal students for not knowing a lot of things about black people. What immediately occurred to me is that they are all (the white students. black students, latinos, etc.) at college because they are young and don't know a lot of things but want to learn and some of that learning is about culture, past, present, future, local, other locales, other states, national, international, etc. It seems that instead of complaining about what young inexperienced people in a learning environment don't know, that's a perfect place to educate them. Students don't just learn from professors and TA's at college, ideally they learn from other students too and not just formally. Most kids at college have a lot to learn about just about every other culture and subculture.

For someone who has a lot of criticism, particularly Conservative sounding criticism about Liberals, I heard very little in the way of suggestions of things to actually do and a lot about what not to do and a lot of criticism about Liberalism, including:

- Somewhere along the way we stopped fighting for the little guy and became the party of the smug, educated elites who look down on those with less education and deem them unable or unworthy of being able to make personal decisions for their own lives.

- I also have serious concerns about the lack of progress that I have seen for many African-Americans and I blame some of that lack of progress on ineffective liberal policies that are based upon wanting to help those in need, but in many instances end up causing more harm than good.

- All of these issues are some of the most serious problems we face as a people and our culture of political correctness and liberalism has not only not solved them, but I believe has made them worse.

- I’m talking about the cocktail party liberals, the elites, who wear the cloak of liberalism to protect themselves from criticism and so they can keep a clear conscious. (right before this she says "I know many liberals who do incredible work to make the world around them better, and that’s not who I am talking about." Let's remember that point)

- (The big paragraph of criticisms): My problem with Liberalism is that it’s more concerned with policing people’s language and thoughts without requiring them to do anything to fix the problem. White liberal college students speak of “safe spaces”, “trigger words”, “micro aggressions” and “white privilege” while not having to do anything or, more importantly, give up anything. They can’t even have a conversation with someone who sees the world differently without resorting to calling someone a racist, homophobic, misogynistic, bigot and trying to have them banned from campus, or ruin them and their reputation. They say they feel black peoples’ pain because they took a trip to Africa to help the disadvantaged, but are unwilling to go to a black neighborhood in the City in which they live. These same college students will espouse the joys of diversity, but will in the same breath assume you are only on campus because of affirmative action or that all black people grew up in poverty. My personal favorite is declaring with surprise how articulate a black classmate is despite the fact that we are attending the same institution of higher learning as they are.

- The White Liberal culture encourages talking about diversity and shaming others for their alleged racism, but many times they themselves work in environments that are mostly white.

- These same Liberals are quick to be against school choice, while their kids go to private or well-regarded public schools. Leaving poor black children behind in underperforming schools and providing less opportunity to improve their lives is inconsequential to keeping true to their white liberal politics.

- Many people are quick to espouse the political values of liberalism without having to live with the often harsh reality of those policies.
---------------------------------
And that is barely a third of the way through the article.

Her last paragraph is:

"The truth is that Liberalism is about making elites feel better about themselves and their lives without requiring the underlying action of significantly improving the lives of African-Americans. Hillary Clinton rightly says that it’s not about what you say about problem, but you should be judged by what you are doing to solve the problem. In this election, let’s take her at her word and take a deeper look at what Liberalism is really doing for us."
-------------
Here she makes no exception like she did earlier when she said "I know many liberals who do incredible work to make the world around them better, and that’s not who I am talking about." If she knows many liberals like this, why the blanket negative statement in her last paragraph?

In general, I have a problem with criticism that is not accompanied by, "What I would like you to do instead of what you are doing/did is..." but this article doesn't have any of that. It's simply a screed designed to attack Liberals, policies aimed at helping minorities, and taxes.

If I had to guess, I would say this person is one of the less than 3% of African Americans who currently say they are voting Trump and this person is concern trolling Liberalism.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
88. I totally agree. And I agree with your conclusion:
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:55 PM
Aug 2016
If I had to guess, I would say this person is one of the less than 3% of African Americans who currently say they are voting Trump and this person is concern trolling Liberalism.

ronnie624

(5,764 posts)
89. Poor thing.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 06:55 PM
Aug 2016

She thinks "the media" is liberal.

The whole thing reads like boilerplate wingnut propaganda.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
95. Absolute BS article (designed to generate HuffPost clicks)
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:25 PM
Aug 2016

Last edited Sun Aug 21, 2016, 04:12 AM - Edit history (1)

The author writes:

"White liberal college students speak of “safe spaces”, “trigger words”, “micro aggressions"..."

