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onehandle

(51,122 posts)
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 12:57 PM Oct 2015

CNN Exclusive: Pope held private meeting with same-sex couple in U.S.

Source: CNN

(CNN)The day before Pope Francis met anti-gay county clerk Kim Davis in Washington last week, he held a private meeting with a longtime friend from Argentina who has been in a same-sex relationship for 19 years. Yayo Grassi, an openly gay man, brought his partner, Iwan, as well several other friends to the Vatican Embassy on September 23 for a brief visit with the Pope. A video of the meeting shows Grassi and Francis greeting each other with a warm hug.

In an exclusive interview with CNN, Grassi declined to disclose details about the short visit, but said it was arranged personally by the Pope via email in the weeks ahead of Francis' highly anticipated visit to the United States. "Three weeks before the trip, he called me on the phone and said he would love to give me a hug," Grassi said.

The meeting between Grassi and the Pope adds another intriguing twist to the strange aftermath of Francis' first-ever trip to the United States. Since news broke on Tuesday of Francis' meeting with Davis, conservatives have cheered the seemingly implicit endorsement, while liberals have questioned how much the Pope knew about her case.

In a statement on Friday, the Vatican said that the meeting with Davis was not intended as a show of support for her cause and said "the only real audience granted by the Pope at the nunciature (embassy) was with one of his former students and his family."

Read more: http://www.cnn.com/2015/10/02/us/pope-gay-washington/index.html



And this was personally arranged by him, unlike the encounter with Davis, who was in a bunch of people with her third husband.
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CNN Exclusive: Pope held private meeting with same-sex couple in U.S. (Original Post) onehandle Oct 2015 OP
Saw a CNN banner come up and was like BumRushDaShow Oct 2015 #1
Shows the Pope's real sentiment Az_lefty Oct 2015 #14
but... Fuck the Pope!? tk2kewl Oct 2015 #2
I heard on NPR zentrum Oct 2015 #3
Charlie Pierce gets more to the point, more eloquently MH1 Oct 2015 #17
Thanks for posting this. BlueMTexpat Oct 2015 #30
The "Raa Rha Kim Davis" cheerleaders weren't expecting a Pope punk like this. L. Coyote Oct 2015 #4
Time for Kim to throw the Pope under the bus Geronimoe Oct 2015 #5
Good for him Johnny2X2X Oct 2015 #6
But I think it is little things like this that will move the Church in the right direction LynneSin Oct 2015 #10
In the US, the legal recognition of marriage has nothing to do with religion. JDPriestly Oct 2015 #40
Who doesn't comprehend it's not about the *meeting*? gcomeau Oct 2015 #7
hee-hee-hee Baitball Blogger Oct 2015 #8
One told NOBODY the other THE WORLD!!! benld74 Oct 2015 #9
Well one lied LynneSin Oct 2015 #11
He talks out of both sides of his mouth enough that this doesn't surprise me. Jamastiene Oct 2015 #12
It's PR and nothing more. Behind the Aegis Oct 2015 #15
I don't think he planned ahead for this private meeting to become public. pnwmom Oct 2015 #23
Which is PR. Behind the Aegis Oct 2015 #24
It isn't "nothing more." He met with an old friend and his family pnwmom Oct 2015 #25
It is PR and nothing more refers to the announcement, not the meeting. Behind the Aegis Oct 2015 #29
Well yeah, he's the Pope. jeff47 Oct 2015 #16
And that's why I don't want to see our Party hitch itself to 'because god' as reason for anything. Bluenorthwest Oct 2015 #21
We don't have to hitch ourselves to it. Breaking the Republican dominance of Religion is fine. jeff47 Oct 2015 #27
I gave you a link you apparently did not read. 3 day conference against marriage equality. Bluenorthwest Oct 2015 #32
"Can you show me his 3 day conference on poverty?" BumRushDaShow Oct 2015 #45
How 'bout I show you this instead jeff47 Oct 2015 #48
Yes, he will be helpful on the issues we agree with. pnwmom Oct 2015 #28
But our side is claiming him and he's an anti gay, anti choice bigot. Bluenorthwest Oct 2015 #35
It's all about the comparison between His Holiness, and his predecessors. Elmer S. E. Dump Oct 2015 #20
Are you more proud of him comparing transgender people to nuclear weapons? Jamastiene Oct 2015 #47
This is why I really don't understand all the fuss about this pope, and how suddenly the Church has still_one Oct 2015 #33
of course he blessed their union and wished them all the joys of heaven. nt msongs Oct 2015 #13
He met with an old friend who is gay. Some of my best friends are that way! Bluenorthwest Oct 2015 #18
Heterosexism, the under discussed privilege! Behind the Aegis Oct 2015 #19
What amazes me is that when his defenders are given detailed factual links, they never bother Bluenorthwest Oct 2015 #22
I am not amazed, though I am at some of the participants. Saddened actually. Behind the Aegis Oct 2015 #26
You can join in the call for resignation for the person who arranged the meeting. MH1 Oct 2015 #36
I am not Catholic. Behind the Aegis Oct 2015 #37
It is hate when we speak out against his intolerance toward us, Jamastiene Oct 2015 #44
Whosoever diggeth a pit Bluenorthwest Oct 2015 #42
This pope has Jamastiene Oct 2015 #46
Do we need to defend this OP? Darb Oct 2015 #39
You follow me around making nasty personal comments utterly devoid of substance. Bluenorthwest Oct 2015 #41
if this is true restorefreedom Oct 2015 #31
I'm rethinking my initial outrage about the Kim Davis thing. It's beginning to sound like a... Tarheel_Dem Oct 2015 #34
Ratzi still lives high..... dawnie51 Oct 2015 #38
Rick SantoRum has an openly gay black friend JI7 Oct 2015 #43

