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LisaM

(27,789 posts)
3. Years ago I was in a hot tub at a hotel with some women friends.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 04:52 AM
Jan 2019

We were an online book group at our first ever in-person meeting. We ranged in age about 30 years, starting in our late twenties, all of us white. We debated cats and dogs for five minutes or so, and then the only other person there, a young (maybe 25) African-Americsn man interrupted and said, "Ladies, I don't know you, but I have to weigh in on the side of dogs'.

I am still laughing, and it's been 19 years.

catbyte

(34,306 posts)
10. Yeppers. I think I am just too lazy to have a dog. Plus, going for walks in Michigan
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 07:44 PM
Jan 2019

from November to April isn't a fun proposition. It's also nice to be able to go away overnight and not have to worry about the cats. I love their attitude. If they love you, it's because you earned their love and trust, not that it was bred into them.

I do think dogs are adorable, one isn't "better" than the other.

Freddie

(9,255 posts)
6. People who hate cats
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 07:11 AM
Jan 2019

And believe me, they let you know - are often Republicans. They are authoritarian types who simply can’t abide a mere animal that doesn’t listen or treat them with respect.
Dogs are fine (I adore my granddog) but cats are the best.

hlthe2b

(102,058 posts)
7. Different but not better, I'd agree with the second poster.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 08:35 AM
Jan 2019

Right now, my sleeping doggy girl is tucked in as closely as she can to the small of my back, bringing the ultimate warmth and comfort. While I am without kitty at the moment, they would undoubtedly be on top of my head...LOL A different kind of comfort, I guess...

phylny

(8,366 posts)
11. People always ask me if I like cats when their cat curls up near me.
Fri Jan 4, 2019, 09:55 PM
Jan 2019

I always answer, "Cats like *me*."

My way of thinking, sooner or later the claws and teeth sink into you.

Woof.

ailsagirl

(22,868 posts)
12. I admit this is a huge generalization but...
Sat Jan 5, 2019, 08:28 PM
Jan 2019

I think that introverts prefer cats and extroverts prefer dogs

in general-- not that there aren't exceptions

ailsagirl

(22,868 posts)
14. I've had friends who have had both, without preference
Sat Jan 5, 2019, 09:39 PM
Jan 2019

so it's definitely a generalization

Cats are IT for me, BTW

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
15. I was always a dog person until I ended up with my first cat...
Sat Jan 5, 2019, 10:24 PM
Jan 2019

It was then that I discovered that cats are capable of the same deep affection for you that dogs can have-- you just have to be close to them to see it.

If I had the time to deal with a dog these days, I would of course want to have one, or more, but I can't give it the time it deserves right now. Cats are perfect for people like me. Eventually, adding a dog to the menagerie would be ideal.

ailsagirl

(22,868 posts)
16. Sounds like right now everything is in balance for you
Sun Jan 6, 2019, 06:08 PM
Jan 2019

Cats are rather arrogant, in their way-- they're straightforward about what they want and don't care if it's inconvenient for us. Dogs, I believe, are more malleable (you can teach them NOT to do something irritating) but cats are who they are and make no apology for it. Just my two cents.

They intrigue me mightily, though

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
17. cats are very capable of love
Sun Feb 3, 2019, 11:18 PM
Feb 2019

Sure they can bite and scratch (when provoked) but a dog bite can be much more harmful than a cat bite (this is all dependent on the size of the dog).

Cats don't need to be walked. You don't need to invest in training to be a responsible cat owner. If you go away for a weekend, you can leave a clean ltiter box and large bowl of food and Kitty will be fine.

And lastly, you don't need to pick up fresh shit with a plastic bag.

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