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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:05 PM Original message |
"Hot Saucing". Child abuse or effective discipline. |
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davidinalameda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:07 PM Response to Original message |
1. abuse |
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goddess40 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:07 PM Response to Original message |
2. abuse or really bad parenting? |
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right is wrong (67 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:07 PM Response to Original message |
3. You need to ask? NT |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
4. Unacceptable in my professional |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:26 PM Response to Reply #4 |
23. "Son! What brought you to this?!" (sob) |
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Bigmack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:00 PM Response to Reply #23 |
72. If people don't know the wonderful... |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:41 PM Response to Reply #72 |
86. I don't know about hollow, Bigmack, but definitely deprived! |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 09:44 PM Response to Reply #23 |
97. Ohhhhh, Fudge...nt |
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Mike Daniels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 10:51 AM Response to Reply #23 |
273. I told you not to use Lifebuoy (sob, sob) |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:51 PM Response to Reply #4 |
88. I bet soap is way worse for you. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:55 PM Response to Reply #88 |
89. This is done to inflict pain. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:43 PM Response to Reply #89 |
104. I do get it. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:01 PM Response to Reply #89 |
116. Give me a break! |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:04 PM Response to Reply #116 |
117. You give me a break. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:11 PM Response to Reply #117 |
121. Actually, soap in the mouth is just as bad |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:14 PM Response to Reply #117 |
124. Oh Please!!!!! |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:23 PM Response to Reply #124 |
130. Dont let facts and logic get in the way of some good cliches. huh? |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:12 AM Response to Reply #130 |
182. FACT HOT SAUCE = FOOD GROUP |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:27 AM Response to Reply #182 |
201. What on earth are you talking about. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:36 AM Response to Reply #201 |
207. So putting a food in your mouth that you may or may not find hot |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:39 AM Response to Reply #207 |
210. They're not putting into their own mouths. Its being forced into |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:43 AM Response to Reply #210 |
213. Putting a DROP of food on thier tongue when they don't want you to |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:46 AM Response to Reply #213 |
218. If they dont like the painful sensation it gives them, then its not food. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:46 AM Response to Reply #213 |
219. Wow you are really confused. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:49 AM Response to Reply #219 |
223. Right |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:55 AM Response to Reply #223 |
230. But my GOD man! The pain! The burning, searing PAIN!!! |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:59 AM Response to Reply #230 |
233. Yawn. Do you have anything rational to say, |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:08 AM Response to Reply #233 |
241. Not special status, that is precisely the point! |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:22 AM Response to Reply #241 |
248. You are the one arguing special status, not I. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:29 AM Response to Reply #248 |
251. Again, you use breaking laws with a drop of pepper sauce |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:32 AM Response to Reply #251 |
254. What about putting a small amount of peanut oil in a childs mouth |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:34 AM Response to Reply #251 |
255. You missed my point. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:56 AM Response to Reply #223 |
231. It doesnt matter whether you equate the two, |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:55 AM Response to Reply #219 |
229. BUT PUTTING BURNING SUBSTANCES IN THEIR MOUTHS |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:10 AM Response to Reply #229 |
242. Where is the mighty Pithlet when we need him most? |
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Scairp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:15 AM Response to Reply #213 |
245. If the design is to cause discomfort or pain |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:42 AM Response to Reply #207 |
212. You still dont seem to understand the facts of the situation. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:45 AM Response to Reply #212 |
216. Do people "pepper spray" their FOOD? |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:48 AM Response to Reply #216 |
221. In a sense they do. What is your obsession with this food thing? |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:58 AM Response to Reply #221 |
232. Your trying to equate real abuse with a drop of food that so happens |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:02 AM Response to Reply #232 |
234. Why do you insist on ignoring the facts. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:17 AM Response to Reply #234 |
246. Hot sauce is a FOOD |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:29 AM Response to Reply #246 |
250. So are peanuts, but peanut allergies can kill some people. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:35 AM Response to Reply #250 |
258. alcohol is sold by law to 18 - 21yr olds |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:37 AM Response to Reply #258 |
261. If its done enough times to traumatize a child, yes. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:39 AM Response to Reply #258 |
262. Stop lying about the facts. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:47 AM Response to Reply #262 |
264. You are just making a mountion out of a mole hill |
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phylny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 02:53 PM Response to Reply #264 |
287. In the bible, |
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AgadorSparticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:20 PM Response to Reply #262 |
