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Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:18 PM Oct 2015

The Bernie double standard, where he gets to shout but the rest of you should lower your damn voices

Hillary's joke resonates because Bernie raises his voice all the time. He should acknowledge it -- but he won't
AMANDA MARCOTTE


Last week, Hillary Clinton started trotting out a line implying that Bernie Sanders has got a bit of sexism lurking in his subconscious. During the first Democratic debate, Sanders responded to Clinton’s impassioned anti-gun argument by telling her that “all the shouting in the world” won’t fix the issue. Now Clinton, to huge amounts of applause from the women in her audiences, has taken to saying, “Sometimes when a woman speaks out, some people think it’s shouting.”

It’s a funny line, more of a nose-tweak than some kind of heavy accusation of misogyny. Sanders does, after all, shout all the time. Women like the joke because we’ve all dealt with men who, however well-meaning they are, still end up pushing double standards where they’re allowed to raise their voices or be rude, but blanch if women do it. Most of us know that they don’t mean it, but it’s still offensive.

But even though it’s really not a big deal, a lot of folks are acting like Clinton is accusing Sanders of wife-beating. Tuesday morning on MSNBC, Joe Scarborough went all in on the supposed evils of political correctness, blaming jokes like Clinton’s for Donald Trump’s popularity and arguing that she’s acting like “a little sad victim.” William Saletan of Slate was also furious at Clinton, accusing her of “manipulating women and abusing feminist anger for her own advantage.” He has an explanation for why Sanders wasn’t being sexist when he shamed Clinton for raising her voice during the debate, because Sanders tells everyone to keep it down on this gun issue.

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Okay, so Sanders doesn’t have a sexist double standard, just a Bernie-specific double standard, where he gets to shout but the rest of you should lower your damn voices.

Still, I would ask the people who are getting all bent out of shape over this to put yourself in the shoes of the many women who found the exchange between Sanders and Clinton to be annoying. When a man is condescending to you, it’s often hard to tell if that’s just how he is to everyone or if it’s just women he talks down to. It gets even more complicated when you realize that a lot of men who are condescending to everyone still turn the volume up even more when they’re talking to women.

Read more:

