Last night a member of DC Mayor Williams' cabinet was murdered. She was Wanda Alston, who led DC's GLBT Affairs office. Actually, Williams created the cabinet post quite recently, and named Alston its first leader.
On radio news, they said her
roommate found her dead.
I admit I am assuming Alston was gay. The Washington Post said it was her
partner who found her.
Regardless of the actual relationship between Alston and the woman with whom she shared her home (and I'll follow up when I have the facts) I post this rant.
If Alston was gay and it was her partner who found her body, the god damned reporter ought to have said her
partner found her dead. They can check their facts better than that before getting on the air. What a bunch of lame-brained assclowns at WTOP!
I am sick of members of my community being marginalized! My beloved is not my roommate! She is my
partner, my
spouse, my
life-long permanent mate. We are committed until death parts us (just like the straight couples who've taken that vow -- imagine it!).
This is a
marriage, folks.
Imagine how a straight woman would feel upon finding her husband murdered in their home, and then learning that the news has referred to her as his roommate. It's outrageous!
It is just as outrageous that
we are referred to as roommates. In my opinion and experience, "roommate" is not validly interchangeable with partner, spouse, wife, or husband.
I'm sick of it!!Now clearly there are more important issues in today's world, and I am not a one issue voter. But this is no less important to many of us than war, economy, world hunger, child abuse, church abuse, etc. If you think this issue is not that important, imagine your spouse being referred to without thought as your "roommate" in a similar situation.
/rant
Here's a brief bio of Alston (from before the cabinet position was created)
http://www.glaa.org/archive/2001/alstonnamedliaison1107.shtmlHere's the Post article on her murder
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A42455-2005Mar17.html