Reply #30: actually if you read my post... [View All]

....the problem at my house is that many of her washing instructions are counter to what's on the label. ie some things say wash warm and she wants it cold.

I have to say also that the "if he cared enough about his wife he'd learn the right way" sort of thing isn't all that healthy for a relationship. Some people are good at some things, some people are good at others. I've made honest attempts at being a good folder, but it just ain't happenin'. It doesn't mean that I love my wife less.

And on the flip side, she's not nearly as good a cook as I am. Now I could sit there and complain that if she really cared, she'd put in the effort to be a better cook. Fact of the matter is, she wasn't a good cook when I met her and I accept her the way she is. She's my partner, not my project.