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youngdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 06:48 AM Original message |
Ex-wife becomes a man; ex-husband seeks end to alimony |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 06:54 AM Response to Original message |
1. I don't think so. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 07:27 AM Response to Original message |
2. He does have a point n/t |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:20 AM Response to Reply #2 |
14. Men also receive alimony so he doesn't have a point. They are ex-s |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:15 PM Response to Reply #2 |
27. What point is that? |
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atommom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 07:40 AM Response to Original message |
3. Men do occasionally receive alimony too. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 07:54 AM Response to Original message |
4. Where did Julio get the money for the operation? Roach is paying over $1000 a month |
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all.of.me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:03 AM Response to Original message |
5. this has probably tweaked the husband's ego more than his pocket. |
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Donnachaidh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 10:06 AM Response to Reply #5 |
21. ohh yeah |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:53 PM Response to Reply #5 |
34. Ding, ding, ding! Exactamundo! |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
6. Alimony is a recognition that one partner gave up time and effort |
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Crayson (463 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:20 AM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Perfect definition of alimony ! |
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DerBeppo (452 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:23 PM Response to Reply #8 |
29. you mean that financial choice |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-30-07 09:57 PM Response to Reply #29 |
85. Oh, please |
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ends_dont_justify (367 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-31-07 01:59 AM Response to Reply #85 |
87. Exactly. Scumbags are scumbags no matter what gender or race N/T |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-31-07 10:41 AM Response to Reply #85 |
91. Ad hominem much? |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
7. Alimony is not predicated on gender (sex, really) |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:37 AM Response to Original message |
9. I Wonder What Was the Listed Cause of the Divorce? |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:13 AM Response to Reply #9 |
11. Maybe Julio never should have married in the first place. |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:18 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. I was wondering about that, but who gets married assuming that they will get divorced? |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:21 AM Response to Reply #11 |
15. But SOCIETY...forces marriage and people try to fit in. Why do you think there are closets |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 11:29 AM Response to Reply #15 |
23. Certainly Julio & Roach Are From a Less Open Generation |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 11:34 AM Response to Reply #11 |
24. Considering When He Was Born |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 05:43 PM Response to Reply #9 |
57. Orientation, not preference. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:57 AM Response to Original message |
10. Welcome to the Patriarchy |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:14 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Wow, nice ad hominem attacks on the husband. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:32 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. It's not his body. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:34 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. Cynically, I would guess it has zero to do with the operation |
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Centered (295 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 03:29 PM Response to Reply #17 |
46. I'd call you right |
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DerBeppo (452 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:24 PM Response to Reply #16 |
30. after the divorce |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 02:31 PM Response to Reply #30 |
41. sorry, was using "their money" to mean the ex's money |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 01:20 PM Response to Reply #16 |
36. Sure. The reason is money. He doesn't want to have to pay someone else's expenses. |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 03:12 PM Response to Reply #36 |
44. He doesn't want to honor the agreement he signed |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 03:55 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. Not wanting to pay your ex-wife does not a homophobe make. |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 03:58 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. Where did I say ANYTHING about being a homophobe???? |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:45 PM Response to Reply #16 |
63. Well said |
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Dutch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-01-07 08:46 AM Response to Reply #16 |
94. No, but it's his money- and he specifically said he had no problem with her having the sex change. |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:36 AM Response to Reply #12 |
18. Where? |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:36 AM Response to Reply #18 |
19. I know...right? Buhwawawa! Other than being mad his wife is a man and him |
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DanWithAngel (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:40 PM Response to Reply #19 |
32. no, it's not obvious |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-29-07 01:15 PM Response to Reply #32 |
74. "he should not be paying any money to anyone now " Why NOT, pray tell? n/t |
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DanWithAngel (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-29-07 04:30 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. tell me why he IS and HAS been paying money? |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-29-07 08:31 PM Response to Reply #75 |
76. I asked you first, but... |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 01:23 PM Response to Reply #18 |
38. Accusing someone of being a homophobe and being "threatened" is not an attack? |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:19 PM Response to Reply #12 |
28. What ad hominem attack? |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 01:22 PM Response to Reply #28 |
37. Accusing him of being a homophobe and having such low self esteem as to be "threatened." |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 01:33 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Actually, it seems pretty obvious that he's prejudiced |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 03:54 PM Response to Reply #39 |
47. Not even close -- There is no evidence. Just one poster's unjustified ad hominem attacks. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 03:57 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. You don't think |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-29-07 12:15 PM Response to Reply #49 |
