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Prism

(5,815 posts)
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 08:22 PM Oct 2015

How does Sanders bridge this gap?

So, I'm a gay white man. That's where I come from.

Last weekend, I floated into a gay Oakland bar. I didn't know much about it. I was actually just hoping to find a center of LGBT socialization that was outside the Castro across the bridge (I live in East Bay around Berkeley).

Through the night, I realized, ok, I'm the only white guy here. It was a black LGBT space. (yelp did not explain).

I don't talk politics in person, ever. It's not a part of my personality or what I'm about with friends. Politics are apart or a part of work, or something I pursue on my own. I don't strike up political conversations in social functions.

And yet . . . With Hillary . . . "Eff her (and other enlightened terms)." Literally, not a single guy had a positive thing to say about her. Which, I understood given 2008. I nudged a bit. "What about Sanders" And do you know what my response was, among every single gay black man? "Who?" Who. They did not know him. They did not relate to him. They had absolutely no idea.

How does Sanders manage this? I wish I was exagerrating, and take anecdotes as you will, but how does half a black, gay bar not know who this guy is? And how does he overcome that?

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How does Sanders bridge this gap? (Original Post) Prism Oct 2015 OP
A lot of people don't pay attention Armstead Oct 2015 #1
That is our potential. artislife Oct 2015 #2
Many of us Sanders supporters have carried business cards moabfan Oct 2015 #3
Most people I know seem clueless about him. cwydro Oct 2015 #4
What an ugly assertion DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #5
Do you disagree with a black LGBT bar? Prism Oct 2015 #6
My problem is that are you asserting that black gays hate Hillary DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #7
I didn't assert a generalization Prism Oct 2015 #8
You aren't nearly as clever as you think you are... DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #9
In other words, you're telling Prism to shut up about his personal experiences. Bonobo Oct 2015 #11
I am not telling anybody to shut up about their personal experiences DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #13
Yeah, you are. Bonobo Oct 2015 #14
My black gay relatives love her. So does my uncles entire congregation which is gay friendly. bravenak Oct 2015 #113
My black sister hates the fuck out of Hillary as does a good black friend of mine. Bonobo Oct 2015 #116
most of whom love Bill and Hillary by extension. AlbertCat Oct 2015 #122
What about the post do you disagree with? Prism Oct 2015 #18
I have lots of anecdotes about all kinds of people... DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #24
You seem to be crowding out minority voices Prism Oct 2015 #26
If by "minority voices" you mean those of Black folks ... 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #47
Why are you dismissing a black and LGBT perspective? Prism Oct 2015 #48
I'm not dismissing "a black and LGBT perspective" ... 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #64
Well, come on out! Prism Oct 2015 #68
LOL ... 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #70
Joke's on him Prism Oct 2015 #75
Dispassionately? JTFrog Oct 2015 #49
Have you read the AA forum? Prism Oct 2015 #50
You know what I've read... JTFrog Oct 2015 #54
I actually stand 100% by that Prism Oct 2015 #55
Just a bunch of hypocritical bullshit. JTFrog Oct 2015 #56
You just didn't read for context Prism Oct 2015 #59
"Nope! Unrepentant to the end." n/t JTFrog Oct 2015 #60
As if you and your pals are the arbiters of anything. Puglover Oct 2015 #96
Oh, the old "palling around" line.... JTFrog Oct 2015 #102
If they didn't know anything about Bernie jfern Oct 2015 #10
What does it have to do with polls... DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #12
You said "The better she does in the polls the more vicious the attacks on her become" jfern Oct 2015 #15
I was referring to the calumny foisted on Hillary Clinton by the seminal poster DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #19
Being ahead in the polls sure hasn't stopped Hillary supporters from lying jfern Oct 2015 #22
HRC supporters said black gays hate Bernie? DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #25
Different sort of attacks jfern Oct 2015 #31
I would have to see the specific attacks but I would likely say they suck too!!! DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #37
I find it interesting that ... 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #21
Were you at the bar? Prism Oct 2015 #27
I used to go to the Parliament House all the time... DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #40
And that has what to do with this? Prism Oct 2015 #41
To the best of my recollection nobody regaled me about politics. DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #42
