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Related: About this forumSame-sex marriage in the 19th century
http://www.bostonglobe.com/ideas/2014/06/13/uncommon-household-the-history-early-american-same-sex-marriage/oGJ3H6xZtluQUhvdJnR94M/story.htmlSilhouetted portraits of Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake.
Same-sex marriage in the 19th century
By Rebecca Onion June 13, 2014
In a graveyard in the village of Weybridge, Vt., stands an unusual headstone. It is inscribed with the names of two women, Sylvia Drake and Charity Bryant, who were born during the Revolutionary era and died in the middle of the 19th century. The women were pillars of their community for four and a half decades, living together in a small house, running a tailoring business, teaching Sunday School, and acting as surrogate mothers and caregivers to hundreds of nieces and nephews. They were also, according to their own understanding and that of those around them, a married couple.
Historian Rachel Hope Cleves, of the University of Victoria, came across their story while reading a biography of William Cullen Bryant, Charity Bryants nephew. Bryant was a poet, abolitionist, and editor, and a major figure in 19th-century letters. The poet described his aunts partnership with Sylvia Drake in a letter about a visit he had made to western Vermont. It was beautiful, it was poetic, and it was also very explicitly describing a marriage between two women, Cleves said of the letter.
Ten years after the first legal same-sex marriage in Massachusetts, much has been made by supporters of how pioneering the underlying court decision was; critics meanwhile, portray it a new and radical upending of traditional values. But the lives of Drake and Bryant suggest that the story is not so simple: Such relationships have existed, in various forms, through American history. And more than that, what Cleves found in her research was that an early American community could genuinely recognize a same-sex relationship as a household, even in an era that couldnt have imagined a legal marriage between two women.
The story Cleves tells in her new book, Charity & Sylvia: A Same-Sex Marriage in Early America (Oxford University Press), unfolds in the wilds of western Vermont, in a town struggling to establish itself as New England went through economic turmoil. The setting becomes a major part of the story, with the texture of daily lifeconstant toil in a dimly lit house; illnesses and terrifying medical treatments; the countless small family ties that form the womens social worldacting as a backdrop to the larger story of Charity and Sylvias unusual lives.
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Same-sex marriage in the 19th century (Original Post)
unhappycamper
Oct 2015
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safeinOhio
(32,641 posts)1. I think any human trait that
cuts across all times and all cultures, is a natural(tied to genetics) and not learned trait..
unhappycamper
(60,364 posts)2. I believe people have a right to marry whom they wish. Period.
n/t
safeinOhio
(32,641 posts)3. I think this truth
makes it a primary natural right.
LostOne4Ever
(9,286 posts)4. Pretty awesome and sure to blow a few homophobes minds :D (nt)