The reality is that these conversations are often led by students of color. In fact, some of the "safe spaces" in question, explicitly are not open to white students.

It is also complete BS to claim that white students are "unwilling to go to a black neighborhood" as there are countless examples of many white liberal activities doing exactly that. This is in spite of sometimes being made to not feel especially welcome on occasion.

This sentence:

"These same college students will espouse the joys of diversity, but will in the same breath assume you are only on campus because of affirmative action or that all black people grew up in poverty."

Also, total BS. White liberal students do not believe these things. That's something that right-wingers think.

Again, paragraph after paragraph of claims that are just not true (insultingly so).

jcgoldie

(11,631 posts)
140. I agree its bullshit
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 11:33 PM
Aug 2016

Yeah there are elites in academia who are separated from real suffering... they come in all races. Putting this on "white liberals" is a bunch of bullshit. Saying that liberalism is primarily concerned with "policing peoples language" sounds like a conservative anti-PC argument and it shows an ignorance of the ideology that's embarrassing whatever color you are.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
96. I've seen it.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 07:26 PM
Aug 2016

It's more prevalent in academia. It's not only directed at African Americans, but also poor white people and females.

I think many of the elites in academia see themselves as righteous and good, but on their terms.

For example, instead of considering the possibility that women (in general) prefer endeavors outside of fields such as physics, they will presume that there's something wrong with the system that prevents women from entering those fields.

What I find odd is that groups of people outside of the USA who choose "primitive" lifestyles generally seem immune from their concerns.

I think many of them genuinely believe that people's behaviors are more influenced by their social upbringing instead of innate differences. While I don't deny that nurture plays a significant role, I'm amazed that innate differences seem ignored to the point of being taboo.

Studies have shown that genetics is a much bigger factor in determining the likelihood of child abuse as an adult, but those studies seem ignored in favor of the myth that children who were abused by their parents learn that behavior. Studies of adopted children strongly contradict that claim.

Instead of trying to force square pegs into round holes, I'd personally like to see people fitted for the kind of work and lifestyles that are best suited for their innate talents and interests (as long as they aren't dangerous to others). Take the time to learn about others and don't presume that they're not like you only because they didn't have your privilege or the "proper" upbringing.

lib87

(535 posts)
101. This Thread Was Worth the Read
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:04 PM
Aug 2016

So many angry defensive comments because 'not all'.

DU always delivers!

bluedye33139

(1,474 posts)
103. No liberal has ever stated that the black community should not be held responsible
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:09 PM
Aug 2016

For the actions of a few?

Hmmmmm.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm.

None? Ever? You have not ever heard a liberal person say this ever? Wow.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
108. It's an exercise in broad-brushing and taking personal issues...
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 08:36 PM
Aug 2016

out on white liberals. It's been done to death, notably by DU's resident expert on black-Jewish relations. The author was born poor, homeless at 9, flunked out of college, then... rebuilt. There's something more driving her little HuffPo hit piece. More than smug white liberals who supposedly go to Africa but won't work in any of Philly's many organizations dedicated to food deserts, community gardens, or animal rescue in poor communities (just a few examples).

What's hilarious is DU's white liberals high-fiving her right-wingerish talking points. God bless ya, DU!

bluedye33139

(1,474 posts)
121. The black community should not be held responsible for the actions of a few
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 09:34 PM
Aug 2016

There. It's been said by a liberal. At 6:35 p.m. Pacific Time on August 20th 2016. Let history record this.

bluedye33139

(1,474 posts)
129. So much of what the article said was accurate and wonderful
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 10:03 PM
Aug 2016

But the claim that no liberal has ever, ever voiced that thought...

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
122. Then she can try forming an argument based on reality
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 09:40 PM
Aug 2016

and not on social justice talking points and stereotypes.

Because surprisingly, when you routinely use weasel words and anecdotal evidence to justify calling people racist without knowing the first thing about them, they're not exactly going to be open to listening to you.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
130. Nobody was called a racist.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 10:13 PM
Aug 2016

That's just some white people's defensiveness and hypersensitivity.

I'm white, and I was not offended at all. I don't pretend to be an expert at, or know everything. And that especially involves issues that affect black people. I'm not pompous enough to think I can fully understand.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
125. She failed. Perhaps she should work...
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 09:45 PM
Aug 2016

on her communication and writing skills, and ease up on the childish name-calling.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
134. When someone starts by calling me "smug,"
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 10:36 PM
Aug 2016

I'm going to tune right the fuck out. Trust me on that one. And so will others. The author is pushing conflict and what I perceive as personal issues, and that is not something I wish to engage in.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
139. Why do you assume she was addressing you, and you alone?
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 11:26 PM
Aug 2016

If you aren't doing the things she was discussing, there is no reason for you to be insulted.