LOL ... Stop it! n/t 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #44
I think you, me, and our DU friend should go to a gay bar, a black gay bar, who cares... DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #52
You're being dismissive of an LGBT black perspective Prism Oct 2015 #61
I am sincere... DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #63
LOL ... 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #67
Please see Post 63 DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #71
When I was younger, I spent plenty of time in gay bars. cwydro Oct 2015 #88
No, I wasn't and I would bet neither were you ... 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #43
I'll tell you exactly where I was Prism Oct 2015 #62
Again, I am not dismissing a "Black perspective" ... 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #65
I don't find this unbelievable Prism Oct 2015 #66
That is true ... 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #69
Since we're on the subject! Prism Oct 2015 #72
We are not on the subject of discrimination against LGBTers. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #95
So your contribution to this thread is to call the OP a liar? Comrade Grumpy Oct 2015 #110
Well ... Yes, as it is internally inconsistent and reads like fantasy. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Oct 2015 #111
I spend a lot of time with black guys, day in and day out... DemocratSinceBirth Oct 2015 #29
Do you call dropping from 80% to 50% doing 'better in the polls'? sabrina 1 Oct 2015 #73
HE doesn't overcome it. YOU have to. Le Taz Hot Oct 2015 #16
I mentioned it Prism Oct 2015 #32
I'm not suggesting it necessarily Le Taz Hot Oct 2015 #38
I think you did a fine job artislife Oct 2015 #83
I feel that. joshcryer Oct 2015 #94
+1 joshcryer Oct 2015 #93
How does Sanders manage this? retrowire Oct 2015 #17
We Keep Shouting And Speaking Loud! ChiciB1 Oct 2015 #20
Don't let the haters hold you down JackInGreen Oct 2015 #23
What the Hell? Aerows Oct 2015 #33
Meh, people try Prism Oct 2015 #34
Wow Capt. Obvious Oct 2015 #35
Stupid alert. Le Taz Hot Oct 2015 #39
Pathetic alert. romanic Oct 2015 #117
By Gay men (yourself) and Gay women (myself) Aerows Oct 2015 #28
I knowwww Prism Oct 2015 #36
That's what the debates we're not having are for AgingAmerican Oct 2015 #30
Bernie Sanders supporters moobu2 Oct 2015 #45
Hillary supporters are all perfect angels jfern Oct 2015 #53
Thought I was in a group artislife Oct 2015 #84
Yeah. Puglover Oct 2015 #97
Any un-nice thing I've ever seen from a Hillary supporter moobu2 Oct 2015 #98
I know right. Puglover Oct 2015 #100
He doesn't. They will probably vote for Hillary. JaneyVee Oct 2015 #46
Thought I was in a group artislife Oct 2015 #85
Many people don't like Hillary Dem2 Oct 2015 #51
She's beating the hell out of Bernie Sanders right now moobu2 Oct 2015 #57
That makes no sense Dem2 Oct 2015 #77
Thought I was in a group artislife Oct 2015 #86
Why are you spamming this over and over? n/t JTFrog Oct 2015 #103
Spamming? No editing artislife Oct 2015 #104
Oh your gate crashing remarks, I see them now. JTFrog Oct 2015 #105
Yes. artislife Oct 2015 #106
How charming. n/t JTFrog Oct 2015 #107
I was wrong, they were not spamming a group artislife Oct 2015 #108
Not novel at all. JTFrog Oct 2015 #109
Understandable why you are not. nt artislife Oct 2015 #114
Yea, JTFrog Oct 2015 #115
He is going to start advertising next month Samantha Oct 2015 #58
Maybe it was because they didn't know you. Chitown Kev Oct 2015 #74
Hey Kev Prism Oct 2015 #76
Those LGBT's that CAN hide Chitown Kev Oct 2015 #78
Great response Prism Oct 2015 #79
nope...staying out of that one. Chitown Kev Oct 2015 #81
Something else Chitown Kev Oct 2015 #80
it's a personal anecdote . if they don't know who Sanders is they probably aren't into politics JI7 Oct 2015 #82
They know who they won't vote for. artislife Oct 2015 #87
maybe you should have told them "anger goes nowhere" JI7 Oct 2015 #89
Positive support and a welcome atmosphere. bravenak Oct 2015 #90
Sanders has to introduce himself to America, and be likable ecstatic Oct 2015 #91
on a serious note, i think Sanders should go to places like that black lgbt bar himself JI7 Oct 2015 #92
but only if there was a photographer moobu2 Oct 2015 #99
You probably have missed this: BeanMusical Oct 2015 #118
Keep in mind Sanders is only running on word-of-mouth and news interviews at the moment jeff47 Oct 2015 #101
I carry little business cards with his website information on it Live and Learn Oct 2015 #112
by word of mouth. yuiyoshida Oct 2015 #119
I suspect they are not likely primary voters. DCBob Oct 2015 #120
Was there live music in the bar? thesquanderer Oct 2015 #121
 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
1. A lot of people don't pay attention
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 08:30 PM
Oct 2015

IF they don't overhear it on a radio in passing, or happen to accidentally click on the news on their TV, it doesn't exist.

Politics doesn't seem relevant to their lives. That's one reason things are so screwed up.