277. i have to disagree with this. not all hot sauces are hot to some people. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:30 AM Response to Reply #246 |
253. Now you have totally lost touch. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:48 AM Response to Reply #216 |
222. Only if they feel threatened. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:50 AM Response to Reply #222 |
224. Liver does it for me |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:11 AM Response to Reply #124 |
181. SCREAM LOCK IS FUN! |
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Randers (252 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:06 PM Response to Reply #116 |
282. Ground pepper is a "food" also |
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Zing Zing Zingbah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:37 PM Response to Reply #116 |
283. I tend to agree with you. |
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rman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-04 01:11 AM Response to Reply #116 |
296. Right... a spoon full of ice cream will teach 'm, won't it? |
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Spinzonner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
5. Questionable |
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burythehatchet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:09 PM Response to Original message |
6. A great example of "creative parenting" |
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zbdent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:50 PM Response to Reply #6 |
37. Ah ha! So now we know where GWB got the "Weapons of |
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Eric J in MN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
7. abuse (nt) |
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Kanary (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
8. I'm watching a program about "techniques" done to Indians |
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Broadslidin (949 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:41 PM Response to Reply #8 |
34. The Source of the Problem May Be the Miscreant...........! |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:44 PM Response to Reply #8 |
36. Oh my Kanary! |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:58 PM Response to Reply #36 |
42. And meanwhile parents in essence burn thier childrens mouths |
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Kanary (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:16 PM Response to Reply #36 |
53. This video goes even further........ |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
9. It would certainly be ineffective in my house! |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 09:01 PM Response to Reply #9 |
91. exactly |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
10. I got the bar of soap in the mouth... |
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depakid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:32 PM Response to Reply #10 |
30. Got the same treatment |
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951 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
11. Making your kid lick a 9Volt battery abuse or not abuse? |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:04 PM Response to Reply #11 |
46. I used to do that for kicks! |
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bemildred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
12. Tsk, we do have communication problems, don't we? |
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Dogmudgeon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
13. Ilsa Whelchel strikes again |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:28 PM Response to Reply #13 |
25. PS. My 6 year old might like the "hot sauce" treatment. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:21 AM Original message |
Precisely!! I know of many children that think of hot sauce |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:24 AM Response to Original message |
198. Then it wouldnt be effective anyway, if they liked hot sauce. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:32 AM Response to Reply #198 |
205. The point is calling the using of HOT SAUCE as a matter |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:37 AM Response to Reply #205 |
208. Some people get pleasure out of being whipped. Trust me, some do. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:47 AM Response to Reply #208 |
220. I was going to use a qualifier on that one, but I decided against it |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:08 AM Response to Reply #220 |
239. LOL! |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 10:32 AM Response to Reply #13 |
270. "pain from my hand of love" |
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Ripley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
14. My parents did a version of that to my sister. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
15. A co-worker and I watched a news program on this. She is a repug |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:25 AM Response to Reply #15 |
199. I somehow don't think that made her views what they are today |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:30 AM Response to Reply #199 |
203. Is that friend as angry, bigoted, or retributive? <is that a word?> |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:23 AM Response to Reply #203 |
249. No, |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:29 AM Response to Reply #249 |
252. Thats sad. |
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rman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 10:49 AM Response to Reply #15 |
272. free speech; |
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Emboldened Chimp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
16. Abuse? Are you kidding? |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:24 PM Response to Original message |
17. Black pepper on the tongue used to be a punishment dished out in my |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
18. alternative |
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kskiska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
19. I'd never even heard of such a thing until recently |
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librechik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
20. Punishment doesn't even work to train an animal |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
21. I don't know whether it crosses the "abuse" line... |
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kokomo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
22. Lisa Whelchel says Tabasco on her kids' tongues is a "Fact of Life!" |
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Must_B_Free (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:36 PM Response to Reply #22 |
84. I'd put my Texas Pete on her tongue any day... |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 10:46 AM Response to Reply #22 |
