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OneCrazyDiamond

(2,031 posts)
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:46 PM Jun 2014

Obamas want daughters to get taste of life on minimum wage: Parade

Source: Reuters/Yahoo

By Roberta Rampton

WASHINGTON (Reuters) - President Barack Obama and wife Michelle both worked minimum-wage jobs before they got law degrees: a character-building experience they said they also want their teenage daughters to share.

The president scooped ice cream at Baskin-Robbins, waited tables at an assisted-living facility for seniors and also worked as a painter. The first lady worked at a book binding shop.

"I think every kid needs to get a taste of what it's like to do that real hard work," Michelle Obama said in an interview with Parade magazine, slated to run on Sunday.

"We are looking for opportunities for them to feel as if going to work and getting a paycheck is not always fun, not always stimulating, not always fair," the president said. "But that's what most folks go through every single day."

Read more: http://news.yahoo.com/obamas-want-daughters-taste-life-minimum-wage-parade-050915047.html



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Obamas want daughters to get taste of life on minimum wage: Parade (Original Post) OneCrazyDiamond Jun 2014 OP
Some of us don't have the option of stopping though Fearless Jun 2014 #1
True, OneCrazyDiamond Jun 2014 #2
figures heaven05 Jun 2014 #25
I didn't miss the point Fearless Jun 2014 #27
Hell, any person with heaven05 Jun 2014 #30
Again I did not miss the point. Fearless Jun 2014 #31
okay, realistically what heaven05 Jun 2014 #32
Likewise. n/t Fearless Jun 2014 #33
The Obamas are good people. cheapdate Jun 2014 #3
And very good parents. llmart Jun 2014 #4
This is a good and decent impulse from the Obamas, but I feel there's something enough Jun 2014 #5
While I appreciate their sentiment, enlightenment Jun 2014 #6
True dflprincess Jun 2014 #10
I'm going to bet the Obama girls Mr.Bill Jun 2014 #14
yes they should "get a taste" for at least a few hours of their 1% privileged lives nt msongs Jun 2014 #7
Yup It's not like they are moving out into an Apartment . bahrbearian Jun 2014 #8
That's really mean frazzled Jun 2014 #17
Your scorn for the Obama daughters should be rejected by every DUer. phleshdef Jun 2014 #18
not that often I agree with you Mass Jun 2014 #19
geez, you just heaven05 Jun 2014 #26
Just a taste, though, to build character. Brickbat Jun 2014 #9
Maybe, just maybe heaven05 Jun 2014 #28
Secret Service may have a different opinion about that bluestateguy Jun 2014 #11
That's great, but they can always go back to their wealthy parents. Ash_F Jun 2014 #12
Beats crying over getting took on snob wine. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #13
Awesome. I worked at Baskin-Robbins for three years in high school. DebJ Jun 2014 #15
That is an experience everyone should have. JDPriestly Jun 2014 #16
My kids also work dirty low-paying jobs during summer break.. mama Jun 2014 #20
yep heaven05 Jun 2014 #29
but, isn't that proving what republicans have always said about B Calm Jun 2014 #21
How cute. Slumming for the summer. adigal Jun 2014 #22
So they want to push the idea that min. wage work "builds character?" malthaussen Jun 2014 #23
It does build character. intheflow Jun 2014 #38
Nice thought, but ... Wernothelpless Jun 2014 #24
if he really wanted them "used to minimum wage" questionseverything Jun 2014 #34
Nice publicity stunt. U4ikLefty Jun 2014 #35
So they can't learn anything? Retrograde Jun 2014 #42
I'm a nurse and always made a decent living tavernier Jun 2014 #36
Humility and empathy OneCrazyDiamond Jun 2014 #37
This is how liberals talk about the first daughters? JoePhilly Jun 2014 #39
The emotion behind it is deep-seated, and absolutely justifiable. But there are far, FAR better nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #41
Its disgusting. JoePhilly Jun 2014 #45
"Some of the folks on this site have lost their minds." nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #46
At least they won't be able to claim that minimum-wage workers are just lazy and/or stupid. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #40
So $8 an hour builds character? JackRiddler Jun 2014 #43
It would be easier to believe that the president gives a damn about low wage workers woo me with science Jun 2014 #44

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
1. Some of us don't have the option of stopping though
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:50 PM
Jun 2014

And therein lies the problem. Minimum wage working is not "character-building" it's spirit crushing. There is a very big difference.

