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helps a lot. Thank you. Yes, I'm sure I like you!
It is the stagnation that irks me. The laziness of thought. He asks the most inane questions. Like can he put the glass bottom back in the microwave. It was dry on the drain board with other dishes waiting to be put away. Well, duh. He isn't afraid to act on his own in other circumstances, but they are very few. I find it hard to remain calm when dealing with him. I manage, but I try not to have much contact, and that is an uncomfortable roommate situation. Some people would relish having someone around that is so pliable and willing to please and follow orders. Some believe Leos are like that, 'bossy'. But I am not. I have some leadership ability, but a leader is often alone, just going thata way when others are looking at the other way. I hate to be micromanaged and resent it when put in a position where it is expected of me. What I've read about Leo mothers is very much my method of dealing with everyone. Give em a little boost and teach them to hunt. They are good to go.

So, all of us deal with the selfish/unselfish I guess. I must state that he is not unhappy at all. He really likes living here and adores my cat. If he can put up with me, he must have a huge redeeming quality.