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demdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 12:55 PM
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Author dies after facelift
Best-selling author Olivia Goldsmith has died after her facelift went wrong.

She was best known for The First Wives Club which was turned into the 1996 hit film starring Goldie Hawn, Bette Midler and Diane Keaton as three friends who take their revenge on cheating husbands who dump them for younger women.


The 54-year-old writer, whose real name was Justine Rendal, had been in a deep coma for more than a week caused by a reaction to an anaesthetic while she was having plastic surgery.

http://www.thisislondon.com/news/articles/8630309?source=Evening%20Standard
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TeeYiYi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 12:57 PM
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1. Gawd. That's awful. How sad. . .
She was only 54. :-(

TYY
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0007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 12:59 PM
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3. The price for vanity is indeed expensive!
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 12:57 PM
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TheDalaiMama Donating Member (159 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:04 PM
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7. it's bad enough women are addicted to this image thing...now men
are getting surgery in almost equal numbers. Where will it all end?
Did you ever notice that the surgeons are not good looking with the exception of a few? They don't pratice what they preach.

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demdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:08 PM
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10. It will end when vain people stop trying to look better than others.
I refuse to believe society pressured this rich woman to try to improve her looks. Look at the topic and messages of her writings. How is it that many of us go through life and age naturally but the rich have to "look better"?

Sometimes nature gives us a lesson, if we are willing to learn.
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TeeYiYi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:15 PM
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13. I don't know if it's vanity or not . . .
. . . in this case it may have been. Who knows. :shrug: But I wonder how getting a face lift is much different that getting caps or veneers on your teeth. I can be the most conscientious teeth brusher and flosser and I still expect to own a few crowns some day. (My tiara is in the closet.) If my eyes get too baggy, I'll probably go in and have them fixed. If we allow the body to age naturally, wouldn't people who's knees give out be in wheel chairs? What about hip replacements? . . . :shrug:

TYY
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demdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:18 PM
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14. If you can't see the difference between mobility and baggy eyes
I would be wasting my time trying to explain.
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TeeYiYi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:23 PM
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15. What about the caps? . . .
. . . those aren't necessary. The discussion was about allowing the body to age naturally. And yet, it seems we do everything in our power to stop that from happening. Diets, vitamins, secret potions. It goes against human nature to want to age, naturally or otherwise. We face our own mortality every day and some people go to greather lengths than others to try and halt it.

TYY
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TeeYiYi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 03:55 PM
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27. HELLO demdave? What about the caps? ......n/t
TYY
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MaineDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:27 PM
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17. Baggy eyes don't limit your mobility
In your comparison, no hip replacement would mean the person is stuck in a wheel chair. Big difference from elective face-lift.

I've lost almost 150 pounds in the past 2 years. I just noticed the other day that I have wrinkles!!! I never did when I was really heavy. I noticed crow's feet around my eyes for the first time. The way I figure it...I earned those lines! No surgery for me but, heck, if someone wants it and it doesn't come out of my health benefits, go for it!

Any surgery is risky, regardless of the severity and reason for the surgery.
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TeeYiYi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:06 PM
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9. I'm not revering it too well . . .
. . . and I suspect I'll submit to the knife in my 50's if necessary. I think there is a line that gets crossed with plastic surgery. MJ being a prime example. But for people who are getting up there in age in, say, a corporation where ageism is a problem, then I see no problem with them wanting to refresh their appearance. Like everything else, moderation is important.

TYY
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:02 PM
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4. vanitites vanities this is so sad
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spooky3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 07:14 PM
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31. Is it vanities, or simply people responding to the fact that many other
people in society treat them MUCH better when they look good than when they do not?

I'm not arguing that people have no responsibility for their choices. What I'm arguing is that "vanity" sounds like a personal weakness that is independent of the environment they are operating in. But the decision to do ANYTHING to improve one's looks (including wearing makeup, losing weight unless seriously overweight, getting your hair styled, etc.) could be called "vanity", I think unfairly. In fact, some people say things like "doesn't she care how she looks?" (yes, they're more likely to say it about women). Look at what MANY people (not just neocons) say or would say about Dr. Judith Steinberg Dean. The reality is that society definitely values looking good, and the question is just one of how far does it make sense to go to get the advantages for oneself.
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MaineDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:03 PM
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5. Wow! For real?!
I loved "The First Wives Club". I just read another of her books about women in prison. I forget the name. It was interesting but not as much as "First Wives...".

Ah vanity!
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question everything Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:04 PM
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6. That's sad
I loved the book and I loved the movie. It is being shown on cable this month and I watched it again just last week.
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ima_sinnic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:06 PM
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8. oh, that is tragic
I saw a documentary on exactly how a facelift is done. Believe me, I was gagging and will NEVER subject myself to one. The doctor inserts a spatula under the skin and actually lifts it away from anything holding it underneath--and this is done quite forcefully, a striking/digging motion all over the face. No wonder people's faces are black and blue afterward. UGH. At 57 I am resigned to the face I was born with, which is aging naturally.
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shanti Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 03:28 PM
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25. i'm on your side, sister
i refuse to even consider cosmetic surgery and plan to just grow old gracefully.
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David__77 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:08 PM
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11. Cosmetic surgery didn't kill her--it was anesthesia.
I have to point out that cosmetic/reconstructuve surgery has helped many people improve their lives--we shouldn't condemn it out of hand.
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demdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:11 PM
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12. Not cosmetic and reconstructive surgery, elective vanity surgery
is what people are pointing to. Yes the anesthesia killed her, but the complications of any "vanity" surgery is enough to show it is wrong.
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FlaGranny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:28 PM
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18. Some cases of "death by anesthesia"
Edited on Fri Jan-16-04 01:28 PM by FlaGranny
are caused by an anesthetist putting the endotracheal tube down the esophagus instead of the trachea. Since oxygen is supplied to the patient with this tube, the patient's brain is deprived of oxygen. If this lady died a week after the surgery, this may have been the cause. Notice, I say may. I'm not making accusations. If her death had been caused by an allergic reaction or other severe reaction to the anesthesia, it seems to me that she wouldn't have hung on for an entire week, but these are just guesses on my part.