OneCrazyDiamond

(2,031 posts)
2. True,
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 09:03 PM
Jun 2014

but the Obama's have lived both, and want that experience to help guide their daughter's life path.
To me, this is a positive.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
25. figures
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 12:24 PM
Jun 2014

you missed the point. You state the obvious true, but he is the first POTUS I ever heard that even contemplated something like that. The man has principle and integrity, something woefully lacking in any POTUS for 30 + years. I think Carter was a close second, despite his roots.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
27. I didn't miss the point
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 12:41 PM
Jun 2014

You assumed I was being critical. I wasn't. I was bitterly describing the economic situation in this country.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
30. Hell, any person with
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 12:55 PM
Jun 2014

any analytical skill and/or compassion understands the economic conditions. I was bitterly forced into retirement, thank goodness, I HAVE, a minimum wage job to pay and supplement my SS. I made my responses known, on this thread, to people who want to be bitterly cynical. Obama did not make this economy the way it is and he has helped people who have to rely on minimum wage. That's my point. His daughter, IF, they have to experience minimum wage, WILL have the experience and maybe one day will be able to alter the lives of poor people because of it. Jenna, her sister, lizzie, never will help poor people because they have NO compassion toward them/us.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
31. Again I did not miss the point.
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 12:57 PM
Jun 2014

Is it nice that they will have the experience? Sure. But they will never actually be in any danger. They will never actually be for want of heat or food, healthcare or assistance.

It's like a person working in a soup kitchen and thinking that they know what it's like to be poor. You don't know unless you have been.

I hope it gives them perspective, yes. But they won't really know what it's like.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
32. okay, realistically what
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 01:04 PM
Jun 2014

you say has some truth to it. I hope that by having just the experience of dealing with people in a macdonalds or some such one or both daughters, will, if possible later on in life, be able to draw on that experience with compassion and alter life for the poor and homeless who are with us always, now. That's all I'm saying/thinking.

enough

(13,255 posts)
5. This is a good and decent impulse from the Obamas, but I feel there's something
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 09:13 PM
Jun 2014

off-kilter about the idea that a kid from this background can actually understand what it's like to work and live on minimum wage. There are simply too many layers of protection, privilege, and wealth around them for this to be an honest endeavor. At some point there has to be an acceptance of the reality of the actual situation. To pretend that some "opportunity" will come along that will allow them to experience this totally different reality is condescending and deluded.

enlightenment

(8,830 posts)
6. While I appreciate their sentiment,
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 09:24 PM
Jun 2014

their daughters will never really experience what that is like - it is impossible. Yes, they could scoop ice cream or wait tables, but their experience will be defined by what their parents are now and what they will be in the future. They will never - unless they break completely from their parents - go home to the kind of place minimum wage affords. They will never have to decide between paying for groceries or paying rent. They will never have to say, "I can't afford this semester of tuition at the local community college" - or "I can't afford the $4.00 Medicaid co-pay for each of the seven different medications I need each month" .

They will never face the reality of the life behind a minimum wage job.

It's more about showing them - briefly - how the other half (or 99%) live, which is not quite the same as living it. Is it better than sending them straight off to an Ivy League college and hand-picked internships? Of course, but I'm not sure how much character-building they'll get, under the circumstances.

dflprincess

(28,072 posts)
10. True
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 10:26 PM
Jun 2014

but maybe they'll at least have more of a clue than the Bush twins or others like them have had.

Whatever my criticisms of some of the president's policies have been I do think the Obamas try to raise their daughters to be decent human beings who have some empathy for other people and they deserve credit for that.