http://www.salon.com/2015/10/27/hillary_baits_bernie_beautifully_shouting_sexism_and_the_simple_sorry_that_would_make_sanders_look_less_jerky/
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The Bernie double standard, where he gets to shout but the rest of you should lower your damn voices (Original Post) Cali_Democrat Oct 2015 OP
Glad to see this. bravenak Oct 2015 #1
It's playing a gender card RobertEarl Oct 2015 #5
More "gun grabber" bullshit. Please, proceed. JaneyVee Oct 2015 #9
I'm trying to discuss this with bravenak RobertEarl Oct 2015 #10
Welcome to the internet. It's the new wild west. JaneyVee Oct 2015 #11
Nobody can take our guns here. They might get moose stomped on the way. bravenak Oct 2015 #19
Am tired of seeing arguments via card playing RobertEarl Oct 2015 #22
When I see white liberals use republican insults I will post examples of Rush saying 'race card'. bravenak Oct 2015 #31
You have a complaint with moi? RobertEarl Oct 2015 #36
Did I say that? bravenak Oct 2015 #38
And that's why Hillary has followed his lead on almost every major issue. frylock Oct 2015 #61
Here you go bravenak Oct 2015 #63
What issues specifically is he following her on? frylock Oct 2015 #66
Drones. Snowden. Etc. bravenak Oct 2015 #67
Nonsense.. frylock Oct 2015 #72
Did he say he would not use drones? bravenak Oct 2015 #77
I asked for a link showing that he was against using drones.. frylock Oct 2015 #82
When did I say he was against them? She was the hawk!! Right? bravenak Oct 2015 #83
You claimed that Sanders was following Clinton's lead.. frylock Oct 2015 #90
I thought he was the great anti war guy? bravenak Oct 2015 #93
Ah, another red herring. frylock Oct 2015 #94
You are right. I have decided because of you that they are both HAWKS!!! bravenak Oct 2015 #96
Why not just admit that you were mistaken and move on? frylock Oct 2015 #99
Did you miss 'You are right!" bravenak Oct 2015 #100
I guess it was overshadowed by all the other bullshit in that post.. frylock Oct 2015 #102
Both wrong different reasons same effect. bravenak Oct 2015 #104
yeah, that's what I was sayin' Cha Oct 2015 #14
Good news everyday. It's like the Twelve Days Of Christmas! A gift a day!! bravenak Oct 2015 #20
I like it! Cha Oct 2015 #21
He told someone to lower their voice? arcane1 Oct 2015 #2
Nope, you posted exactly what he said, but it doesn't fit with Team Hillary's smear of Bernie peacebird Oct 2015 #3
You mean it's made-up bullshit? On DU?? From the Clinton Camp??? arcane1 Oct 2015 #6
This is getting as bad as the e-mail and Benghazi stuff...but they can't see that passiveporcupine Oct 2015 #56
How did that Benghazi stuff go for you? Skidmore Oct 2015 #76
A llttle clarity here? What are you asking? passiveporcupine Oct 2015 #81
Thank you. It's rare to see such an admission. Skidmore Oct 2015 #84
You are welcome passiveporcupine Oct 2015 #88
I thought it was funny bravenak Oct 2015 #85
As this cold/virus/crud is taking over, my Skidmore Oct 2015 #86
Goodnight. I'm already in bed with my cold. Body aches..take care. Theraflu helps. bravenak Oct 2015 #87
Sleep tight. Skidmore Oct 2015 #89
Ahh! Me too! bravenak Oct 2015 #91
LOL! pocoloco Oct 2015 #75
Soon enough, the narrative will change so that Bernie knocked his podium over.. frylock Oct 2015 #64
More bullshit spin for the anointed one. elehhhhna Oct 2015 #4
Bernie was not talking about Hillary shouting which she does a lot when bkkyosemite Oct 2015 #7
Why did she think he was talking abut her? 72DejaVu Oct 2015 #8
Maybe because he didn't Politicalboi Oct 2015 #12
Here's the transcript: Cali_Democrat Oct 2015 #16
SANDERS: As a senator from a rural state, what I can tell Secretary Clinton, that all the shouting Cha Oct 2015 #23
My mistake Politicalboi Oct 2015 #43
You must have watched the edited debate that all the Bernie folks were upset about 72DejaVu Oct 2015 #17
It's still not sexist Politicalboi Oct 2015 #45
You may have a point 72DejaVu Oct 2015 #49
Well if we are going to be all pedantic about what was actually said. msrizzo Oct 2015 #53
All THE shouting, not all HER shouting. frylock Oct 2015 #73
SHE'S the one who wants sympathy? 72DejaVu Oct 2015 #18
Ayup. boston bean Oct 2015 #40
No, he should just ignore her Politicalboi Oct 2015 #47