zentrum

(9,865 posts)
3. I heard on NPR
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 01:26 PM
Oct 2015

…..that the Davis meeting was engineered by a conservative group in the Vatican, hoping to undermine his trip to the USA as soon as he returned to Rome. The hope was that the media would focus on this and not on the more progressive things, such as they were, that he said and did. Which is exactly what has happened.

In all inner political circles, there's always these Borgia-like things going on. Happens in our congress too. With Kochs as the modern venal "Princes". Same Court politics.

MH1

(17,595 posts)
17. Charlie Pierce gets more to the point, more eloquently
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 02:46 PM
Oct 2015

(as Charlie is known to do. )

http://www.esquire.com/news-politics/politics/news/a38440/pope-francis-swindled-kim-davis-meeting/


...

Before we continue, let us stipulate a few things. First of all, let us stipulate that there are more than a few members of the Church's permanent bureaucracy, both within the Clan Of The Red Beanie and without, who are not happy that this gentleman got elected Pope, and who are not happy with what he's done and said since he was. Second, let us stipulate that many members of this group are loyal to both former pope Josef Ratzinger and, through him, to the memory (and to what they perceive as the legacy) of John Paul II who, for good and ill, had a much different idea of how to wield a papacy than Papa Francesco does. Third, let us stipulate that this opposition to the current pope has been active and vocal, to say nothing of paranoid. Finally, let us stipulate that, for over 2000 years, the Vatican has been a hotbed of intrigue, betrayal, and sanctified ratfcking on a very high scale. (It also has been a hotbed of, well, hot beds, but that's neither here nor there at the moment.) So, if you're one of these people, and you're looking to ratfck the pope's visit to the United States, and to his agenda in general, you'd be looking to put him in a box. So, how would you do that?

Here's what I'd do. I'd arrange for the pope to meet Davis, but not as an American culture war celebrity, but as a devout Christian whose faith is under vague assault. (I would not mention the three marriages or the fact that she took an oath before god to do her job. I mean, why burden the poor old fella with details, right?) I'd shuffle her through the process and she gets some vague words of encouragement from the pope, who otherwise doesn't know her from any other hick who gets sent his way. I'd sit on the news for the entire rest of the pope's trip, even enlisting Davis's publicity-hungry legal team in that effort.


...




("a hotbed of hot beds" )

BlueMTexpat

(15,366 posts)
30. Thanks for posting this.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:22 PM
Oct 2015

I just found the article myself.

When Ratzi Church appointees (embeds?) were involved in getting Kim Davis ushered in with the rest, I wondered. It makes a twisted sort of sense.

L. Coyote

(51,129 posts)
4. The "Raa Rha Kim Davis" cheerleaders weren't expecting a Pope punk like this.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 01:28 PM
Oct 2015

Oh oh, Kim Davis shook the hand that hugged a guy gay. She's a tainted conservative now.