 

artislife

(9,497 posts)
2. That is our potential.
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 08:37 PM
Oct 2015

Social media. .The more people share Sanders, the more his words get heard. I am amazed by the variety of people in my social media feeds that are sharing. I have gone to my Latino groups and share.

Big likes on Babies for Bernie.

Bit by bit.

I post the YouTube video of him crushing that representative who talked about "homos...In the military."

 

moabfan

(48 posts)
3. Many of us Sanders supporters have carried business cards
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 08:59 PM
Oct 2015

with Bernie's site and in the back of it, links to issues such as http://bernie.black and http://bernie.lgbt. Easy enough for them to whip out their smartphones and check it out once handed those cards. 1,000 of these runs about $30, and it's a worthy investment.



 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
4. Most people I know seem clueless about him.
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:10 PM
Oct 2015

I'm tired of explaining.

Especially my younger co-workers, many if whom are black.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
5. What an ugly assertion
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:11 PM
Oct 2015
And yet . . . With Hillary . . . "Eff her (and other enlightened terms)." Literally, not a single guy had a positive thing to say about her



The better she does in the polls the more vicious the attacks on her become.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
6. Do you disagree with a black LGBT bar?
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:18 PM
Oct 2015

I'm actually reporting dispassionately. Had I been partisan, I might spin a story about how I went into this bar and found all these people all about Bernie.

I did not.

Quite the opposite.

So, what's your problem there?

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
7. My problem is that are you asserting that black gays hate Hillary
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:21 PM
Oct 2015
And yet . . . With Hillary . . . "Eff her (and other enlightened terms)." Literally, not a single guy had a positive thing to say about her.


So, yes I have a problem...

As I said, as she rises in the polls I expect the attacks to grow exponentially and more vicious. I just didn't expect the attacks to come from Democrats.



 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
8. I didn't assert a generalization
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:22 PM
Oct 2015

I asserted my experience in that particular place.

You seem unable to cope with an opinion rendered by minorities.

Why?

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
9. You aren't nearly as clever as you think you are...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:29 PM
Oct 2015
I didn't assert a generalization I asserted my experience in that particular place.

You seem unable to cope with an opinion rendered by minorities.


Why?


You know nothing about me, nothing about my friends, nothing about my life experience, and nothing about my associates...

The suggestion that I am remotely bigoted is odious and contemptible.

I have no problem with discussing empirical research on group behavior. I do have a massive problem in trafficking in anecdotes to denigrate a candidate I support.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
11. In other words, you're telling Prism to shut up about his personal experiences.
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:40 PM
Oct 2015

Yes, that is what you are doing.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
13. I am not telling anybody to shut up about their personal experiences
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:44 PM
Oct 2015

I am not telling anybody to shut up about their personal experiences . I am calling out people for using anecdotes to slime Hillary Clinton. If you don't like what I have to say there isn't much you can do to shut me up, try as you may.


But I would be remiss in not saying as Hillary rises in the polls I expect the attacks to become more vicious:


...And yet . . . With Hillary . . . "Eff her (and other enlightened terms)...


and grow exponentially.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
14. Yeah, you are.
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:54 PM
Oct 2015

And it is ironic indeed that you are accusing me of doing what you are trying to do.

Prism, a gay man, spoke of his experience. You called his OP "ugly" and told him that his personal experiences should not be shared.

Well, sorry. That is what people do on a Discussion Board.

Feel free to say what you want as will I -as will Prism.

People's voices have import and you need to listen to those that do not agree with you as well as those that do.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
113. My black gay relatives love her. So does my uncles entire congregation which is gay friendly.
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 06:19 PM
Oct 2015

My black gay cousin attends, sings beautifully. I know plenty more black people, most of whom love Bill and Hillary by extension. Bill's admin is when we moved out of poverty and got off food stamps. Made it to the middle class. It means alot to move to the middle class to a nice place in a nice neighborhood in the suburbs. Our parents got jobs in post offices and courthouses and telephone companies, etc. My generation is the first to attend college in my family because the 90 made it so we lived where we could attend the 'white schools' and so recieved a superior education than our peers in the hood.

I think you should take it from black people not those providing commentary on their own opinions of the thoughts of others. Hearsay is often open to falsifying and much interpretation.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
116. My black sister hates the fuck out of Hillary as does a good black friend of mine.
Sat Oct 24, 2015, 01:25 AM
Oct 2015

They wouldn't vote for Hillary in a million years.

And that's the stone cold truth.

Different strokes for different folks.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
122. most of whom love Bill and Hillary by extension.
Sun Oct 25, 2015, 09:09 AM
Oct 2015

Well, Bill and Hillary are not the same person. We aren't electing Bill again.

Just sounds like brand loyalty..... and "Coke or Pepsi" is not too bright when voting.