Because somebody on her campaign team advised her to play up that angle several days after the fact. frylock Oct 2015 #70
I think she handled him just fine n the debate 72DejaVu Oct 2015 #78
When he demanded that she stop shouting? frylock Oct 2015 #92
Hillary didn't "use" anything. leftofcool Oct 2015 #28
It was not "tweaking" It was lying, because........... Armstead Oct 2015 #34
Yup! Politicalboi Oct 2015 #46
Uh, no, it wasn't leftofcool Oct 2015 #51
Yeah, right nothing to do with political con games Armstead Oct 2015 #52
You're smarter than that Armstead Oct 2015 #58
Please provide a link to show that Hillary said Bernie is sexist! leftofcool Oct 2015 #62
I guess you're not smarter than that Armstead Oct 2015 #65
Then perhaps poor bernie should stop telling women not to shout! leftofcool Oct 2015 #69
Especially when he doesn't. frylock Oct 2015 #74
He didn't tell women not to shout... WorseBeforeBetter Oct 2015 #110
the line "sometimes when a woman talks it sounds like shouting" sounds good. SleeplessinSoCal Oct 2015 #37
note: Hillary's an angry New Yorker, too. grasswire Oct 2015 #59
No I don't. I'm married to a New York Jew. SleeplessinSoCal Oct 2015 #106
Hillary is not dumb. Vattel Oct 2015 #13
Bernie Is Being Set Up So That In The Next Debate Or Whenever He Talks To Crowds.... global1 Oct 2015 #35
"Okay, so Sanders doesn’t have a sexist double standard, just a Bernie-specific double standard, Cha Oct 2015 #15
OK for me but not for thee mcar Oct 2015 #24
Right. Shouldn't be shouting from the proverbial glass house. Cha Oct 2015 #32
The media take on this is nauseating. SleeplessinSoCal Oct 2015 #25
Whenever I hear Bernie give a speech, I find myself wondering how many town halls winter is coming Oct 2015 #27
You can take the man out of Brooklyn, SleeplessinSoCal Oct 2015 #42
Sure portlander23 Oct 2015 #26
if this is really the best that you have... DianeK Oct 2015 #29
No kidding bkkyosemite Oct 2015 #118
Hillary can't campaign in a straightforward way... Armstead Oct 2015 #30
as a lifelong radical feminist, I agree--this is beyond disgusting n/t zazen Oct 2015 #101
hillary has to make a decision here restorefreedom Oct 2015 #33
one of those options? no way. SleeplessinSoCal Oct 2015 #41
bernie was not riling up gun nut supporters restorefreedom Oct 2015 #44
+++ nt grasswire Oct 2015 #60
I'm for gun control actively in real life, here I never talk about it because all sides just shout. Bluenorthwest Oct 2015 #39
Oh my. Was everybody in the world shouting? As in "All the shouting in the world" ? Autumn Oct 2015 #48
More bottom feeding AgingAmerican Oct 2015 #50
I don't think the sexism is with Sanders but with the perception that women should not be funny... luvspeas Oct 2015 #54
I thought her laugh at the question in the Benhazi hearing was funny, too, but . . . markpkessinger Oct 2015 #98
Bernie is sick and tired of hearing all the shouting about gun control. DCBob Oct 2015 #55
What surprises me ejbr Oct 2015 #57
Disingenuousness permeates the Clinton campaign.[n/t] Maedhros Oct 2015 #68
I'm thrilled that Bernie's doing so well that MannyGoldstein Oct 2015 #71
rec'd bigtree Oct 2015 #79
Keep punching Bernie and followers... workinclasszero Oct 2015 #80
Dont wish to offend, but I'm a Clinton supporter who's yet to feel the "Bern." c588415 Oct 2015 #95
Question Geronimoe Oct 2015 #97
Complicated answer ... CaptainTruth Oct 2015 #114
Ugh, Clinton is the worst. fbc Oct 2015 #103
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2015 #105
This part: betsuni Oct 2015 #107
Good thread. Koinos Oct 2015 #108
I've been biting my tongue (fingers?) for a while now ... CaptainTruth Oct 2015 #109
"Let everyone make their own case, based on facts, data, reality, etc." betsuni Oct 2015 #113
Thank you. CaptainTruth Oct 2015 #115
Jesus, the perpetually micro-aggrieved Amanda Marcotte... again. WorseBeforeBetter Oct 2015 #111
Don't take him literally. Eric J in MN Oct 2015 #112
It's good those of us on the real left never get "shouted" at and Rahm was just a figment mmonk Oct 2015 #116
LOL Capt. Obvious Oct 2015 #117
 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
5. It's playing a gender card
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:28 PM
Oct 2015