Mr.Bill

(24,253 posts)
14. I'm going to bet the Obama girls
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 11:11 PM
Jun 2014

never get caught trying to buy liquor with a fake ID like one of the Bush girls did.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
17. That's really mean
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 12:43 AM
Jun 2014

I'm sorry, but these children did nothing to deserve your scorn. They did not ask to be the kids of a president. They did not ask to be rich.

Did you scorn all the politicians who were doing their "radical chic" SNAP-for-a-week challenge stints, living off food stamps for a few days? I seem to recall they were much admired here. And it's a lot less hard than scooping frozen ice-cream for a summer.

Give these girls a break. If you don't like their parents, fine. But don't be dissing them for what their parents are. There's no shame in a rich kid learning how the other half lives, even for a summer.

I always see these girls dishing out food at the homeless shelters. I don't recall the Bush girls every doing anything like that (at least in public). Geez, ragging on children: that's pretty low.

Mass

(27,315 posts)
19. not that often I agree with you
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 04:09 AM
Jun 2014

But I do.

There is a huge difference between having a minimum wage to live on and going back to parents that are comfortable or more after a summer job.

At best, they will get to meet people they wouldn't otherwise.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
28. Maybe, just maybe
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 12:47 PM
Jun 2014

they will move into some type of position as adults, and unlike the pampered RW children, by having that experience that it might spur them on to make positive changes for the poor, changes that will help alter society. Really disgusting non support on this site, from democrats some times. But these are cynical times. Liz chaney never worked minimum wage, bush co daughters never worked minimum wage and never did their parents think about it as a life experience. Those particular people are doing what today?

bluestateguy

(44,173 posts)
11. Secret Service may have a different opinion about that
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 10:52 PM
Jun 2014

Maybe they can find them clerical jobs working in the DNC or for Hillary's campaign.

I don't think the SS wants them flipping burgers at a fast food joint.

DebJ

(7,699 posts)
15. Awesome. I worked at Baskin-Robbins for three years in high school.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 11:45 PM
Jun 2014

Something else we have in common LOL.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
16. That is an experience everyone should have.
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 12:37 AM
Jun 2014

Of course, the Obama daughters may, I hope, never know what it is to pay all your bills, to really live on minimum wage. They will always be able to rely on their parents for help.

mama

(163 posts)
20. My kids also work dirty low-paying jobs during summer break..
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 06:24 AM
Jun 2014

The point is not that they will have to do that for life, but that they will know people who do. If they are ever in position to make decisions which will benefit or harm the working class, they'll picture real people instead of stereotypes.

It gave my son food-for-thought when I remarked that his co-workers make less per year than his college tuition. And that even at a state school there would be very little left for the rest of the family. How can they help their kids through school?

We're not that well-off, but we live in an upper-class school district, and almost all of the parents of my kids' friends are doing very well. So much so that the kids take it for granted.


 

B Calm

(28,762 posts)
21. but, isn't that proving what republicans have always said about
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 06:59 AM
Jun 2014

minimum wage jobs as a starting place and designed to empower yourself to do better?

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
22. How cute. Slumming for the summer.
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 07:53 AM
Jun 2014

I think this is a pointy-headed idea. Their girls will never know the realities of having to work in a hot as hell kitchen for minimum wage, then having to go to a second job for another 8 hours to pay the rent in a terrible neighborhood. It's a nice idea, but since they are not stupid girls, hey will know it's not their reality.

There are better ways to teach empathy.

Edited to add: I think this is a PR ploy, but I appreciate the idea behind it. I think they might learn more spending a week in a DC public school, which their parents protected them from. I can't blame them - I wouldn't send my kids to an underfunded public school either, but you know...this just doesn't really sit right with me. I like the idea, but think it is really ridiculous to expect them to understand the 99% from a summer job, which will probably be staffed with other young people and a lot of fun.

malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
23. So they want to push the idea that min. wage work "builds character?"
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 09:46 AM
Jun 2014

Not the best way to go about it, methinks.

