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who lost her mother last summer to bladder cancer.
her children at 5 years old was lecturing me on smoking and making snide remarks to me as she stood their proudly, cause she taught her children to hate smoking so. actually what she taught was to hate the smoker. i made clear to children that they dont talk to adults that way unacceptable but they still continually tell my children how i am going to die, regularly
after all there grandmother died this summer, and she use to smoke
sittin with my friend thru the death of her mother, being there for her thru out the experience, significant in her life as she cared for her, after a few months later in talk of it and how she was doing saying the smoking killed her. when did she smoke i say, when she was 40 she quit. what makes you think the cancer is from smoking. it is i know it is. ok, bottomline this woman was 87 year old and had such lite in her eyes, and beauty and joy in the world. geez girl if i live to 87 year old and died in grace as this woman did, with you there caring for her and all her family i think i would be doing pretty darn good
there has to be a healthy balance. we dont want our children to become drug addicts, nor pick up cig, nor become obsese, nor an alcoholic
but i have kids in my boys school praying for me cause i am going to die. tomorrow. they have been so placed in fear, they think a couple puffs of a cig and they are dead
abstinence or you are going to get aids and die
never drink or you are going to be an alcoholic, it is a disease
puff of joint and your life will end, die or needle in arm and never have a life again
just really conditioning thru out society
i am not so fearful in live, nor so judgement in life. btw, i like this firend of yours. we are retarding our children. sitting them up to see if you dont carefully follow all the lines in life we are directed, it results in death.
anyway, not my issue, we embrace the drunk and the tea tottler in morality equally in this house. we embrace our flaws just as we honor our gifts, and we thank for all
but from an old smoker to a young smoker. it is so very hard to quit, and there is so much judgement in our society to a smoker, such an ugliness to, and it is so hard to quit. i hate every single thing in smoking.......so to your friend. i hope she puts that one habit down, lol lol
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