I swear a majority of Clinton voters do it just because of recognition, not anything she's actually done.

I dunno why gay people would "love" the DOMA people.

"I think you should take it from black people ...."

Your little circle of friends do not represent "black people".

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
18. What about the post do you disagree with?
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:03 PM
Oct 2015

Again, I am sharing my personal experience. I have not sugar coated it. I have not painted my preferred candidate in a favorable light.

Why are you so bothered?

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
24. I have lots of anecdotes about all kinds of people...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:09 PM
Oct 2015

I have lots of anecdotes about all kinds of people..., some kind and some unkind. I don't bring them here to slime Bernie Sanders, Martin O'Malley, Lincoln Chafee, et cetera...

You seem to have some deeply rooted animus against Hillary Clinton. I feel it is unfair to try and disabuse you of it...

I will do something I rarely ever do with the emphasis on rarely and let my opponent have the last word.

PEACE
DemocratSinceBirth

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
26. You seem to be crowding out minority voices
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:11 PM
Oct 2015

I went to a black gay bar, I asked the patrons what they thought, I telegraphed it here, and you want to shout it down.

I mean, that's on you. Again, I did not post anything anyone could even potentially interpret as pro-Sanders. And you still want to dismiss it.

Doesn't seem cool.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
47. If by "minority voices" you mean those of Black folks ...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:55 PM
Oct 2015

No ... He, at best, is crowding out a white voice's, suspecting "reporting" on what Black folks supposedly said.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
48. Why are you dismissing a black and LGBT perspective?
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:56 PM
Oct 2015

I'm dispassionately reporting what was said by voices of color, and you are combating me.

Why?

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
64. I'm not dismissing "a black and LGBT perspective" ...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:39 PM
Oct 2015

I am questioning the veracity of your "reporting."

I have bartended in a number of venues ... Unless gay bars are, or that particular gay bar is, a special space, I have never seen an instance where people unengaged an unknown person, who does not talk politics in person, with political bashing.

Color me unconvinced.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
68. Well, come on out!
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:45 PM
Oct 2015

I will happily take you clubbing with me. Then you may experience it yourself. As a man of means (as you constantly remind us), a flip to Oakland shouldn't be too much trouble.

Also, since I have you, why did the bartender give me a pitcher of beer. Seriously. An entire pitcher. For free. That baffled me.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
70. LOL ...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:55 PM
Oct 2015
I will happily take you clubbing with me. Then you may experience it yourself. As a man of means (as you constantly remind us), a flip to Oakland shouldn't be too much trouble.


The trip would be no problem; but, no thank you. Why would I want to do gay clubbing with you ... I'm not gay and I suspect we have little in common.

Also, since I have you, why did the bartender give me a pitcher of beer. Seriously. An entire pitcher. For free. That baffled me.


Because you were the only white guy in the bar. It's a bartender's "trick" ... find the "odd character" set them up and set them up ... the following week's tips will be great.
 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
75. Joke's on him
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 12:06 AM
Oct 2015

I left shortly thereafter!

Tipped, of course, but not for a free pitcher I didn't request.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
49. Dispassionately?
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:57 PM
Oct 2015

"Which, I understood given 2008."

No, you seemed to be agreeing with the whole "eff her" sentiment.

I love the "who, me?" innocent act that a lot of folks play around here these days.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
50. Have you read the AA forum?
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:59 PM
Oct 2015

The idea that black people aren't thrilled with what Hillary Clinton did in 2008 is not isolated to my small experience.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
54. You know what I've read...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:12 PM
Oct 2015

Some other things you've had to say on this subject... Shall we have a look at just one thread?

http://betterment.democraticunderground.com/10026739071

"It drives me batty when people think I as a gay man should think a certain way, and that how I or anyone else thinks is how my entire community does or should think. It's easy for the majority to package us up and assign us opinions."

"As I said, what is said in a group on DU is not a monolith opinion."

"What's obnoxious is when the nonminority picks the side that fits neatly with their pre-existing opinion, and then attempt to use it as a battering ram in a debate by making it seem as if that's the "real" valid opinion of the community."

"Instead of reflecting on this, you instead invoked your privilege again, ran to a minority community where you knew your opinion would be affirmed, and then came running back using individuals of a minority community "as evidence." You might as well have said, "Well, I have a black friend who said it's ok, you guys, so it's ok!""

"The AA group isn't every poster of color on this board. Not by a mile. Just as, say, History of Feminism is every woman poster on this board. Nor does LGBT reflect every gay person who posts there. But you -again!- run off and try to use it as a source of monolithic backing opinion."

