the right to create a rape porn script for me to play out in, so he could get off simply because he did not like what i was saying to him.

let our boys know, that there old mama is having men jacking off to their violent sexual fantasy as we in no way "encourage" these men their fucked up mentality of women.

a woman, on a subway, has a man yank it out to rub up against her.

ya.

people really really need to start getting this. a world where men feel the absolute right with no repercussions or censor, to turn all women into their porn.

are we at the place of a DUH... yet?

fug

rather like prize cows, ready to be bred at any time but with no thoughts, wants, likes, dislikes, or civil rights of our own.

When we step out of their tidy little pasture they go ballistic. How dare we? Stand up there like we have anything to teach all powerful men? Well, he'll show us!

It used to be obscene and threatening phone calls. Now it's on the net and it's pervasive. While we all noticed deep seated misogyny back in the 60s on the far left, the anonymity of the net has not only caused a resurgence of it, it has intensified it.

ETA: I did find a rape porn fantasy about me written by a fellow leftist back in the antiwar days. I sat him down and read it to him and deconstructed it for him along with letting him know that if I had one hand or one foot free, exactly what I'd be doing with them. Then we had a long talk about his pathological view of women as cattle, to be acted upon by men but never acting in our own right.

I'm afraid I just about deconstructed him. However, I got through to him that he could fantasize whatever he wanted to, but if he ever again put it onto paper or tried to practice it in real life, he'd be in for another little talk at the very least.

and made it more pervasive. We see countless stories showing just that.

Funny how many people seem to have difficulty learning this simple lesson.

-- Mal

as insignificant compared to their fist.

i, or you, do not see ourselves as less. just not gonna happen. no matter how hard anyone tries. that frustrates them more, that cause pushes and punches to escalate.

Is the stalking resulting from non-DUers reading your DU posts?

Some may be here as trolls, but none are legitimate DUers. These are not liberals.

Thanks, Squinch.

Not want to claim them then, Somebody needs to speak up and, Soon.

In my view. It's a deficeit of human decency.

I mean how ironic? Men you wouldn't even consider as sexual partners also think it's a measure of control and superiority discussing their particular opinions of what they would or wouldn't do. I remember the face of a friend or so of mine when I told them male desire wasn't a compliment. Theyre good guys, but didn't-- couldn't get it. What I meant was I spent a large part of my life being seen as a collection of body parts, not as a person. It lost it's novelty by the time I was 20. It turned into something else, something ugly. I started calling myself a feminist by the time I was 19, even when I thought feminism meant I could fuck who I wanted, hurt who I could. It's been quite a journey.

Turn it around, women can be cruel, but they're not threatening rape of partners they don't want.

And I don't give a fuck what our Evo-psych friends say or even legitimate biological impulses are, you will respect me or your desire means exactly dick.

And I'm a big flirt, personally I think it's a lost art, turned into something crude, it should have more to do with social graces than 'hook up culture'



And a paper with a rape fantasy? Ew. Just ew.

of High Art in The South. Social graces are in the blood down here. We flirt with each other from eight to eighty-eight.
It is the grease that moves the squeaky wheel.

for ridicule for no other reason than we are women who speak our mind.

But yeah, a woman daring to speak up gets it much worse. Especially if we speak our minds about feminist issues.