Reply #7: No offense, coloradodem - [View All]

because I think you're great, and understand where you're coming from, HOWEVER - this woe is me, nobody likes me, everybody hates me, why don't people love me, girls hate me, ad nauseum stuff is generally a TOTAL turn off to anyone you may come in contact with. Confidence (NOT arrogance) is a turn on.

You need to adjust your way of thinking.

Your world is YOUR mirror. It's a reflection of what you need to change in yourself, or what's right in yourself. Don't like the way your world is treating you, you're the only one that can change that. Unless, of course, you enjoy being a "victim" and are seeking something to bitch about - in which case, carry on.

:)

Take it from someone that's had to learn her lessons the hard way. ME.