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ismnotwasm

(41,974 posts)
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 02:58 AM Jun 2014

Mansplaining, explained: 'Just ask an expert. Who is not a lady'(interview)

Rebecca Solnit is smarter than you, and she's not sorry about it. Photograph: David Levene
Rebecca Solnit is a prolific author (she's working now on her sixteenth and seventeenth books), historian, activist and a contributing editor to Harper's. Her most recent book, Men Explain Things to Me, is a collection of Solnit's essays, including the title piece that launched a million memes. Solnit, on the road in Seattle, took some time to explain "mansplaining", writing and how the post-Isla Vista misogyny conversation is a little like climate denialism.

JESSICA VALENTI: How do you feel about being considered the creator of the concept of "mansplaining"? Your now-famous essay – which really gave women language to talk about the condescending interactions they've had with men – certainly gave birth to the term, but you write in the book that you didn't actually make up the word.

REBECCA SOLNIT: A really smart young woman changed my mind about it. I used to be ambivalent, worrying primarily about typecasting men with the term. (I have spent most of my life tiptoeing around the delicate sensibilities of men, though of course the book Men Explain Things to Me is what happens when I set that exhausting, doomed project aside.) Then in March a PhD candidate said to me, No, you need to look at how much we needed this word, how this word let us describe an experience every woman has but we didn't have language for.

And that's something I'm really interested in: naming experience and how what has no name cannot be acknowledged or shared. Words are power. So if this word allowed us to talk about something that goes on all the time, then I'm really glad it exists and slightly amazed that not only have I contributed about a million published words to the conversation but maybe, indirectly, one new word.

More: http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/jun/06/mansplaining-explained-expert-women
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Mansplaining, explained: 'Just ask an expert. Who is not a lady'(interview) (Original Post) ismnotwasm Jun 2014 OP
"Mansplaining" really does Control-Z Jun 2014 #1
Which is exactly those who find an issue with it HATE the word. boston bean Jun 2014 #5
While claiming not to understand Control-Z Jun 2014 #9
No, no, no let me explain ... intaglio Jun 2014 #2
I wish we didn't have to explain chervilant Jun 2014 #3
She's great but I wish there was a man who could explain this to me. MadrasT Jun 2014 #4
... ismnotwasm Jun 2014 #6
Yes, I just don't feel that same gratifying urge to hand out cookies redqueen Jun 2014 #8
Excellent reading, Z_I_Peevey Jun 2014 #7
"...the post-Isla Vista misogyny conversation is a little like climate denialism." nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #10
What is this Mansplaining of which you all speak ? De Leonist Jun 2014 #11
No. Speaking for myself, I don't beat my kids. JTFrog Sep 2014 #17
I wasn't actually being serious.... De Leonist Sep 2014 #19
Sorry, I missed the sarcasm. JTFrog Sep 2014 #20
I think this is a good time to kick this thread. Luminous Animal Sep 2014 #12
No shit ismnotwasm Sep 2014 #13
No shit as a man explains to me why I am sex negative and not allowed to be pissed. Perfect example seabeyond Sep 2014 #15
I need mercuryblues Sep 2014 #14
And if they do not like, what really does not exist cause the man never sees it, then seabeyond Sep 2014 #16
Meh ismnotwasm Sep 2014 #18
Yes. And I am seeing a rise of feminism across all demographics Luminous Animal Sep 2014 #21

Control-Z

(15,682 posts)
9. While claiming not to understand
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 04:49 PM
Jun 2014

its meaning. How about that? Hating something they don't even understand!

intaglio

(8,170 posts)
2. No, no, no let me explain ...
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 05:55 AM
Jun 2014

Women just don't realise how much men understand about the real workings of (insert subject here) because, of course we have vast experience of (whatever it is the woman is describing) ...

obvious is obvious

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
4. She's great but I wish there was a man who could explain this to me.
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 07:37 AM
Jun 2014

You know, because it seems to much more real and important when a man says it.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
8. Yes, I just don't feel that same gratifying urge to hand out cookies
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 01:25 PM
Jun 2014

when it's a woman doing the speaking.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
10. "...the post-Isla Vista misogyny conversation is a little like climate denialism."
Sat Jun 7, 2014, 08:14 PM
Jun 2014

Well put. Especially because ignoring the problem will doom us all in the end.

De Leonist

(225 posts)
11. What is this Mansplaining of which you all speak ?
Mon Jun 23, 2014, 01:20 AM
Jun 2014

Surely you teach the boys and young men in your families not to offer unsolicited advice to women on pain of severe fonging.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
17. No. Speaking for myself, I don't beat my kids.
Mon Sep 22, 2014, 08:17 PM
Sep 2014

I don't have to. I taught them to respect women by talking to them. I've certainly never respected anyone who beat me.

And I doubt you will find anyone else here who threatens "fonging" the boys and young men in their lives.



De Leonist

(225 posts)
19. I wasn't actually being serious....
Tue Sep 23, 2014, 02:21 PM
Sep 2014

I didn't expect anyone to actually answer that question seriously ?

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
20. Sorry, I missed the sarcasm.
Tue Sep 23, 2014, 02:45 PM
Sep 2014

The thread was kicked up yesterday, so I just saw your post. You would be surprised how many anti-feminists say that crap with all seriousness around here.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
15. No shit as a man explains to me why I am sex negative and not allowed to be pissed. Perfect example
Mon Sep 22, 2014, 07:43 PM
Sep 2014

Of mansplaining yet still... ???

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
16. And if they do not like, what really does not exist cause the man never sees it, then
Mon Sep 22, 2014, 07:45 PM
Sep 2014

She should lighten up and like it. She is doing it wrong

ismnotwasm

(41,974 posts)
18. Meh
Mon Sep 22, 2014, 08:26 PM
Sep 2014

They're pissed because the world is slowly changing, women are gaining power and aren't shutting up, here or anywhere else. We have incredible allies in incredible men.

The dinosaurs don't see the light of the comet.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
21. Yes. And I am seeing a rise of feminism across all demographics
Tue Sep 23, 2014, 10:57 PM
Sep 2014

The anti-feminists are experiencing a serious backlash.

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