FOR EVERYONE.
Sometimes it fails, it can have bad complications and the weight comes back.Anybody foolish enough to white a book claiming gastric surgery is a cure for obesity for everyone is an stupid asshole who is possibly ruining a few lives with his zeal.
Not everyone is a gastric bypass success story.The procedure has BIG risks,and some may not be prepared for the changes in habits the changes in body so they take up gambling or smoking instead, It is important to QUESTION yourself first ask yourself WHY you eat,and question your emotions ,and preparedness for drastic changes before you undertake a drastic and potentially deadly surgical procedure.
Lets be honest a lot of people are BIGOTS against fat people.You CAN be healthy AND fat,that FACT gets downplayed because of our fat phobic culture.And science has NOT figured out what causes obesity yet. And they Don't how to cure it for everyone.
People always give fat people lots of UNWANTED advice.And shame..Ignorant people repeat stupid simplistic calories in/out myths, but in reality diets FAIL.Yo-Yoing up and down the scale with body weight via diets is far more dangerous than being fat.Educate yourselves look beyond FADS surgeons wanting to sell you up a river and Fitness gurus.
Many common medications people take cause WEIGHT GAIN.
Also,stress contributes , intestinal flora,addiction,metabolic issues,there are LOTS of reasons people gain weight.One size fits all surgical interventions do not always fix the problem.
Part of the obesity problem is people who hate fat ,fear fat or hold onto old medieval beliefs about gluttony as a sin,and the'moral inferiority' of a fat person.That shit needs to STOP and those people need to grow the fuck up and realize bodies are just bodies.WE all will DIE eventually.
And look-ism it is a social sickness that borders on evil as far as I am concerned.
Check out this site and the others,learn something about the risks of bariatric surgery.
http://www.stronghealth.com/services/surgical/bariatric/risks.cfmhttp://www.annecollins.com/health-dangers-of-gastric-bypass-surgery.htmhttp://www.gastricbypassmalpractice.com/gastricbypassmalpracticeinformation.html~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
How many times have you heard: "No, thanks. I'm on a diet."
Fact: 90 percent of all women overestimate their body size.
Fact: By the age of 13, sixty percent of all North American girls have dieted.
Fact: Female children as young as five expressed fears of getting fat.
Read more about how NEUROTIC most "normal" people are over fatness. It's SICK to be so preoccupied with one's weight.
http://www.cnn.com/2003/HEALTH/diet.fitness/10/14/fat.phobia.ap/index.htmlhttp://www.shs.uwo.ca/publications/mindbody/fphobia.htmhttp://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/if/3589269.stmThink on this poem....
What Are Big Girls Made Of?
The construction of a woman:
a woman is not made of flesh
of bone and sinew
belly and breasts, elbows and liver and toe.
She is manufactured like a sports sedan.
She is retooled, refitted and redesigned
every decade.
Cecile had been seduction itself in college.
She wriggled through bars like a satin eel,
her hips and ass promising, her mouth pursed
in the dark red lipstick of desire.
She visited in '68 still wearing skirts
tight to the knees, dark red lipstick,
while I danced through Manhattan in mini skirt,
lipstick pale as apricot milk,
hair loose as a horse's mane. Oh dear,
I thought in my superiority of the moment,
whatever has happened to poor Cecile?
She was out of fashion, out of the game,
disqualified, disdained, dis-
membered from the club of desire.
Look at pictures in French fashion
magazines of the 18th century:
century of the ultimate lady
fantasy wrought of silk and corseting.
Paniers bring her hips out three feet
each way, while the waist is pinched
and the belly flattened under wood.
The breasts are stuffed up and out
offered like apples in a bowl.
The tiny foot is encased in a slipper
never meant for walking.
On top is a grandiose headache:
hair like a museum piece, daily
ornamented with ribbons, vases,
grottoes, mountains, frigates in full
sail, balloons, baboons, the fancy
of a hairdresser turned loose.
The hats were rococo wedding cakes
that would dim the Las Vegas strip.
Here is a woman forced into shape
rigid exoskeleton torturing flesh:
a woman made of pain.
How superior we are now: see the modern woman
thin as a blade of scissors.
She runs on a treadmill every morning,
fits herself into machines of weights
and pulleys to heave and grunt,
an image in her mind she can never
approximate, a body of rosy
glass that never wrinkles,
never grows, never fades. She
sits at the table closing her eyes to food
hungry, always hungry:
a woman made of pain.
A cat or dog approaches another,
they sniff noses. They sniff asses.
They bristle or lick. They fall
in love as often as we do,
as passionately. But they fall
in love or lust with furry flesh,
not hoop skirts or push up bras
rib removal or liposuction.
It is not for male or female dogs
that poodles are clipped
to topiary hedges.
If only we could like each other raw.
If only we could love ourselves
like healthy babies burbling in our arms.
If only we were not programmed and reprogrammed
to need what is sold us.
Why should we want to live inside ads?
Why should we want to scourge our softness
to straight lines like a Mondrian painting?
Why should we punish each other with scorn
as if to have a large ass
were worse than being greedy or mean?
When will women not be compelled
to view their bodies as science projects,
gardens to be weeded,
dogs to be trained?
When will a woman cease
to be made of pain?
Marge Piercy
There is enough abuse and bigotry and look-ism causing pain
in this world already.So scapegoating fat people is just another form of abuse and bigotry.
It's about learning to accept your bodies.Even if everyone around you treats you like shit for not being the "appropriate size".You have to learn to shut out the abusive wagging tongues and love yourself as you are again..
Body Positive explores taking up occupancy inside your own skin, rather than living above the chin until you're thin. It is a set of ideas that may help you find greater well-being in the body you have.
http://www.bodypositive.com/