Before it was a race card. This is not a card game.

As for guns, we've all heard Hillary whispering that she is considering being a gun grabber. How will that go over in Alaska?

 

JaneyVee

(19,877 posts)
9. More "gun grabber" bullshit. Please, proceed.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:42 PM
Oct 2015

As for Alaska, when was the last time we won Alaska?

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
19. Nobody can take our guns here. They might get moose stomped on the way.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:56 PM
Oct 2015

Using descriptors like race card used to be the purview of conservatives to lash out against black people in a negative and bigoted way. I hope you are not engaging in the practice, my dear?

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
22. Am tired of seeing arguments via card playing
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:04 PM
Oct 2015

And when I see it being done, I will call it out.

It is not possible (imo) for Hillary to win Alaska but may be possible for Bernie to win there, so am asking what you think, since you live there.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
31. When I see white liberals use republican insults I will post examples of Rush saying 'race card'.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:14 PM
Oct 2015

I think Hillary and Bernie both lose Alaska. They are more anti socialism and the tea pary hasn't left here yet. Sad cause we get mucho govt money. Like welfare.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
36. You have a complaint with moi?
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:24 PM
Oct 2015

You are not really trying to equate me with Rush, are you? That would be a serious mistake.

Why don't you think Bernie can win Alaska? We don't even know who the R is. I do know Bernie can not be labeled as a gun grabber, what else is there that makes you think Bernie can't win there?

frylock

(34,825 posts)
66. What issues specifically is he following her on?
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:22 PM
Oct 2015

The link you provided doesn't seem to have anything to do with my previous statement. As to the 5 questions: Yes, Yes, Yes, No, No.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
72. Nonsense..
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:31 PM
Oct 2015

Hillary wants Snowden to rot in prison for the remainder of his life. Sanders stated that Snowden should be prosecuted, but the service he provided by disclosing the government's domestic surveillance program should be taken into account when sentenced. As in, you know, REDUCING the sentence.

I'd be willing to entertain the idea that Sanders is following Clinton's lead on drones (he supports LIMITED use btw) if you can provide a link where Sanders stated categorically that he is against the use of drones prior to making that statement.

Etc.? That's pretty far from specific.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
82. I asked for a link showing that he was against using drones..
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:45 PM
Oct 2015

prior to claiming he would approve of their use. Show me where he "evolved" on that issue, and how he followed Hillary's lead.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
83. When did I say he was against them? She was the hawk!! Right?
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:47 PM
Oct 2015

Unless you are saying she is following his lead on Drones? Because if so, COOL! I would rather see her as following him on this that the other way around.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
90. You claimed that Sanders was following Clinton's lead..
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:54 PM
Oct 2015

In this context, Sanders would have had to "evolve" on the issue. Show me where he's followed Clinton's lead on that front.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
96. You are right. I have decided because of you that they are both HAWKS!!!
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 09:02 PM
Oct 2015

This, both of them having to evolve on gay marriage, him voting for the crime bill, her promoting it.. Maybe it's toss up and they are so close in ideology that it matters not. I'll just pick the winner. Oh, and the side that is inclusive.
Before you ask:
http://www.salon.com/2015/10/27/rachel_maddow_confronts_bernie_sanders_over_past_opposition_to_marriage_equality_how_are_you_any_different_than_hillary_clinton/

frylock

(34,825 posts)
102. I guess it was overshadowed by all the other bullshit in that post..
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 09:14 PM
Oct 2015

He was wrong to oppose same-sex marriage in 2006, but he never claimed that marriage was a sacred bond between a man and a woman like Hillary did. He just felt the timing was wrong, and as I said, he was incorrect.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
104. Both wrong different reasons same effect.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 09:23 PM
Oct 2015

See why I don't make much distinction? Same effect. Btw.

I find them all to be to my right. Since they are like way over there, from this perspective they are closer to each other tham to me. I have no emotional connection to either of them.

The only reason I even chose a side is because when I see black folks called race baiter, I know they are not my allies so I decided on hillary because her supporters defend against that stuff from right wingers and the few lefties that use such terms. It seems to bother some, but that is unfair, imo. Should I not feel accepted by the group I want to join? If not, join another group, right? People should be happy that I found a group that treats me kindly.

I can stop talking as soon as I stop seeing 'race baiter' and 'race card' and people being nasty to my friends. Then I will be comfortable enough to just go away, back to aa and know that there will be no drama. People were making the user experience difficult for them and I was sad.
I have to support them. That is how coalitions are built. I know you won't read this or care.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
2. He told someone to lower their voice?
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:24 PM
Oct 2015

I saw him say that "all the shouting in the world" won't end gun violence, but I don't recall him saying nobody is allowed to shout.

Did I miss that?

peacebird

(14,195 posts)
3. Nope, you posted exactly what he said, but it doesn't fit with Team Hillary's smear of Bernie
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:27 PM
Oct 2015

You are not supposed to notice....

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
6. You mean it's made-up bullshit? On DU?? From the Clinton Camp???
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:35 PM
Oct 2015


Once again, I'm glad I was sitting down for THAT revelation!

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
81. A llttle clarity here? What are you asking?
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:44 PM
Oct 2015

It was a witch hunt, just like the e-mail issue...just like the attacks on Bernie that are not based on reality. And I freely admit there are attacks on Hillary by Bernie supporters that are witch hunts too.

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
86. As this cold/virus/crud is taking over, my
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:50 PM
Oct 2015

attention span and critical thinking skills are diminishing rapidly. I think I'm gonna have to find some Nyquil and check out in a few. Ugh. I'll catch you on the morrow.

