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Arkansas Granny

(31,514 posts)
Fri Mar 10, 2017, 02:58 PM Mar 2017

Need some advice on nutrition and foods for weight gain.

My ex has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He has undergone chemo and surgery and was on track for a good recovery when it was discovered that he had stomach cancer. The surgery for that was successful, but he was recently told that cancer has shown up in his spine. He has had radiation for that, but he is still waiting for results. He goes in next week for a scan and a visit with his oncologist. The news so far is not encouraging.

In the meantime, he has suffered a dramatic weight loss and now weighs in at 121 lbs. on a 6' frame. Many of the foods he used to enjoy don't taste good to him now and he doesn't have much appetite. His wife is battling her own health issues and is not able to do much more than just warm things up at this point. He is drinking Boost, or a similar product, twice a day but continues to lose weight.

My daughter would like to fix some single serve nutritious meals for him that might help him to gain a little weight. Does anyone have suggestions as to how we could get the maximum punch in the smallest portions? Something that could be stored in the freezer to just heat and eat would be the most convenient for him.

Any advice would be much appreciated.

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Need some advice on nutrition and foods for weight gain. (Original Post) Arkansas Granny Mar 2017 OP
We're having MFM008 Mar 2017 #1
One thing my husband loved was flan (or custard) which still tasted good to him. Eggs, milk, sugar. SharonAnn Mar 2017 #2
I will tell you one that I saw work. Cracklin Charlie Mar 2017 #3
two ideas CountAllVotes Mar 2017 #4
Get him Scandishakes. They have 580 calories per serving. sinkingfeeling Mar 2017 #5
Thank all for the good advice. I'll pass this along to my daughter. Arkansas Granny Mar 2017 #6
Very High Calorie Boost OKNancy Mar 2017 #7
I think it's called 2cal HN. 400 calls per can. alfredo Jun 2017 #13
Focus on calorically dense foods. Charles Bukowski Mar 2017 #8
TwoCal HN is what I use. I take my nutrition through a PEG tube. alfredo Mar 2017 #9
sorry for delayed respone Marthe48 Jun 2017 #10
Thanks for the response, but he passed away last month. Arkansas Granny Jun 2017 #11
I'm sorry for your loss Marthe48 Jun 2017 #12
He needs up to 2,000 calories a day. alfredo Nov 2017 #14
Thanks for your reply. Sadly, he passed away a few months ago. Arkansas Granny Nov 2017 #15
That's a tough cancer to fight. Sorry about his passing. alfredo Nov 2017 #16

MFM008

(19,804 posts)
1. We're having
Fri Mar 10, 2017, 03:08 PM
Mar 2017

A similar ( but not cancer) event with my mom. She's lost 30 pounds in a month at a rehab center. She's just lost interest in eating. They are giving her a small shake that's only about 4- 6 Oz and 200 calories a pop. I'll have to get an empty carton so I can advise.

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
3. I will tell you one that I saw work.
Fri Mar 10, 2017, 03:10 PM
Mar 2017

A long time ago, I had a tiny auntie who couldn't gain weight. An old school doctor told her to drink one juice glass (small glass) of red wine one hour before dinner every night. It actually worked, although I have no idea why. She gained 10 pounds in the first month, and never had trouble keeping weight on after trying it.

A personal story...eating raw carrot sticks seems to increase my appetite. Again, no idea.why, but if I eat them before dinner, I seem much hungrier.

CountAllVotes

(20,868 posts)
4. two ideas
Fri Mar 10, 2017, 03:15 PM
Mar 2017

I was very sick a few years ago and couldn't really eat.

I was told by the hospital to get some ENSURE it is called to get some weight on and to provide vitamins, etc. It helped and was not bad taste wise. They had chocolate and vanilla flavors and you can buy it at COSTCO, etc. as it comes in cases. You can also find it at CVS pharmacy, Rite-Aid, etc. Check around as it is not cheap.

I had a craving for tapioca of all things. I was eating stacks of it and found out it is a root commonly used in So. America for stomach problems. You might try that too as it is easy to digest. I also had serious cravings for ... vanilla ice cream!

Wish I had better ideas. Its difficult when you are sick and can't get out much and shop around as you are so very exhausted.

He might try some CBD cannabis edibles if you are in a place where you can obtain such items.

I hope he gets better soon! Take care yourself!



sinkingfeeling

(51,444 posts)
5. Get him Scandishakes. They have 580 calories per serving.
Fri Mar 10, 2017, 03:16 PM
Mar 2017

Made for those needing to gain or maintain weight. Walmart can get them for you. Comes in several flavors. Has supplements in it too.

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
13. I think it's called 2cal HN. 400 calls per can.
Mon Jun 26, 2017, 05:19 PM
Jun 2017

If he can tolerate it, see if you can get a script for it. It's high calorie Ensure.

I've lived on it for over a year. I take it through a feeding tube. It's too rich for me.

 

Charles Bukowski

(1,132 posts)
8. Focus on calorically dense foods.
Fri Mar 10, 2017, 03:45 PM
Mar 2017

Nuts, oils, peanut butter, Nutella, etc. Add them anywhere you can. Mix them in drinks if necessary.

Two tablespoons of neutral salad oil mixed with Ensure will instantly turn a 200 calorie drink into a 400 calorie one.

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
9. TwoCal HN is what I use. I take my nutrition through a PEG tube.
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 07:45 PM
Mar 2017

Take him to a Buffet and let him take a little bit of everything to see what is tolerable.

TKS to this support group for the buffet and idea.

Marthe48

(16,935 posts)
10. sorry for delayed respone
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 06:14 PM
Jun 2017

I made power shakes for my husband: powdered whey protein, whole milk, Ensure, raspberries, vanilla ice cream. I got his 12 oz shakes up to about 800 calories and 40 or more grams of protein.

He had a feeding tube for 9 months and when he was taken off that, he had some extra Jevity,which is a food product for the feeding tube. I mixed a 1/2 can of that into shakes and got more calories and less bulk.

I hope things are better for you.





Arkansas Granny

(31,514 posts)
11. Thanks for the response, but he passed away last month.
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 06:35 PM
Jun 2017

He fought hard, but in the end, it wasn't enough. He had wonderful in home hospice care and the kids got to spend some time with him before the end. He was aware until the last couple of days so he knew they were there for him.

Although we couldn't make marriage work, he was a decent man and I'm glad his suffering is over.

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
14. He needs up to 2,000 calories a day.
Tue Nov 7, 2017, 12:39 AM
Nov 2017

Nuts, if tolerated can be a good source of calories. 1/3 cup of Pecans have 220 calories.

two tablespoons of peanut butter contains 188 calories

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