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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:02 AM Original message |
Parents: 4th-Grade Girl To Become Boy |
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mr fry (77 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:05 AM Response to Original message |
1. which bathroom will she use? |
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Duncan Grant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:31 AM Response to Reply #1 |
54. Is that supposed to be a joke or is that a serious inquiry? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:43 AM Response to Reply #1 |
66. Considering that my partner gets thrown out... |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:09 AM Response to Original message |
2. That is the most bizarre story |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:27 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Very tough |
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candle_bright (584 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 11:37 AM Response to Reply #6 |
192. My thoughts exactly |
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Straight Shooter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:20 AM Response to Original message |
3. Nine years old? Is the child's cognitive functioning mature yet? |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 10:08 AM Response to Reply #3 |
202. I know a boy, now age 11, who has said he feels like a girl inside since |
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ConsAreLiars (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:20 AM Response to Original message |
4. A rather common situation - The unusual thing is that the parents |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:23 AM Response to Original message |
5. throw the parents in jail, |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:28 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. But these parents |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:31 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. No! |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:35 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. You're quite wrong |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:41 AM Response to Reply #10 |
14. cool, |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:44 AM Response to Reply #14 |
16. And What Do You Think the Treatment For Gender Dysphoria Is? |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:49 AM Response to Reply #16 |
21. Anti-psychotics, |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:51 AM Response to Reply #21 |
23. For someone who's not psychotic? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:01 AM Response to Reply #23 |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:03 AM Response to Reply #30 |
32. You don't know what PSYCHOTIC means |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:09 AM Response to Reply #32 |
37. Anti-psychotics are used to treat many delusional behaviours |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:11 AM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Again, gender dysphoria is a not a psychosis. |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:12 AM Response to Reply #37 |
139. Would to god transgender idenity were just a "delusional behavior" |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:40 AM Response to Reply #30 |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:12 AM Response to Reply #21 |
42. I guess the trans-gender community will get no support from you |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:34 AM Response to Reply #42 |
58. i don't care, |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:54 AM Response to Reply #58 |
120. You are minimizing this to the point of mockery. You are taking a |
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ernstbass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 12:11 PM Response to Reply #58 |
195. Are you a medical professional? |
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Enquiringkitty (721 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:29 AM Response to Reply #16 |
52. Most of the time with a child who hasn't gone through puberty, |
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ConsAreLiars (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:49 AM Response to Reply #14 |
20. Gender identity and biological gear are not the same |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:56 AM Response to Reply #20 |
28. Well, I wouldn't say it's "common" compared to heterosexuality but ... |
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ConsAreLiars (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:11 AM Response to Reply #28 |
40. No less common than blue eyes, maybe. |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:08 AM Response to Reply #14 |
36. Mental illness? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:10 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. Strangely, he believes he can diagnose and treat strangers, but |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:25 AM Response to Reply #10 |
49. I was a tomboy at 8, and I am not homosexual as an adult |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:30 AM Response to Reply #49 |
53. Who said being a tomboy means being a homosexual? Or ANYTHING? |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:43 AM Response to Reply #53 |
65. Do you have children? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:47 AM Response to Reply #65 |
71. Sorry but you're very wrong |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:56 AM Response to Reply #71 |
78. I'm not a "random" poster _ I'm a regular. |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:59 AM Response to Reply #78 |
79. IMO this is not a sexual issue. It is an identity issue. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:00 AM Response to Reply #78 |
81. And you're wrong. |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:09 AM Response to Reply #81 |
87. God forbid you jumped to conclusions! |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:16 AM Response to Reply #87 |
91. "She's a BABY" |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:24 AM Response to Reply #91 |
96. I'm sorry you still don't understand |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:28 AM Response to Reply #96 |
98. No, I understand perfectly |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:34 AM Response to Reply #98 |
102. I'm not infantilizing my child or any child, but I'm not rushing them |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:37 AM Response to Reply #102 |
106. And this kid has her OWN problems |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:40 AM Response to Reply #106 |
110. I'm not dictating- YOU are |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:44 AM Response to Reply #110 |
113. A bit of a nip to be CHANGED? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:47 AM Response to Reply #113 |
115. it's funny that this poster addresses you and not me |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:51 AM Response to Reply #115 |
117. It's as if someone who didn't know what diabetes is telling the parents |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:57 AM Response to Reply #115 |
122. I addressed you |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:59 AM Response to Reply #122 |