Hugs. Love ya.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
64. Soon enough, the narrative will change so that Bernie knocked his podium over..
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:19 PM
Oct 2015

rushed over to Hillary, towering over her and demanding "You want a piece of this!"

bkkyosemite

(5,792 posts)
7. Bernie was not talking about Hillary shouting which she does a lot when
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:39 PM
Oct 2015

talking to crowds. It had nothing to do with her but she is playing that card. He meant that everyone across the country that is shouting about gun control (in other words upset about it) needs to talk about it sensibly. Nothing more. Geeze Hillary is desperate to use that on Bernie. He is for gun control.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
12. Maybe because he didn't
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:45 PM
Oct 2015

She's just looking for sympathy. Poor poor little ole me. Big bad Bernie is playing the gender card. It's like sniper fire, it's all made up.

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
16. Here's the transcript:
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:52 PM
Oct 2015
SANDERS: As a senator from a rural state, what I can tell Secretary Clinton, that all the shouting in the world is not going to do what I would hope all of us want, and that is keep guns out of the hands of people who should not have those guns and end this horrible violence that we are seeing.

http://cnnpressroom.blogs.cnn.com/2015/10/13/cnn-democratic-debate-full-transcript/

Cha

(297,029 posts)
23. SANDERS: As a senator from a rural state, what I can tell Secretary Clinton, that all the shouting
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:05 PM
Oct 2015
in the world is not going to do what I would hope all of us want, and that is keep guns out of the hands of people who should not have those guns and end this horrible violence that we are seeing."

Why does Bernie stop shouting then?.. if it's so ineffective.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
43. My mistake
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:43 PM
Oct 2015

But it still wasn't playing the gender card. People shout over guns all the time. It wasn't directed at her in general. People should shout about guns.

72DejaVu

(1,545 posts)
17. You must have watched the edited debate that all the Bernie folks were upset about
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:54 PM
Oct 2015

"As a senator from a rural state, what I can tell Secretary Clinton, that all the shouting in the world is not going to do what I would hope all of us want, and that is keep guns out of the hands of people who should not have those guns and end this horrible violence that we are seeing.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
45. It's still not sexist
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:46 PM
Oct 2015

He wasn't saying it in a bad way. I'm sure he shouts about gun issues too. Shouting is not male or female.

Sorry for my mistake that Clinton's name wasn't said by Bernie.

msrizzo

(796 posts)
53. Well if we are going to be all pedantic about what was actually said.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:57 PM
Oct 2015

Hillary didn't call him a sexist either. That's just an extrapolation.

72DejaVu

(1,545 posts)
18. SHE'S the one who wants sympathy?
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:55 PM
Oct 2015

Bernie's the one who's crying like a child because the mean lady said something he didn't like.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
47. No, he should just ignore her
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:51 PM
Oct 2015

She likes to play games. Let Hillary do herself in. It won't take much. All we have is time. Tick Tock Tick Tock.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
70. Because somebody on her campaign team advised her to play up that angle several days after the fact.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:25 PM
Oct 2015

Why didn't the strong and assertive leader take issue with him demanding that she stop shouting during the debate?

leftofcool

(19,460 posts)
28. Hillary didn't "use" anything.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:13 PM
Oct 2015

She tweaked him and he bit on it as did his followers. His problem not hers!

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
34. It was not "tweaking" It was lying, because...........
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:18 PM
Oct 2015

she wants to stir up a shitstorm of negative personal-oriented campaigning. She's chomping at the bit to bust loose from the issue oriented standards Sanders has been trying to adhere to.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
52. Yeah, right nothing to do with political con games
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:56 PM
Oct 2015

Like that awful sexist brute Bernie is trying to "shut her up" because she is a woman and has no right to take stands and speak out on issues.

Total 100 grade bullshit.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
65. I guess you're not smarter than that
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:20 PM
Oct 2015

All of the pundits (including those favorable to Clinton) have stated that was her intent too.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,107 posts)
37. the line "sometimes when a woman talks it sounds like shouting" sounds good.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:25 PM
Oct 2015

And it's because it's true. It's not sexist. It's just a fact.

Larry David is the perfect person to impersonate Bernie. They have that similar angry New Yorker vibe about them. Bernie probably just thinks it's passion. Hillary gets passionate about gun regulation. I think she needs to be. Would we rather they go all Ben Carson Zombie on us.

She can be passionate about out guns because even some Dems sit in fear that someone will take their guns away. Are there so many criminals in the the Democratic Party to fear common sense gun laws? We need to get back to the 2nd Amendment stance of the 20th century. It's overkill now.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,107 posts)
106. No I don't. I'm married to a New York Jew.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 09:32 PM
Oct 2015

I completely reject your attempt at calling me "antisemitic". Doing that does not help your cause at all. Watch "Moonstruck" with Cher. Those were the words of an Italian Brooklynite shouting "Snap out of it!" It's Brooklyn. Hillary is not from Brooklyn but the suburbs of Chicago.