I don't think vanity surgery is wrong. If you can afford it and you understand the risks, it is no more wrong than getting your ears pierced. There is nothing useful about going through life with ears like handles or a huge nose or even wrinkles and sagging skin. If it makes someone feel better about themselves or improves their chances at employment and they understand there is a 0.5% chance of dying from the surgery, it is okay with me.
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Ilsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 08:40 PM
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34. Exactly. And she could have had the same reaction
to anesthesia for any nonelective or emergency surgery. She could have had the same reaction to having her gall bladder out or an appendectomy.

I'm not a big fan of having any surgery unless you really need it. But this was her choice, which I support.
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morningglory Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:28 PM
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19. I agree that in early 50's you can be made to look 40 again, but
after 60, you just get more lizard-faced with cosmetic surgery. I admire Robert Redford for sticking it out.
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Susang Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 03:57 PM
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28. Except for his eyes
They've been done, most likely to remove excess skin that was impairing his vision. Sometimes people forget that there are legitimate uses for cosmetic/plastic surgery other than vanity.
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Logansquare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 04:34 PM
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29. I know someone who had an eye lift so she could see better
She always had deep-set eyes with heavy lids, and was losing her peripheral vision by the time she hit 60.
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Teaser Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:48 PM
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20. No one really knows how most anaesthesia works.
It's kind of a crap shoot.
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RememberTheCoup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 08:17 PM
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33. Thanks for pointing that out, David.
I don't like the attitude I'm seeing here that this is some sort of punishment brought on by vanity (or societal pressure). A surgery like this doesn't usually kill you although all surgeries have risks. This is just an unfortunate event; let's not try to hang a moral on it.
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delete_bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 01:23 PM
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16. Talk about an extreme makeover!
There does seem to be a high risk/reward ratio associated with cosmetic surgery but it appears that for many the procedure is worth the risk.
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leesa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 02:07 PM
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21. I think it's unfair to blame it on vanity. If she had died from an
anesthesia reaction during some other surgery no one would be condemning the surgery.
I find many vanity surgeries sad simply because people are so bombarded with the image of the "perfect body" every where you look that they feel they need to surgically alter themselves to meet that ideal, but it's the cultivation of the perception that's wrong, the person who falls for it is basically the victim.
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mainer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 02:19 PM
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23. Moral of story: stick to local anesthesia if you can
Since I'm now getting to that age when the years are starting to show, I can certainly see why she might have wanted a nip and tuck. Especially when you're in a public job like entertainment, retaining a youthful appearance may be necessary for job success.

There are certain plastic surgery procedures (blepharoplasty, for instance) that have the option of using either general anesthesia or local. While local might be a bit more uncomfortable, at least it's way safer than general!
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Character Assassin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 09:51 PM
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36. You're right. I blame vanity and stupidity.
I find many vanity surgeries sad simply because people are so bombarded with the image of the "perfect body" every where you look that they feel they need to surgically alter themselves to meet that ideal, but it's the cultivation of the perception that's wrong, the person who falls for it is basically the victim.

The 'victim'?!? Get real. The person who falls for it is a sucker.

The person who falls for it and dies of the consequences is a dead sucker.
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kskiska Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 02:10 PM
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22. Berlusconi's had some nips and tucks, too
along with at least 20 other MPs..

The paper quoted the prime minister's doctor, Umberto Scapagnini, as saying the tycoon-turned-statesman had had "a small plastic surgery operation round the eyes".

This would explain the peculiar remark of one of the few people who claimed to have seen him since December 20. Pumped by reporters, eager for any news of the phantom premier, Umberto Bossi, the Northern League's leader, who lunched with him on Monday, said: "I found him particularly taut".

Mr Berlusconi is suspected of having undergone plastic surgery on at least two previous occasions - in 2000 and in 1996, when he claimed to have been bitten by a spider.


more…
http://www.guardian.co.uk/italy/story/0,12576,1124392,00.html
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Demonaut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 02:27 PM
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24. Crap, thought it was Anthrax Coulter
Oh well.
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peekaloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 03:39 PM
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26. she's had her face lifted
from a few crotches but nothing lethal. :evilgrin:
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Piperay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 07:07 PM
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30. Such a shame and
it didn't have to be. :-(
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 07:16 PM
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32. I really loved her books
I admit it.

What a shame to die so young like that. :-(
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 09:43 PM
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35. Logical reasoning prevails
Im 52...I could spend my 15,000 on a trip to Crete and visit the islands, or spend it having my face lifted and look like Katherine Harris..
I think Ill take the trip to Crete..

stand on your head if you want your face to defy gravity!
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Isere Donating Member (920 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-16-04 10:29 PM
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37. Politicians who have had plastic surgery
Since this is a political discussion forum, I think it would be instructive to list the politicos who have had plastic surgery. Should there be truth in labeling?

Here are a few for starters:

Elizabeth Dole (major work on that lady)
Nancy Pelosi (ditto)
Jennifer Dunn (unrecognizable from her former self)
Bob Dole (eye lift)
Arlen Specter (eye lift, I'll bet money on it)
Barbara Boxer (the eyes at the very least)
Dianne Feinstein (eyes probably)

In the emeritus category: Nancy Reagan (egads!)
Betty Ford (major work)


Have I missed anyone?



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