Reply #206: I think this is not so much about weight [View All]

and more about him finding a way to make you feel like shit. If you somehow managed to lose the little belly, it would probably be something else.

No offense, and sorry if I'm being too blunt here, but men that do these kinds of things to women rarely change and sometimes progress to physical violence if their emotional crap stops working. I would never put up with these kinds of comments from my husband for even one second. Because life is too damn short to be emotionally abused by someone who is supposed to love you and care for you.

Expressing concern about a person's health in a kind and gentle way is one thing. Demanding meanly that they work on a problem spot for aesthetic reasons is altogether another and indicative of a character flaw on the part of the demander.

Given what else you've said about him in this thread, my recommendation is separation or divorce. Just being honest.