 

Vattel

(9,289 posts)
13. Hillary is not dumb.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:45 PM
Oct 2015

So I am pretty sure she doesn't really think Sanders was being sexist. She is just doing the sleazy political thing.

global1

(25,237 posts)
35. Bernie Is Being Set Up So That In The Next Debate Or Whenever He Talks To Crowds....
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:23 PM
Oct 2015

the MSM will be sensitized to anything he says that can be interpreted in even the smallest way to be sexist.

HRC's campaign know that he's going to take her on with respect to her record and flip flops - so they are setting the meme that he is sexist and any time he has even the most remote reference to anything Hillary - they are going to call him sexist. They are getting that meme out now in preparation for the next debate as well as sensitizing the undecided American to this as well. They are planting the thought in the minds of the American People - so that when they do make reference of it - they will have heard it and it will become a thing.

Cha

(297,029 posts)
15. "Okay, so Sanders doesn’t have a sexist double standard, just a Bernie-specific double standard,
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 06:51 PM
Oct 2015
where he gets to shout but the rest of you should lower your damn voices."

Not too self aware. Does he not know he shouts?

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,107 posts)
25. The media take on this is nauseating.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:06 PM
Oct 2015

It's "elther" "or" and not the idea that being heard when when Bernie speaks far above his normal speech level when he debates or speaks to a broader audience. Hillary's voice requires some pushing in order to project it. Obama has a magnificent voice which never sounds shrill or like angry shouting that we often hear from Hillary or Sanders. Poor Bill Clinton never figured out how to project his voice and still goes hoarse.

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
27. Whenever I hear Bernie give a speech, I find myself wondering how many town halls
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:11 PM
Oct 2015

he's done where the PA system was on the fritz.

 

DianeK

(975 posts)
29. if this is really the best that you have...
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:13 PM
Oct 2015

well..good luck...those of us who know Bernie know better....but nice try

bkkyosemite

(5,792 posts)
118. No kidding
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 01:55 PM
Oct 2015

He was not saying she was shouting he was saying it in general. He used her name (his tone of voice told what he was saying,different then a transcript). to address the issue of gun violence and people who only yell about it need to take action. That is all he was saying. If Hillary can only find that to b*tch about regarding Bernie then that is very pathetic and desperate.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
30. Hillary can't campaign in a straightforward way...
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:14 PM
Oct 2015

She always has to spin and even lie - and it was a lie -- about Sanders intent on that statement in the debate.

Yes, women have to defeat those awful sexist men like Bernie Sanders, who can't stand strong women. Stand with me sisters against misogynists like my neanderthal opponent.

And naturally she had to do it while also misrepresenting Sanders as an NRA loving gun nut.

She epitomizes what is wrong with politics. Duplicitous. "You can never take politicians at the word. They lie. They twist the truth."

Bernie may be ornery, but he says what he really thinks, and what he really means. You don't have to break out the internal polygraph when he is talking.

I can't wait until the General Election when Clinton starts tossing her current "progressive" positions under the bus. It wouldn't be surprising for her to start talking Family Values to appeal to a demograohic that may not be as receptive to women's issues.

restorefreedom

(12,655 posts)
33. hillary has to make a decision here
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:16 PM
Oct 2015

either she is going to be a strong feminist who stays on message and refuses to get in the mud, or she is going to be a whiny victim like she has been.

and even as a non hillary supporter, i am happy to recommend the former. nobody likes whiny psuedovictims


SleeplessinSoCal

(9,107 posts)
41. one of those options? no way.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:35 PM
Oct 2015

"either she is going to be a strong feminist who stays on message and refuses to get in the mud, or she is going to be a whiny victim like she has been."