"This is why I find it so hard to take message board activism at all seriously. It's so transparently shallow and self-interested. People don't really care. They just want to win a board fight. If they practiced what they preached, they'd be horrified at their own behavior. Nope! Unrepentant to the end."
 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
55. I actually stand 100% by that
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:15 PM
Oct 2015

I've seen black posters and people of color bullied on this board because they're not in line with a clique. A few weeks ago, I saw a pro-Sanders black woman called "self-hating" by people in the AA forum.

So, yup, I'm with you on my quote! Thanks for bringing it up again. One of my finer posts.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
59. You just didn't read for context
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:21 PM
Oct 2015

And you don't seem particularly inclined to. I'm sorry to have robbed you of your "gotcha" moment. But you have a nice smiley as a fabulous consolation prize.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
102. Oh, the old "palling around" line....
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 10:28 AM
Oct 2015

Where have I heard that one before?

Oh yea....

I'm sorry, I don't give that kind of rhetoric much thought no matter where it comes from.



jfern

(5,204 posts)
10. If they didn't know anything about Bernie
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:37 PM
Oct 2015

What makes you think they know what her lead over Bernie in the polls is?

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
12. What does it have to do with polls...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:41 PM
Oct 2015

It has nothing to do with polls and everything to do with foisting calumnies on Hillary Clinton.

jfern

(5,204 posts)
22. Being ahead in the polls sure hasn't stopped Hillary supporters from lying
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:07 PM
Oct 2015

in their hit pieces against Bernie.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
21. I find it interesting that ...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:06 PM
Oct 2015
I don't talk politics in person, ever. It's not a part of my personality or what I'm about with friends. Politics are apart or a part of work, or something I pursue on my own. I don't strike up political conversations in social functions.


So, I guess the Black folks sought out the first time in the bar guy to talk shit about HRC ... Yeah right!

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
40. I used to go to the Parliament House all the time...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:21 PM
Oct 2015

When I was in college my best friend was a bisexual bodybuilder... He liked genetic women, trans women, and cross dressers. Some times we would go drag to shows together...This was the early 80s so the performers were Cher, Donna Summer, and Dolly Parton...Good times...


One time after me, him, and his genetic girlfriend went to a show they asked me to have a three way...But there were some places DSB would not go.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
41. And that has what to do with this?
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:22 PM
Oct 2015

Did they visit upon you, in detail, their thoughts on a Democratic primary?

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
42. To the best of my recollection nobody regaled me about politics.
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:27 PM
Oct 2015

That's kind of the whole point...

DSB is kind of long in the tooth now...But I am going to make it my business when I go to Vegas for Christmas to go with my gf and her trans girlfriend to a trans bar and see if any of the patrons regale me about politics.

There's one just north of the Strip, right behind the Westgate Resort, formerly the LVH.



DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
52. I think you, me, and our DU friend should go to a gay bar, a black gay bar, who cares...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:06 PM
Oct 2015

I like the bonhomie...

We can see if any of the bros regale us about politics.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
61. You're being dismissive of an LGBT black perspective
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:24 PM
Oct 2015

I don't find this particularly consonant with your stated ideological leanings.

How come?

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
63. I am sincere...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:38 PM
Oct 2015

If I had a car I would drive up from L A to Oakland and go to the bar with you. I love everybody regardless of their race, gender, or orientation...

It will be one more thing off my bucket list


biker bar (check)
dive bar (check)
gay bar (check)
trans bar (check)
sports bar (check)
country bar (check)
black bar (check)
nudey bar (check) against my will (J/K)
gay black bar -pending

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
67. LOL ...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:43 PM
Oct 2015

Like I said, I have bartended in a number of venues ... Unless gay bars are, or that particular gay bar is, a special space, I have never seen an instance where people unengaged an unknown person, who does not talk politics in person, with political bashing.

Color my Black ass unconvinced.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
71. Please see Post 63
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:55 PM
Oct 2015

I would say at none of those establishments did anybody regale me about politics, especially unsolicited. But in all candor I have never been in a black gay bar so until I take that it off my bucket list I have to allow for the possibility that those bar(s) are the one bar in a thousand where folks regale folks they don't know about politics.


 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
88. When I was younger, I spent plenty of time in gay bars.
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 01:44 AM
Oct 2015

I don't remember ANY political discussions lol.

For one thing, the decibel level was usually too high to have any sort of meaningful conversation.

Haven't been to the bars in years, but I can't imagine striking up a political conversation with strangers just apropos of nothing.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
43. No, I wasn't and I would bet neither were you ...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:43 PM
Oct 2015

Funny ... I was 21, I was home from college and a friend and I decided to road trip. We ended up in Atlantic City. We found a motel that had a bar across the street.

The bar had some nice music playing and there was a nice male to female ratio ... So, being tired from the drive, we decided to just get a drink and a burger, dance a bit and call it a night.

So we finish the burger and are on our third beer ...so it's time to get our boogie on, right?