 

Geronimoe

(1,539 posts)
5. Time for Kim to throw the Pope under the bus
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 01:31 PM
Oct 2015

Love this little hiccup in Kim's and her attorneys' tall tales.

Johnny2X2X

(19,035 posts)
6. Good for him
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 01:33 PM
Oct 2015

Seems like it was the Pope himself that set up this meeting. I doubt the Pope will ever come out for Gay Marriage, but this was a show of support for compassion and love.

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
10. But I think it is little things like this that will move the Church in the right direction
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 01:45 PM
Oct 2015

I don't expect a 180 in regards to the Catholic Church and marriage equality. But I know how Americans use to be in regards to the LGBT community. Hell I know how I use to be when I was a kid growing up in rural Pennsylvania back in the 70s. Sometimes it's the little things that get the ball rolling in the right direction.

I know this Pope is not perfect, he is not the hero of the liberals. But I know that many of us including even Bernie Sanders do see him as a good ally for many of our top causes like income equality, immigration rights and climate change and we respect the fact that when the Pope is given a microphone in which to speak in front of a crowd these are the issues he focuses on and not the issues that seem to divide our nation like Abortion and Marriage equality.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
40. In the US, the legal recognition of marriage has nothing to do with religion.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 04:13 PM
Oct 2015

Thus, the recognition and respect for LGBT marriage has nothing to do with religion.

We celebrate and enjoy freedom of religion and of thought and conscience when it comes to moral issues.

Churches may do what they want, but our Constitution guarantees equality and the protection of our basic rights.

Marriage is a basic right.

LGBTs cannot be deprived of that basic right.

Protected by their First Amendment rights, the churches decide who receives religious sacraments.

Churches are free and protected under the First Amendment to deny the sacrament of marriage to LGBTs if they wish.

The government dedicated to protecting the equal rights of all citizens cannot deny LGBT couples their fundamental right to marry.

Davis needs to find a different job.

Maybe she should become a marriage counselor or a minister. She seems to have lots of experience with marriage and would probably enjoy refusing the sacrament of marriage to LGBTs. She is just on the wrong career path.

Ms. Davis. Enjoy your retirement.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
7. Who doesn't comprehend it's not about the *meeting*?
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 01:36 PM
Oct 2015

He had the meeting with Davis in the wider context of repeatedly and publicly supporting her position against the rights of gay people.


He had the meeting with his gay friend in the context of "well, while I'm screwing you over on policy I'll give you a hug to show how nice I am about it".


All this is is another demonstration of the fact that this is the PR Pope.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
12. He talks out of both sides of his mouth enough that this doesn't surprise me.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 01:46 PM
Oct 2015

This is the same guy who compared transgender people to nuclear weapons. He might say a couple interesting things now and again on other topics, but I would never call him pro gay rights in any way, no matter what he does for appearances. Jerry Falwell met with gay people too. He was still an anti-gay bigot.

I don't get the swooning over this guy.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/13/pope-francis-gay-marriage-anti_n_2869221.html

Behind the Aegis

(53,944 posts)
15. It's PR and nothing more.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 02:24 PM
Oct 2015

It's the old "some of my best friends are..." crap. Some seem almost desperate to make the Pope into something he is not.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
23. I don't think he planned ahead for this private meeting to become public.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:13 PM
Oct 2015

But in view of the Kim Davis fiasco, he's putting that into context.

Behind the Aegis

(53,944 posts)
29. It is PR and nothing more refers to the announcement, not the meeting.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:20 PM
Oct 2015

He met with a friend, who happened to be gay and in a same sex relationship, not the head of "DIGNITY."

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
16. Well yeah, he's the Pope.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 02:24 PM
Oct 2015
I don't get the swooning over this guy.

Right-wing Christians have turned religion into a weapon in the culture wars. So tax cuts are good because god. Fighting climate change bad because god. And so on.

The Pope is saying the opposite on some of those issues. That can be helpful in breaking the current monopoly on religion in US politics. Breaking that monopoly would be extremely helpful.