Don't like your options. She is running for president. This requires leadership, inspiring, strength, compassion, smarts,flexibility, and being able to make Americans understand where she's coming from. And she is doing all those things. I just don't want her being too cute by half by repeating little barbs. And Bernie ought not rile up his gun nut supporters with put downs like he did.

restorefreedom

(12,655 posts)
44. bernie was not riling up gun nut supporters
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:45 PM
Oct 2015

and i would imagine gun "nuts" are not overly fond of his background check etc policies. as to hillary, if she wants to present as a strong leader, she needs to address the issues and not the shit stirring media ratings mudfest drummed up by the creeps at cnn, etc.

there is no bad blood between bernie and hillary. but that doesn't get ratings. but if she keeps playing the gender card and the "they are picking on me because i am a woman" routine, its going to wear very thin very fast.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
39. I'm for gun control actively in real life, here I never talk about it because all sides just shout.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:29 PM
Oct 2015

After Sandy Hook, you know why nothing really got done? It was all shouting and demands to do things that would not have stopped the murders, not discussion about how to stop such things but just blather and name calling and the people I agree with use lurid language about the people we disagree with and all of that has gone on for years and years and the bodies still keep piling up.
Anyone want to assert that the current methods, rhetorical or otherwise, have made the change we need, persuaded anyone or advanced the safety of the American public? If not then do you really think more of the same is going to do the trick? I don't.

Autumn

(45,016 posts)
48. Oh my. Was everybody in the world shouting? As in "All the shouting in the world" ?
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 07:52 PM
Oct 2015

Hillary isn't the whole world to a whole lot of us. You know everything isn't about Hillary even though some want it to be.

luvspeas

(1,883 posts)
54. I don't think the sexism is with Sanders but with the perception that women should not be funny...
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:00 PM
Oct 2015

For example, I thought her laugh during the Benghazi hearings was wonderful. All night? Really? It was awesome.

I do not think she was trying to make a terrible accusation about Sanders. Rather, it was clever and a bit of good natured sparring that dudes do all the time.

markpkessinger

(8,392 posts)
98. I thought her laugh at the question in the Benhazi hearing was funny, too, but . . .
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 09:07 PM
Oct 2015

. . . I fail to see what that has to do with this particular discussion.

ejbr

(5,856 posts)
57. What surprises me
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 08:11 PM
Oct 2015

is that with her "momentum", exceptional poll numbers, name recognition, and endorsements that she (or her supporters) even need to acknowledge what Bernie has to say. That anyone would suggest that he necessarily meant her shouting about anything is a stretch, but even if he did, why does anyone need to point out if it was sexist if indeed it was sexist? And again, why spend time on someone whom she and her supporters clearly believes she will beat? Wasn't MOM more aggressive toward her during the debates? If they are both beatable, why focus on one and not the other?

I would hope and expect for her (and her supporters) to focus on the real issues that are facing America and not anyone's "damn shouting". IMHO

 

Geronimoe

(1,539 posts)
97. Question
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 09:06 PM
Oct 2015

If Clinton was so good for Democratic Party why in 2000 did the Republicans end up controling all three branches of the Federal Government?

CaptainTruth

(6,582 posts)
114. Complicated answer ...
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 11:59 PM
Oct 2015

For one, the GOP stole the 2000 presidential election. (& 2004) GW Bush was not elected president, he was appointed president by SCOTUS when they stopped vote counting in FL. Plus, swing state vote results were hacked by the Rove/Bush organization & the IT company working for them, & 2 IT techs (who helped crash state election servers, transfer vote counts to their own servers, then change vote totals) ended up dead after they agreed to testify about what they did. And ... our media totally freaking ignored it.

Seriously. IT tech working for Karl Rove (ie Bush) found dead in motel bathtub days after he agreed to testify about his role in stealing the election (hacking state election servers & changing vote totals) for GW Bush ... & no mainstream media reporting, no investigation. I investigated myself & I have all the records & files I could find.

Second, years ago the GOP realized that if they could gerrymander state districts, they could create districts where Republicans would win every election. That's how they took the House & Senate. Not because the majority of Americans support them, but because they gerrymandered & "rigged" the election system so they would win, no matter what.

 

fbc

(1,668 posts)
103. Ugh, Clinton is the worst.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 09:19 PM
Oct 2015

But it's going to going to get a lot uglier if her attacks on Barrack Obama in 2008 are any indication.

Response to Cali_Democrat (Original post)

betsuni

(25,442 posts)
107. This part:
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 09:42 PM
Oct 2015

"Clinton's talking point is also landing because it plays off not-unreasonable fears that a lot of women have that at least some of the Sanders support base is coming from condescending know-it-all men who have unconscious issues with women in authority. These kinds of men do tend to respond to suggestions that they are unintentionally sexist with over-the-top defensive posturing that suggests this is, in fact, a sore spot." (Yes, yes, yes, NOT ALL MEN, don't get all worked up.)

