Reply #6: Explain clearly [View All]

what you mean by "pulling teeth"
The answer will be in your explanation, I think.

So, you're saying you have no control over your self-undoing?
Are you asking for a beating?
I am thoroughly confused.

By saying that all the time, does that buy you time to keep doing it?
Are you asking for someone to take responsibility and stop you?

I just don't get it.
I can't sit in judgement of you; far from it; I just don't understand it.
Sounds to me, if I compare it to my other clients, like you're trying to get your MOTHER to understand and since you can't you'll go to any extreme for her to notice your pain.

I had a similar relationship growing up.

Pluto is on your Venus, so is Uranus, what do you want from your Venus? That means, what do you want to be socially?
That is where the work needs to emanate from before Pl gets to your Sun (you and I will enjoy that picnic at the same time in about a year)

Edit: I am certain this is about the mother; please send me as much detail as possible re: your mom's birth and we'll dig it out
you really sound like you're barking up a deaf tree. I've seen this plenty and you have every reason to think that you can get past this IMHO