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Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
Tue Dec 9, 2014, 06:33 AM Dec 2014

As my final semester as a college student comes to a close...

...I can't believe it, but I'm kind of feeling a sense of loss. Finishing my degree has been one of the hardest things I've ever done, largely due to the fact that I've had to work full time while doing it. It has been downright painful for my wife and I at times. We've had to sacrifice a great deal of our time together and with family over the past few years so I could get my school work done. I'm overworked and almost completely burnt out.

Yet, as I was going over my online classes this morning and making sure I had everything done, I had that feeling like I was losing something.

I'm completely done with my two online classes now. I have a speech class up at campus that I have to give one more speech and write one more essay for. The speech is due on Thursday and the paper is due by next Monday. That's all I have left to do in my college career.

Don't get me wrong. I will be elated when I have that degree in my hands. However, despite how difficult and painful at times this has been, strangely, a part of me is going to miss it.

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As my final semester as a college student comes to a close... (Original Post) Tobin S. Dec 2014 OP
You have invested a LOT of energy and emotions towards your degree. dixiegrrrrl Dec 2014 #1
A Bachelor of Science in Business Administration Tobin S. Dec 2014 #8
I hope you are able to make good use of it dixiegrrrrl Dec 2014 #9
Congrats Tobin S. denbot Dec 2014 #2
I don't know how the job search is going to go. Tobin S. Dec 2014 #10
Congrats! bigwillq Dec 2014 #3
I loved academia! 20 years passed. They'll never be another time like it. mackerel Dec 2014 #4
that's normal, Tobin S. magical thyme Dec 2014 #5
Miss all that pressure? femmocrat Dec 2014 #6
Congrats on your accomplishment and good luck in the future. benld74 Dec 2014 #7

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
1. You have invested a LOT of energy and emotions towards your degree.
Tue Dec 9, 2014, 08:26 AM
Dec 2014

And nothing challenges one's brain as much as do or die tests and assignments; it is living in a level of intensity, and challenging.


So, what degree will you have?

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
8. A Bachelor of Science in Business Administration
Tue Dec 9, 2014, 05:59 PM
Dec 2014

Probably not the most popular choice around here, but I'm good at it. There are good guys in business.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
9. I hope you are able to make good use of it
Tue Dec 9, 2014, 06:01 PM
Dec 2014

and hope you do not have too much in loans to pay back.....

denbot

(9,897 posts)
2. Congrats Tobin S.
Tue Dec 9, 2014, 08:31 AM
Dec 2014

You might miss some things like the struggle, drawing from that well of inner strength you may have wondered had gone dry, but I doubt if missing the sleep will be one of them.

How soon do you think it will be until you step out of a cab, and into an office?

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
10. I don't know how the job search is going to go.
Tue Dec 9, 2014, 06:03 PM
Dec 2014

I could be out of the truck by the end of the year, but it could also take several months. I had one job lead, but it fizzled out on me.

I think the best course of action to take initially is to see if my current employer has a position I can upgrade to. I will do that when I'm done with classes. If that doesn't work out it's back to square one. The prospect is scary, but also kind of exciting.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
3. Congrats!
Tue Dec 9, 2014, 08:50 AM
Dec 2014


I graduated in 2002, and I still miss it. I liked going to classes and being a college student. They were good days.
 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
5. that's normal, Tobin S.
Tue Dec 9, 2014, 09:21 AM
Dec 2014

It's been a large part of your life for some time now. Reaching a major goal always has a letdown afterwards.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
6. Miss all that pressure?
Tue Dec 9, 2014, 10:22 AM
Dec 2014

I know what you mean, Tobin. You get used to being all-engrossed in something and then you have to find something new to fill the gap. It's natural to feel that way during transitions.

You have accomplished so much! Bask in your new-found time. Relax, enjoy your family and the holidays!

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