Acknowledging unconscious sexism and racism in our society causes some people (NOT ALL PEOPLE) to instantly accuse those on the receiving end of it of playing cards and stirring things. It's too bad the first instinct isn't to put yourself in the shoes of others. Another reason the U.S. can't have nice things.

Koinos

(2,792 posts)
108. Good thread.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 11:19 PM
Oct 2015

Sanders shouts about billionaires, but he thinks there is too much shouting about guns.

He shouts about the things that matter to him. Gun control just does not matter to him as much, but it does matter to a lot of people.

CaptainTruth

(6,582 posts)
109. I've been biting my tongue (fingers?) for a while now ...
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 11:36 PM
Oct 2015

I'm finally gonna say it.

I've been a DU member for a long time. Over 15 years, although not under this name.

I believe intelligent debate, framed with good intentions, is GOOD for the Democratic party. Let everyone make their case, based on facts, data, reality, etc. If a particular position/policy stands up to scrutiny & helps America & the American people as a whole, fine, let's unite behind it, move it forward, make it reality.

That's all good.

What I'm really getting tired of is the petty "Bernie this" & "Hillary that" ... well ... I'll call it juvenile bickering ... that I see all over DU lately.

Note that I'm making a distinction between PETTY/opinion-based attacks & fact-based position/policy analysis - things that can be empirically supported.

I originally joined DU because it was a place filled with reasoned, fact-supported discussion, among a wonderful group of people who, despite personal differences, united behind the vision of the Democratic party, & perhaps most importantly, were determined to save America from the scourge of Republicans/conservatives (& everything they do to destroy our country).

Now? I feel like I see so much petty Hillary/Bernie bickering on DU (which basically illustrates a lack of respect for other's beliefs), I wonder if we're all on the same side anymore. Are we?

There. I said it. Flame me if you want. Report me if you want. I just hope that some of you on DU feel the same way I do. We're Democrats. We're better than mindless f%$king petty bickering. I know we are. That's the sordid realm of Republicans. Leave the juvenile name-calling to them while we engage in intelligent debate. I believe in us.

#UniteBlue #P2 I'm on Twitter at @TruthTeamOne.

betsuni

(25,442 posts)
113. "Let everyone make their own case, based on facts, data, reality, etc."
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 11:58 PM
Oct 2015

I completely agree. I guess some people honestly don't know the difference between a fact and an opinion. DU used to have the most information-packed comments, I learned so much. Now basic facts can't even be agreed on. Is it cultural influence? How emotion and feelings have become more important than reason? Experts ignored? Thinking objectivity is impossible? The emphasis always on conflict?

CaptainTruth

(6,582 posts)
115. Thank you.
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 12:38 AM
Oct 2015

Sincerely, thank you. I've been wondering if I was the only one feeling this way.

Don't get me wrong, when I wake up every morning DU is still the first web site I visit. It's my first source of news, as I drink my coffee, before I go to Twitter. But, it's gotten to the point where I just skip over most of the Politics section.

Your words:

"Now basic facts can't even be agreed on. Is it cultural influence? How emotion and feelings have become more important than reason? Experts ignored? Thinking objectivity is impossible? The emphasis always on conflict?"

Very astute observations, 100% correct. IMHO those are not characteristics of Democrats, they're characteristics of cons/Repubs. The exact things I have criticized in the opposition for decades, & now it seems like we're falling into the same cesspool. All of those things are now fracturing the Repub party & rendering it ineffective. I damn sure don't want to see the same thing happen to the Democratic party.

Anyone want to talk me off of this ledge? Go for it.

WorseBeforeBetter

(11,441 posts)
111. Jesus, the perpetually micro-aggrieved Amanda Marcotte... again.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 11:49 PM
Oct 2015

I wonder how she makes it through any given day.

Eric J in MN

(35,619 posts)
112. Don't take him literally.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 11:54 PM
Oct 2015

Bernie Sanders wasn't talking about literal "shouting" on the gun issue. He meant that outrageous statements aren't helpful in passing a compromise.

His speaking style during the debate wasn't shouting.

mmonk

(52,589 posts)
116. It's good those of us on the real left never get "shouted" at and Rahm was just a figment
Wed Oct 28, 2015, 06:48 AM
Oct 2015

of our unreasonable imaginations.

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