I have a friend but lost contact

My friend is a reservist, I remember the days when he would ask me to help get ready for his physical training test. He was going to be my best man, but the wedding never took place. We lost contact when he moved to New York. I heard from former co-workers he had returned. This was sometime in 2002.

I was wondering if anybody knew how I could find out if he was called up.

I looked at the casualty list and thank God he is not listed. If he is in Iraq, I would like to wish a safe return and sorry I am for having lost contact with him. I also would like to tell him how sorry I am and how I and the other 48% of America tried to deliver Kerry's message, "Help is on the way."