But the Pope will never be directly helpful on abortion, women's rights, LGBT rights or similar issues.
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
21. And that's why I don't want to see our Party hitch itself to 'because god' as reason for anything.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:05 PM
Oct 2015

If Francis has moral authority on the climate and economy, that gives him legitimacy for his anti gay and anti choice and anti contraception positions. The argument that he is breaking up some monopoly is specious when the US evangelicals agree with Francis on all of his top activist issues. He is creating interfaith unity against marriage equality and choice while making tidy press releases to lure in hapless liberals to aid in a cause they actually oppose. Or I like to assume they oppose.

Read this, it's about what you think are two very separate groups of religious people meeting at the Vatican to organize against marriage equality. Francis, Rick Warren, Tony Perkins, Maggie Galagher of NOM, all the cats from the Heritage Foundation.
Vatican Strengthens Ties with Evangelicals and Mormons Against Gay Marriage
http://time.com/3597245/vatican-evangelicals-mormons-gay-marriage/


jeff47

(26,549 posts)
27. We don't have to hitch ourselves to it. Breaking the Republican dominance of Religion is fine.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:19 PM
Oct 2015

That would reduce its power as a weapon against Democrats, allowing voters to decide on more than "but my preacher says they are all sinners!!"

If Francis has moral authority on the climate and economy

He only has the authority people grant to him.

I think of it more like he's walking into the room and flipping over tables. The chaos upsets the previous order, but you do not have to worship the chaos-maker.

The argument that he is breaking up some monopoly is specious when the US evangelicals agree with Francis on all of his top activist issues.

He spends a lot more time talking about poverty than talking about LGBT people, and far more than the last few popes. That change is welcome. The continued oppression of women, LGBT people, and continued forcing religion on others is not and requires continued, forceful opposition.

We can use him as a tool without turning ourselves over to him.
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
32. I gave you a link you apparently did not read. 3 day conference against marriage equality.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:27 PM
Oct 2015

Can you show me his 3 day conference on poverty? This last week's conference was World Meeting of Families' which are under threat you know. It was not a poverty conference.

Just declaring that he does something does not make it so.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
48. How 'bout I show you this instead
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 08:43 PM
Oct 2015

This is the kind of thing I'm talking about: Kim Davis's lawyers just called the Pope a liar.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10141223219

"We can use him where he helps" does not mean "follow him" or "agree with him" or "he will make stuff happen for us while we sit on the couch". A nice little feud between the Vatican and US religious crazies will work nicely. Turning "He's a good Christian, I'll vote for him" to "He's a fucking Papist! I'll never support him" will do quite nicely.

Along the way, we might also get some of his followers to vote to help the poor.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
28. Yes, he will be helpful on the issues we agree with.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:19 PM
Oct 2015

And we can continue to argue with him on the others.

But at least the right-wingers can't claim him as their own.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
35. But our side is claiming him and he's an anti gay, anti choice bigot.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:34 PM
Oct 2015

This means 'our side' is just your side, not my side. My problem with Francis is in the context of Democratic politics, which is the entire context of this website. I'm gay and I'm pro choice.

Dick Cheney supported marriage equality before any Democrat, you did not see us rushing to make common ground with him or to praise his liberal nature. That's because we are not chumps.

 

Elmer S. E. Dump

(5,751 posts)
20. It's all about the comparison between His Holiness, and his predecessors.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:05 PM
Oct 2015

I think he is doing what he can, and that has been quite a bit. I'm very proud of him (even though I'm an atheist).

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
47. Are you more proud of him comparing transgender people to nuclear weapons?
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 08:40 PM
Oct 2015

Or are you more proud of when he said gay marriage was "the work of the devil and a “destructive attack on God’s plan.” Or are you more proud of when "He has also said that gay adoption is a form of discrimination against children."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/13/pope-francis-gay-marriage-anti_n_2869221.html

Which ones of those stances are you most PROUD of? Please elaborate. I'm just curious which one of those things you are MOST proud of.

still_one

(92,122 posts)
33. This is why I really don't understand all the fuss about this pope, and how suddenly the Church has
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:29 PM
Oct 2015

changed its dogma. The facts are the church is still against the same things before Francis assumed the role. The only difference is that this pope expresses more compassion for what he still considers "sinners"

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
18. He met with an old friend who is gay. Some of my best friends are that way!
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 02:57 PM
Oct 2015

The fact that straight people can't even see how insulting this is when used as some defense of a clearly anti gay activist such as Francis.

Let me know when Francis says he was wrong and that his friend's marriage was not Satan's idea.

