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Shallah Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-20-10 12:09 AM
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Disciplining to Death ~ No Greater Joy Ministries and Child Abuse
Advocating Biblical chastisement blurs the lines between discipline and beating. No Greater Joy Minister, Michael Pearl suggests using a 1/4 inch plumber’s supply line 10 times, per chastisement, increasing that amount if the child resists the discipline.

http://blogs.alternet.org/vyckie/2010/02/19/disciplining-to-death-no-greater-joy-ministries-and-child-abuse/
or http://nolongerquivering.com/2010/02/19/disciplining-to-death-no-greater-joy-ministries-and-child-abuse/

Friday, February 5, Kevin and Elizabeth Schatz, were charged with beating their 7 year old daughter to death for mispronouncing a word, and torturing her 11 year old sister, who was brought to Sacramento Children’s Hospital in critical condition from kidney failure and other injuries.{1}

In addition to the two girls, who were adopted, the Schatz’s have 6 biological children and another adopted child—all of whom were rarely seen out of doors or playing with other children, report neighbors{2}. Recently, the Butte county DA has reported that the Schatz’s followed the teachings of Michael Pearl, founder of No Greater Joy Ministries.{3}

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Pearl encourages parents to “chastise” (not punish—as if there is some enormous difference!) using a “rod.” He suggests using 1/4 inch plumber’s supply line, to administer the chastisement—which, Pearl maintains, is not a beating. This is exactly what the Schatz’s are being accused of using in beating and torturing their children.

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This tragic story needs to be discussed and brought to light. It is not simply a story of parents who “went too far.” It’s a story about how warped teachings about parent-child relationships, discipline, and authority hurt children and destroy their lives. These teachings must be examined and exposed for what they are: normalized child abuse. I escaped—but will others be so lucky?

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1 http://www.examiner.com/x-8947-LA-Atheism-Examiner~y2010m2d18-Fundamentalists-charged-in-daughters-torture-death

2 http://www.chicoer.com/publicsafety/ci_14364274

3 http://cbs13.com/local/Parents.Accused.Of.2.1504691.html

4 http://www.nogreaterjoy.org/articles/general-view/archive/2001/may/01/in-defense-of-biblical-chastisement-part-1/

5 http://www.khsltv.com/content/localnews/story/DA-Deadly-Child-Abuse-Case-Linked-To-Biblical/v9e-rmj-dk6t5b2Dx8U_gA.cspx


The Pearl's website: http://www.nogreaterjoy.org

More on this case:

Deadly Child Abuse Case Linked To "Biblical Chastisement" (1 child dead, 2nd in critical condition)
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=389&topic_id=7730369&mesg_id=7730369

2006 Salon article:
Spare the quarter-inch plumbing supply line, spoil the child
Saying no to "timeouts," some fundamentalist Christians "train up" their children by carefully hitting them with switches, PVC pipes and other "chastening instruments."
http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2006/05/25/the_pearls/index.html

"If you want a child who will integrate into the New World Order and wait his turn in line for condoms, a government funded abortion, sexually transmitted disease treatment, psychological evaluation and a mark on the forehead," writes Pearl in "To Train Up a Child," "then follow the popular guidelines in education, entertainment and discipline, but if you want a son or daughter of God, you will have to do it God's way."

Michael Pearl's rural church is tiny, and his home base so remote that, with no broadband access, Internet connections require a satellite hookup, says their business manager, Mel Cohen. Still, the Pearls' 18-employee nonprofit company, No Greater Joy ministries, is big business. According to Cohen, much of the ministries' $1.5 million annual earnings go right back out the door via product donations as well as financial support for missionaries in nine countries. The Pearls have sold or donated -- to churches, military families and community groups -- more than 1,000,000 copies of their books, CDs, DVDs and other materials related to the Christian family. Their bimonthly newsletter has 74,000 subscribers, a number that's growing each month. "To Train Up a Child," in particular, is frequently sold or passed around via church groups and home-schooling conferences.

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"Select your instrument according to the child's size," writes Pearl. "For the under one year old, a little, ten to twelve-inch long, willowy branch (stripped of any knots that might break the skin) about one-eighth inch diameter is sufficient. Sometimes alternatives have to be sought. A one-foot ruler, or its equivalent in a paddle, is a sufficient alternative. For the larger child, a belt or larger tree branch is effective." Additional advice from their Web site: Switching with a length of quarter-inch plumbing supply line is a "real attention-getter."

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Yet again, in a sense, so is the switch. "The parent holds in his hand (in the form of a little switch) the power to absolve the child of guilt, cleanse his soul, instruct his spirit, strengthen his resolve, and give him a fresh start through a confidence that all indebtedness is paid..." writes Pearl. "After a short explanation about bad attitudes and the need to love, patiently and calmly apply the rod to his back-side. Somehow, after eight or ten licks, the poison is transformed into gushing love and contentment. The world becomes a beautiful place. A brand new child emerges. It makes an adult stare at the rod in wonder, trying to see what magic is contained therein."

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Does Anast {{daughter of Michael & Debi Pearl}} "train" her own three kids? Yes, though "98 percent of the time" she and her husband rely on the more "creative" penalties she remembers from her childhood. If they do spank, they use a "tiny little switch the size of a chopstick," she says. "It's a little swat on the back of the hand that says, 'Don't touch that,' ora swat on the back of the calf that says, 'Stop crying, buck up, be a happy girl.' It never breaks the skin or leaves a mark. It's not like 'going out to the barn for a beating.'"
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kimmylavin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-20-10 05:41 AM
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1. Horrible.
And quite telling that they're so careful about breaking the skin or leaving a mark.

I was hit as a kid.
Brushes, shoes, wooden spoons, spankings.
And I don't remember a single lesson learned from those spankings except maybe to be afraid of my parents, or to try using hitting with kids who bullied me at school.

When they stopped hitting, and started meting out punishments that made sense... those I remember, to this day.

Those poor children.
This is just horrible.
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bread_and_roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-20-10 08:39 AM
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2. The nuclear family strikes again (n/t)
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-23-10 02:01 PM
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3. "a swat on the back of the calf that says, 'Stop crying, buck up, be a happy girl.'''
Whipping a child to make them stop crying??? Some seriously twisted thinking there. The proper response to a crying child is to comfort them, not whip them.
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johnroshan Donating Member (333 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-23-10 03:11 PM
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4. WTF
This is fucked up in so many ways. How can a parent be so blind as to beat a child to death?! I'm from India. So you can imagine I was beaten up many times when I was young by my parents(mom. Dad never touched me in anger.)I don't know about others but I wasn't scarred for life or anything. Its a cultural thing. Sometimes a quick slap on the arm is more effective than a time out. It was to make sure that she had my attention to what she had to say next, Never to inflict pain or to break my spirit! I was a real brat often putting myself in harm's way. What I don't understand is how could the parent's not notice that the child is crying in pain?!

and WTF is up with beating up a child because she was crying!! how dumb could people get?!
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