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Lot of QUESTIONS! Here's my take.
Are most people here middle class? Me: OF COURSE! Most poor people can't afford computers! And those of us who are using them DURING THE DAY, DURING OUR JOBS, are definitely not impoverished. Now, some may be working-class. But I don't think anyone here is poor, has always been poor and will always be poor.
For those of you who are, what do you think about poor people? LOTS of things. First, I think they are human beings just like I am. Two, I think there are good ones and bad ones, just like any other class. Three, I think THE MAJORITY ARE GOOD!!!! Just like any other class. In some cases, I think many of them are BETTER than many of us. Because some poor people are a lot more charitable with the little they have than we would ever be. However, I think that many of them have a completely different set of values and priorities, those predicated on a level of survival that many middle-class folks have never lived and will never understand. You can't put your milk money in the bank. You just can't. You have to buy milk. If you can't make ends meet with the salary you have, you CANNOT save. Not all poor people are frivolous. Way too many of the solutions proposed by the non-poor make no sense to the poor. So, in a nutshell, I think the poor are human, just as I am, but many have values and priorities that I don't understand because I'm not where they are. I know that sometimes, in my naivete, I have a hard time respecting that, and sometimes, I'm pathetically judgemental. But by and large, I know that they are a product of their environments, as I am of mine, and that breaking out of a mold isn't trivial for anyone.
Okay, next question...
Do you think that all of their problems about being poor are about being oppressed by the rich part of society, or do you think that they could do more to solve their own problems?
It's a combination. It's like the iron-shackled baby elephant who can be held by a rope by the time she's a year old, because she was conditioned for an entire year to think that she could never escape. It's hard to escape home-training. If home training doesn't teach hope and opportunism, it's not likely you'll learn it elsewhere unless you're truly lucky. Poor folks often solve their problems in their own ways. For example, lots of poor folk have MANY children. We see that as a problem - they see it as INSURANCE. ONE of those kids will hopefully make good, and help the family. Poor folks often live in extended families. Is it because they can't afford a retirement community? NAH! It's because they WANT to be together! Not to mention, it's a much more affordable solution to day care if grandma can help with the kids! Now, let's be real about "oppression". It IS a problem. Oppression includes not maintaining property because the tenants are poor, and exposing them to health hazards. Oppression is building housing projects or low income housing next to power lines, train-tracks, sewage treatment centers, nuclear plants, and chemical dumping sites. Oppression is underfunding the school system, even though the kids have greater needs! Oppression is the unbroken cycle of "you can't have a job if you have no experience"... when you'll give a job to #1 A-hole George W. Bush because he's daddy's son. Oppression is jailing kids and young adults who sell drugs, but rarely if ever stopping the actual flow of drugs, and doing next to nothing to keep people off of drugs. Now, this is not to say that poor people wouldn't be doing themselves a HUGE favor by having fewer OOW children, staying away from drugs, staying in school, not getting used to hand-outs and forgetting how to take pride in their own achievements, starting their own businesses out of their homes and gradually amassing capital... and not killing each other over stupid sh*t. So yes, poor people can do more, but there's a lot more we could be doing for poor folk if we really wanted to level the playing field. The REALITY is, in a capitalist society, an underclass is required. As long as there are poor, someone will exploit them, and as long as there are people who are happy to get rich through exploitation, there will be people who are poor.
Does anybody think that they’re actually lazy? Some are.
Would anybody here be opposed to the head of a major civil rights/ feminist/ other group being from the working class? It's already happened. Fannie Lou Hamer, the woman who HEADED the black delegation to the 1968 Democratic Convention had an 8th grade education and had grown up tenant farming. That woman makes me proud every day. MLK was doing his damnedest to empower POOR people when he got killed. And many think that it was his decision to turn toward class issues and addressing class issues that got him killed.
Do you all think that just a bunch of worker exploiting crooks? Definitely SOME of them. Just like some poor people are horribly violent repeat offenders. Many generalizations are based on small truths.
Do you think that some or a lot of them can be non-oppressive? OF COURSE! Oprah's rich. I don't think that woman oppresses ANYBODY! Cosby's rich, and he's doing amazing things with his money. Yeah, Bill Gates squeezed out most of his competition, but I applaud his philanthropy. And Sam Walton - he was a GOOD MAN! (His kids are blood sucking thieves, but that's another story.) If you think back, the premise of Wal-mart was truly a store for the people, with AMERICAN products at REASONABLE prices, and EMPLOYEE BENEFITS AND SHAREHOLDING!!!! Hard to remember, but that's how Wal-mart USED TO BE, before Sam Walton died and his kids became greedy little animals determined to milk every dime out of the company.
In theory, we’re all equal. In reality, it’s the middle class running a lot of the progressive movement. Why is that? Believe it or not, because they have MORE time on their hands than the lower classes, and less detachment than the upper classes. The middle class doesn't get a big benefit from oppressing the lower class. Many people from the middle class pulled themselves up from the lower classes, and they haven't forgotten what it was like. Many people in the middle class have relatives in the lower classes, sometimes PARENTS; and even if they pulled themselves up, they may not have enough to bring their parents along with them. But all of that is besides the point.... the middle class is usually the MOST EDUCATED CLASS. Poor people don't have time, and rich people often don't have the perserverance! The middle class is more likely to understand environmental issues. And the middle class is NOT SHELTERED from the whims of the upper class. Middle class folks don't have enough money not to care about: child care, health care, college costs, global warming...
Ooops... one other thing. The middle class DOES have enough money to decide how much they want to bank on faith instead of self. Often, when the poor feel the least empowered, they are the most likely to turn to religion, "the opiate of the masses". And except for the most liberal congregations, religion maintains the status quo. The middle class who DO attend church with a true interest in spiritual salvation (as opposed to a sense of duty or a social comfort zone) often want an activist church. If you look at all of the white ministers who came to march with MLK, most of them were from middle-class congregations. Middle class religious folks tend to balance faith with a certain level of secular personal empowerment. And many middle-class religious folks do believe that faith without works is meaningless. Because they CAN. Poor folks can't sing that mantra because in too many cases they are struggling too hard with their own lives to have the leisure to believe that heaven will be denied to them if they can't find the time to be charitable.
WHEW! That's all the questions... those are my answers...
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