271. Oh GAG... that is just putrid! |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
24. Abuse. |
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Democracy Died 2004 (366 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
26. OUCH! |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:03 PM Response to Reply #26 |
45. LOL |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:30 PM Response to Original message |
27. Abuse. Pain is not a valid tool for teaching children. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
28. Abuse. Pathetic abuse at that. |
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napi21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
29. My DIL uses this technique on my 2 grandchildren. I don't see anything |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:36 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. It seems to work now. But what about in 5-10 years? |
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napi21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:42 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. You're assuming this is the only training they get. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:52 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. And inflicting pain is never a valid punishment. |
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napi21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:56 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. Then tell me what methods you use to teach your kids to obey |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:02 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. lol, I would never try to teach anyone to obey authority. |
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Ripley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:11 PM Response to Reply #44 |
52. That's absurd. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:09 PM Response to Reply #52 |
120. Correct, that is a misstatement. |
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Zing Zing Zingbah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 02:22 PM Response to Reply #44 |
285. You do need to teach a child to respect authority, |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 02:41 PM Response to Reply #285 |
286. Many kids reject authority after being subjected to physical abuse. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:50 PM Response to Reply #29 |
38. It is well documented that abuse is not only morally repugnant, it is also |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:56 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. Agreed. |
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Spiffarino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 09:02 PM Response to Reply #38 |
92. I second that |
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Kanary (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:18 PM Response to Reply #29 |
55. Of course it "works"! All abuse usually does...... |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:22 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. It is ineffective and causes massive collateral damage. |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
32. Don't Know About Abuse, But I'd Say It's Counterproductive |
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bwphoto (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
33. Did Bush get 'Hot Sauced?' nt |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
43. Acceptable. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:07 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. What a dumb statement! |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:08 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. Yah, if it doesnt put them in risk of death it isnt abuse! |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:09 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Okay |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:11 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Its amazing how widespread the idea is that hurting is inherently ok. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:17 PM Response to Reply #49 |
54. You guys are getting hysterical over nothing. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:21 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. Why are you apologizing for abuse? |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:48 PM Response to Reply #56 |
87. I'm not. The QUESTION was whether we believed it was abuse. I don't. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:14 PM Response to Reply #87 |
125. Rephrased: Why do you defend parents using pain to teach thier children. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:48 PM Response to Reply #125 |
152. LIFE is pain. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:49 PM Response to Reply #152 |
155. Bottom line: it's none of our business. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:53 PM Response to Reply #155 |
161. The same argument used to defend child abuse for centuries. EOM |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:57 PM Response to Reply #161 |
167. Hot saucing is not abuse. Therefore, your comment is meaningless. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:02 AM Response to Reply #167 |
173. Niether was beating a child at one point. So it had plenty of meaning. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:52 PM Response to Reply #152 |
159. good work, present no evidence, just use a useless folkism |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:57 PM Response to Reply #125 |
166. Let me ask YOU a question: Do you think Hot Saucing should be illegal? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:59 PM Response to Reply #166 |
169. If taking a child away from a parent for being Gay is legal. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:03 AM Response to Reply #169 |
174. Wow. That's quite the qualifier. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:08 AM Response to Reply #174 |
179. Hot sauce now, but if that doesnt work, then what? |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:13 AM Response to Reply #179 |
185. What do you do if a "time out" doesn't work? |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:16 AM Response to Reply #185 |
188. Then you havent inflicted pain on your child for nothing. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:19 AM Response to Reply #188 |
190. What "risk" are you talking about, exactly? |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:21 AM Response to Reply #190 |
191. Using pain as a teaching tool produces side effects. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:23 AM Response to Reply #191 |
196. It's SUPPOSED to trigger a negative response and avoidance behavior! |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:32 AM Response to Reply #196 |
204. I assume you misunderstand. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:21 AM Response to Reply #185 |