71. He is going to court over alimony payments. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-29-07 01:06 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. And he's using her transgendered status to do it. |
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SemperEadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-01-07 08:56 AM Response to Reply #71 |
95. does anyone here know this guy? |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-29-07 05:48 AM Response to Reply #47 |
70. The evidence is right in the article. |
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heliarc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-31-07 08:11 PM Response to Reply #12 |
93. Which husband... |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:38 AM Response to Reply #10 |
20. Looks like Julio wants to join the patriarchy... |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-31-07 12:34 AM Response to Reply #10 |
86. 'scuze me. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
22. What a dicksmack. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:42 PM Response to Reply #22 |
33. Deleted message |
UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:04 PM Response to Original message |
25. The things we don't know... |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:56 PM Response to Reply #25 |
35. Hi UncleSepp |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 04:41 PM Response to Reply #35 |
52. Hi Crisco |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:41 PM Response to Reply #52 |
62. I Did Consider the Social Aspects |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-30-07 05:36 PM Response to Reply #62 |
80. Florida doesn't recognize gender change w.r.t. marriage |
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SemperEadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-01-07 09:17 AM Response to Reply #25 |
96. Well said.. thank you for posting that |
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qwlauren35 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
26. This is why I hate Alimony. |
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DerBeppo (452 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 12:26 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. agreed 100% -nt- |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 03:03 PM Response to Reply #26 |
42. It's not "paying" them, so much as "compensating" them |
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qwlauren35 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-29-07 12:45 PM Response to Reply #42 |
72. That's only one case... |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-31-07 02:14 AM Response to Reply #42 |
88. Is working and earning money the most imprtant than in a family? |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 01:42 PM Response to Original message |
40. This sets a new standard for "married the wrong person" |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 03:06 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. That's not what alimony is. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 03:18 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. Earnings power and needs can both contribute to calculating alimony |
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Megahurtz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 04:05 PM Response to Reply #45 |
51. I think you have Excellent Points. n/t |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 05:04 PM Response to Reply #45 |
53. Discrimination against transgendered people makes up for it |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 05:41 PM Response to Reply #53 |
56. That may be true - Financial disability is a factor as well |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:54 PM Response to Reply #53 |
64. i agree w. unclesepp |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-30-07 05:41 PM Response to Reply #64 |
81. Thanks :-) |
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SemperEadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-01-07 09:25 AM Response to Reply #40 |
97. non sequitur |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
54. "that person" |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 07:14 PM Response to Reply #54 |
60. *nodnod* Some good wishes those are. |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
55. Julio should lose just for his terrible-fanfic last name! |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 05:52 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. I didn't notice that the first reading! |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 08:59 PM Response to Reply #55 |
65. oh c'mon, it's hella better than julia ROACH!!!! |
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ncteechur (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
59. I would not pay another dime in alimony. The original husband is |
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Maven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 07:59 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. Really? So now straights want to cash in on both sides of discrimination |
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VegasWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
66. Simple!! The ex-husband should cut off his woo-hoo and then "she" could sue "he" |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:26 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. It is not always women who receive alimony. |
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VegasWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:47 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. Sorry you didn't see the pun intended. nt |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-28-07 09:55 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. I don't see a pun at all. |
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VegasWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-30-07 12:26 AM Response to Reply #69 |
78. Nah! You just assumed a very literal interpretation that was not intended. nt |
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SKKY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-30-07 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
77. I think Julio's economic situation must have improved a great deal... |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-30-07 05:45 PM Response to Reply #77 |
82. It costs about what a used car costs |
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goodhue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-30-07 11:25 AM Response to Original message |
79. What does gender identity have to do with alimony? |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-31-07 02:31 AM Response to Reply #79 |
89. hell if I know |
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SemperEadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-01-07 09:28 AM Response to Reply #79 |
98. thank you |
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pink-o (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-30-07 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
83. I'm a woman and I think alimony is a really sexist concept |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-30-07 07:11 PM Response to Reply #83 |
84. Strong supporter of ERA here |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-31-07 08:09 PM Response to Reply #83 |
92. Think about the older women who've given up any possibility |
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entanglement (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-31-07 03:07 AM Response to Original message |
90. Sorry, I can't help having a "Duh, It's Florida" moment here |
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