124. That's okay, I know you're wrong. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:15 AM Response to Reply #110 |
142. THERE IS NO PLAN TO NIP ANYTHING! |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:21 AM Response to Reply #87 |
93. why are you bringing up your child? |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:29 AM Response to Reply #93 |
99. Um, yeah, I am an expert on children... my own |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:32 AM Response to Reply #99 |
101. When you have a child with gender dysphoria THEN you'll understand |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:38 AM Response to Reply #101 |
107. Do you? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:40 AM Response to Reply #107 |
108. well I know about trans kids |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:49 AM Response to Reply #108 |
116. No. I'm not ignorant about it |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:55 AM Response to Reply #116 |
121. Oh honey, please |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:07 AM Response to Reply #121 |
129. I don't think she's a sweet girl with a novel idea |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:10 AM Response to Reply #129 |
136. It's IDENTITY not HORMONE |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:25 AM Response to Reply #136 |
149. I'm tired of arguing - so self delete |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:12 AM Response to Reply #129 |
138. Why would this kid DIE from changing his/her name? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:08 AM Response to Reply #116 |
133. Um. I don't live in a world without discrimination... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:42 AM Response to Reply #107 |
111. Nope. |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:09 AM Response to Reply #87 |
135. Everything to you is sexual about this case |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:13 AM Response to Reply #135 |
140. I don't think she understands the difference between identity and sex |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:07 AM Response to Reply #81 |
130. I can attest to that. |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:07 AM Response to Reply #78 |
131. This isn't a SEXUAL issue. |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:06 AM Response to Reply #65 |
128. Gender is still a whisper??? |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:11 AM Response to Reply #128 |
137. You don't live in my neighborhood then |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:40 AM Response to Reply #137 |
159. What does this have to do with the south or liberalism? |
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Speed8098 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 08:16 AM Response to Reply #65 |
172. You are 100% correct |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 08:39 AM Response to Reply #172 |
173. well maybe you are wrong and just about |
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Speed8098 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 08:52 AM Response to Reply #173 |
174. You know so little |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 09:02 AM Response to Reply #174 |
175. Oh wow, you have a family member who is MtF |
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Speed8098 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 05:31 AM Response to Reply #175 |
197. Are you calling me a liar? |
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One_Life_To_Give (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 09:52 AM Response to Reply #174 |
180. The child is in Counciling |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 10:58 AM Response to Reply #174 |
186. This may well be the best way to protect this child |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 09:49 AM Response to Reply #49 |
179. I was a tomboy at 8 as well, but I never wanted to be a boy |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 09:55 AM Response to Reply #179 |
182. yes, tomboys are different |
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ConsAreLiars (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:41 AM Response to Reply #5 |
15. What does that anecdote (no link) have to do with anything? |
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Enquiringkitty (721 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:43 AM Response to Reply #15 |
68. I went to school with an 8 year old who wanted to be a white horse |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:51 AM Response to Reply #68 |
75. Thanks for trivializing a real and serious issue |
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Enquiringkitty (721 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:06 AM Response to Reply #75 |
84. I hold support groups for this and many other childhood mental |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:03 AM Response to Reply #5 |
126. Could that medical screw up have been |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:07 AM Response to Reply #126 |
132. It was. |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:19 AM Response to Reply #132 |
145. Which actually just reaffirms the trauma of confused identity. |
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countryjake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 07:52 AM Response to Reply #132 |
171. There was a Law & Order: SVU modeled on that case... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:08 AM Response to Reply #5 |
134. You are talking about a botched circumcision where a biological |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:30 AM Response to Original message |
8. IMO that is a bit young for such a HUGE life adjustment. But good for the |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:38 AM Response to Reply #8 |
11. no! |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:41 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. How could it be child abuse? They doing it in conjunction with a |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:45 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. "medical professional" |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:48 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. I see. So you had a bad experience you are projecting on others. |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:53 AM Response to Reply #19 |
26. No! |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:57 AM Response to Reply #26 |
29. Not likely - there is more medical concensus than not. |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:49 AM Response to Reply #19 |
73. I'm sorry you don't remember what it's like to be 8-years-old |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:53 AM Response to Reply #73 |
76. 9 year olds are not babies. |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:00 AM Response to Reply #76 |
80. Unless that family moves when she changes her mind, yes, |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:03 AM Response to Reply #80 |
82. What, you think no one knows she's different ALREADY? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:08 AM Response to Reply #80 |
86. What the f*ck do you know about trans issues? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:11 AM Response to Reply #86 |
