Reply #82: Sorry, but that's total bullshit [View All]

You do not choose to be terrorized and battered. But by the time they get around to leaving marks, you've been cut off from friends, family and any way of finding information. (You can bet that if he knew she was posting here, the computer would go) You've been told so often that you're nothing, you're stupid and ugly and he doesn't know why he even sticks around because you aren't worth anything, and you've never heard anything to the contrary, that you have absolutely no confidence in yourself or your ability to even survive.

And you believe, oh yes you believe with all your being, that when he says he'll never let you or 'what belongs to him' go, that he will definitely make that happen. You know you will die.