I find that in racial discussions, as a white person, if you don't find yourself feeling uncomfortable at some point, you probably aren't truly getting it. Most likely your are dismissing it.

The right thing to do is almost always that hardest thing to do.

If everything were so simple, we would have been past this by now.

Doodley

(9,088 posts)
153. Should Muslims, Mexicans, and immigrants feel the same way about Trump's comments?
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 01:32 AM
Aug 2016

Would you say to them "Why do you assume he was addressing you, and you alone....there's no reason to be insulted?"

The OP posted something that is very racist, that paints all white liberals with the same brush. Stop defending racism.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
154. The OP was not racist
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 02:03 AM
Aug 2016

It was meant to open eyes. And it certainly accomplished that.

Not only that, it accomplished bringing out the white liberal idiots she was referring to.

You Doodley, have a big problem with race. You just don't fucking get it.

The fact that you attempt to equate this with tiny hands clear and dangerous views, shows just how ignorant you are.

Tiny hands, is a racist, sexist, asshole.

The author of this piece, is trying to prevent assholes like tiny hands on the democratic side from becoming the same.

Hello, she is speaking to you.

Edit to add: And PS

I know that we are attempting more civility here, but I find it hard to be civil with those who are obviously here with ill intent. You have trolled this entire thread. You are steadfast in your refusal to see. You have made that very clear.

Doodley

(9,088 posts)
181. Yes, I do have a big problem with race. I am intolerant of any racism and always have been.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 10:39 PM
Aug 2016

You are very offensive, and I do not need to be lectured by you about what I see or don't see.

SheriffBob

(552 posts)
136. i am sure that sean hannity would approve of this article
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 10:39 PM
Aug 2016

and most right wingers.

it seems like race baiting to me.

it sure has created hatred here, judging by the posts removed.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
155. The race baiting meme needs to stop.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 02:06 AM
Aug 2016

You either get it, or you don't.

Demanding racial equality is not fucking race baiting.

SheriffBob

(552 posts)
161. You get it and anybody who disagrees with you doesn't get it.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 08:45 AM
Aug 2016

You must really be special.

I was a volunteer for Habitat For Humanity for years as a master builder.

What have you physically done for racial equality?

Where's the beef?

You also complain about the speech of others who " don't get it"

OnDoutside

(19,956 posts)
166. That's fair comment. Of all the groups that one might rail against, hitting those who at the very
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 09:31 AM
Aug 2016

least, don't set out to make your life worse, is bizarre.

applegrove

(118,626 posts)
137. I think people are on a gradiant where racism is concerned. That is not new. I heard a poem
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 10:53 PM
Aug 2016

Last edited Sun Aug 21, 2016, 01:26 AM - Edit history (2)

called "A Blue Whale Has A Heart the Size of Volkswagon". It was about how a black Nova Scotian (lotta history there) felt about liberals. The last line was "sometimes I want to get into the blue whale heart and drive right through yours". Every aspect of being human is on a gradient when you think about it.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
141. I took an online test for skin tone bias through Harvard.
Sat Aug 20, 2016, 11:40 PM
Aug 2016

Here's the link:
https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/

I first took the test after answering all of the questions about myself honestly -- e.g., I'm a white male in my 40's, etc. The results indicated that I was slightly biased against people of color.

I waited a few weeks and took the test again. I claimed to be African American, with all of the other information the same. After I completed the test, it claimed that I was slightly biased against white people!

applegrove

(118,626 posts)
145. I did the first test too and came in at slightly biased. Nicholas Kristof did a like test
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 12:13 AM
Aug 2016

and it was the same. My point is that you cannot really ever know what exactly it is like to be in another's shoes unless you have lived it. I think we are being much more honest about where the issues are under Obama. If the OJ trial happened today, white people would not be so shocked he got off when the jury was partially black. We understand that different groups have different view in a way we didn't before. Things that could never be said before are being said. And there will be a discussion back and forth. And for sure improvement in the relationship.

Even the losers who have bought Trump's racist rhetoric are going to be woken up when he drops them and drops deporting 11 million and realize they have been used. That may start them on a journey of self discovery because the right will not be in control of how they discuss this amongst themselves online and in person.