192. I'd try another non-pain inflicting method. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:24 AM Response to Reply #192 |
197. Pretty much 100% of my friends were raised with corporal punishment. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:33 AM Response to Reply #197 |
206. Once again you introduce a very low bar. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:39 AM Response to Reply #206 |
211. ONE DROP! ONE DROP! ONE DROP! |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:45 AM Response to Reply #211 |
215. So punching a kid is OK as long as you dont do it too hard? |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:52 AM Response to Reply #215 |
225. Yeah. Hotsaucing is like punching or shooting your kid. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:05 AM Response to Reply #225 |
236. Snide alert! Snide alert! |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:07 AM Response to Reply #236 |
238. Right back atcha, Pancho. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:05 AM Response to Reply #225 |
237. I will try and make it simple for you. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:08 AM Response to Reply #237 |
240. Define "punch." |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:37 AM Response to Reply #240 |
260. www.dictionary.com |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:01 AM Response to Reply #166 |
171. I think it would be an invasion of privacy to make it illegal. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:05 AM Response to Reply #171 |
176. All discipline involves a certain amount of "pain". |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:37 AM Response to Reply #176 |
209. That just isnt true. |
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Ripley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:27 PM Response to Reply #54 |
60. New guy... |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:35 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. I'm anti-spanking |
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Ripley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:53 PM Response to Reply #62 |
71. Effective parenting is never going to be precise. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:13 PM Response to Reply #71 |
75. That's true |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:13 PM Response to Reply #71 |
76. Dupe |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:13 PM Response to Reply #71 |
77. Dupe |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 09:09 PM Response to Reply #62 |
93. I don't think a spank is abuse per se |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:33 PM Response to Reply #54 |
61. This wasn't a dupe |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 11:17 AM Response to Reply #49 |
274. This whole thread is putting me on a guilt trip |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:11 PM Response to Original message |
51. Sadism around the house |
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slor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
58. I only wish my Mom would have done that... |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:27 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Just bring your plate of wings up to mom and start cursin! EOM |
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Ksec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
63. sure beats soap |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:39 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. I think soap is far mor humane. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:42 PM Response to Reply #65 |
67. Dupe |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 11:39 AM Response to Reply #65 |
275. No, it isn't |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
64. That's abuse in my book, maybe even torture. |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
66. It's no different than using soap. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:43 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. How is punishing by bad taste the same as punishing with pain? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:19 PM Response to Reply #68 |
78. Its not just "bad taste". Its burning PAIN. |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:22 PM Response to Reply #78 |
101. It's just hot sauce. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:36 PM Response to Reply #101 |
102. How about not inflicting pain at all? |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:16 PM Response to Reply #102 |
126. Hot sauce isn't nearly as much pain as what I got. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:27 PM Response to Reply #126 |
131. "Hot sauce will stop a kid" edited |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:34 PM Response to Reply #131 |
138. There's no pain from hot sauce. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:29 PM Response to Reply #126 |
132. Are you seriously arguing that kids are lucky they dont get abused more? |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:33 PM Response to Reply #132 |
137. Bwahaha... |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:37 PM Response to Reply #137 |
141. Im sorry that you know nothing about hot sauce. |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:41 PM Response to Reply #141 |
145. Ok... |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:50 PM Response to Reply #145 |
157. Why are you desperately trying to minimize the pain? |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:10 AM Response to Reply #157 |
180. FOR FRICK'S SAKE!!! IT'S A DROP OF FRICKIN' HOT SAUCE!!!!!! |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:13 AM Response to Reply #157 |
184. YEAH! WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU? |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:17 AM Response to Reply #184 |
189. He isn't making an argument. He's spouting righteous indignation. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:22 AM Response to Reply #189 |
194. Why do you feel the need to smear me? |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:46 AM Response to Reply #194 |
217. I'm not smearing you. I'm describing your behavior. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:53 AM Response to Reply #217 |
227. Im sorry for making true statements that you dont like. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:03 AM Response to Reply #227 |
235. I'll try to explain. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:12 AM Response to Reply #235 |
243. Oh, so that was just a fun hot sauce factoid, not relating to this thread |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:13 AM Response to Reply #243 |
244. I did not make any such argument. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:27 AM Response to Reply #189 |
200. Who, me? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:29 PM Response to Reply #126 |