I went one way to find a dance partner and my guy went the other ... After about 10 minutes, we met back at the table, dance partner-less. We're both perplexed because neither of us have ever had a problem with women, let alone, finding a woman to dance with.

So, we order another beer ... then, it dawns on me ... No, I saw two men kissing on the dance floor. I looked around and realized we were in a gay bar. (I don't know if that had anything to do with my not finding a dance partner, though.)

I told my guy and he looked around and said, "Man, what the fuck are you waiting for ... let's get the fuck out of here."

I laughed and said, "Yo, chill. I'm finishing this $8 beer first!"



That was my only gay bar experience ... that I know of.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
62. I'll tell you exactly where I was
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:28 PM
Oct 2015

Bench and Bar in Oakland, CA. You can look up its clientele if you like.

I find it interesting how willing and eager you are to dismiss all black perspectives that don't dovetail with your own.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
72. Since we're on the subject!
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 12:05 AM
Oct 2015

Do you believe discrimination against LGBTers isn't quite as bad because they can pretend not to be?

Just want to get you on paper with that.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
29. I spend a lot of time with black guys, day in and day out...
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:12 PM
Oct 2015

And not one of them, unsolicited, talk shit about Hillary to me.

They do talk about sports, race stuff, and the cops.


I also spend a lot of time with Pacific Islanders*, some of whom are gay, some of whom are trans, and not one of them talk shit about Hillary Clinton.


The only place I hear a lot of people talk shit about Hillary is here.

* my gf's best gf is trans, most of her office mates are gay.







sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
73. Do you call dropping from 80% to 50% doing 'better in the polls'?
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 12:05 AM
Oct 2015

People do not like her policies. She has name recognition most politicians would die for. But no one I know in RL, except for one woman, who also likes Bernie. Everyone else I know, right/left feels she is too much of a war hawk, and this isn't 2001 anymore, people now know they were lied to.

The OP is correct, the only problem Bernie has to overcome is name recognition. And the more of that he gets, the more support he gets.

I meet people every day who never heard of him, and then I tell them about him. Most, if they are Dems are excited to know they have a choice.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
16. HE doesn't overcome it. YOU have to.
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 09:59 PM
Oct 2015

By "you" I mean you and other Bernie supporters need to get out and campaign for him, table for him, knock on doors for him. Hell, just walk around with a Bernie shirt or button and have informational flyers ready to hand out.

S.F. REALLY needs to Bernie up because they're ga-ga over HRH. NO idea why seeing as how she was so damned late to the party on LGBTQ issues. And PLEASE remind everyone that Bernie was standing up for LGBT issues back in the 80's when it was considered political suicide to do so.

It's up to US to get the word out about Bernie.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
32. I mentioned it
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:14 PM
Oct 2015

But I didn't press.

I really, really don't do politics in person. I try to get along with everyone and don't like to broach divisive topics. But I did mention Sanders and said they should check him out, but that was the sum of it.

The bartender gave me a free pitcher of beer. Why, I have no idea, but I wasn't about to make waves when everyone was being so nice to me.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
38. I'm not suggesting it necessarily
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:19 PM
Oct 2015

in a social situation. I'm suggesting you think about campaigning for him. In little ways and big ways by the methods I mentioned. The problem is he's not getting any kind of publicity (planned) so it's up to us, his supporters, to get his message out. Someone mentioned business cards, also, there are flyers online you can download. I made my own 1/2-page flyers, 2-sided, that I always carry with me, especially when wearing Bernie swag.

 

artislife

(9,497 posts)
83. I think you did a fine job
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 01:16 AM
Oct 2015

being nice is key, sounds like you are cute, you got a free pitcher of beer and you asked them to look into Bernie.

You said they didn't like her, well, that means they are thinking politically. You just gave them an alternative.

You never know which seeds will bloom.

joshcryer

(62,269 posts)
94. I feel that.
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 04:32 AM
Oct 2015

I don't do politics in person well either. But if someone was against HRC and didn't know who Sanders was (that is, they've already opened up about being against HRC) then I feel I can build something there.

The biggest hurdle is getting people, in real life, to talk politics, without it being a fast one liner up and down ideological thing, just, finding people open to hearing your view, and it feels like you and they were on the same page, and I would've jumped for that opportunity.

Once the door is open I find I can really come out of my shell and start talking. I think it's just how us Americans are, we don't talk politics to people we don't know. It's always family or friends or at least co-workers.

joshcryer

(62,269 posts)
93. +1
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 04:30 AM
Oct 2015

I got ridiculed for saying that us Sanders supporters are his ambassadors. That's why I refuse to fall for the toxic shit. Sanders has been ahead of the curve for decades. It's only now that the American people are finally approaching the issues he's been championing positively. This should be used as a basis for where we stand as Sanders supporters.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
17. How does Sanders manage this?
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:01 PM
Oct 2015

The way you just did it! Word of mouth!