Behind the Aegis

(53,944 posts)
19. Heterosexism, the under discussed privilege!
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:03 PM
Oct 2015

The good thing is events like this really demonstrate who are our allies and who are all talk!

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
22. What amazes me is that when his defenders are given detailed factual links, they never bother
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:09 PM
Oct 2015

to even try to respond. It's just amazing. They are on automatic pilot. I thought they'd at least try to make an argument in his defense, but they just don't seem capable of it.

Behind the Aegis

(53,944 posts)
26. I am not amazed, though I am at some of the participants. Saddened actually.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:19 PM
Oct 2015

It seems the "cultural war against the gays" is not over (I never thought it was), and it isn't just being fought on the right!!

MH1

(17,595 posts)
36. You can join in the call for resignation for the person who arranged the meeting.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:37 PM
Oct 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027223524


I'm not going to defend the Pope's position regarding LGBT rights. It's pretty clear he's not going to do a 180 from where the church has been prior to his election. However, I also think it's pretty clear that he has certain objectives (mainly getting people to come back to the Catholic Church), he is a very smart man, and the Kim Davis thing is and was clearly predictable to be very harmful to his objectives. Ergo, he probably didn't know until after it blew up in US media. This other numbnutz arranged the meeting (with exactly the intent of what happened) and letting this come out has stepped all over the Pope's carefully crafted message and efforts in his US trip.

You can still hate the Pope if that's where your head's at. But at least recognize that it makes NO sense that he would have planned this.

Behind the Aegis

(53,944 posts)
37. I am not Catholic.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:40 PM
Oct 2015

Everything is being "carefully crafted" at this point.

Also, I don't hate the Pope. I don't know him. So don't imply I do. And, what I recognize is he needs better handlers, like his PR team, they are doing a bang up job!

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
44. It is hate when we speak out against his intolerance toward us,
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 08:13 PM
Oct 2015

don'cha know? What he says about us isn't hate, but when we bring it up later, it means we hate him.

I'm so sick of being told I'm the hatemonger. I'm not the one who wants other people not to have equal rights.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
46. This pope has
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 08:36 PM
Oct 2015

compared transgender people to nuclear weapons:
http://www.buzzfeed.com/lesterfeder/pope-compares-transgender-people-to-nuclear-weapons#.jfNO22pZ1

He said gay marriage was "the work of the devil" and a “destructive attack on God’s plan" and "a total rejection of God’s law."

He has also said that gay adoption is a form of discrimination against children.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/13/pope-francis-gay-marriage-anti_n_2869221.html

...but we "hate" him because we point out that he is against us? Nice logic you are using there.


 

Darb

(2,807 posts)
39. Do we need to defend this OP?
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:52 PM
Oct 2015

Didn't think so. But glad to see you here, loaded for bear with cognitive diss.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
41. You follow me around making nasty personal comments utterly devoid of substance.
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 06:14 PM
Oct 2015

Why do you do that? If you have something to day about the subject do so but attacking people personally for speaking their own minds is what bullies do.

restorefreedom

(12,655 posts)
31. if this is true
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:27 PM
Oct 2015

and he was bamboozled by an anti lgbt group to meet kim davis, they should release who set that meeting up and who set him up.

I was very hard on this pope when I thought he voluntarily and intentionally met with Kim Davis. If it was a set up, I'd like to know who did it although I'm sure it was right wingers because they wanted to undermine his goodwill for the trip he made

Tarheel_Dem

(31,232 posts)
34. I'm rethinking my initial outrage about the Kim Davis thing. It's beginning to sound like a...
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:30 PM
Oct 2015

political hack in the Catholic hierarchy sprung Davis on the Pope. I was just listening to On Point (NPR), and they named some Cardinal who they suspect hand a hand in it. Michael Crowley said he doubts the Pope knew who she was.

dawnie51

(959 posts)
38. Ratzi still lives high.....
Fri Oct 2, 2015, 03:42 PM
Oct 2015

right there in the Vatican, where he is no doubt sowing seeds of mistrust and alienation every day. Francis needs to send this old bastard to the hinterlands, where he belongs; he is NOT his friend, nor is he a benign former colleague who is living out his sunset years quietly underfoot. He split the Papacy to cover himself and his child molesting friends; he is pulling strings from within. Never more obvious than after this trick.

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