-- Mal

intheflow

(28,443 posts)
38. It does build character.
Mon Jun 23, 2014, 11:15 PM
Jun 2014

If you've ever worked a minimum wage job, you know people who never have treat you like shit. These girls will get treated like shit at some point in any minimum wage job they get, almost guaranteed. Yes, they won't have to actually live on the wage, but you know damn well some jerk will think it's just fine to verbally abuse them for being low-wage workers, never mind the jerks who will abuse them assuming that "poor black girl" is just waiting to be a baby mama. You cannot experience that kind of attitude by people who you're attempting to provide a service without it changing you. Since they're being raised in a rich family, this will give them perspective they would never get otherwise.

Wernothelpless

(410 posts)
24. Nice thought, but ...
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 10:37 AM
Jun 2014

Girls working minimum wage don't have secret service bodyguards to protect them from getting sexually
harassed by their boss or creeps hanging around waiting for them to get off work in the dark parking lot ...

They'll never get a taste of real life ... and THAT'S what "most folks go through every single day" ...

Retrograde

(10,130 posts)
42. So they can't learn anything?
Tue Jun 24, 2014, 01:11 AM
Jun 2014

I've worked minimum wage jobs when I was in school. Yeah, I had my parents to provide me with a roof and food (it was understood that what I made would cover the rest of my college expenses from my pay) but working side by side with people who relied on such jobs make me realize how lucky I was, and what it was like to work at the bottom of the pile. If it does nothing other than make the Obama girls talk to people who depend on such jobs, great: it's something more politicians' children should do.

tavernier

(12,370 posts)
36. I'm a nurse and always made a decent living
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 08:48 PM
Jun 2014

but when I recently retired my daughter who works as a dietitian at the high school asked me if I would like to fill in a part time position as a lunch lady (near minimum wage) just for the fun of it and the good exercise, since they were working short handed and weren't getting any applications. I found out very quickly what hard work for minimal pay means. I damn near died the first two weeks; every bone in my body hurt, and I learned from my co-workers that most of them went straight to a second job when they punched out.

Privileged or not, that is an education that teaches a lesson in humility and empathy.

OneCrazyDiamond

(2,031 posts)
37. Humility and empathy
Sun Jun 22, 2014, 04:19 PM
Jun 2014

are too things we need more of in this world. The news around the world is getting appalling.

Thank you,

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
41. The emotion behind it is deep-seated, and absolutely justifiable. But there are far, FAR better
Tue Jun 24, 2014, 01:00 AM
Jun 2014

targets out there.

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
45. Its disgusting.
Tue Jun 24, 2014, 09:02 AM
Jun 2014

Some of the folks on this site have lost their minds.

In what universe do some of these fools think ANY child of a US President would find themselves trying to survive on a minimum wage job? Yet here they are, whining about the President wanting his daughters, to have some sense of what most people experience even if its extremely unlikely they'd ever be in that situation because of who their father is.

You can almost feel these nuts jobs hoping something bad happens to these kids down the road. I expect this from the insane right wing.

To read it on DU blows me away.



nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
46. "Some of the folks on this site have lost their minds."
Tue Jun 24, 2014, 04:14 PM
Jun 2014

Such are the times we live in. And it's sad, and a little scary, but there it is.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
40. At least they won't be able to claim that minimum-wage workers are just lazy and/or stupid.
Tue Jun 24, 2014, 12:59 AM
Jun 2014

Which automatically puts them at least one or two up on the Rand Pauls of the world.

 

JackRiddler

(24,979 posts)
43. So $8 an hour builds character?
Tue Jun 24, 2014, 04:19 AM
Jun 2014

Such good news for all the kids stuck working at McDonald's, not just for the summer - if they're lucky.

How about building your children's character for $15 / hour? Something wrong with that?

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
44. It would be easier to believe that the president gives a damn about low wage workers
Tue Jun 24, 2014, 06:41 AM
Jun 2014

or genuinely wants his daughters to have any empathy for them, if he weren't simultaneously trying to pass the TPP, which will destroy jobs and lower the wages of over 90 percent of Americans.

Study: Obama's "Trade" Deal Would Mean a Pay Cut for 90% of U.S. Workers
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023661805

You cannot push the TPP and simultaneously claim to care about income inequality and low wage workers.
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