I mean, how else do you get politics into a gay bar?

ChiciB1

(15,435 posts)
20. We Keep Shouting And Speaking Loud!
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:04 PM
Oct 2015

We don't give up and keep spreading the word. DO NOT be afraid to speak your mind. There are many print outs of his plan, get some bumper stickers and let people ask. I live in a very, very RED Rich county (me not included) and I have his bumper stickers on my car, on my storm door and on my mail box. People ask questions. Just be ready to answer.

AND don't let them sell you the crap that Socialism is something bad. Socialism is Social Security, Medicare, Educations, Highway System, EPA, Bank Regulations and Union Workers. This list is long.

Never give up, we can no longer expect to elect the same thing and get different results. Do some research on all the huge CEO'S on Wall Street who are supporting Hillary. If you believe she's tacking left because she means it then don't fight. I don't believe it myself.

FIGHT BACK! It's not easy to start a political conversation so just remember a few things about what HAS happened and a few things about what he's saying. Direct them to his FB page or web site. Tell them he takes NO PAC money and that's he's raised almost as much money from millions of small donors as Hillary has with her Super PACS. And living where you do, I know you can find places on the net where you can go to get help locally.

We have time to get the message out and he's not shy about what he feels. And he's been this way in every election he's run. I'm a Boomer white woman and I remember upheaval back then, but we DID change the world.
BTW, I got to go to San Fran about 8 years ago, loved it. I live way down on there West Coast of FL. Lot more happening out there.

And being of the LGBT movement remind them he was on board long before Hillary was. I'm with you all the way. Even in my very RED county I have friends from the movement. I don't like to label people, we're in this together. Gotta run, getting late here.

Good Luck!

JackInGreen

(2,975 posts)
23. Don't let the haters hold you down
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:07 PM
Oct 2015

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Aerows

(39,961 posts)
33. What the Hell?
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:14 PM
Oct 2015

We can't even speak our minds in the Bernie Sanders group without being alerted on?


Oh, silly me. I regularly get harassed so it's not exactly a fucking surprise.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
34. Meh, people try
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:15 PM
Oct 2015

But, I still have no hidden posts. I'm not about flamefests. I just lay things out. Guess the jury agrees of late.

Thanks for the results =)

0-7! Ha!

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
28. By Gay men (yourself) and Gay women (myself)
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:12 PM
Oct 2015

bringing up his politics, his leadership abilities and pointing out that the status quo hasn't exactly helped anybody's community out, including our own.

You overcome it by taking the risk. I live in Mississippi for Christ's sake. If I can take a risk here, you can take a risk everywhere.

I'm thrilled by the responses I have gotten, too. It's not just Democrats, Independents and Republicans - there is a sea change. Everyone is fed up with the establishment.

Bernie even appeals to some Republicans (which shocked the crap out of me) when they find out what he is all about.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
36. I knowwww
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 10:17 PM
Oct 2015

It's really not in my personality. When I go to a bar, I'm just looking to hang out, have a few beers, and just bond with whoever's afoot. I don't want to fight about politics. I wasn't the one to bring the subject up. Someone else mentioned Hillary. I was the one who said, "Well, what about Bernie? . . ." But I didn't press. I just mentioned he was always with us, and that was all.

moobu2

(4,822 posts)
98. Any un-nice thing I've ever seen from a Hillary supporter
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 09:30 AM
Oct 2015

was in reaction to something very very unfair posted by a Bernie Sanders supporter.

moobu2

(4,822 posts)
57. She's beating the hell out of Bernie Sanders right now
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:16 PM
Oct 2015

so obviously a lot of people disagree with you.

Dem2

(8,168 posts)
77. That makes no sense
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 12:09 AM
Oct 2015

I made no statement about her polling, simply that many people don't like her, which is clearly true.

Also, many people don't know who Bernie is, which is also true.

The point is that anecdotal posts are mostly meaningless.

 

artislife

(9,497 posts)
104. Spamming? No editing
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 10:35 AM
Oct 2015

I posted something thinking I was in the Bernie group, this isn't the Bernie group. My posts didn't make sense here.

 

artislife

(9,497 posts)
108. I was wrong, they were not spamming a group
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 10:41 AM
Oct 2015

I acknowledged it and changed it.

Something one does when one is wrong. It may be novel for you.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
58. He is going to start advertising next month
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 11:20 PM
Oct 2015

The MSM froze him out for a long time. It has become impossible for them to continue to do this. But in the meantime, his campaign manager said he will start advertising next month.

Sam

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
76. Hey Kev
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 12:07 AM
Oct 2015

Just wondering.