133. "If I can put up with a little hot sauce (I'm a 22 year old male), then a |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:31 PM Response to Reply #133 |
134. I hate hot sauce. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:34 PM Response to Reply #134 |
139. Actually, parents dont have the right to hurt thier children. |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:36 PM Response to Reply #139 |
140. Again, there's no one getting hurt from hot sauce. |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:38 PM Response to Reply #140 |
143. That is absolutely false. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:41 PM Response to Reply #140 |
144. A burning tongue and mouth that causes them to cry and their eyes to water |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:42 PM Response to Reply #144 |
147. See... |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:45 PM Response to Reply #147 |
149. A drop to them is like a teaspoon full to an adult like you. |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:48 PM Response to Reply #149 |
153. Now... |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:52 PM Response to Reply #153 |
160. I hope that you dont have kids? I'd hate to be one of them. |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:54 PM Response to Reply #160 |
163. It's too bad that you have to judge me on this one issue. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:55 PM Response to Reply #163 |
164. Maybe they dont know this side of you? |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:58 PM Response to Reply #164 |
168. I don't have "sides". |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:01 AM Response to Reply #168 |
170. BTW I love your avatar. |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:04 AM Response to Reply #170 |
175. You gotta remember... |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:12 AM Response to Reply #175 |
183. And the ghosts of my past, being physically abused by a parent |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:19 AM Response to Reply #183 |
247. You're the one who started this thread, right? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:35 AM Response to Reply #247 |
259. I didnt start it to amuse myself. I'm looking for opinions, and to express |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:56 PM Response to Reply #163 |
165. I suggest you go to a store and get the hottest sauce you can find. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:43 PM Response to Reply #140 |
148. Hot sauce is painful |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:47 PM Response to Reply #148 |
151. See... |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:48 PM Response to Reply #151 |
154. See post 149 |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:01 AM Response to Reply #151 |
172. One drop is enough. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
69. We grew up with the old ginger on the tongue trick, and I survived. |
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Massacure (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 07:53 PM Response to Original message |
70. Hot sauce is meant to be eaten, how come you cant put it on their tounge? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:20 PM Response to Reply #70 |
79. A child's taste buds arent the same as an adult's, who use hot sauce |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:22 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. Hell, I'm and adult |
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K-W (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:32 PM Response to Reply #70 |
135. Actually, the pepper makes those chemicals as a defense, |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:04 PM Response to Original message |
73. Twisted Story about how this kind of punishment can backfire |
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ogsball (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
74. I think a shock coller works better. |
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Dogmudgeon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 09:40 PM Response to Reply #74 |
95. It's already been done |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:09 PM Response to Reply #95 |
119. The question is |
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David Zephyr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:22 PM Response to Original message |
80. It's Abuse. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
82. As far as abuse goes, it's on the milder side, but it's still abuse (m) |
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kittynboi (71 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
83. Just........bizzare. |
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Kanary (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
85. Sounds to me like something that comes out of Focus On The Family |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
90. Abuse. No question. n/t |
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brook (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
94. It's abuse. |
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BigMcLargehuge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 09:42 PM Response to Original message |
96. it developed a taste for hot sauce |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:45 PM Response to Reply #96 |
107. See, now a TABLESPOON is totally overdoing it. |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 09:46 PM Response to Original message |
98. If we did it to inmates/POW's |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
99. Acceptable |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:00 PM Response to Reply #99 |
100. And do you NOT use cuss words? |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:41 PM Response to Reply #100 |
103. Not in front of my parents... |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:43 PM Response to Reply #103 |
105. But you still cussed? So the pain taught you to put up a front only |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:46 PM Response to Reply #105 |
108. It makes a lot of sense. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:47 PM Response to Reply #108 |
109. So it didnt really teach you not to cuss or respect your parents, |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:08 AM Response to Reply #109 |
178. By what logic do you come to that conclusion? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:15 AM Response to Reply #178 |
186. I did. |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:44 AM Response to Reply #105 |
214. It made me realize |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:52 AM Response to Reply #214 |
226. And do you feel that was the ONLY way to to make you realize that? |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:44 AM Response to Reply #226 |
263. For god's sake... |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 10:06 AM Response to Reply #105 |
