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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 10:57 PM Original message |
Author Iris Chang found dead from self-inflicted gunshot in Los Gatos |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
1. Oh, how sad. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:01 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. It is sad and you're right baout the selfish part |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:48 AM Response to Reply #3 |
34. Like all the 'selfish' diabetics, you mean? |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 10:33 AM Response to Reply #34 |
48. I know, the whole "selfish" thing pisses me off to no end. |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:06 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. She was trying NOT to be selfish. |
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Tesibria (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:08 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. whatever she was tirying |
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juliagoolia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:35 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. Sometimes.............. |
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Tesibria (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:40 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. i hear you ... |
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puddycat (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:18 AM Response to Reply #7 |
26. I hate it when people call suiciders "selfish" |
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RedSock (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 09:06 AM Response to Reply #26 |
47. amen |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 10:37 AM Response to Reply #26 |
49. Of course, while the person is ALIVE and depressed, usually |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:11 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. That may be what she thought, but she was wrong. |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:21 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. Yes. |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:48 PM Response to Reply #8 |
16. illness is selfish? |
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puddycat (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:22 AM Response to Reply #16 |
28. Thank you, Raindog. Thank you. People are so cruel to suiciders! |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 04:05 AM Response to Reply #16 |
36. I did not say that illness is selfish. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 04:23 AM Response to Reply #36 |
37. I'm very sorry for your loss but you need to step back |
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BiggJawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 07:55 AM Response to Reply #36 |
40. "Selfish" is the last thought to enter my head.... |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 08:05 AM Response to Reply #36 |
42. the act is an expression of the illness |
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duhneece (967 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 09:02 AM Response to Reply #36 |
46. Yes, our family has had to deal with the aftermath of suicide |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 10:39 AM Response to Reply #36 |
50. Isn't it just as selfish to think of only how it affects YOU? |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 01:03 PM Response to Reply #50 |
62. Wow. nt |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 01:44 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. I didn't mean that YOU personally did that, but just that as one |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 02:25 PM Response to Reply #65 |
67. I wish that we lived in a world where everyone got the help they need |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 02:35 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. Thank you - I totally agree with you and it seems as though all |
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Media_Lies_Daily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:06 AM Response to Reply #8 |
22. And how are YOU helping the situation with your interpretation.... |
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Madame X (46 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:32 AM Response to Reply #8 |
30. It is ludicrous to categorize Mental Illness as "selfish" |
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Mizmoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 10:39 AM Response to Reply #30 |
51. Consider this |
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demokatgurrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 07:56 AM Response to Reply #8 |
41. I agree- the person who committed suicide ends their |
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Trillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:15 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. This was a "self-less" act, not a selfish one. |
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Dem2theMax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 07:45 AM Response to Reply #1 |
38. Oh boy. You opened a can of worms and I'm not going to let it pass.. |
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zanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 08:15 AM Response to Reply #38 |
44. I had tears in my eyes reading your post |
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brook (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 08:26 AM Response to Reply #38 |
45. You have... |
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DoveTurnedHawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 10:43 AM Response to Reply #38 |
52. Amen |
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jjanpundt (284 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 10:43 AM Response to Reply #38 |
53. Thank you for your post. I can't begin to imagine what |
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seemunkee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 11:21 AM Response to Reply #38 |
57. Well said |
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Coventina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 01:43 PM Response to Reply #38 |
64. Thank you for your courage |
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kayell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 01:49 PM Response to Reply #38 |
66. Thank you for that excellent post. Perhaps it will help others see |
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K8-EEE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 03:38 PM Response to Reply #38 |
72. Kick Dem2theMax -- Thank You For This Insightful Post |
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zanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 08:09 AM Response to Reply #1 |
43. Depression can be unbearable. |
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IStriker (408 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 10:46 PM Response to Reply #43 |
74. Unbearably depressed |
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Lindsay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
2. Damn. |
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glitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:04 PM Response to Original message |
4. Sounds like untreated severe post partum depression - very dangerous. |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:06 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. You might be right ... post-partum. |
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IndianaGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:51 PM Response to Reply #4 |
17. You are right, it sure sounds like post-partum depression |
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tibbir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
9. People who chose suicide do so because at that time |
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Blaze Diem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:00 AM Response to Reply #9 |
20. I Agree. To Say Suicide is "Selfish" lacks the understanding of being |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:18 AM Response to Reply #20 |
27. This reminds me of an NPR story a year ago that I got a lot of shit for... |
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Dem2theMax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 07:54 AM Response to Reply #20 |
39. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and the top of my |
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ninkasi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 11:09 AM Response to Reply #39 |
55. I hope you can find something |
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Kathy in Cambridge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
10. I read "The Rape of Nanking" |
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MnFats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:59 PM Response to Reply #10 |
19. "Nanking" was an extremely powerful work. |
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RyomaSakamoto (393 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:09 AM Response to Reply #19 |
23. i am wondering if we will ever own up to what we are doing... |
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Media_Lies_Daily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:15 AM Response to Reply #23 |
25. We've got a lot of hidden history to atone for... |
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RyomaSakamoto (393 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:34 AM Response to Reply #25 |
33. our current policy in fallujah reminds me often of NANKING |
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Media_Lies_Daily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:12 AM Response to Reply #19 |
24. I'm surprised that everyone in this thread is buying the "depression"... |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:25 AM Response to Reply #24 |
29. Although it's very unusual for women to shoot themselves, she was... |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 11:09 AM Response to Reply #24 |
56. That thought did run through my head, I will have to admit, |
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medeak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
14. 2 yr old Christopher |
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__Inanna__ (246 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-10-04 11:57 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. depression |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:05 AM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Well-said |
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MnFats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:32 AM Response to Reply #18 |
31. hi! welcome to DU. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
32. (sheesh) That's only 3 miles from where I lived 2 yrs ago. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:01 PM Response to Reply #32 |
59. No kidding - I believe it was right down the road from my house |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:14 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Been there in more ways than one, luv! |
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thedude (34 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:50 AM Response to Original message |
35. small world (scary) |
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sattahipdeep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
54. The official cause of death has not been released. n/t |
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ignatius 2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
58. The rape of Nanking was an incredible book. Perhaps more war and |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 12:46 PM Response to Original message |
61. Updated link |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 01:23 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. It's just so sad... |
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CatholicEug (126 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
68. God bless you, Iris |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
69. Oh how awful! I read "The Rape of Nanking" |
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nikraye (292 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
71. Another Bush Crime Family Casualty? |
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lenidog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-11-04 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
73. I am glad to see someone has posted this |
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