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This opinion piece was written in light of the Tuam "mother and baby home" report.
Ireland was no country for young women but for men another story
Cahir O'Doherty
June 14,2014
When you went to school they would say you have no father or mother and that was very hurtful
, Tom Ward, 72, who lived in the Tuam, County Galway Home for five and a half years told the Joe Duffy Show this week.
Ward believes he was comparatively lucky, he was fostered by a family in 1947, but no adult he encountered ever let him forget his place...
...The unwed mothers of the homes were simply not valued and neither were their children. The statistics make this plain. The death rate for illegitimate Irish children was between three and five times that of legitimate children from the 1920s through the late 1940s.
The truth is they were sent to these places to keep them hidden from sight. As with all penitentiaries it was less about protecting them and more about protecting us....
MORE at http://www.irishcentral.com/opinion/cahirodoherty/No-country-for-young-women-of-Ireland-but-for-men-another-story.html
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)From the Guardian:
Forget prayers. Only full disclosure by Ireland's Catholic church can begin to atone for the children who died in its care
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Father Fintan Monaghan, secretary of the Tuam archediocese, says: "I suppose we can't really judge the past from our point of view, from our lens. All we can do is mark it appropriately and make sure there is a suitable place here where people can come and remember the babies that died."
Let's not judge the past on our morals, then, but on the morals of the time. Was it OK, in mid-20th century Ireland, to throw the bodies of dead children into sewage tanks? Monaghan is really saying: "don't judge the past at all". But we must judge the past, because that is how we learn from it.
Monaghan is correct that we need to mark history appropriately. That's why I am offering the following suggestions as to what the church should do to in response:
Do not say Catholic prayers over these dead children. Don't insult those who were in life despised and abused by you. Instead, tell us where the rest of the bodies are. There were homes throughout Ireland, outrageous child mortality rates in each. Were the Tuam Bon Secours sisters an anomalous, rebellious sect? Or were church practices much the same the country over? If so, how many died in each of these homes? What are their names? Where are their graves? We don't need more platitudinous damage control, but the truth about our history.
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/jun/04/children-galway-mass-graves-ireland-catholic-church