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silverweb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-06-09 11:56 AM
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29. Thank you.
That's pretty much what I've been feeling, but I was repressing the conscious thought because that would confirm her assessment. She likes to tell me that I "can't take criticism, even when it's for your own good" -- meaning her frequent critiques about my "unnatural" lifestyle.

This person is, indeed, a social gadfly who makes everything "all about her." She gets very personally and visibly offended when I don't respond as desired to all her likes and dislikes, and she's constantly prodding in those areas.

I'm very thankful that we only see each other once a year, communicating by email and an occasional phone call the rest of the year. In person, she knows exactly how to punch my buttons, and I fell for it again to the point of feeling guilty and second-guessing myself.

You've helped me put it all back in perspective -- until next year's visit, anyway. :D

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