88. mordarlar said it: It's an IDENTITY issue |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:19 AM Response to Reply #86 |
92. DId I address you? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:25 AM Response to Reply #92 |
97. Funny to see you tell someone else to mind their business |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:36 AM Response to Reply #92 |
104. Did I need an invitation to talk to you? No. I didn't. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:40 AM Response to Reply #104 |
109. A bit of a confession here |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:43 AM Response to Reply #109 |
112. PM me if you want to talk about it, mj |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:46 AM Response to Reply #112 |
114. Thanks, but I'm overdue to hit the sack |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:53 AM Response to Reply #114 |
119. it's definitely hard to navigate |
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Chelsea Patriot (603 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 09:41 AM Response to Reply #76 |
177. If the child asks for a double mastectomy at the onset of puberty... |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 09:46 AM Response to Reply #177 |
178. well, that's not the issue is it! |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 11:40 AM Response to Reply #177 |
193. They're not doing anything irreversible, are they? |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:04 AM Response to Reply #73 |
83. If you could stop inflicting pain on your child, would you? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:07 AM Response to Reply #83 |
85. Reminds me of my 5 year old neighbor |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:12 AM Response to Reply #85 |
89. Temporarily |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:22 AM Response to Reply #89 |
94. I think even after 12 it's easier for biological girls than boys |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:30 AM Response to Reply #94 |
100. part of that's because the surgery is so useless |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:58 AM Response to Reply #83 |
123. Honestly the child is already "identified" by everyone who knows her |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:02 AM Response to Reply #123 |
125. Yes! Like the boy everyone calls "fag" ADMITTING to being gay. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:03 AM Response to Reply #123 |
127. Sure I would agree. But the child is also identified by who she/he |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:17 AM Response to Reply #127 |
144. I agree the child has to fit in the world as it is. Just a shame. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:26 AM Response to Reply #144 |
151. And on that more compassionate note |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:37 AM Response to Reply #151 |
157. I did not think i was being non compassionate to begin with... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #157 |
194. Oh no...wasn't meaning you had been at all |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:16 AM Response to Reply #73 |
143. DO this to a child?? |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:33 AM Response to Reply #143 |
155. I have a VERY strong-minded child in my own household |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:36 AM Response to Reply #155 |
156. I'm not the one judging these parents. |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:56 AM Response to Reply #156 |
163. Yeah - I saw the MOVIE (it was dramatized, like they all are, btw) |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 05:05 AM Response to Reply #163 |
165. WHO SAID KIDS ARE ADULTS? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 05:47 AM Response to Reply #163 |
168. "but he's still a boy, given to boyish things, and should be" |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 06:01 AM Response to Reply #163 |
170. Here are some books for you to read... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 11:02 AM Response to Reply #163 |
187. Please stop lying saying they are MAKING her do this |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 08:21 AM Response to Reply #17 |
198. "A guy with tits?" How many times will you try to confuse the issue |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:52 AM Response to Reply #11 |
24. I said i feel she is young for this. But to have to live a lie would poss |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:14 AM Response to Reply #11 |
141. Look |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:23 AM Response to Reply #141 |
147. there is no surgery to have |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:37 AM Response to Reply #147 |
158. Right, that's what I meant. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:39 AM Response to Reply #8 |
12. I think this is actually about the age you'd expect it |
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mr fry (77 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:45 AM Response to Reply #12 |
18. just out of curiosity |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:50 AM Response to Reply #18 |
22. I have two daughters, ages 9 and 7 |
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mr fry (77 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:53 AM Original message |
and when they say i want to be a boy and pee standing up |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:55 AM Response to Original message |
27. That's something they'll have to resolve at the school, and |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:06 AM Response to Reply #27 |
34. DISCRIMINATION! |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:08 AM Response to Reply #34 |
35. To the contrary - it is an accomodation that permits them to |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:18 AM Response to Original message |
47. If a child is not inclined this way they will quickly lose interest in... |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:33 AM Response to Reply #47 |
57. Children ARE incredible! |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:39 AM Response to Reply #57 |
61. This made me tear up.... |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:41 AM Response to Reply #61 |
160. I've been so busy aruging above that, see, now, I've neglected |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:42 AM Response to Reply #160 |
161. Your welcome : ) |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:23 AM Response to Original message |
148. No, how idiotic. |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:53 AM Response to Reply #18 |
25. My 10 and 13 year old are already fairly well educated about GLBT issues |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:13 AM Response to Reply #18 |
43. As long as the kids do not FEEL pressure they will handle it better than.. |
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Enquiringkitty (721 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:23 AM Response to Reply #18 |
95. Tell you child, if he had been friends with this child, that this child |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:22 AM Response to Reply #18 |
146. I have a fourth grader same age as the child in the article |
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murielm99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 05:23 AM Response to Reply #146 |