266. I still cuss, cussing is an accepted part of our culture... |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:43 PM Response to Reply #266 |
279. Does discipline HAVE TO include physical pain? |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:47 PM Response to Reply #279 |
280. Discomfort for some is the only effective discipline |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
106. Wassabi works way better. |
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fujiyama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:22 AM Response to Reply #106 |
195. That stuff'll |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 11:56 AM Response to Reply #106 |
276. I love wassabi |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
110. imho absolultely not abuse. not even close, though |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:56 PM Response to Reply #110 |
112. It isn't shocking |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:07 PM Response to Reply #112 |
118. Give me a break! |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:14 PM Response to Reply #118 |
123. I'm going to sue you |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:33 PM Response to Reply #118 |
136. But if its forced upon them as a punishment... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 10:12 AM Response to Reply #136 |
268. then its not a food., ..........an unloaded gun is loaded |
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Maleficus (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:17 PM Response to Reply #110 |
127. I couldn't agree with you more. |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
111. Effective Child Abuse |
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Gregorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:57 PM Response to Original message |
113. I was hot sauced! |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
114. My parents both worked to support their 9 children . . . |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
115. All the kids I know love Tabasco |
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SemiCharmedQuark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
122. My mom and grandma would use chile on me when I would bite |
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SammyWinstonJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
128. Abuse |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:21 PM Response to Original message |
129. Abuse. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:38 PM Response to Original message |
142. Only if it's habanero |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:45 PM Response to Reply #142 |
150. This thread served to remind me |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:51 PM Response to Reply #150 |
158. The shit people come up with to compensate for their own poor |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:54 PM Response to Reply #158 |
162. I heard about that case in Idaho |
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put out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:27 AM Response to Reply #150 |
202. But I thought of something new for "discipline"! |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:48 AM Response to Reply #202 |
265. That works! |
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JackDragna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
146. Not abusive. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-04 11:50 PM Response to Original message |
156. My parents made me eat a cigarette when they caught me smoking |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
177. My mom used to do that to us when we were kids. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
187. Hot Sauce clears my sinus congestion! |
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fujiyama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:21 AM Response to Original message |
193. This doesn't sound very effective |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:53 AM Response to Original message |
228. sure wouldn't have worked for me |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
256. Locking. |
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Artemis Bunyon (435 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:34 AM Response to Reply #256 |
257. Good! |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
267. I don't know-it doesn't harm the kid, but it does seem to be extreme |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 10:21 AM Response to Original message |
269. Hot saucing as discipline |
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itcfish1 (204 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
278. Guilty |
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Geek_Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 12:51 PM Response to Original message |
281. Probably Better options for discipline |
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Redleg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
284. Abuse. |
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ObaMania (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
288. Depends... |
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Roy Robertson (58 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
289. My mother made me eat Brussels Sprouts!!! |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 10:53 PM Response to Reply #289 |
291. LOL - thank you for this perspective! |
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Roy Robertson (58 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-04 12:41 AM Response to Reply #291 |
292. Thanks for the kind welcome... |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-04 09:06 AM Response to Reply #292 |
298. Actually, I love brussel sprouts, my food of torture, if you will |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-04 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
290. Wow, this is more vitriolic than the Woody Allen thread! |
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Roy Robertson (58 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-04 12:48 AM Response to Reply #290 |
294. Vitriol is in the eye of the beholder... |
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mark414 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-04 12:44 AM Response to Original message |
293. abuse? christ people. |
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Roy Robertson (58 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-04 01:22 AM Response to Reply #293 |
297. Hi Mark... |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-04 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
295. You just know some fundie whackjob does a variant on this for masturbation |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-04 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
299. Parents could learn more from dolphin trainers than a washed up talentless |
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