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ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 03:57 PM Jun 2014

Does anyone else have

Does anyone else here have a phobia or problem with photographing people? I don't know why I feel like I'm invading a person's personal space by taking a photograph.

I recently missed what I believe would have been two great shots. One of a guy carrying a briefcase walking down a graffiti laden alley and the other of a young man sitting on the ledge of a rock overlooking the river and valley.

What IS my problem?

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Does anyone else have (Original Post) ohheckyeah Jun 2014 OP
Yeah, me too NV Whino Jun 2014 #1
I understand your phobia. dballance Jun 2014 #2
Thanks for the replies... ohheckyeah Jun 2014 #3
Here's two of the very few ohheckyeah Jun 2014 #4
I really like those photos. alfredo Jun 2014 #12
Thank you. ohheckyeah Jun 2014 #13
That is as good a portrait as one could ask for. alfredo Jun 2014 #14
Thanks... ohheckyeah Jun 2014 #17
Same here. They rarely pass my cringe test. alfredo Jun 2014 #25
Longer lenses allow you to step back which generally makes people more comfortable Major Nikon Jun 2014 #5
That's a nice photo. ohheckyeah Jun 2014 #6
It sounds like people who avoid having themselves photographed Curmudgeoness Jun 2014 #7
I think you're correct. ohheckyeah Jun 2014 #8
I hate being photographed Stevenmarc Jun 2014 #9
Maybe it is the "serious photographer" part Curmudgeoness Jun 2014 #10
Also Stevenmarc Jun 2014 #15
I go through phases. This weekend I am going to our Gay Pride festival. I have little issues alfredo Jun 2014 #11
I couldn't sell ice ohheckyeah Jun 2014 #16
You first have to sell yourself to the person you want to photograph. alfredo Jun 2014 #19
A Little RadicalGeek Jun 2014 #18
I get that.... ohheckyeah Jun 2014 #20
Sounds like what you don't want ManiacJoe Jun 2014 #22
Maybe RadicalGeek Jun 2014 #24
I have been on both sides of a camera all my life. ManiacJoe Jun 2014 #21
I did ask a woman ohheckyeah Jun 2014 #23
I have a problem with it Blue_In_AK Jun 2014 #26
Yeah, me. ohheckyeah Jul 2014 #27

NV Whino

(20,886 posts)
1. Yeah, me too
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 04:13 PM
Jun 2014

I don't like to be photographed, and that translates to respecting others' right to privacy.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
2. I understand your phobia.
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 04:15 PM
Jun 2014

If I'm in a large crowd of people I have no issues taking photos of anyone. However, if I'm in a more intimate? environment - say like me and just a guy with a briefcase in a graffiti laden ally than I'm shy about snapping a photo. I guess that is why neither of us is a paparazzi.

I know, I too, have missed some great shots due to my concern I was invading the privacy of someone else.

Not sure how to advise here since I suffer the same phobia.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
3. Thanks for the replies...
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 04:27 PM
Jun 2014

at least I know it's not just me.

I don't like to be photographed either - never have, even as a child, so maybe that is where it stems from.

I'm going to see if my niece will let me photograph her - she's 3 and loves having her picture taken so maybe that would be a first step for me.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
4. Here's two of the very few
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 04:53 PM
Jun 2014

photos I've taken of people. I zoomed in on my Dad (the man in the white hat) talking to his friend at our family apple butter making get together:

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This young woman asked me to take her photo at the diner:

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Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
5. Longer lenses allow you to step back which generally makes people more comfortable
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 07:00 PM
Jun 2014

I prefer portrait lenses in the 135-180mm range. With a 180mm or longer, people generally don't even know you are taking their picture and it allows you to get some good candid shots. This picture was taking with my Nikkor 180/2.8 which is my favorite lens for street photography. For this type of photography I prefer a prime lens to a zoom because instead of fiddling with the zoom you just take the picture.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
7. It sounds like people who avoid having themselves photographed
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 07:26 PM
Jun 2014

are the ones who are uncomfortable photographing other people. Because I am also in that group. Unless someone asks me to take their photo, I will not do it.

Unfortunately, since this seems to be a family thing with us, there are very few photos of relatives, and that is rather sad.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
8. I think you're correct.
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 07:28 PM
Jun 2014

Those of us who hate having our own photos taken seem to be the ones who don't feel comfortable taking other's photo.

Stevenmarc

(4,483 posts)
9. I hate being photographed
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 08:02 PM
Jun 2014

However people are my subject most of the time possibly because living in NYC we have a lot of them.

I'm also not that stealth about it, people know they are being photographed and it's been a rare occurrence that I have had someone react badly. In most cases if someone does come back to question me I have my card and portfolio ready. Once they know your a serious photographer their tone usually changes and I have no problem sending them the shot.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
10. Maybe it is the "serious photographer" part
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 08:27 PM
Jun 2014

that makes it easy for you.....you have a card and portfolio at the ready. Although I like to find things to photograph, I have never considered myself "good" much less "serious". That could have something to do with it as well.

And you are right about NYC---it is hard NOT to photograph people there.

Stevenmarc

(4,483 posts)
15. Also
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 10:52 PM
Jun 2014

Shooting people takes on a lot of forms, from street photography to environmental portraits to events Photography.

I think a good start for people is to go to an event like a parade where people have no expectation of privacy and quite frankly are looking to be photographed, well that or ComicCon where they virtually throw themselves at a lens.

I do however have a couple of subjects that I tend to avoid, children unless I want to unleash the Kraken and the homeless who don't need yet another person shooting them.

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
11. I go through phases. This weekend I am going to our Gay Pride festival. I have little issues
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 09:23 PM
Jun 2014

taking photos there. Smile, strike up a conversation, and ask. A favorite opening is a compliment. I say "I love that hat, can I take a photo"?

Go to festivals or events and work the crowd. There is no expectation of privacy at public events. People are there to have fun, so it is a good idea to be part of the fun. I try not to be stealth, I try to be very visible.

If you've ever been a salesman, you can draw upon that experience.

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
19. You first have to sell yourself to the person you want to photograph.
Thu Jun 26, 2014, 10:11 AM
Jun 2014

Smile, be charming. Be confident. You can do it.


RadicalGeek

(344 posts)
18. A Little
Thu Jun 26, 2014, 07:44 AM
Jun 2014

I don't like to have people see me taking pics of them, even at a public event.

What's odd is that at a rally, march, etc I'll "shot at will" (and Bob, Jane, Harry, etc)

ManiacJoe

(10,136 posts)
22. Sounds like what you don't want
Thu Jun 26, 2014, 06:34 PM
Jun 2014

is for your subjects to be interacting with your camera. When folks are looking directly at the camera, it tends to make the shot look more posed than candid.

ManiacJoe

(10,136 posts)
21. I have been on both sides of a camera all my life.
Thu Jun 26, 2014, 06:32 PM
Jun 2014

Photographing others while in public is not a problem. (Whether or not I am good at it is different question.) However, if I am close enough to touch them, then I am invading their personal space and will ask permission first.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
23. I did ask a woman
Thu Jun 26, 2014, 06:47 PM
Jun 2014

downtown one day if I could take her photo and she said yes. That was a long time ago, though.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
26. I have a problem with it
Fri Jun 27, 2014, 02:56 PM
Jun 2014

unless I know the people or unless it's an event like a parade or something. Street photography scares the crap out of me.

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