167. Nothing ever came up about transgendered people when |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:06 AM Response to Reply #12 |
33. My reasoning is that children often are searching to identify themselves |
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mockmonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:02 AM Response to Reply #8 |
31. It's only odd |
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mr fry (77 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:10 AM Response to Reply #31 |
39. i think it is great that the school is helping |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:14 AM Response to Reply #39 |
44. I think a bit of discussion would be necessary |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:25 AM Response to Reply #39 |
150. The kid is not an "it" |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:33 AM Response to Reply #31 |
56. Thank you for this post. Nothing in life is black and white... |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:14 AM Response to Original message |
45. Why? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:17 AM Response to Reply #45 |
46. Where did you get that the child isn't making the choice??? |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:21 AM Response to Reply #45 |
48. THANK YOU! |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:28 AM Response to Reply #48 |
51. Perhaps |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:32 AM Response to Reply #51 |
55. American Renaissance has had his own issues with mental |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:40 AM Response to Reply #55 |
64. that isn't what I said... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:43 AM Response to Reply #64 |
67. How strange then that you hand out diagnoses so carelessly |
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American Renaissance (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:37 AM Response to Reply #51 |
60. but somethings ARE black and white, |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:40 AM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Should you punish them and set them up to commit suicide as teens? |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:43 AM Response to Reply #60 |
69. Delusional? |
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ConsAreLiars (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:45 AM Response to Reply #60 |
70. You call it delusional ???? |
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Enquiringkitty (721 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:36 AM Response to Reply #70 |
105. What a cool site! Thanks! |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:50 AM Response to Reply #60 |
74. You really are filled with fear about this aren't you? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:55 AM Response to Reply #74 |
77. "Good lord! Girls will wear pants! The End is Near!!!" |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 09:53 AM Response to Reply #60 |
181. delusional fantasy? |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:27 AM Response to Reply #48 |
153. It's very telling that you should say that. |
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ConsAreLiars (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:26 AM Response to Reply #45 |
50. Most "kids" have a strong sense of who (what sex) they are by |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:49 AM Response to Reply #45 |
72. So should they wait til he's 12 or 13 and kills himself? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:12 AM Response to Reply #72 |
90. Sometimes when I come here I wonder |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:35 AM Response to Reply #90 |
103. I agree. One of the hysterical voices asked if we had children |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:33 AM Response to Reply #90 |
154. It makes me weep, it really does. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:51 AM Response to Reply #154 |
162. It's great that you're a good sane parent. |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:59 AM Response to Reply #162 |
164. Aw, thanks! |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 05:08 AM Response to Reply #164 |
166. WOW that is SO good to hear! |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 11:28 AM Response to Reply #164 |
190. Ha! My 7 year old said she thinks she'll want boyfriend AND |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 10:16 PM Response to Reply #72 |
206. Well, children are very cruel. Do you think other 9 year olds |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 04:27 AM Response to Reply #45 |
152. IT??? Fuck up their children? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:37 AM Response to Original message |
59. I think it would be very challenging to have a transgender child |
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Spider Jerusalem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:51 AM Response to Original message |
118. If they have neuro results that say "this is a neurological male"... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 05:56 AM Response to Original message |
169. Now this is one case I would recommend home schooling |
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kentuck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 09:12 AM Response to Original message |
176. They used to be called "Tom-boys"... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 11:06 AM Response to Reply #176 |
188. Tom boys and transgendered kids are 2 different things. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 10:02 AM Response to Reply #188 |
200. What, this child is only 9 years old? Way too young to know |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 10:06 AM Response to Reply #200 |
201. Gender identity isn't the same thing as sexuality |
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msmcghee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 10:04 AM Response to Original message |
183. This is a thread on a progressive site? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 10:17 AM Response to Reply #183 |
184. Great post, thanks! |
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msmcghee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 11:25 AM Response to Reply #184 |
189. A really good film about this very thing is . . . |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 11:30 AM Response to Reply #189 |
191. it's a great movie |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:23 PM Response to Reply #189 |
196. DAMN! That's the one I could not think of last night |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
185. I'll admit that I cannot really know what this is like |
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jmowreader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 09:33 AM Response to Original message |
199. Is the child attending the same school? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 10:15 AM Response to Reply #199 |
203. The kid will go through some hell no matter where |
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paineinthearse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
204. Found this on page 6. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-06-05 10:16 PM Response to Original message |
205. For all the people here who think they know better |
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