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Edited on Tue Apr-13-04 02:57 AM by Ladyhawk
I don't believe in karma. I'm one of those people who believe that the world is pretty much a cosmic accident and things happen because they happen...roll the bones.
Still, your idea to be supportive of this woman seems like a good idea. We have a lot in common. We both have parrots. We're both freethinkers. We are both progressives. We both love music. We've both suffered from serious Depression.
I've attempted suicide a few times. The first two times were half-assed cries for help. The last one was serious. She found out about one of the attempts and said, "If you're going to kill yourself, then don't make friends." I took her seriously. I really couldn't (and can't) guarantee that I'll never make that choice. I've gone through horrible suffering for seventeen years with severe, treatment-resistant Depression, OCD, PTSD and borderline tendancies. After being bed-ridden for three years, I gained a lot of weight and developed diabetes and sleep apnea. I underwent shock treatments, got better for awhile, then started going downhill when my body threw me another curve ball: degenerative disc disease and two painful herniated discs in my neck.
This woman has attempted suicide as well. She was seriously Depressed for most of her life, then suddenly got a reprieve when she hit menopause. She really doesn't know why. The blunt way she treated me made me back off. I really don't want to hurt anyone, but my own agony demands that I keep my options open.
I kept on good terms with her, but stopped calling and stopped e-mailing until just recently. I don't want to get hurt; I don't want to hurt her.
OK, I'll shut up now. I just felt like venting.
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