Do you think LGBT have a generally easier time of things because we can hide who we are?

Chitown Kev

(2,197 posts)
78. Those LGBT's that CAN hide
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 12:18 AM
Oct 2015

yes, they do tend have it easier in society...if you're looking at it from the outside.

In my experience, the "straight acting" gay men get really fucked mentally more so than those who can't hide (in that case, that really is more or a matter of societal homophobia and how one deals with that)...when LGBTs are out of the closet, they tend to be better adjusted, in my experience.

Chitown Kev

(2,197 posts)
80. Something else
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 12:26 AM
Oct 2015

The fact is that most people aren't as tuned to politics as the average DU'er, even cable news is so much background noise to them.

So the last impression that these patrons (and many, many others) may have of Hillary Clinton IS 2008.

and besides...you seem to be making a pretty broad-based judgment based on one event at one (strange) gay bar

JI7

(89,244 posts)
82. it's a personal anecdote . if they don't know who Sanders is they probably aren't into politics
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 01:12 AM
Oct 2015

that much and unlikely they will vote.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
90. Positive support and a welcome atmosphere.
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 03:37 AM
Oct 2015

Much of our politics news comes from peers and family if we are not politically active.
My family calls me and I have a YUGE family of all colors. So I tell them who to vote for.

ecstatic

(32,677 posts)
91. Sanders has to introduce himself to America, and be likable
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 03:50 AM
Oct 2015

His views aside, who is he as a person? How does he connect with everyday people on a human level?

As far as reaching out to minorities, his best chance right now is with people who've never heard of him. Those of us who have heard of him have overwhelmingly said no for various reasons.

moobu2

(4,822 posts)
99. but only if there was a photographer
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 09:33 AM
Oct 2015

and maybe a Bernie Sanders supporter who also is a blogger and a tweeter too.

BeanMusical

(4,389 posts)
118. You probably have missed this:
Sat Oct 24, 2015, 06:19 AM
Oct 2015
Remember the time Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) met with Sandra Bland's mother and shamelessly used it for political capital?

Neither do we, because -- though the Democratic presidential candidate apparently did meet Geneva Reed-Veal -- he didn't tell anyone about it. He did, however, promise to #SayHerName, which he did Tuesday during the first Democratic presidential debate.

snip

Bonner wrote that after they talked:

"We asked Senator Sanders if we could take a picture with him and he consented. He did not impose upon Ms. Geneva to ask for a picture of his own. He did not use the moment as an opportunity to promote his campaign. He took no record, he made no statement. He did not try to turn it into a publicity stunt. He simply made space for a sacred moment, and then let it pass without trying to gain anything from it.

For that, I respect him. For that, I am grateful. That choice may not have made him a very good politician, but it made him a better man."


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/bernie-sanders-sandra-bland_56201d82e4b06462a13b719d

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
101. Keep in mind Sanders is only running on word-of-mouth and news interviews at the moment
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 10:06 AM
Oct 2015

Zero ads.

How does he overcome "Who?"? Well, they're planning to start running ads soon. It's pretty normal to not run ads until closer to the primary/caucus.

Team Clinton has been running a lot of ads, apparently hoping to render everyone else to "also-ran" early.

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
112. I carry little business cards with his website information on it
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 01:26 PM
Oct 2015

and his stands on issues on the back of it. When someone doesn't know who he is, I hand them a card and ask them to take some time to look him up. They always seem interested.

i got the cards at a tableing event I attended but one could easily make their own.

yuiyoshida

(41,831 posts)
119. by word of mouth.
Sat Oct 24, 2015, 07:48 AM
Oct 2015

I been hearing people say, "PEOPLE OF COLOR WON'T VOTE for BERNIE SANDERS". HELLO???
I am a Bi-Sexual Asian woman and HE HAS MY VOTE. Don't tell me people of color will not vote for him, unless......UNLESS you have come to the conclusion that Asian people are not people of color. I am tired of the meme that ASIANS DON'T BOTHER TO VOTE...damn it. We voted for Obama...and We will VOTE AGAIN.

DCBob

(24,689 posts)
120. I suspect they are not likely primary voters.
Sat Oct 24, 2015, 07:51 AM
Oct 2015

Most who plan to vote in the primary certainly know who Sanders is.

thesquanderer

(11,982 posts)
121. Was there live music in the bar?
Sat Oct 24, 2015, 08:56 AM
Oct 2015

If so, any chance this was the band?

https://www.facebook.com/GayBlackRepublican

Anyway, the California primary isn't until June. Plenty of time between now and then for Sanders to get more well known out there. Remember, politics isn't a big part of most people's lives. A lot of it is just tuned out until it's close to election time (and unfortunately, often even then).

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