But every aspect of being human is distributed on a gradient. And if we are all moving in the right direction there is hope. And I think there is.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
149. The most shocking thing for me recently was seeing...
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 12:36 AM
Aug 2016

... people of color being frisked and searched by police in Newark, NJ simply for walking down a sidewalk and "looking" suspicious. That's absolutely outrageous behavior! The people are being treated like they're already prisoners! That's something that I've never observed in my area, and it's that type of thing that needs shared more often!

Frontline's "Policing the Police":
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/frontline/film/policing-the-police/

I've worked with many uneducated white people who didn't even know that George Washington was our first President! I can assure you that they have no interest in watching a program like Frontline because they don't have much curiosity in the first place.

The way to sway them is to show them problems they don't experience. Showing PoC in bad economic situations? That's not going to move them very much because they'll likely say, "Join the club!"

What they see is African Americans blocking highways and "causing trouble" in our low-information media. They might also see rioters in Milwaukee shouting, "He's white! Get him!" That sort of thing frightens them. I can understand African Americans likewise being frightened given the history of this country and seeing white supremacists spewing their hatred... not to mention the very real problem of cops being judge, jury and executioner sometimes.

EDIT: Most of those poor and uneducated white co-workers would burst out laughing if they were told about their "white privilege." If they saw PoC being frisked for no reason, however, they might think, "Hmm... well that certainly doesn't happen to me." I'm not sure if winning them over is terribly important, though, because they don't have much power in this money-dominated country in the first place. Some of their votes could be helpful, however.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
159. Language doesn't matter.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 05:23 AM
Aug 2016

Doing counts more. Yep, grab me by the white liberal collar and TELL ME my mom didn't march Selma to Montgomery.

Response to Dr Hobbitstein (Reply #162)

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
167. The author is the "White Liberal" Whisperer!
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 09:48 AM
Aug 2016

Defining "white liberal" for white liberals, how nice of the author! She knows what they think, and their innermost motivations! And the definition is just in keeping with all the stereotypes that are seen from sites like FR every day, what a coincidence!

I anxiously await the next holy upvoted "White Liberal Whisperer" article, coming to us soon! Did you know the reason all white liberals are so into animal rights that they expend more resources fighting for it than for their fellow black and brown humans is because they're racists? Neither did I! But the White Liberal Whisperer knows what's up!


SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
175. Some of us got involved in NC's anti-fracking movement...
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 02:34 PM
Aug 2016

because we're racists who don't want toxic waste dumped in predominantly AA coastal communities. We suck.

And all those hundreds of lily-whites arrested during Reverend Barber's Moral Mondays? Screw 'em!

And those Seattle fuckers who voted to up their property taxes to fund programs for disadvantaged kids? They really suck!

The White Liberal Whisperer is smarting because she flunked out her freshman year thanks to a roommate from tony Bryn Mawr.

redgreenandblue

(2,088 posts)
169. Lol. A heap of conservative talking points, swallowed whole because wrapped in identity politics.
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 11:35 AM
Aug 2016

The piece is anti immigrant, anti education, pro "school-choice", anti "pc-culture" and anti tax, but a segment of DU eats it up because "blablabla white people".

I have to say, well played.



The truth is that Liberalism is about making elites feel better about themselves and their lives without requiring the underlying action of significantly improving the lives of African-Americans.

That is what "Liberalism" is about, yes?
 

FairWinds

(1,717 posts)
171. Of course the unstated corollary to this argument . .
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 12:52 PM
Aug 2016

is that it is the Reich that really works for freedom for
everyone.

The article is a caricature of the brave leftists I have known.

Ask Congressman John Lewis about the white liberal who took
the racist mob's blows meant for him. (Google Albert Bigelow,
and James Peck while you are at it. There are countless others)

mntleo2

(2,535 posts)
172. MLK wrote once ...
Sun Aug 21, 2016, 12:54 PM
Aug 2016

...something like you cannot really love your neighbor unless you can BE a neighbor. I loved that as a young adult and did just that. You find some kick-ass amazing people, eat incredible food, dance in some unbelievable weddings, and your kids grow up to find spouses and friends that now make our family gatherings into its own private world of diversity.

I am sure glad I listened to MLK's words!

Love, Cat in Seattle

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
188. So, racist black person hates white people. Got it.
Mon Aug 22, 2016, 01:50 PM
Aug 2016

Moving on to important discussions, thanks KamaAina.

Response to KamaAina (Original post)

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