I have a relative. She's about 50, could pass for 32. She's a sweetheart.

Her husband seems to think he can do better and is leaving her. I know, I know... I cannot really know the whole story. But from where I sit, the man is an idiot.

he will go out into the world and learn the grass is not greener for him and appreciate what his wife is worth. In his absence, his wife will also come to appreciate her worth and decide she deserves better.

Actually, I hope whatever is best for both of them is the end result.

It's basically men who think they're "still too young" to be married to a "middle-aged" woman (who is the same age as they are). These men have not fared so very well chasing after younger women.

Had a long term boyfriend.

She thought he was it and he, her.

But, he decided to test the waters one last time and broke up with her in a wishy washy way.

We met two weeks later.

He's still single 10 years later.

Slowly cooking our brainzzz

I think it is a combination of the stresses of everyday life increasing along with the non-stop availability of news regarding just how fucked up things are around the world - it's making people lose it