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ismnotwasm

(41,967 posts)
Sat Jun 14, 2014, 11:47 AM Jun 2014

bell hooks will text creepy dudes for you

Making up a fake number to give to an overly-aggressive guy at a bar is a tactic as old as phone operators. But why give the guy the number for your nearest Dominoes, when you could let him talk to feminist icon bell hooks?

Instead of making up a fake number, women can now give out this one: (669) 221-6251. Unwanted admirers will receive a text in response quoting writings of bell hooks (lowercase intentional), a feminist activist and writer and the author of the book Feminism is for Everybody. Her writings have inspired hundreds of feminists, and now they can inspire some people to be a little less aggressive in their pick-up strategies.

The creators of the site are still anonymous, but they did email The Hairpin to say that "the idea is to pass that off as one's own number if you're in a dicey situation, afraid to give out your personal cell phone number or outright reject someone."

I texted the mock number to give it a try (and for a little feminist inspiration). This is what I got in return:



http://www.vox.com/2014/6/13/5807468/bell-hooks-will-text-creeps-for-you


And from Jezebel:

Give This Number to the Dude Who Won't Leave You Alone

because we're raised to know it's safer to give a fake phone number than to directly reject an aggressive guy.

because we're raised to know that evasion or rejection can be met with violence.

because women are still threatened and punished for rejecting advances.

because (669) UGH-ASIF, WTF-DUDE, and MAJR-SHADE were taken.
Since the service started, thousands of people have started using this number. Feminist Phone Intervention has more information on donating to help keep them in service, with extra proceeds going to a latina reproductive health non-profit.


Phttp://jezebel.com/give-this-number-to-the-dude-who-wont-leave-you-alone-1590501704
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seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
1. wow. that says a whole lot. and we get it often from men on du, giving us advice,
Sat Jun 14, 2014, 12:08 PM
Jun 2014

how we should just...

whatever.

like they know.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
3. this is for sweet freedom if she/he is reading. thanks for your Op
Sat Jun 14, 2014, 12:21 PM
Jun 2014

and noticing there was another. the upside? this is getting enough attention at the moment. i think that is kinda neat.

ismnotwasm

(41,967 posts)
4. Ha! Got a reply
Sat Jun 14, 2014, 12:28 PM
Jun 2014

I texted "hey sweet thing", then I retexted "you busy?" And got this:

"Sometimes, people try to destroy you, precisely because they recognize your power. Not because they do not see it, but because they see it and they do not want it to exist." -bell hooks


That's awesome!

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
6. too fuckin true. too too true. lol. i love that quote. so gonna share that with mine.
Sat Jun 14, 2014, 02:22 PM
Jun 2014

cause we say this often.

ismnotwasm

(41,967 posts)
5. I think it's programmed so you have to be pushy-- it took three texts to get a reply this time
Sat Jun 14, 2014, 01:47 PM
Jun 2014

"Come on, you so so fine, I'd love to take you out, we'd go out to dinner and take a long walk after and get to know each other-- and see what happens

"Or we could go to my place and have a couple of drinks"

"You still there?"

Answer

"Whenever domination is present, love is lacking," - bell hooks

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