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Related: About this forumOn Top of Everything Else, My Dog Died
Our dog died on tax day. Or, rather, he died on what would have been tax day, had we not been living through a pandemic. With all due respect to Ben Franklin, in this worldwhere the tax deadline has been pushed back until July, and were all under siege from an invisible enemynothing can be said to be certain, except death.
Five days earlier, I had stood outside the Williamsburg Veterinary Clinic, discussing the details of Lucass euthanasia with the vet over the phone. Humans and their novel viruses are not allowed into the vets office these days. So in an ironic twist of fate, during the final days of my dogs life, he got to hang out inside a building while I shivered on the sidewalk.
Can I at least come in and hold him when you put him down? I asked.
No, said the vet. I had no idea which vet. She was just a voice on the phone. They couldnt risk infecting their staff, she told me, and offered to let me watch it over videochat. When you make an appointment, just let the receptionist know you want a Zoom link too.
A Zoom link? For my dogs death? Im not sure I want that.
What about his ashes? she asked me. Did I want those? If I did, they would cost $100 more. I live in an apartment in Brooklyn, New York. Its not as if I can bury Lucas in my backyard. I dont have a backyard. And I dont know what the rules are about sprinkling ashes in the East River or under a public-park tree. I say no to the ashes.
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2020/04/when-your-dog-dies-during-pandemic/610339/
polmaven
(9,463 posts)True Blue American
(17,981 posts)That is really sad for you.
douglas9
(4,358 posts)n/t
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)I am surprised the vet would not come outside & let you hold him. I am just broken hearted to hear this. And I am very sorry to hear your beloved companion has crossed the Rainbow Bridge.
livetohike
(22,126 posts)your way for comfort and peace. May every good memory of times with your pup help ease the sadness .
True Blue American
(17,981 posts)Phentex
(16,330 posts)thanks to you I clicked the link.
True Blue American
(17,981 posts)FoxNewsSucks
(10,427 posts)Who would want to watch that over video! No one ever wants to be there, but you have to hold your dog.
kacekwl
(7,014 posts)brought her out to the back of my car so we could say our goodbyes. That was so sweet of them.
irisblue
(32,933 posts)Gothmog
(144,951 posts)murielm99
(30,718 posts)cross the bridge shortly before Thanksgiving. The cat went before that.
Maybe it is for the best. We are both high risk. It is not a good time for us to have pets.
GentryDixon
(2,947 posts)This really sucks.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)littlemissmartypants
(22,600 posts)I hope you find comfort in the happy memories he left behind. ❤ lmsp
Duppers
(28,117 posts)Douglas, this is not your personal experience, I hope?
Either way, Lucas...